Imlie's self-worth takes a hit again - Page 6

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

Agree NM ji - everything was so clear in their conversation but many still want to harp on that one dialogue of Adi at the end 😆 and speculate -oh well it is what it is - no point explaining it further😆

LOL on the bold 😆 I noticed that too - that was too funny. What was also funny was the whole fam was present when Imilie said she loves BS but conveniently absent when the whole Anu drama happened in their living room. Lesson learnt - do not expect common sense and logic these days 😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Honey am sorry I disagree on so many of these points and at this time I do not have the energy to go over my posts again anyone who has been reading my posts knows my stands on any of these so I will pass the explanation and I hope you would understand ..mithi does make mistakes is flawed but hardly any of these are the reasons to put blame on her and accuse her and esp not the fact that she asked about malini in 2nd PD trip or that she is responsible for imlie suffering and her not being supportive.. nah nah nah that is so wrong..where mithi iss wrong is now now when she is being more bothered about malini ji since her Pd trip and giving up on her own daughter to be Amma of someone else..that is my problem or accusing her of being husband stealer when she knows kisne kiska husband stealer other than that she had basic empathy for the woman whomshe thought Aditya didn't get to get married

There was no question of her not being supportive how could she be when imlie decided to hide it..didi she not say ke jahan izzat nahi wahan nahi rehna come back gudiya..when she found out..poor woman was ituation ki maari she had no control

Also about the point I read she sent her daughter with stranger uhhmmm she didn't sell her daughter she married her daughter off and technically every daughter is sent with a stranger only in real world there is always doubts je pata nahi kya niklega kaun hai kaisa hai.. no wonder how much investigations end up happening one can never be sure what the future holds for beti.which is why they say it is the most testing moment of a parent's life..so that point really really disturbs me everytime I read and it is implied as if she did sold her daughter ya kuch even if you did not in this post but the general vibe wohi aata hai when anyone say she sent her daughter.. sauda nahi kia tha.. when that is also being hailed on TV as a contemporary right now 🤷‍♀️

Really thank you for point out my mistake in the way I take it.

Yes In real case also when any marriage failed we firstly blame family to not done enquires so much. For recent few incidents gave me light even though it is done properly it doesn’t work out much. (This occurred only after hitting my near ones).

Don’t know why till now I was slightly incapable of analyse that part in other light. But now I got the answer.. thank you.

Originally posted by: Midnight_moon

Really thank you for point out my mistake in the way I take it.

Yes In real case also when any marriage failed we firstly blame family to not done enquires so much. For recent few incidents gave me light even though it is done properly it doesn’t work out much. (This occurred only after hitting my near ones).

Don’t know why till now I was slightly incapable of analyse that part in other light. But now I got the answer.. thank you.

I am sorry to hear that..❤️

Just for the record I wasn't trying to point out as if you said it .. just clarifying once again if.it came.like that.. but the general vibe perception I have read multiple.times ke.mithi ne beti behej di aise hi with a stranger by a whole lot of people who are here to.demean imlie day in and out..ke.she us maid and her mother sent her to it came out..again no personal grudge or dig..

just stating fact ke aise nahi bheji mithi ne.. shaadi Kari thi beti ki and eventually sab hi strangers ke saath bhejte hain..wasn't the great didi also.sent with a stranger at end of the day too even if they were dating and what did that ended up being? Itna jaan pehchaan and all result kya Anda.. my point being there is absolutly no guarantee about the future of any shaadi stranger or no stranger..

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol I won’t call Imlie a Chaturvedi sister. Please no 🙏

But yeah, Adi just standing there mum like a statue while people talk about him like an object being tossed between two sisters. Lol deffo cringey stuff. I guess Adi ko itna bhi unapologetic nahin dikha sakte ke he says stop this suhaag cheen liya bakwaas, I am the one who is making the choice about who I want to be with. Kisi ne kuch nahin chheena 🤷‍♀️

But no, guess that would be too sensible for ITV 🤷‍♀️😂

But what I think is he is scared of making descisions now as his one stupid descision has caused so much chaos in their life..

Yet to watch epi though this is all based on reviews here

Originally posted by: tellyme

exactly..imlie's break down and thinking weird and down of her own self is completely justified as she is in shock... People can go to extreme thought in such revelation... Her whole identity and pride has come to stake but Adi is not new to this news and he is now needed to stay strong beside imlie and give her whole worlds confidence rather than thinking she will leave her... He has to try to be decision maker and convince imlie of the love he has for her.,

But what I think is he is scared of making descisions now as his one stupid descision has caused so much chaos in their life..

