SAAKK|Episode Discussion Thread #74 - Page 40

Originally posted by: mallukumari

@bold: I stan a bold Anokhi!! And I want her to keep herself as is!!

Reminds me of the Mohabbatein dialogue “Koi pyar kare toh tumse kare, tum jaise ho waise kare ... koi tumko badal ke pyar kare, toh woh pyar nahi woh sauda kare”

@bold-That's exactly ,Shaurya's thought process!! He doesn't want her girl to change.

Thats what I fear.

I hope Shaurya remains like this and supports Anokhi.

And in his breaking point of trusting and supporting her, I hope Shaurya doesnt go back to his old past self by doubting Anokhi's character or blames himself for marrying her or becomes a spineless and helpless husband like Shaan.

I know there will be a breaking point for Shaurya to support Anokhi or Aastha in front of his BM and BP but I want him to know that how he was snatched and separated from Aastha by BM and BP and Shaan didnt support her or fight for her.

If ever Shaurya's breaking point ends in front of BM and BP, still I dont want him to do such thing with Anokhi which he will badly regret all his life and will never be able to forgive himself or face Anokhi because Anokhi is the one who gave him back his mom, dad, his real family love, and always stood by him, changed his thoughts about women, taught him to give up his bitterness and past and taught him how to live life in happiness inside and out.

I really want Shaurya to prove Shaan wrong that he can and will always take a stand for Anokhi and Aastha and wont turn into a egoistic husband who always blames his wife.

They are really keeping Anokhi’s reception look a secret ... I wonder if there’s going to be any bts today to give us a glimpse 🤪

If we are talking about reality, I would like to say that compromises are needed in any and every relationship to make it work. What is important is it has to be from both the sides. So even in the show I want it to be like that, it shouldn't be only from Anokhi's side , similarly it shouldn't be only from Shaurya's side. And doing these compromises doesn't make your character weak but it shouldn't be done on the cost of your self respect.

Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

Bold- I completely agree with this. And yes, Anokhi should be Anokhi. But here she barely knows sabheherwals and she doesn’t know what issues Astha had with them. Infact even shaurya doesn’t have much clarity. Shaurya just reunited with his long lost mother. Anokhi is 20 year old and all I am trying to say is she should take it little slow. Like baby steps. I am very very interested in downfall of Tej and Devi but not at the cost of over smart Anokhi. I used to hate it when she used to interfere in shaurya’s and astha’s matter because she had no clue.

Shaurya knows to balance somehow and he even answers back. Anokhi should learn this game - don’t be hyper but smart.

As much as I loved what all anokhi told her mom, I don't like her being nosy in Sabherwal's matters. Yes she's a part of that family now n she can give her opinions on what happens henceforth, but not on the things that have already happened in the past that she isn't aware of. I hope they don't turn her into another typical I-know-it-all ITV FL jiska ek hi kaam hai apne sasuraal Ka rehabilitation

For one, I don't want her to be trying hard to get the love of all of her sasural wale. She's portrayed to be today's girl. I don't think today's girls really try hard to keep everyone happy😆 Be like Shaurya...aao toh welcome, nahi toh bheed kum😆 I mean, don't we all behave like this in our sasural at least in the initial years? We give our opinions only where we are concerned, otherwise we let our husband handle💁 I am scared of Anokhi's aastha ma'am jaap now🤢

Honestly, I don't like Aastha doing her grihpravesh in Sabherwal house. Yes, I want aastha to get the right of saas, but she can't welcome the bahu in a house that is not hers in first place! And definitely not on the insisting of a girl who has become a member of the house just recently! Shaurya is a son of separated parents, he rightfully has 2 houses of his own. They could have shown the grihpravesh of Anokhi at two places. Good or bad, but Devi deserves the right to welcome the new bahu in SH as she's the member of that house. I didn't even want aastha coming in the house for grihpravesh. Aa hi gayi hai toh she could just be the audience. Or at least she can be the second one to do the ritual, once the rightful member of the house has done it. Many may not agree with me on this just because aastha is maa and Devi is evil...but I can't forget about Aastha's self-respect even if she has forgotten bete bahu k pyaar mein

