Originally posted by: Katy4566
Yeah both are shown different phases
For me they are were and will always be endgame
For ani he himself knows he can’t get bon better than as wife and partner if we see Hira mandi ,Greenwood,Munshi track
For bon same
This showing will help those haters to keep their mouth shut for saying bon as fantasy and selfish just because Aanchal is portraying
This will be a mature woman persoective who will be thanking ani for giving her this freedom and tell story from ehr pov and what she feels and how she feels
Another thing -I guess tapur willl be shot like in leg which bon got and tupur. Will he married
Ani will see he saved bon form all this but he was unable to save other girls and hence fells guilty and stats Susa form bon
Bon ko jab pata chalega voh devastate ho jaaygei
Bon being in love with ani looks out of character to me, aur captions to kuch aur hi kahaani suna rahe
Yr the reason I am not able to digest their romance, not even later is that is does not seem possible to me, and it is actually not possible, I watched this show mainly for the messaging Nd romance is a part of the problematic messaging, I know itv runs coz of trps and thus all this, but then don't deal with such sensitive social issues too if you can't do justice to them
Doesn't it degrade the relationship between a mentor and mentee consideringthe age he started seeing the mentee, just imagine a mentor educating a mentee and then romancing her when she grows up
Yes a mentor mentee can be a couple, but when both are adults initially only
Moreover it degrades the bond between a guardian kid too, how can a guardian who raised a kid fall for her just because she grew up? She was just 8 when he first saw her, how can the platonic love towards a child change into romantic just coz she grew up?
Yes we have many instances in the past where the husband mentors the child bride, but all those cases love from husband didn't really develop later on, it didn't change from platonic to romantic, take anandi gopal for example, anandi actually got pregnant at 13, of course her husband educated her but still a child marriage is evil and her marriage was evil too
Now the point here is that that portrayed ani as such a Saint from the very beginning, love her platonically, mentor her, that now if he falls for her it makes no sense, it's creepy and glorifies their child marriage, of course if he fell for her initially he would have been a pedo, but it wouldn't have romanticized them it would have showed why the marriage is wrong, so now how can his platonic love change to romantic now?
Yes he was a good person, he saw her exactly how he is supposed to see her, but then maintain that
It is indeed romanticizing a wrong thing, whats the message according to it
Marry a kid-love her platonically-when she grows up pyar to ho hi jaega?
Is that even possible?
Moreover even the marriage ended
Separating paths would have obviously been the best if I see the show just for the sake of messaging and from a neutral viewers perspective and obviously keeping everyone's rudhita ships aside, which never sailed for me though, it did, but not as a couple, as a bond
Yes its literally asking a lot from itv, then I'm fine they stay on as a platonic couple too, won't it be really a new thing to itv, but ab to shadi tod di, ab platonic couple bhi kaise banenge?
Ok, I know I'm asking a lot from itv but that's maybe because I cannot digest it's problematic messaging, tgis is my first itv show post 2016, pata nhi kyu pasand aa gaya bass, in 2016 too I watched just sab TV, and was something like 13 back then, kya hi dekha hoga? So itv messaging doesn't sit well with me
I can digest vamps talking loud to themselves, scheming against people, calling it itv, but a problematic messaging doesn't sit well with me, and i don't even want myself to normalize all that
I have found this show wrong in many instances in the past too, the hira mandi track for that very reason was extremely cringey (ya extremely unpopular opinion i know), yes it didn't romanticize, but all those sindur khela and all glorified their platonic child marriage, also the ram sita references did the same and I found them cringeworthy as well, but that time I didn't watch this show, baad m dekhna shuru kiya
Maybe im not fit for itv
Now obviously romance is inevitable as per the promos, but atlwst baad m aaye, I will watch it only when it covers the social issues, romance skip karungi of course coz I don't approve of it