Khuda Aur Mohabbat | Discussion Thread #8 - Page 112

Originally posted by: Unique.Sheep

I believe these people are tested with patience and also rewarded for it in the afterlife.

But yeah, dramas promote such toxic stuff like its normal even second marriages. Look at that new show Ishq Hai which shows parents opposing love marriages. Times have changed yaar they need to stop promoting such stuff

I do not wnat to watch any miserable shows anymore, KAM3 is already so miserable, ladka pagal hogaya hai, ladki taraparahi hai, sabkuch itna messed up hai in KAM3, that too when ladka ladki both were just good souls, kya phaida acha hone ka agar aisa tragedies ho aapke saath

As you have said, I wish Mahi tells Farhad some day, even if not in this life, we will reunite in after life, as a fan it will be my happiest moment.😭

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

I was very excited after that scene, because Farhad made me proud the way he refused Sajal and this episode, his sadness really got me, not like I wanted Mahi to accept him because he is suffering, but because I genuinely felt she even loved him back and even he was so sure yaar.

This scene is precious because he showed how he respected Sajal and her feelings too, despite being at a similar situation, where even he was rejected but insulted too, but he chose to be the better person here, took his time, let her believe that she is priceless and she deserves better, that is how you treat someone who holds so much expectations in their eyes for you. I loved Farhad after this, not before this I swear, he won me as an audience.

Farhad's character was ianntely shown to be very genuine and humble banda .. simple, pure at heart, gullible, dil se saaf .. jo dil mein woh zubaan par types ..

His reaction towards Sajal - came from his upbringing & his personal beliefs/nature .. and so, I wont say easier, it came to him naturally to not disrepect someone else - in other words rise above others in similar situation and reject in the most simple manner ..

In that moment, sach mein - dil jeet liya bande ne, regardless of his delusion & stupidity ..

Coming back to Friday's episode - those few minutes of his mute presence .. it was heavy .. that silence of his felt heavy .. he had nothing left inside him except for her love & his sorrow/misery/pain .. and that killed me to look & dig deeper .. Honestly, I didnt have the courage to watch that scene the 2nd time .. I was too heartbroken and in pain to see him & endure more .. 🥺

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

Yes, give time to yourself and family, discussions toh hum full week hi karte rehte hai, not like we ever stop, this thread never stops, it is like times square which never sleeps 🤣

haan lekin this thread doe give the feeling of - gaadi chut gayi if u dont participate .. 1 dhamakedaar episode and you have to skip 50+ pages ..

Originally posted by: rivaanvira

Farhad's character was ianntely shown to be very genuine and humble banda .. simple, pure at heart, gullible, dil se saaf .. jo dil mein woh zubaan par types ..

His reaction towards Sajal - came from his upbringing & his personal beliefs/nature .. and so, I wont say easier, it came to him naturally to not disrepect someone else - in other words rise above others in similar situation and reject in the most simple manner ..

In that moment, sach mein - dil jeet liya bande ne, regardless of his delusion & stupidity ..

Coming back to Friday's episode - those few minutes of his mute presence .. it was heavy .. that silence of his felt heavy .. he had nothing left inside him except for her love & his sorrow/misery/pain .. and that killed me to look & dig deeper .. Honestly, I didnt have the courage to watch that scene the 2nd time .. I was too heartbroken and in pain to see him & endure more .. 🥺

That is my main concern, why so him so innately good and lovable and then throw us with the rejection, curse, trauma and all? At least tell us why he deserved it, ek baat ke liye maan hi lete hai that Mahi got her karma and her family's karma, but tell us why Farhad also deserves this horrific life? Kuch matlab hi nahi banta that just because he fell in love.

Mahi's character is such a sad state of affairs, what kind of parda she had followed we all know, and now what is the iddat nonsense, she is roaming around Sikka, for F sake he is a na mehram, you do not do this during iddat, worst is Sikka holding Mahi's hand like physically touching her in her iddat, again WTF is wrong with this entire iddat nonsense. Mahi ki character ka satyanash aise karna nahi chhaiye tha, the more I try to connect to this character, the more this character faulters, and I am yawning at the forced concept of making her mother of Sikka's kids🤢

Originally posted by: rivaanvira

haan lekin this thread doe give the feeling of - gaadi chut gayi if u dont participate .. 1 dhamakedaar episode and you have to skip 50+ pages ..

keeping fingers crossed, if this Friday we get more than 4 minutes of Farhad, then 50 pages will be done in 10 minutes I believe.🤣

Originally posted by: FarhaadkiMahi

even science says heartbreak is equal to physical pain even more

Emotional pain is definitely worse than physical pain

Physical pain is just short term and there are painkillers for it

But emotional pain can be unbearable and uncurable at times

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

I was very excited after that scene, because Farhad made me proud the way he refused Sajal and this episode, his sadness really got me, not like I wanted Mahi to accept him because he is suffering, but because I genuinely felt she even loved him back and even he was so sure yaar.

This scene is precious because he showed how he respected Sajal and her feelings too, despite being at a similar situation, where even he was rejected but insulted too, but he chose to be the better person here, took his time, let her believe that she is priceless and she deserves better, that is how you treat someone who holds so much expectations in their eyes for you. I loved Farhad after this, not before this I swear, he won me as an audience.

This is portrayed quite realistically though. He is going through the same situation as her so he can understand how she is feeling. Why would he hurt her then?

If he didnt love Mahi or hadnt experienced love at all, then maybe he wouldve reacted to Sajals proposal differently. But since he also is in love, he can relate to her emotions even if he cant reciprocate them.

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

I do not wnat to watch any miserable shows anymore, KAM3 is already so miserable, ladka pagal hogaya hai, ladki taraparahi hai, sabkuch itna messed up hai in KAM3, that too when ladka ladki both were just good souls, kya phaida acha hone ka agar aisa tragedies ho aapke saath

As you have said, I wish Mahi tells Farhad some day, even if not in this life, we will reunite in after life, as a fan it will be my happiest moment.😭

OMG yes! In season 1 there was a scene where she says that not in this life, but they can be together in another life.

I dont want the same exact scene here. But something similar to it according to the situation.

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

That is my main concern, why so him so innately good and lovable and then throw us with the rejection, curse, trauma and all? At least tell us why he deserved it, ek baat ke liye maan hi lete hai that Mahi got her karma and her family's karma, but tell us why Farhad also deserves this horrific life? Kuch matlab hi nahi banta that just because he fell in love.

Spiritually speaking - he was meant to walk on this path to get closer to God .. its unfortunate that he had to go through the toughest path .. None of these people "deserve" to walk on such paths, but its their destiny to do so ..

Some questions are unanswerable .. you just have to walk forward with what is given to you ..

In our Hindu religion - we are told that its your past life karma that you carry forward .. What you do in this life can be carried forward to the next .. Tum apna karm karo, bhagwan khud tumhe uska fal dega ..