•Shivangi Khedkar•|Pallavi|AT#3~Ek ladki ko dekha toh aisa laga~ - Page 28

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

fans just want them to jump in bed and do it.🤣

Ek toh itni jaldi kya lagi rehti hai couple ko babies dene ki. You want them to jump into bed, that I understand. Why do you wanna give them a baccha abhi se? Let them first reach the happily married and in love stage, then let them enjoy it for a few years, then give baccha.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Honestly, this is one of the most unbiased fandoms I've seen, especially on IF, though Twitter and Insta are a mess.

In other shows, I've seen the ML carry out legitimate crimes against the FL, (who's usually like, his wife, and not an enemy) and aise kachra excuses milte hain na- "Oh yes, but did you see his eyes when he was torturing her? Uski aankhon mein kitna dard tha! It was hurting him too. These biased FL stans keep bashing him, but humein uska dard dikhta hai! Hayye, bechara baby"

TBH, it doesn't annoy me as much as it scares me, because I tend to see such responses mostly from very young girls. And it's terrifying that they may normalize such behavior, because then they may end up like Kirti- blushing and giggling while being abused by a partner.

I think similar topic was started on GHKPM forum, one of the ardent and an experience fan had made a dedicated thread addressing to young girls to explain how the ML's behaviour was toxic, abusive and not acceptable. That they should fall for this kind of crap. I was amazed by the maturity of the topic and the responses she got. Felt the world wasn't gone completely!

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Honestly, this is one of the most unbiased fandoms I've seen, especially on IF, though Twitter and Insta are a mess.

In other shows, I've seen the ML carry out legitimate crimes against the FL, (who's usually like, his wife, and not an enemy) and aise kachra excuses milte hain na- "Oh yes, but did you see his eyes when he was torturing her? Uski aankhon mein kitna dard tha! It was hurting him too. These biased FL stans keep bashing him, but humein uska dard dikhta hai! Hayye, bechara baby"

TBH, it doesn't annoy me as much as it scares me, because I tend to see such responses mostly from very young girls. And it's terrifying that they may normalize such behavior, because then they may end up like Kirti- blushing and giggling while being abused by a partner.

this is my first time on IF so I have got no idea about that and on top of that this is the only show I follow

there are comments around in SM too---comments related to possesiveness towards particular character mostly Raghav

I think they should know there should be a line drawn cause what we watch is fiction not reality--actors lead a complete different life off-screen

Originally posted by: Inese_20

@ bold : I second that!

also even I feel she shouldn’t be falling this fast in love. It makes me uncomfortable, physically. Because I know she’s going to be hurt. But I think when you fall in love, you fall hard and you can’t see through things at that time. I have seen this happening, so that’s human! But the fact remains that he needs to apologise first. I don’t think she can really be in love with him till she gets closure on all the pre marriage things.

You think she’s in love ?

I personally don’t think she’s deeply in love

Attracted ? Yes

She’s just enjoying being married, having a guy like Raghav and in laws like Raos

In a way she’s also in fairyland 😆

Ved will bring her out of it

Originally posted by: ReemShah

SP sara maza bigar ke rehti hai

btw I have a doubt--on which track should the promo be made is decided by SP or show?

If they were not attracted by his looks--they would have been attracted by name LION---have heard ITV and animals have purana rishta

channel

I think they should have shown atleast a glimpse of lion in promo

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Long story short- you are not liking how hard and fast Pallavi is falling for Raghav.. and I get it. Infact Libran20(Sohini) and I used to have lengthy discussions about why Pallavi should not be the one to fall first (though I feel Raghav still is the one deeper into this emotionally than Pallavi is, even right now).. but they surprised us with Raghav's redemption track..very clean and convincing which is why Pallavi forgiving him rather quickly didn't feel odd and out of character.. But the attraction and falling in love part is more complicated.. I feel Pallavi was always attracted to him (physically).. it was quite evident during the Ved track.. his touch, his proximity, his aura, even the intrigue around him, attracted her.. Now with all the MU's out of the way, and him going out of the way to make it upto her, those feelings are coming back, is what I feel and she has started to own them..I also feel, that eventhough on the surface it appears that Pallavi is the one falling hard and fast, she doesn't really realize the depth of it..what it is to love a man like Raghav Rao.. what price she might have to pay.. I think that's one of the reasons Raghav is taking it slow.. He is more perceptive that way..more into serious committment business..dur ki soch raha hai.. Infront of him, Pallavi's attraction is coming off as school girl crush because she is living in the moment..All these complications will come into play when Pallavi finds out about Raghav's involvement in Mandhar's case.. my guess.. I could be wrong.. but I feel she will be the one to withdraw when that happens.. and may find it difficult to forgive him this time.. jis break ki kal Ved baat kar raha tha...wo break Pallavi hi lagayegi..

I agree with you here. You have worded it so beautifully. Raghav’s feelings are more intense while Pallavi is just living in the moment. I like how Raghav doesn’t deny these days when people around him mention words like love story, instead he’s looking for ways to save themselves, to make her stay anyhow and how distressed he’s about it.

Even I have a feeling that Pallavi might be the one to withdraw by the end of this mandhar’s death mystery.

Originally posted by: ReemShah

it is--but originally Pallavi was called atom bomb by Raghav--because that day she bursted on VD,Raghav and Kirti hence the name atom bomb

Atom bomb is fine 👍🏼

I think even Raghav said Atom bomb

Item bomb !! I’m not comfortable with term item bomb

Sounds degrading 😔

Originally posted by: tiara_remixfan

I think similar topic was started on GHKPM forum, one of the ardent and an experience fan had made a dedicated thread addressing to young girls to explain how the ML's behaviour was toxic, abusive and not acceptable. That they should fall for this kind of crap. I was amazed by the maturity of the topic and the responses she got. Felt the world wasn't gone completely!

I think a similar topic of discussion thread should be created for Sunny's behaviour---especially his current behaviour

I know that world has got a mix of bad and good people but we never know who we actually might encounter and young especially naive girls fall into this cycle and since they see it in the show and idolize it---and thinking their life to be some fantasy world of theirs---and the abuser to be their prince charming

Originally posted by: I-Got-You

Atom bomb is fine 👍🏼

I think even Raghav said Atom bomb

Item bomb !! I’m not comfortable with term item bomb

Sounds degrading 😔

Raghav said atom bomb only--rest assured

I too didnt like the fact atom got converted into item---neverthless we will continue using atom instead of item

Originally posted by: ReemShah

this is my first time on IF so I have got no idea about that and on top of that this is the only show I follow

there are comments around in SM too---comments related to possesiveness towards particular character mostly Raghav

I think they should know there should be a line drawn cause what we watch is fiction not reality--actors lead a complete different life off-screen

I somehow always cringe when the characters get possessive. I can't even read the fan fiction with these themes. I adore jealously but not obsessiveness. In my mind i cannot think Raghav as possessive jackass. I think of them more like a mature couple who are not insecure about their position in each other's life. Possessiveness means curbing each other's freedom and here both genuinely want to give each other wings to spread.