Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace
The way I see it-
Shiva has suddenly been pushed into a relationship he doesn’t know how to handle
Raavi was mentally prepared for marriage but not Shiva
So they both are in a limbo.
They do not know to move forward because everything is foggy.
Raavi dunno how to accept Shiva
Shiva doesn’t know how to accept Raavi
This is a coin and there r two sides. Agar ek se u r expecting to clear up something the other should too. There need to be a balance.
If Shiva actually wanted to marry her then I would have agreed on Raavi being the only emotionally distressed one. Par yahan oar Shiva is just as much in a distress.
I blame their circumstances. And hence either ye dono saath aage badhen ya limbo mein atke rahen. Ek ka aage badhna zara weird hai.
For Shiva-
I have learned now that while those who speak about one's miseries usually hurt, those who keep silence hurt more.
C. S. Lewis
Raavi was mentally prepared to marry Dev.
She wasn't prepared for Dev's betrayal and definitely not the marriage with Shiva.
If Shiva had been nice to her since the beginning, then Raavi would have treated him the same way.
And now, even if Raavi wants to initiate something, Shiva's anger, his rude behavior pushes her back.
That scene from Saturday's episode when he didn't want Raavi to find those land papers, the way he behaved with her that time, it wasn't necessary.
He could have asked her nicely or made some other excuse but he didn't.
How can Raavi behave nicely with him after he's like that. One moment he's all good but the next he turns bad. He changes his behavior so much that it is confusing Raavi.
That's why I expect Shiva to change his behavior towards Raavi first. And once he does that, Raavi will do the same.
Nothing can justify Shiva's behavior towards Raavi.