Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #33|Of Old and New Wounds - Page 62

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

I think those are probably not the same kangans. Maybe Shiva gave her duplicate ones. I want to see Suman ka bts to see if she is wearing a set of kangans or not. I am sure that money which Shiva has is for some reason! 😔

agar yeh shiva ka plan nikla toh it will actually be a good plan. Shiva must be having the money for a good reason, but now Gaumbi came to know about it. maami also got access to that money somehow😕

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

this is literally playing with our emotions 😕

but then they did in the danda kaand too and shoved it all under the carpet, toh unse kuch expect karna bekaar hai 😆

if this is a plan or a drama, I really hope raavi is involved in it too! otherwise it would be really unfair to put her through so much mental torture, only to later on say that it was "fake" 😕

If that happens I want Raavi to leave that mad house and go and stay somewhere far away! I just hope that Twitter pe someone just speculated this track as a joke! I dont want this to happen ever! I am ok with angst, separation but definitely not this birthday surprise wala shit🤢

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

agar yeh shiva ka plan nikla toh it will actually be a good plan. Shiva must be having the money for a good reason, but now Gaumbi came to know about it. maami also got access to that money somehow😕

Sab Khichdi ban gayi hai. Its so confusing that I don’t even know if I should be predicting anything. Because kuch bhi predict karo PS makers kuch alag hi dikhate hai I am going to trust KD and hope that whatever he says is true!

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

If that happens I want Raavi to leave that mad house and go and stay somewhere far away! I just hope that Twitter pe someone just speculated this track as a joke! I dont want this to happen ever! I am ok with angst, separation but definitely not this birthday surprise wala shit🤢

this would actually be inhuman.. the audience will blast the makers completely if they do this

people cannot and should not play such a disgusting prank on a girl with suicidal tendencies 😕

i hope this was a joke, or if not, raavi is involved in this plan somehow

To be honest, I don't see the pain reflecting in these pictures. I just see a stupid man, blinded by his anger, shrouded by the darkness of the past. I understand his reasons behind getting those bangles back but I fail to understand and accept the stupidy, the insensitivity that he showed today.

This guy, whom his family claims to be a sensitive and adbhut person, in my eyes, is an insensitive man who is shown to constantly manhandle his wife. He promised her that he would not leave her alone but then he uses her as a commodity for his barter exchange. What sensitive person does that?

He's so concerned about those bangles, those memories of the past that he's ruining the present. Is that sensible? I agree that the past hurts, what Maami did hurts and it was very wrong for her but ruining your present for that past, that doesn't sound sensible to me.

So, I am sorry, if anybody doesn't like this but Shiva is not in pain. He's angry, and in his anger, he's going to ruin many things.

Originally posted by: bhavna101

A person who respects his wife is a saint? No, that person is called a good husband.

I am not asking him to do everything right, I am only asking him to see what damage he's causing to others.

This is not being "grey", this is being stupid. While Raavi was thinking of finding her happiness in this relationship, Shiva wasted no time in destroying that for her.

What Shiva did today, is certainly not a mistake. Shiva had absolutely no right to drag Raavi into this mess which he himself said that it doesn't involve her. What's his reason to do that?

Him putting Raavi into line like that was not being grey, it had no logic behind it, and I am utterly disappointed in him. He ruined it for me.

Just think about how Raavi must have felt when her husband used her as a commodity for this barter exchange thing!

Shiva is certainly not in the good husband category yet. He has always projected his anger for maami on raavi, right from day 1. That was his character. He always had this misplaced hatred towards her.is he right? Certainly not.

But I blame maami today for bringing raavi into the situation more than shiva.he just gave it back to her.

Raavi will feel humiliated and dissapointed, she will take a stand for herself.she is treated poorly by both her families.dhara,suman, rishta,shiva, prafulla... nobody understands her.its high time she takes a break from everyone.i don't want her to be mahaan and ask maami for the Kangans.

I agree with you... shiva is not right...he is not a good husband yet. He does not respect raavi yet.he does not love her yet.but he was never the person who will respect someone just for the sake of relation and gender.we saw that with rishita, we are seeing that with maami, and to some extent we saw that with raavi too.

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

@bold: so true.

I am pretty much the single soul in the forum today who is not feeling it for Raavi… today I am completely on Shiva’s side 😐 I might be ok if he does not apologize to Raavi 🙈

I completely agree with the analyses in the thread on a cerebral level. Shiva should definitely apologize. But somehow emotionally, I think I am in a kind of “oh man, someone hug Shiva and just take him away from all this- kangan, maami, Raavi and all.”

Something seems to be wrong with me. No feels for Raavi 🙈🙈

I felt for Raavi at the end when he issued the ultimatum. Before that, she was just a side character in Shiva's battle against his childhood nemesis.

Also, I honestly think its mami's constant taunting and flaunting that gets such an extreme reaction... like if the kangan actually disappeared somewhere, he would have moved on long back..

Also, I'm not looking for an apology per se...more of a realization ki past ke liye, future ko daav pe lagaya. That would be true growth for me

Originally posted by: Miss.M

Mami is the ever safe villain in this story, the one that just doesn't seem to, have bad karma come round to her...I have so many thoughts in this, i need to make a list and make sure i eventually post this up 😂

I have a slightly different opinion- sometimes karma does not work as simply or directly.

