Raavi's attitude at last part was upsetting- E133 - Page 3

Originally posted by: ZaaraBB

Sorry to say but i find all these points rather pointless and stupid. Why should Raavi even ask for the bangles? Because shes married to the man? Who does not even respect her one bit? Bu calling her Gaderi ( ass/donkey) all the time???!!

What MAAMI did or does with the bangles is none of Raavi's concern. Its none of her business. Poor girl has been forced marriaged to a completely fool/loser that only knows how to show attitude,who believes he is always right regardless. Raavi has tried waayy harder in the relationship than him and he does not give her any of the respect she deserves. He is immature and can easily be instigated/manipulated by maami. I mean, he just overreacts at any situation. His head blows and thats it, hes stubborn and refuses to budge! She helped him, put her life in danger, took her stand for her husband, on humanity or maybe because shes married to him for those bangles!!! And all the idiot can do after all she did FOR HIM was tell his mother 'im i so stupid that i will risk my life for that Maami? i knew my brothers would save me!' Like what a big loser (a-hole) clown is he ???

I feel for RAAAVI. i really do. She deserves so much better. Shes married to an idiotö

On point

Most importantly Kangan isn't Raavi's matter. Shiva has always asked her to stay away.

Exactly Shiva has saved her many times but treated Shit.

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Point is whatever Raavi did after marriage she apologized for it in Khandar. But Shiva has shitted much more. From 10 yrs bullying, manhandling, and saying nonsense but never said sorry.

Atleast Raavi has realised and apologised for it and after that never said anything wrong.

Shiva just for his hate for Mami has even said that it would have been better Raavi's bones broke and he shouldn't have cured.

Did he apologised no never. Heck dude he didn't even realised the shit he said.

Today too Shiva got kangans due to Raavi khudne toh sirf raita phelaya hain and done nothing.

Shiva should actually cry and do soo much for Raavi. Should apologise and start respecting her. Bcoz I don't know what more she can do.

I really hope she doesn't go back without a apology.

Originally posted by: tintin1234

Here, the point is not about her self-respect. Its about ..be happy for someone for 1 minute. Rest can be taken care later.

• She very well knew, Kangans were stolen, still she didn't ask it from Maami in last 1-2 week.
• When Shiva was explaining to Dhara and Suman about the imp of kangan, She didnt understand and still questioned him "Aaisa kaise kar sakte ho?" kyu nahi kar sakta?
• When Shiva told ki 'Yeh mere papa ki akhri nisani thi," She kept mum [I understand Shiva told her to stay away] but as sensitive person she should tell maami that "Please give kangans to Shiva its my FIL's last gift to maa" [If she did this what she did now, Uske self-respect tak baat jati hi nahi]
• I agree Shiva is 100% wrong making her an object. But waha tak baat laya kaun? maami and Some how Raavi and entire family who did not forced maami at that time.
• Everyone knew Shiva's wish ; thus, no one dare to force Maami.
• I have an expectation with Raavi cause she witnessed her husband's desire and importance of kangans since chilhood but she didnt requested Maami to return it in last 1-2 weeks when she could.[Aaaj jaan pe aai tab uski ankh khuli?]
• Yes, Shiva did stupid stunt. I totally agree. But jab woh kudneki kohish kar raha tha what maami did? she instigated him, Raavi should have shut her maasi and ask kangan then and there, Na shiva kudta na Khud ko stunt karna padta..! I blame Suman & Dhara too, they should have forced Maami along with Raavi.
• Shiva should apologize to her and ask her forgiveness to use her as an object though it was not his intention as he confessed but he should apologize.
  
• Galati sabki hai, I am not giving anyone a pass. But My post is about being happy for Husband and MIL who got what rightfully theirs.

Why should raavi demand the kangan from mami? Bec Shiva got a leverage on mami by marrying raavi? And he can blackmail her with anything by putting raavi in between ? 🤢 Oh ! Shiva did exactly that...... That's the reason why raavi is hurt and she is not happily celebrating Suman and kangan reunion.

She feels insulted that her husband cant see her as a person but mami ki behen ki beti. N probably , appreciate her now only bec she could get kangan back. That's her value in shivas eyes. Does he feel entitled to have married her and saved her life ? Does he feel entitled that he got a leverage on mami and he can "use" her anytime to get what he wants ? She was made to feel worse than a commodity and she should be happy for kangans out from one hand into another ?

And abhi toh raavi will respect her mami more. Mami chose raavi over kangans while Shiva chose kangans over raavi.

I completely feel for raavi here .... Shiva behaved like a nutcase today and it was only when raavi intervened with an an equal madness did he stop .... I so badly feel for her. .. I don't have time to elaborate on each point ... But whoever made the initial post sorry but I completely disagree ... Will put a detailed post in evening ...

