•Shivangi Khedkar•|Pallavi|AT#3~Ek ladki ko dekha toh aisa laga~ - Page 72

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Wow!! That' interesting..never heard of it before.. gifts is definitely not Pallavi's thing.. I feel words of assurance or affirmation could be..considering how she was insisting on him promising her to always share everything with her? She definitely gives more importance to the "thought behind" the act rather than the act itself. Her " language of love"is more abstract that way.. relying more on feelings than the physical manifestation of it, dont you think? Though, I also feel that she is very much responsive to physical touch.. like we saw when Raghav hugged her for the first time. Let's just say women are an enigma when it comes to the language of love and Pallavi is no different.

Check this out! It's a good summary. I find it super interesting!

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Five_Love_Languages

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

I wanted to bring this up too. Have you read about the love languages wala concept? It's really interesting, with 5 love languages- gifts, quality time, touch, words of affirmation, acts of service.

Touch is really Raghav's love language- he responds very positively to it. Interestingly, Pallavi is very generous with touch, so it's super compatible. I can't figure out what Pallavi's would be. I only managed to delete 'gifts' but otherwise, is there one thing we see her most responsive to?

Gift doesn't actually mean a physical thing. Giving your time to someone can also be a gift. Thoughtful gifts aren't expensive but made with love. A handmade greeting card is more personalized than a store brought one. When you buy a gift for your closed ones, you tend to think about them, their likes-dislikes, their desires and the gift reflects that

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

I wanted to bring this up too. Have you read about the love languages wala concept? It's really interesting, with 5 love languages- gifts, quality time, touch, words of affirmation, acts of service.

Touch is really Raghav's love language- he responds very positively to it. Interestingly, Pallavi is very generous with touch, so it's super compatible. I can't figure out what Pallavi's would be. I only managed to delete 'gifts' but otherwise, is there one thing we see her most responsive to?

I have read the 5 love languages book..and in my opinion Pallavi's language that she responds to us Attention- quality time, followed by acts of service. Both of these are things she did not have with Mandar or Ds or just as an orphan on general and she gets these with Raghav. Like how she knew that she looked nice when Raghav cannot take his eyes off her..and the way he is attentive to her ..and also is always there to pick her etc..

Also the entire efforts he made to patch up with VD and also get her the Nawaz order, those are acts of service which she really appreciates.

You are right Raghavs primary language is touch...that too he is always affected by Pallavi..he like her proximity and slept on her on autopilot .he loves playing with her hair,, her fragrance, offered to give her massage etc...also his secondary language is words of affirmation. He himself constantly tries to affirm to her like his promises when she was leaving to kolhapur both times...and at breakfast when she affirmed to him that she will always stand by him he was so touched.

They both have thier love languages and respond to them too...❤️ nice couple...

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Wow!! That' interesting..never heard of it before.. gifts is definitely not Pallavi's thing.. I feel words of assurance or affirmation could be..considering how she was insisting on him promising her to always share everything with her? She definitely gives more importance to the "thought behind" the act rather than the act itself. Her " language of love"is more abstract that way.. relying more on feelings than the physical manifestation of it, dont you think? Though, I also feel that she is very much responsive to physical touch.. like we saw when Raghav hugged her for the first time. Let's just say women are an enigma when it comes to the language of love and Pallavi is no different.

I'm between acts of service and words of affirmation for her. Words of affirmation, same reason as you. Acts of service, because of the whole 'gesture' aspect of it.

Acts of service would again, be super compatible with Raghav- he's all about gestures and actions, more than words.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CQ0N3a_BOBM/?utm_medium=copy_link

Originally posted by: Shri_12

Gift doesn't actually mean a physical thing. Giving your time to someone can also be a gift. Thoughtful gifts aren't expensive but made with love. A handmade greeting card is more personalized than a store brought one. When you buy a gift for your closed ones, you tend to think about them, their likes-dislikes, their desires and the gift reflects that

True! I'm talking about a specific classification though, there's been some interesting (if not extremely robust) research on this, and the results have been interesting too. So for research purposes, there are specific definitions to these five languages. Most people are said to have a primary and secondary language.

https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/

This is the quiz if anyone's interested!

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

I have read the 5 love languages book..and in my opinion Pallavi's language that she responds to us Attention- quality time, followed by acts of service. Both of these are things she did not have with Mandar or Ds or just as an orphan on general and she gets these with Raghav. Like how she knew that she looked nice when Raghav cannot take his eyes off her..and the way he is attentive to her ..and also is always there to pick her etc..

Also the entire efforts he made to patch up with VD and also get her the Nawaz order, those are acts of service which she really appreciates.

You are right Raghavs primary language is touch...that too he is always affected by Pallavi..he like her proximity and slept on her on autopilot .he loves playing with her hair,, her fragrance, offered to give her massage etc...also his secondary language is words of affirmation. He himself constantly tries to affirm to her like his promises when she was leaving to kolhapur both times...and at breakfast when she affirmed to him that she will always stand by him he was so touched.

They both have thier love languages and respond to them too...❤️ nice couple...

Yes, I also think acts of service is her primary one. But I'm split between quality time and words of affirmation for her secondary.

I completely agree on words of affirmation being Raghav's secondary language. Pallavi is super generous with that as well actually!

I watched Drunk Pikachu scenes again. I don't think we're appreciating Naidu and Archana enough. The expressions on their face when Raghav says 'haan, kudo, pakdega' and Pallavi starts her 1,2,3 are epic!

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

I have read the 5 love languages book..and in my opinion Pallavi's language that she responds to us Attention- quality time, followed by acts of service. Both of these are things she did not have with Mandar or Ds or just as an orphan on general and she gets these with Raghav. Like how she knew that she looked nice when Raghav cannot take his eyes off her..and the way he is attentive to her ..and also is always there to pick her etc..

Also the entire efforts he made to patch up with VD and also get her the Nawaz order, those are acts of service which she really appreciates.

You are right Raghavs primary language is touch...that too he is always affected by Pallavi..he like her proximity and slept on her on autopilot .he loves playing with her hair,, her fragrance, offered to give her massage etc...also his secondary language is words of affirmation. He himself constantly tries to affirm to her like his promises when she was leaving to kolhapur both times...and at breakfast when she affirmed to him that she will always stand by him he was so touched.

They both have thier love languages and respond to them too...❤️ nice couple...

This sounds about right, for both Raghav and Pallavi 😊

Shivangi was awesome as the drunk Pallavi. Too cute. She and Geetaji rocked the show. Sai was also spot on, the way a drunk person speaks telling the other person to come down.