Also, can anokhi stop calling her ma'am now n say maa!!! (I also want Shaurya to call her maa, not mom) "Aastha ma'am" irritates the hell out of me due to her jaap😆 Both anokhi and Deba need to show that transition now. She can't be acting like a nagging student now who fought for her teacher. She has to behave maturely like bahu who is fighting for her sasu maa. I felt this transition on the sindoor Shaadi day when she asked shaurya to reconcile with his mother. But today again she across like aastha kidnap track

Originally posted by: IFLove

As much as I loved what all anokhi told her mom, I don't like her being nosy in Sabherwal's matters. Yes she's a part of that family now n she can give her opinions on what happens henceforth, but not on the things that have already happened in the past that she isn't aware of. I hope they don't turn her into another typical I-know-it-all ITV FL jiska ek hi kaam hai apne sasuraal Ka rehabilitation

For one, I don't want her to be trying hard to get the love of all of her sasural wale. She's portrayed to be today's girl. I don't think today's girls really try hard to keep everyone happy😆 Be like Shaurya...aao toh welcome, nahi toh bheed kum😆 I mean, don't we all behave like this in our sasural at least in the initial years? We give our opinions only where we are concerned, otherwise we let our husband handle💁 I am scared of Anokhi's aastha ma'am jaap now🤢

Honestly, I don't like Aastha doing her grihpravesh in Sabherwal house. Yes, I want aastha to get the right of saas, but she can't welcome the bahu in a house that is not hers in first place! And definitely not on the insisting of a girl who has become a member of the house just recently! Shaurya is a son of separated parents, he rightfully has 2 houses of his own. They could have shown the grihpravesh of Anokhi at two places. Good or bad, but Devi deserves the right to welcome the new bahu in SH as she's the member of that house. I didn't even want aastha coming in the house for grihpravesh. Aa hi gayi hai toh she could just be the audience. Or at least she can be the second one to do the ritual, once the rightful member of the house has done it. Many may not agree with me on this just because aastha is maa and Devi is evil...but I can't forget about Aastha's self-respect even if she has forgotten bete bahu k pyaar mein

Also, can anokhi stop calling her ma'am now n say maa!!! (I also want Shaurya to call her maa, not mom) "Aastha ma'am" irritates the hell out of me due to her jaap😆 Both anokhi and Deba need to show that transition now. She can't be acting like a nagging student now who fought for her teacher. She has to behave maturely like bahu who is fighting for her sasu maa. I felt this transition on the sindoor Shaadi day when she asked shaurya to reconcile with his mother. But today again she across like aastha kidnap track

Originally posted by: mallukumari

@bold: I stan a bold Anokhi!! And I want her to keep herself as is!!

Reminds me of the Mohabbatein dialogue “Koi pyar kare toh tumse kare, tum jaise ho waise kare ... koi tumko badal ke pyar kare, toh woh pyar nahi woh sauda kare”

I like this dialogue too, but you need to change a bit. Just some compromise, not change...in the words of Anokhi!

Shaurya's misogyny was really regressive, so we supported anokhi expecting a change in him. Why didn't we say there that she should love him the way he is? Anokhi's shortcomings are not as evident as Shaurya's, so we expect her not to change. If his misogyny is problematic, her overly feminist nature can be a problem too. Maybe we are just being biased towards another female? She's bold and I like her that way. But she also needs to learn k har ladhai talwaar uthake nahi ladhi jaati, Kuch ladhaiyaan ek kadam peeche hatkar bhi jeeti jaati hain! She's not just a student of Sabherwals anymore, she's their family member, if not necessarily a bahu! There's a difference in your conduct when you are talking to your family and when you are talking to the outsiders. She needs to learn this. She needs to learn when to go all bold and when to take a pause!

