PS|EDT #37 Bhootnath Bana Bahubali: Adbhut Saga of Kaandyani Kangan - Page 17

Originally posted by: ItsmePriya

Asking before clicking the link...yeh woh oily ka reel hein kya??

Yes. Don't click

Originally posted by: ItsmePriya

https://twitter.com/jessicakaur27/status/1408905865801859075

Sahi pakde hein dose😆

Awww.. can we hope for a scene where Shiva makes her wear the earrings? 🤣

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

Imagine if Dhara’s mom had hots for Papa Pandya at one point... or maybe Jaanu? So many different options 😆

Kalank nahin Ishq hai kajal piya 😆😆

If something like this happens, I would love dhara's mom to have a thing for mama, or maybe even a past affair... we would then see maami going crazy 😈🤣

Originally posted by: Transference

Shiva-Raavi: Children who are now Man & Wife-

Well, I see the EDT is flying with so much chit chat happening! I can't seem to keep track, so I am Going to go with my two cents. 😆

I may have missed essential discussion posts; forgive me for not replying. I shall try to find the posts and reply. (It's a bit too much to skim through, though)

So, there has been a lot of speculation about Shivi going back to their usual selves after their heated fight and Raavi subconsciously yearning for Shiva to wish him.

We also see these two dorks restless to resume their newfound chat and bury the hatchet.

We might see it as atrocious as Shiva had deeply insulted Raavi in front of everyone, and we all would want nothing more than Shiva begging for forgiveness given that no woman deserves to be treated like this!

That's us, and that's how a typical husband-wife relationship should be with mutual trust, love and respect.

That's OUR ideal scenario, and rightfully as well as respectfully expected.

But, let's view these two from the lens of an extended family as distant 2nd cousins or relatives-these two have grown up together in a certain way, and that doesn't change for them overnight just because they got married.

All their lives, they have seen two scenarios, Shiva lashing out at Raavi, Raavi chanting Dev, both of them bickering and then going back to normal. This has been their cycle.

We need to go back to their childhood scenes where Raavi calls him “Jhalla” and says, “apno ki Baat is bura nahi mante. Jhallon ki Baat ka kya bura manna”. Raavi has always been forgiving when it comes to Shiva. He had thrown her out multiple times; she still forgives him with her smile and goes to lock horns with him again and again.

It's not only because of Dev, but it's their thing! To fight and then mellow down. If we go back to the vegetable throwing scene, the very next moment, she is back teasing him! No matter how angry Shiva would be, she would throw herself at him, lock horns and again repeat their cycle of fights.

Does this mean Shiva is Right! NO

Is Raavi’s insult okay? NO

Why? Because something has changed in our eyes! Their relationship has changed, as pointed out by Raavi.

It struck me out of the blue because, if you notice, Shiva wanted to go back to their usual self. He said: Before this, you would keep on coming back to their house and keep sticking on to me like a Chipkali. Now it's your own house, and you won't come back, now your ego has become too much.”

My first reaction to this was, “How dare a husband say this to his wife after insulting her so much.”

My second reaction was, “These are children who have accidentally become husband and wife.”

These people, especially Shiva, has no idea what to take out of this marriage. Raavi rightfully points out as she is more aware of her changed relationship with him. “Ab humara Rishta Badal Chuka hai.”

Raavi brings up the wife equation and questions Shiva that he doesn't consider her a wife while Shiva is still stuck to their zone of familiarity where he says that your “husband” won't wish you.

Raavi expects more; Deserves more, And rightfully So! But, these people who have shared A lifetime! It's A Long Journey before they realise what respect means.

Subconsciously, Shiva and Raavi are still those kids who were a certain way and have now been thrown into a relationship they both didn't desire to be in.

It's a long journey for them.

Their cycle has been- “him throwing her out, she giving it right back to him and then going back to annoy him more.”

One might question that this time it isn't bickering but something grave! I agree, but in their heads, they go back to following down soon.

It's the US viewing them from a distance VS what they are. During the Haldi locking horns scene, too, Shiva almost throws her out, but she is back lunging at him and pulling his ears the very next day.