Originally posted by: tintin1234

I disagree with you on so many points

1. Bangles are Raavi's concern as she is married to Pandya family. Its matter of respect for her in-laws and Husband. Why she is supporting her thief maami and let her keep the bangle?

2. Dont forget Raavi is also calling him Gadhera, Gawar, Jungli, Idiot etc etc.

3. Yes Shiva is short tempered but who is instigating him? Maami.

4. Shiva and Raavi both tried HARDER,,..... its not just Raavi. Raavi showed Shiva an attitude initially for no good reason.

5. Note one thing : Shiva never told Raavi to jump for him. If she wanted she could have avoided all this crap by asking Kangan from maami before Shiva does anything.

When she started feeling for Shiva, instead of requesting maami not to fight with Shiva she should have ask for kangans cause thats the root cause of all fights for Shiva.

What on earth is the point no 1 ... It's her duty to protect her in laws.... and what about Shiva's duty to respect his in laws.... Sorry but the first remark is rather quite outdated and sexist.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Why should raavi demand the kangan from mami? Bec Shiva got a leverage on mami by marrying raavi? And he can blackmail her with anything by putting raavi in between ? 🤢 Oh ! Shiva did exactly that...... That's the reason why raavi is hurt and she is not happily celebrating Suman and kangan reunion.

She feels insulted that her husband cant see her as a person but mami ki behen ki beti. N probably , appreciate her now only bec she could get kangan back. That's her value in shivas eyes. Does he feel entitled to have married her and saved her life ? Does he feel entitled that he got a leverage on mami and he can "use" her anytime to get what he wants ? She was made to feel worse than a commodity and she should be happy for kangans out from one hand into another ?

And abhi toh raavi will respect her mami more. Mami chose raavi over kangans while Shiva chose kangans over raavi.

Exactly due to his stupidity, now Raavi will respect Mami more as she cared for her.

The episode was a total disaster. This is heights of stupidity. As mentioned the only sensible thing was raavis dialogue. But keeping everything apart KD is a brilliant actor the way he acted and portrayed shivas vulnerabilities. He deserves applause. Even though his character has been butchered.

Again I repeat,

1. Shiva didn't tell Raavi to Jump for kangan

2. Shiva was man of action not words, he didnt apologize but he care for her and stand for her whenever needed. He never left her alone. Slowly he will learn to talk and apologize.

3. Why would Shiva risk his life for Maami? why? He didn't say anything wrong. He risked his life for his wife cause she matter for him. but maami? He dont respect her and maami dont respect him either.

[Agar maami ko uski jaan ki parwah nahi hai toh why he care for her?]

4. I am not at all supporting this crazy jumping shit.. It's nonsense. Writers spoiled it.

5. I am not partial towards Shiva. All I am saying, all these things could have been avoided and Only Raavi had that power. [Even Anita understood the seriousness but not Raavi]

6. Shiva have to apologize to Raavi for using her as object and he will.

Why should Raavi feel happy for a guy who used her like a commodity?!

I know maami is bad and all, but today yet again she proved that Raavi will be her 1st priority no matter what.

And look at Shiva!!!!

If I was in Raavi's place I would have just left from there aftr this incident and never returned back until he apologises.

Shiva's character is being butchered beyond repair by the makers. I dont knw for what reason. Shiva was once a character I loved and admired the most, but now!! I dont even wanna tell about it now.

After all what Shiva did to her, I dont understand how can people expect her to be happy seeing Shiva happy.

I dont understand why people r blaming Raavi for anything and everything!

Originally posted by: Shivanii12

Why should Raavi feel happy for a guy who used her like a commodity?!

I know maami is bad and all, but today yet again she proved that Raavi will be her 1st priority no matter what.

And look at Shiva!!!!

If I was in Raavi's place I would have just left from there aftr this incident and never returned back until he apologises.

Shiva's character is being butchered beyond repair by the makers. I dont knw for what reason. Shiva was once a character I loved and admired the most, but now!! I dont even wanna tell about it now.

After all what Shiva did to her, I dont understand how can people expect her to be happy seeing Shiva happy.

I dont understand why people r blaming Raavi for anything and everything!

Totally agree with u .... Shiva's behaviour has been so nonsensical , he himself doesn't know what he is doing ... Raavi is being the sensible one here and she is rightfully angry ...

Shiva placed a kangan over his wife. The first time he did it, it can be excused as a zidd. But the fact that he did that even when Raavi was ready to jump - that showed his lack of care for her.

There is a girl who has tried to kill herself before, standing at the window ready to jump again. And all everyone can think of is that blasted kangan, especially her husband. It is so insensitive and insulting as a person, let alone a woman.

Shiva was just plain mad today and came across as a terrible husband for Raavi.