Being the bride-to-be myself, I can totally understand her. Even I used to freak out at everything in the initial days. And now I thank my mom for what she taught me. She didn't tell me to behave the way Rama told Anokhi. But she told me to be just an observer for a few months, some people in sasural might be better than what I thought them of and some could be worse than what I believed them to be. I have peace of mind now and I know how to behave with each of them and we all are a happy family now. I want Anokhi to take this pause and not go all guns blazing from day 1!!!

Originally posted by: IFLove

As much as I loved what all anokhi told her mom, I don't like her being nosy in Sabherwal's matters. Yes she's a part of that family now n she can give her opinions on what happens henceforth, but not on the things that have already happened in the past that she isn't aware of. I hope they don't turn her into another typical I-know-it-all ITV FL jiska ek hi kaam hai apne sasuraal Ka rehabilitation

For one, I don't want her to be trying hard to get the love of all of her sasural wale. She's portrayed to be today's girl. I don't think today's girls really try hard to keep everyone happy😆 Be like Shaurya...aao toh welcome, nahi toh bheed kum😆 I mean, don't we all behave like this in our sasural at least in the initial years? We give our opinions only where we are concerned, otherwise we let our husband handle💁 I am scared of Anokhi's aastha ma'am jaap now🤢

Honestly, I don't like Aastha doing her grihpravesh in Sabherwal house. Yes, I want aastha to get the right of saas, but she can't welcome the bahu in a house that is not hers in first place! And definitely not on the insisting of a girl who has become a member of the house just recently! Shaurya is a son of separated parents, he rightfully has 2 houses of his own. They could have shown the grihpravesh of Anokhi at two places. Good or bad, but Devi deserves the right to welcome the new bahu in SH as she's the member of that house. I didn't even want aastha coming in the house for grihpravesh. Aa hi gayi hai toh she could just be the audience. Or at least she can be the second one to do the ritual, once the rightful member of the house has done it. Many may not agree with me on this just because aastha is maa and Devi is evil...but I can't forget about Aastha's self-respect even if she has forgotten bete bahu k pyaar mein

Also, can anokhi stop calling her ma'am now n say maa!!! (I also want Shaurya to call her maa, not mom) "Aastha ma'am" irritates the hell out of me due to her jaap😆 Both anokhi and Deba need to show that transition now. She can't be acting like a nagging student now who fought for her teacher. She has to behave maturely like bahu who is fighting for her sasu maa. I felt this transition on the sindoor Shaadi day when she asked shaurya to reconcile with his mother. But today again she across like aastha kidnap track

@bold i am also worried after the precap that anokhi's aastha jaap will return again. Honestly I felt disconnected with the show today I know I am judging it too early...but yeh saas bahu GP who will do it...anokhi being nosy in sabarwal's cr*p matters its just not her...she just got married opinion will be given or taken but not things that into her matter...shaurya is there to fight for his mother. Anokhi's should stick to her hubby and study.

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Originally posted by: soarhigh

Today’s episode was OK for me, I was rather upset yesterday by the way Anokhi completely prioritised the exam, I am not against her writing the exam but her *NO* compromise on the time pissed me off.

On your wedding day , when you know the timings , leaving 1 or 2 questions half way to compromise on the time should have been acceptable, she still was unaffected and did not budge out of exam hall until 2:30!

Shaurya has been making things easy for her but definitely there will be a breaking point. Anokhi is been portrayed as little stubborn but I felt for relations to work , compromise should be there from both sides.

No bending down from Anokhi’s side may ignite issues in their married life for sure !

I totally agree with you on this!

Shaurya has always been changing and compromising for her sake, she hasn't budged once! It doesn't work this way. Just because she's a female, ladies support her in everything with "why should she compromise on her dreams" Yes she shouldn't, but she can't be the feminist all the time, she has to learn to be a wife at times. She needs to learn to compromise at least in the situations that don't cost her her dreams.