Shiva may have expected that this time too, so does Raavi seeing those balloons and making them about Shiva.

They need a whole new perspective, acknowledgement, respect and Trust before They finally become what an ideal relationship should be.

P.S- I DO NOT justify what Shiva did to Raavi, and no woman deserves to be treated like this!!! This isn’t a Shiva justifying, endorsing manhandling post!

How childish is this look 🤪

She looks like a Gudiya in this one 🥰

Two children in a relationship!

Wow I totally agree!

Originally posted by: mpks1

My thoughts on why Raavi expected Shiva to wish her for birthday.

All of you know what kind of a person Raavi is, she has no malice or hatred towards anybody, even towards Shiva. She says it verbally but doesn’t mean it. After Mukteshwar Kaand, she also knew that he would never leave her. She has build that trust and she knows that he has bedn her savior and protector time and again, This time again her anger is stemming only because he disrespected her in front of the family and brought her into the bargain only after Mami refused to give the kangans back and taunted him saying only Raavi will go back with him. Raavi also knows that getting the kangan from Mami is his utmost priority more than anything else at this time. At the same time she is not asking Mami to give the kangans back because she doesn’t want to get in between Mami and Shiva.

Raavi is only angry and did not misunderstand him. In real life, when you are angry with your spouse which ended in a fight, you still expect them to talk to you, pacify or wish you on special occasions or atleast I did, in the initial days of my marriage😆 and is very normal. She also knows that once he gets the kangans back, he will surely take her back but we don’t know if she will go or not.
Even at the Temple scene, she only mentioned that “kaun aise baat karta hai parivar ke saamne, apne biwi ke baare me”. She is not losing any self respect by expecting him to wish. She is still firm on the thought that she will not go back until this is all resolved, though it is not said in clear words, she definitely expects him to get her back, not Dhara or other family members.

You can actually derive few things from the Temple conversation/- both Shiva and Raavi addressed themselves husband and wife which they hesitated to say even the previous night, This is definitely a progression that didn’t happen overnight but it is the right time to acknowledge because of the situation they are in. He expected her come with them to the haveli, if not for him atleast when the family called but he understood why she didn’t after we listened to his monologue.

After watching the promo, he is going all the way to get the kangans, his zidd is clouding his thinking process and is not letting him understand the repercussions of his actions. Is he going to fall down in Raavi’s eyes, yes definitely. Once he gets the kangans back the next thing he should work on is to get Raavi back, this is where we should see his redemption. Him being angry or being hateful towards her won’t work anymore period.

Thanks for tagging me Prema 🤗

And I completely agree with this, these two acknowledge their relationship when they’re angry, they’re very comfortable with anger, it’s the other emotions that they don’t know how to make sense of

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

Awww.. can we hope for a scene where Shiva makes her wear the earrings? 🤣

Eh ab kuch zyaada nahi hogaya na🤣

Shiva is now too busy with kangan kaand and Shifulla is priority🤣

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

If something like this happens, I would love dhara's mom to have a thing for mama, or maybe even a past affair... we would then see maami going crazy 😈🤣

Everyone is rooting for Mama and Dhara’s Mom 🤣

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

As long as it's not CVs amnesia.

She was wearing this outfit in Bikaner so it means that they're traveling back on that day. I wonder if we will get drive home scene.

I wan’t a drive back home scene ❤️

Rishita choosing to sit with Krish because she is angry with Mera Dev.

Raavi sitting with Maami 😆and Shiva, grumbling.

Gautam is taking care of Suman while Dhara Anita try to bond over sudharofying the relationship between Shivi

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

If something like this happens, I would love dhara's mom to have a thing for mama, or maybe even a past affair... we would then see maami going crazy 😈🤣

🤣🤣🤣

Mama is innocent mamu🤣

Originally posted by: Miss_SR

😆😆

Does Dhara's mum come back in the OG? I would love a storyline where she does. Maybe way down the line.

There was no such track in the OG- Dhara’s mum is alive and present in Dhara’s life all through. In OG Tamil version- Suman loves Dhara. No contention there. But Dhara mum does feel Dhara has sacrificed too much for the family and is leading a hard life taking care of them.