Yet to watch epi though this is all based on reviews here

Arre he did made the decision in crystal clear words..yahi toh rona hai..🤣 he said it he told her bloody well ke tumhare khilaaf woh humare khilaaf phir koi bhi ho samaaj ac ya phir humara parivaar 😆 and that her Amma ka yeh haalnos ca DC was a coward and his isn't DC and hun tumhein akela nahi chodenge imlie with that firmness authority ..that adi way he does😆 only to himself flip on the last disjointed scene ke oh but what if imlie leaves me for Malini 🤣🤣 when she never even gave ittu sa bhi hintmm that is what we have been ranting about ke yeh kya hai kahan se aata hainyeh kachra in minds of writers jahan ek scene se dusre ka hi connect nahi hai but wait this episode is being hailed as continuity ki maa baap

Originally posted by: AreYaar

And wait....what does Adi mean by, "Agar Imlie ne Malini ki khushi ke liye humko chhod diya toh"? lol didn't he say ki iski "gehri dost Malini" ki khushi is with KC now? 😆.....

And kuch din pehle tak toh he was like hum Imlie ko kahin nahin jaane denge, and now he's like "humein chhod diya toh"? 😆......sudden confidence phuss? 😆

And also, I thought yeh GEHRI DOST ki khushi ke liye kuch bhi kar sakta hai.....toh phir ab kyun darr raha hai ki GEHRI DOST ki khushi ke liye Imlie ise chhod na de?😆

Kuch din? ...kuch daer you mean right!😆 adi ji ne itna bada ooncha bola ke hum tumhein akela nahi chodenge in the rain 😆 uske baad hi imlie let him hug her poora tasalli di bachi ko and then iske andar naya ubbal uth gaya..barbar ne hair ke saath iske dimaag ka koi piece bhi chop kar dia shayad..caz baal udate hi dimaag bhi gaya 😆

Rofl about gehri dosti ke liye kuch bhi🤣🤣 look honey it just shows ke adi uske liye jo bhi kehta ghanta mean nahi karta 🤣 gehri dosti ki khushi ke liye kuch bhi karna is just a token line jabke jab darr bhaitha toh sabse pehle yehi bol raha hai koi toh rok liyo meri jhalli ko🤣 bhai khud jaake bol usse ..agar koi shak hai..idiot go and check on her rather then doing catwalk in New look in living room..damn yeh shaadi ka din is just not ending.. it is obviously too much for him to go and see what she is upto all alone in some kona of the house. When she needs him the most babusahib is busy dikhaooing fashion ke jalwe..and telling long stories to other people assigning them new jobs instead of even updating poor girl ke uska Amma SK gaye.. and left a message for her..like why can't he even go and be with her..when she needs him the most..

And below ignore caz it is random rant of mine due to my late night Moodfixing Viewing ka result not that I ever had this level of expectations but uhhh yeah this is a very similar scenario too In terms Of One's Identity crisis with the poor Ani being bogged down by her lack of NKK and bhagwaan always putting her down and also Sso failing her caz of his jasoosi over her NKK( Naam,Khoon, khaandaan for those unaware what it stands for ) and them being at the very strange point in their relationship due to it. Yahaan toh they have actually solidified that they are ek saath for real Crossed so many hurdles already and itna bhi nahi dikha rahe ke jaake baat hi kar le ..woh bhi he needs a third person and then we shouldn't be mad ok..

Like I swear acha bhala rain scene kharab kar dia with the random crap of rest

Why can't adi be like this too ke ghussa karna hai ghar bhaitho and karo 😆 I mean becahra har waqt sehta hi hai moodswings but samjha ke bhi akkal laga ke bhi in one scene they make him so smart and logical and pillar and simply awesome and then drag him to be a dumbo and they want me to buy it sure sure

Again..Amazing that all the talk of Progressive they keep throwing our way the actual Progressive girl form Gul land gets Ignored who by some Stroke of luck Remained "SIRF ANIKA" despite finding her actual identity despite bhi ASSO

Originally posted by: Myrah_2020

I had to rewatch the episode once more to understand the overall point.😆 I see the whole repeat & rinse part better now because the truth revelation was primarily geared towards Imlie getting to know about who fathered her in the first place, not stealing someone's "suhaag." He was the one who told her that Imlie won't go anywhere & he himself is questioning if Imlie would leave him.😆

Even if we got Rupi scene with Adi, now after described in this thread & NM's point --- yes, she hasn't done anything major to reveal the truth & Adi allowing Rupi to talk to her & questioning whether Imlie would go or not for the past 2 months.

