Why sai needs to take oath?? - Page 5

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Because she reached a point of frustration due to Pakhi’s daily abuse and taunts and the reason being her status as Virat’s wife. Even if Virat is there he can not restrict Pakhi from harassing Sai. Ofcourse Pakhi did not mend her ways though Virat clarified his stand on their relation and Sunny tried to infuse sense into her senseless brain . On the whole it is Sai who is facing the heat since she is Pakhi’s target. In frustration she said that she is relinquishing her claim but it will be difficult for her also ..practically impossible since she is still his wife by right.

I don’t understand why a nobody like pakhi affecting her? If she don’t want Virat than pakhi's words shouldn’t bother her and if she want virat then she shouldn’t act as if giving up Virat isn’t a big deal to her..she is just making things worse by doing all this giving up haq and all..

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Pakhi passed some comments on how Virat stands for her like a rock and supports her by going against the family ( which is 100% true and the right thing to do as well ) . That’s my opinion. You are welcome to disagree and I don’t like to discuss on this . Basically, Pakhi is bullying Sai for having a supporting husband and Sai decides to let go off her rights on her husband without consulting him and not thinking about his feelings . She decided everything herself about their relationship. How fair it is unilaterally take decision about their relationship. Don’t tell me a state topper couldn’t understand the changing dynamics between them .

How is Sai different from other FL . A strong lead won’t give up her rights because of bullying. If there as a role reversal, if Virat had given up on Sai then there would be an uproar . Now if I point out Sai’s her mistakes , it’s concluded that we don’t sympathize with Sai and her situation , we hate her etc . Anyway those opinion don’t matter to me .

Well in this matter sai should be proudly announce that yes my husband supports me and there is nothing wrong in it..why are u so jealous if my husband supports me?? Do u want my husband would support u over me?? Sympathy with her is another thing but we can't support all her mistakes just because she is victim..

Why give up the rights on her husband and still stay with him ? Isn't it better to divorce if Sai doesn’t want Virat in her life as a husband and is ready to sacrifice her wife’s rights .

Sai is not naive not to realize their changing dynamics. At this stage , if she ignores Virat without giving him a reason he will react for sure and if it’s gets repeated then his insecurities will increase . Due to his insecurities, he will commit a blunder being an emotional fool and the completely blame will be shifted on him . Sai should either tell him everything and then stick to her promise to Pakhi didi or just divorce him .

Originally posted by: laksh

I always say that we have to wait for the scene before commenting. We are all discussing about such an important scene and a character just based on a precap? I think we should wait for the scene to understand when she says this and not start jumping to conclusions.

No matter what is the reason is i am not at all convinced that someone giving up her rights on her husband who clearly seems start loving her just because of someone unimportant person is bullying..

Originally posted by: Momrin

Well in this matter sai should be proudly announce that yes my husband supports me and there is nothing wrong in it..why are u so jealous if my husband supports me?? Do u want my husband would support u over me?? Sympathy with her is another thing but we can't support all her mistakes just because she is victim..

Sai has also not let any of the harassment actually affect her care for virat. She forgot all about her anger the minute she heard he was on a mission, she often gets past all the harassment she hears because she wants to be with Virat. every day she hears their abuse but buries the hatchet and starts the next day as a new day. She stood up for Virat too when they called him joru ka ghulam/called him nanes for bringing her food- she asked them why they are speaking to him in that tone, when pp accused Virat of not caring about her- Sai called her out, when Virat came back from hospital and they started drama it was Sai who ended it saying he needs rest, everyone shut up. So Sai and Virat are both invested in the relationship now but they have their own insecurities. And they both can often say things in flow of emotions that they dont really mean.

But i dont think theres any comparison between the amount of hate/sarcasm/venom that Sai gets compared to what Virat gets. So while its certainly not been easy on Virat it is much much worse for Sai. Sai is younger in age, still not independent financially, just started her mbbs studies, and she is still dealing with the absence of her father- that's not a loss that can ever be overcome but living in CN heightens it every day that she is here because her aabaa is gone. Virat also balances work and family stress too. But things are way harder on Sai than they are on Virat. Plus Virat always knew his familys nature. Its just that instead of only hearing praise now he gets taanas for standing by Sai. But he has seen their mindset/behavior for years. Sai had no idea what to expect and whats worse is that everyday they get more demeaning/insulting. Rather than warming up to her over time, they are all hellbent on getting her to leave Virat.

Sai has never forgotten all the things Virat has done for her. She remains eternally grateful for it and she always remembers it with affection and gratitude.

Sai broke down in front of bullies after months of fighting. She is only human. At this point the way Ayesha has performed Sai, all I feel is to go and give Sai a tight hug and tell her that everything will be better soon and to never lose her fight, never lose her hope. And Sai Joshi WILL bounce back. She felt weak but ahe didnt leave. She will not bow down or cower. She will continue to state things as it is. She will continue to retain her inherent goodness for everyone around her even if they are absolutely undeserving if it like ninad/bk/omi and her relationship with Virat will only get stronger despite their little squabbles and despite pp doing her level best to create misunderstandings and separate them. If 2 people are destined to be and also choose to be together nothing else matters.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

If virat support pakhi or Cgang then why does they keep crying virat is biased , he is zoru ka gulam , sai did kaala jaadu on virat etc.

This question should be asked by virat or sai to them..

Originally posted by: Momrin

I don’t understand why a nobody like pakhi affecting her? If she don’t want Virat than pakhi's words shouldn’t bother her and if she want virat then she shouldn’t act as if giving up Virat isn’t a big deal to her..she is just making things worse by doing all this giving up haq and all..

Yes but its not as simple as pp is a nobody. Unfortunately she has a past with virat, shes in their business 24x7. So she just made a strong statement in the flow of emotions that she absolutely does not mean and really has no intention of fulfilling. Its a nrief noment of weakness but Sai will never stop caring fir him as a wife. She is just struggling emotionally at this point

Originally posted by: Momrin

No matter what is the reason is i am not at all convinced that someone giving up her rights on her husband who clearly seems start loving her just because of someone unimportant person is bullying..

I am sorry but neither does a few audience nor Sai will be able to understand Virat's moves as love. Because if someone loves them, they would think twice before removing them from their house and family. It has not been too long for Sai to forget that she was the same person whom Virat had thrown away from his life in the middle of the night. It has not been too long that she was let down by him even when some of her claims against Pakhi was true. If the important actions of the guy speaks for Pakhi and unimportant actions such as romance alone speaks for Sai, not sure if she is supposed to see that as love. As is, she is not able to understand her feelings, understanding his feelings as love looks ridiculous to audience, don't know what she should be perceiving it as . If only he had acted as a guy truly in love.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Why give up the rights on her husband and still stay with him ? Isn't it better to divorce if Sai doesn’t want Virat in her life as a husband and is ready to sacrifice her wife’s rights .

Sai is not naive not to realize their changing dynamics. At this stage , if she ignores Virat without giving him a reason he will react for sure and if it’s gets repeated then his insecurities will increase . Due to his insecurities, he will commit a blunder being an emotional fool and the completely blame will be shifted on him . Sai should either tell him everything and then stick to her promise to Pakhi didi or just divorce him .

Exactly this what i want to say..she behaves she don’t know virat starts have feelings for her what doesn’t makes sense at all..she herself enjoying their new found attraction and love to each other..she should explain clearly to virat what is house members doing to her rather than doing those nok jhok all the time..they should talk face to face abt pakhi and sai's constant abuse..