In our custom(Tamilian), we have a ritual called Devasam where we pray for the peace of our ancestors. I once asked my husband about its significance- it is apparently to appease the spirits of 7 generations past. That how long the effect of your deeds last- you don’t carry the burden, but seven generations down. It is your kids, and their kids that bear the fruit of your deeds- both good and bad.

If you look at it, Prafulla had everything going for her at one point- 4 mills, money, her daughter was getting married. Yet she harbored ill intentions for not only Pandya house but also for Dhara and Hardik.

Now if you see her progression over the years

1. She never left an opportunity to specify that Dhara can never get married in this lifetime. Dhara is happily married but Anita is not. She is trying with all her might for 10 years but cannot get Anita married.

2. She used to taunt Dhara for scheming to seduce Gautam during Gautam-Anita wedding rituals. Today it is her daughter Anita that is desperately and pitifully trying to seduce a married Gautam.

3. She handed begging plates to Suman and Shiva- today she has no mills and has to take from Suman to buy gifts/clothes.

4. She and Anita faked a suicide plan to force Gautam to say yes to the marriage. 10 years later, Raavi was hanging from a fan on her marriage day.

5. She taunted Dhara about her having a son studying in Delhi while Dhara was childless. Ten years later she is bitterly bickering with Suman about daughters being better than sons, trying to use her nieces as her shield.

I can probably go on… she has pulled a lot of crap over the years…

But going through a hardship is one thing, but to see your child/children live through sorrow is a hell of its own.

Maami and Anita have always wished for Dhara to cry and have a terrible married life- now they have to see Raavi struggle through a tough married life for no fault of hers.

Karma is not called a b***h for no reason- her cruelty is very subtle, but the effect is haunting. At this point no one in Maami’s family has an ounce of peace or happiness.

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

Shiva is certainly not in the good husband category yet. He has always projected his anger for maami on raavi, right from day 1. That was his character. He always had this misplaced hatred towards her.is he right? Certainly not.

But I blame maami today for bringing raavi into the situation more than shiva.he just gave it back to her.

Raavi will feel humiliated and dissapointed, she will take a stand for herself.she is treated poorly by both her families.dhara,suman, rishta,shiva, prafulla... nobody understands her.its high time she takes a break from everyone.i don't want her to be mahaan and ask maami for the Kangans.

I agree with you... shiva is not right...he is not a good husband yet. He does not respect raavi yet.he does not love her yet.but he was never the person who will respect someone just for the sake of relation and gender.we saw that with rishita, we are seeing that with maami, and to some extent we saw that with raavi too.

See, we know that Maami is evil. The whole PS family knows that Maami is evil so why is he letting Maami rule his life and decisions like that? She provokes him and he responds but both these idiots are failing to realize that how wrong this is and that Raavi is the one getting hurt.

Agreed that Maami provoked him but for how long is Shiva going to let his anger and hatred on Maami affect his married life with Raavi. What he did today, just proved that all those previous scenes, his promise of never leaving her side - meaningless!

@bold - Agreed, I completely agree with you on that but is Raavi just another person or his wife? Didn't he just claim a few days back that he will not leave her alone and now he does this? Wasn't he the one who was trembling and fumbling while applying medicine on her wounds and in the next scene he's wishing for her to get hurt? How ridiculous that is!

He's at least being respectful towards Rishita now but what about Raavi?

He's hated Raavi for all these years but what has Raavi done to deserve that? If he couldn't see the difference between Maami and Raavi in these 10 or so years, I wonder if he'll ever be able to do that now.

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

I have a slightly different opinion- sometimes karma does not work as simply or directly.

In our custom(Tamilian), we have a ritual called Devasam where we pray for the peace of our ancestors. I once asked my husband about its significance- it is apparently to appease the spirits of 7 generations past. That how long the effect of your deeds last- you don’t carry the burden, but seven generations down. It is your kids, and their kids that bear the fruit of your deeds- both good and bad.

If you look at it, Prafulla had everything going for her at one point- 4 mills, money, her daughter was getting married. Yet she harbored ill intentions for not only Pandya house but also for Dhara and Hardik.

Now if you see her progression over the years

1. She never left an opportunity to specify that Dhara can never get married in this lifetime. Dhara is happily married but Anita is not. She is trying with all her might for 10 years but cannot get Anita married.

2. She used to taunt Dhara for scheming to seduce Gautam during Gautam-Anita wedding rituals. Today it is her daughter Anita that is desperately and pitifully trying to seduce a married Gautam.

3. She handed begging plates to Suman and Shiva- today she has no mills and has to take from Suman to buy gifts/clothes.

4. She and Anita faked a suicide plan to force Gautam to say yes to the marriage. 10 years later, Raavi was hanging from a fan on her marriage day.

5. She taunted Dhara about her having a son studying in Delhi while Dhara was childless. Ten years later she is bitterly bickering with Suman about daughters being better than sons, trying to use her nieces as her shield.

I can probably go on… she has pulled a lot of crap over the years…

But going through a hardship is one thing, but to see your child/children live through sorrow is a hell of its own.

Maami and Anita have always wished for Dhara to cry and have a terrible married life- now they have to see Raavi struggle through a tough married life for no fault of hers.

Karma is not called a b***h for no reason- her cruelty is very subtle, but the effect is haunting. At this point no one in Maami’s family has an ounce of peace or happiness.

wow, very well said! this makes me feel slightly better about maami, in that she is also suffering. But i still want more, this isn't enough for her 😈😆