Ishq par Zor Nahi - EDT#15 Doli Saja ke Rakhna - Page 26

Originally posted by: ishqaan

Out of all the social media sites I spend most of my time on IF. 🤣

No interest in talking to known people irl. 🤣

Don't know if I should be happy or sad about this. 🤣

That's the case with me too😆

I see what you mean, and that’s why I think it’s important for both partners to understand what marriage means to each of them.

For me, marriage is more of an emotional need than a sexual one (and I think, I’m demisexual). For some it can be need based (material or social benefits or sexual).

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

Waise as married experienced people.. tell me what you think of the below scenario

A friend of mine is married around 3 years and the friend tells me that they are not made for each other and it’s suffocating..

Is this normal? I just tell my friend to resolve it and you know.. forget the ideal marriage partner he has in his head. Doesn’t exist..

I know, ghatiya advice hai but what can you tell the person..😆

If it is a one sided relationship that is one person compromising on everything and other gets a free pass for all ... one person sacrificing their dreams and other not caring about it ... Abusive (emotionally / physically) ... I would say get out. Here I would suggest marriage counselling before giving up but It might be taboo for a lot ... but I think a neutral third party that you can talk to regarding all marital issues would definitely help.

Originally posted by: ishqaan

Meanwhile daadi : Aee kii kar raha hai Ahaan puttar?

Ahaan : ignores her, holds Ishqi's hand and walks away.

Daadi: runs after them - Aeii ki kar raha hai?! 😳

"Agar tu roka nahi, main apni jaan de doongi."

"Hum aapke liye par pota/poti banane jaa rahe hai. Ab aap inhe dekhe baghair nai marenge na."

🤣

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

Waise as married experienced people.. tell me what you think of the below scenario

A friend of mine is married around 3 years and the friend tells me that they are not made for each other and it’s suffocating..

Is this normal? I just tell my friend to resolve it and you know.. forget the ideal marriage partner he has in his head. Doesn’t exist..

I know, ghatiya advice hai but what can you tell the person..😆

m going to tell you from my friends' experiences.

pehle toh suffocation ka reason.

if the problem is about either possessive, obsessive or trust issues then its not solvable.

if its about other behaviour changes it can be solved.

if the partners cant be themselves with each other phir toh khatam.

Originally posted by: Wanderlust05

"Agar tu roka nahi, main apni jaan de doongi."

"Hum aapke liye par pota/poti banane jaa rahe hai. Ab aap inhe dekhe baghair nai marenge na."

🤣

"Mere dil mei Ishqi ka naam chapp chuka hai. Ab mujhe aur kisi ke saath pota/poti karne ki choice mat dijiyega. