Today’s precap: They do have feelings for each other. - Page 4

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

Exactly! They're just showing it in a subtle manner but he's definitely HIGHLY attracted to this woman.

His emotional connection is deeper than the physical attraction and that is why he's obviously falling in love before Pallavi but they'll both realize at the same time most probably. This guy has been attracted to her from the very beginning. You just can't deny the level of comfort they've had, which equates to attraction, without being soapy about it.

I don't advocate physical attraction without emotional depth when it comes to love, it's just a bit lame like to me. More like an effervescent interaction. They've passed both stages already, it's just a matter of time it hits them. It's a bit difficult for Pallu as it seems that she does fear happiness considering what happened to her and there may come a time when she'll be torn between duty and love. Raghav will have no such obstacles. He's going to be running towards her in full speed.

@bold: same for me, and that’s why I love the fact that he never acts on the physical attraction alone! Neither of them did. It’s true raghav has deeply connected with Pallavi emotionally- takes me back to when he said that he doesn’t know why but he wants her to know everything related to him! How comfortably he opened up about his past to her, and only her in all these years.

He definitely is a step or two ahead from Pallavi in this journey. Realisation might hit simultaneously and I think that would be perfect!

I agree that Raghav is going to go all in once he knows that she feels for him as well while Pallavi would be conflicted between obligation to mandhar and her undeniable love for Raghav!❤️

I am just very surprised that how can people say that Raghav doesn’t have feelings for her! Just because of last 2 episodes? Doesn’t make sense to me!

I don't think he's taking her for granted. I genuinely think he has no idea about doing these kind of things for women but yes he needs to put in that effort of changing from a bachelor to a married man. He does take overall responsibilities of the house and security of the women he lives with, but he really doesn't get that its the smaller things that make a woman's heart flutter. He did it when he wanted to reunite Pallu with her family but that time he was motivated. Now it's like okay problem solved, let's go back to bachelor life 😆 Something needs to hit him hard in his face, then he'll realize everything and do everything. That something is acceptance of his feelings.

Originally posted by: Inese_20

I agree with you. This behaviour from Raghav is off-putting. Him taking her for granted. He’s a flawed human being and if he continues doing this it will be hurtful for Pallavi to be in love with him but she won’t be able to not be in love. Like that’s how it goes irl. He will eventually learn what it means to be in love and sensitivity it requires. It also comes from the fact that he’s accustomed to behave this way, all these years he has maintained the don aura even in front of Farhad. It’s hard for him to admit that he will do such things, but one day he will and that would be a treat to watch!

Also this taking granted thing has started only for 2episodes, I am thinking it’s being done to bring in the mandhar track and justify its significance. I would love the rude shock Raghav’s going to get if that’s the case!

Let’s not forget that Raghav cried his eyes out when he believed Pallavi was leaving, him telling her “mai tumhare saamne apna sabh kuch haar chuka hoon” or him admitting to amma - “that he feels there’s something between them”. There’s has been at least some acceptance by Raghav, we can’t deny that. He just hasn’t named it love yet, and so hasn’t Pallavi.

But yes Raghav taking her for granted is not the ideal case scenario. We don’t want a ‘he’s just like that’ Raghav. We want a Raghav who’s willing to give in to love for Pallavi. ❤️

Nice topic . Good read all the opinions..Posting what I had posted in discussion thread regarding this :

RR was after her vat savitri vrat from the robe night itself...he only brought it up that night too...he probably sees that as sign of commitment and doesn't see the need to have love or deep feelings for that. Pretty much like in arranged marraiges..it takes long time for deep feelings to develop but we do these vrats and poojas from first year itself whether we define our feelings or not. Part of it is culture, part of it is the elevated platform our society gives to suhaagnism...if I may coin the word. And part of it is well wishing for our spouse long life and well being which we anyways want irrespective of whether we define our feelings as love or not. Almost every culture in india has this praying for husband in some form or the other for married women.

Yes and in emotionally evolved couples, men also participate , do fasting and help out the wives because they understand it goes both ways . I have a feeling that Raghav will fast for Pallavi too. The man is committed . No matter whether he defines his feelings or not.

I love that every step of the way, Pallavi is being allowed to make her choices. She had a choice of going back to D house when Baba asked her. She chose to stay with Raghav. She had a choice to go to Kolhapur when Raghav was willing to let her go. She chose to stay with Raghav and chose to accept this marraige. Now , she is being given a choice whether to do the vat savitri vrat or not.Elders have told her to do it only if she has feelings for Raghav. Kudos to the CVS for showing this step by step choices made by FL. Its Pallavi who is making the decisions between Raghav Pallavi relationship. The only shot Raghav called was marrying her in distasteful manner..but ..after that all the choices have been Pallavi's.

I appreciate CVS showing that Pallavi is not being pressurized or forced on any of these steps.

I guess her answer to Raghavs feelings question would be yes, I feel, but I feel anger. I do think he should apologize for that- keep out of my family affairs dialogue . She needs to make sure he accepts her as both biwi and bahu of the house will full rights before she bothers with the vrat. But Raghav will come through. IMHO

Originally posted by: Diya2021

@bold I am not sure of this. I don’t think he even has thought about what he feels for her. He knows that something is there between them but he himself says love isn’t his cup of tea. I don’t think he has thought about love yet. But you have made me think yes, maybe he fears rejection so he isn’t thought at all about what his feelings are and is just sticking to his duty as a husband and like you said maybe it might be also that he isn’t clear on what she thinks or feels about him. Even I agree, it does look like a good starting to atleast talk about their feelings. Waiting to see how it plays out.

He definitely hasn’t given it a conscious thought diya! And it would happen only with acceptance. Till then we just tend to brush off the feelings, however strong they might be, because we fear rejection. That’s so human I guess. So he will ignore it as long as he can, until one day when he won’t be able to. Maybe mandhar will be the catalyst (itv life) or in real life scenario, it could have happened even without a villain.😆

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

I don't think he's taking her for granted. I genuinely think he has no idea about doing these kind of things for women but yes he needs to put in that effort of changing from a bachelor to a married man. He does take overall responsibilities of the house and security of the women he lives with, but he really doesn't get that its the smaller things that make a woman's heart flutter. He did it when he wanted to reunite Pallu with her family but that time he was motivated. Now it's like okay problem solved, let's go back to bachelor life 😆 Something needs to hit him hard in his face, then he'll realize everything and do everything. That something is acceptance of his feelings.

Or maybe it’s again what you said. He’s just afraid to over do it right now and is just subconsciously waiting for Pallavi to meet her half way!😆❤️ Like earlier he did it to make things right for her but now it’s his feelings he’s dealing with and he needs an assurance of some kind that Pallavi would accept him. Right now he might feel that he would be facing rejection only as he’s not good enough for her. We all fear rejection, no matter how confident.

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

Nice topic . Good read all the opinions..Posting what I had posted in discussion thread regarding this :

RR was after her vat savitri vrat from the robe night itself...he only brought it up that night too...he probably sees that as sign of commitment and doesn't see the need to have love or deep feelings for that. Pretty much like in arranged marraiges..it takes long time for deep feelings to develop but we do these vrats and poojas from first year itself whether we define our feelings or not. Part of it is culture, part of it is the elevated platform our society gives to suhaagnism...if I may coin the word. And part of it is well wishing for our spouse long life and well being which we anyways want irrespective of whether we define our feelings as love or not. Almost every culture in india has this praying for husband in some form or the other for married women.

Yes and in emotionally evolved couples, men also participate , do fasting and help out the wives because they understand it goes both ways . I have a feeling that Raghav will fast for Pallavi too. The man is committed . No matter whether he defines his feelings or not.

I love that every step of the way, Pallavi is being allowed to make her choices. She had a choice of going back to D house when Baba asked her. She chose to stay with Raghav. She had a choice to go to Kolhapur when Raghav was willing to let her go. She chose to stay with Raghav and chose to accept this marraige. Now , she is being given a choice whether to do the vat savitri vrat or not.Elders have told her to do it only if she has feelings for Raghav. Kudos to the CVS for showing this step by step choices made by FL. Its Pallavi who is making the decisions between Raghav Pallavi relationship. The only shot Raghav called was marrying her in distasteful manner..but ..after that all the choices have been Pallavi's.

I appreciate CVS showing that Pallavi is not being pressurized or forced on any of these steps.

