Her anger was warranted, however her behavior wasn't. She knows very well that badi Simar came up with the whole plan. Thus it was never their master plan. Were they wrong in going along with badi Simar plans, yes. But that doesn't give her the right to humíllate them. This humiliation is all about power in her part. She could have talk to them about her anger without humiliating them. We well know the family would have still felt bad, after she would have told them how humiliated she felt. But she didn't because it never was about her being angry, it is about her feeling powerless.
Why she never talks about sending badi Simar to jail? Because she knows badi Simar doesn't come from a powerless family. So that would never happen. So what she does when she feels powerless with no control, exert her power on the people who can't fight against her. So she can feel powerful again, that is wrong.
Furthermore she know Aarav is going to divorce choti Simar in a month. So why this whole drama? When she knows her issue will be gone in a month.
Edited by neteche - 4 years ago