I guess, it's a lesson learnt to keep the horses calm & low expectations in terms of proper buildup & characters' flip mode once kab wapas ajae once again. Again, thode bailbuddhi hogae aaj, koni mat marna.

LOL arey itni si baat pe kyun maarenge kohni hum.....sabke apne apne views hote hain.....it's fine if you enjoyed the epi and I didn't....we all have our days😆

I'm fine with Adi suddenly discovering an insecurity over Imlie leaving him but I guess what makes me lose connect more is a passive Adi......they are already in an extremely convoluted situation with Imlie 24/7 doing some version of Didi jaap or the other....we get to hear enough cringe-worthy stuff from Imlie all the time about Didi ki so called mahaanta and innocence.....ab uske upar se if they show Adi just standing around helplessly while people talk about Imlie supposedly chheenoing suhaag, toh phir mere liye toh disconnecting hi hoga.

All they needed to show yesterday was just one line from Adi ki Imlie, tumne kisi se kuch nahin chheena.....but no, all we got was Adi just standing around making squeamish faces over this suhaag chheen liya line ka rinse/repeat😆

As for Rupi.....lol she's frigging useless.....small mercies ki atleast abhi bhi Malini ko BHABHI nahin bol rahi warna so called Imlie ki support was still calling Malini bhabhi since last two months😆.....2 din pehle tak toh she also seemed excited to be do naav mein sawaar....Imlie ke support ke raag gaa lo and Malini ko bhi bhabhi bhabhi kar ke bolte raho ki Adi ka kamra abhi bhi uska hai😆

Originally posted by: PPak

However contradictory - I actually liked all this - because Adi is clearly showing again that he wants to be with Imlie and not with Didi - no matter what. All his lines for gehri dosti thus far are now rubbished and later when KC truth comes out - he can drown in guilt - but truth is even if he had known about KC earlier nothing would have really changed. If Dev's truth cannot shake Adilie nothing else can.

LOL Adi has already shown this clearly a 100 times before also that his priority is Imlie only......but that still never stops people from doubting him the next time he does a gehri dosti jaap😆. Are you sure you are fully reassured now? You won't feel upset with him the next time he gives a speech over how much gehri dosti matters to him? 😆

Cuz if you think this is the end of his tall claims about how much Malini is his BFF, yeah that's not going to change😆.....it's always been empty talk and will continue to be so aage also😆.....so it's never been worth outraging over *shrugs*

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Arre itna bol dene se Adi guilty nahi dikhega na..yeh nhai dikhega somehow ke galti ho gayi thi isse somehow...this is not about Aditya this is about didi and Aditya consciously making a choice to break free would make them look shayad thoda samjhdaar . He is the gudda between 2 half sisters.

And yes plz imlie Mrs tripathi ya sirf imlie hi theek hai..

Irony yeh hai ki ek breath mein they show dialogues about how sisters can share toys but not suhaag and in the next breath they are still talking about the guy like he's some toy between them😆.

Itne time se toh usko like a toy hi toss kar rahe hain between the two women....toh ab kyun bolna ki khilona nahin hai? Itna squeamish kar hi diya hai toh own it😆

Ek simple si baat hai - can't Adi himself say ki woh khilona nahin hai and why are people speaking FOR him? lol baaki sabne jo bakwaas karni hai in Didi bhakti, karte rahein.....yeh bhi kyun chup khadaa hai when he's being spoken about like some object? lol usually he's the only person cutting through the BS....jab utna bhi nahin hota then it's more pakaau cuz otherwise the story is way too easy to put into gross category.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

I think it is just a carrot that they are dangling to keep the audience guessing if Imlie is going to leave the house or not.

No doubt Aditya is absolutely fearful of her leaving him because she has done so in the past. But this was more a gimmick than anything serious I think

LOL yes, it definitely came across as very gimmicky cuz Imlie herself never said anything about leaving the house despite all her shock.....but now they again seem to be trying to create mystery over whether she will leave him😆......thoda dhang ka build up karke dikhaate toh this gimmick may have worked better. But it mostly came across as random and disjointed to me.