I guess her answer to Raghavs feelings question would be yes, I feel, but I feel anger. I do think he should apologize for that- keep out of my family affairs dialogue . She needs to make sure he accepts her as both biwi and bahu of the house will full rights before she bothers with the vrat. But Raghav will come through. IMHO

I agree with what you are saying! Definitely a welcome change that she’s been given a choice ❤️👏

@bold- I do hope he apologises to her tomorrow before all that heavy conversation 🥺

Originally posted by: OceanicHeart.

@bold... Exactly so many women are forced to keep it cause society kya kahegi pati ki lambi umar ke liye puja nahi ki.

I have personally never believed in karwa chauth or Teej. But if you genuinely love your spouse then I totally support it. So many husbands also keep it now days.

I would love it if they show even Raghav going hungry till Pallu hasn't eaten

In my Bengali culture there is no teej or karva chauth but we keep vrat during shivratri both married and unmarried women for husband with qualities of mahadev!! I myself never saw the importance of this vrats and all as I said jo tumhari kismat mai hai woh hokar i rahegi tum chaho na chaho aur sache pyar karti ho apne pati ya premi se to wohi kafi hoti hai!!

Yes, I agree he's not thought of love because he is adamant that he cannot fall in love. But not wanting to think of love and actually harnessing those feelings in your heart are two separate things. The heart can feel all kinds of things, we like it or not, denial or acceptance. It just starts gathering all feelings and one gets a bit overwhelmed and may even push it aside, not knowing how to deal with all of that. It's a coping mechanism which difficult people use. That is what I feel Raghav has - all kinds of feelings for her but needs that one push for him to come out. The push can be her ex, or Pallavi herself. I hope the initial push is from Pallavi, because she has come to accept him as her husband but there is an inhibition she holds in her heart because she also does not want to term it as love, but I'm liking how they're going to be talking about having feelings, without explicitly saying its love. Just love it.

Originally posted by: Diya2021

@bold I am not sure of this. I don’t think he even has thought about what he feels for her. He knows that something is there between them but he himself says love isn’t his cup of tea. I don’t think he has thought about love yet. But you have made me think yes, maybe he fears rejection so he isn’t thought at all about what his feelings are and is just sticking to his duty as a husband and like you said maybe it might be also that he isn’t clear on what she thinks or feels about him. Even I agree, it does look like a good starting to atleast talk about their feelings. Waiting to see how it plays out.

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

Yes, I agree he's not thought of love because he is adamant that he cannot fall in love. But not wanting to think of love and actually harnessing those feelings in your heart are two separate things. The heart can feel all kinds of things, we like it or not, denial or acceptance. It just starts gathering all feelings and one gets a bit overwhelmed and may even push it aside, not knowing how to deal with all of that. It's a coping mechanism which difficult people use. That is what I feel Raghav has - all kinds of feelings for her but needs that one push for him to come out. The push can be her ex, or Pallavi herself. I hope the initial push is from Pallavi, because she has come to accept him as her husband but there is an inhibition she holds in her heart because she also does not want to term it as love, but I'm liking how they're going to be talking about having feelings, without explicitly saying its love. Just love it.

How beautifully and in such a simplified manner you can put your thoughts! I am in awe of your mind ❤️🤗

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

Yes, I agree he's not thought of love because he is adamant that he cannot fall in love. But not wanting to think of love and actually harnessing those feelings in your heart are two separate things. The heart can feel all kinds of things, we like it or not, denial or acceptance. It just starts gathering all feelings and one gets a bit overwhelmed and may even push it aside, not knowing how to deal with all of that. It's a coping mechanism which difficult people use. That is what I feel Raghav has - all kinds of feelings for her but needs that one push for him to come out. The push can be her ex, or Pallavi herself. I hope the initial push is from Pallavi, because she has come to accept him as her husband but there is an inhibition she holds in her heart because she also does not want to term it as love, but I'm liking how they're going to be talking about having feelings, without explicitly saying its love. Just love it.

Pallu khud bhi janti hai ki use raghav se pyar hai aur indirectly kafi bar bol bhi chuki hai!! Le kin raghav k taraf se koi response nahi mili use is liye woh bhi abhi waiting game khel rahi hai!! In dono pagolo ka kya hoga!! 🤣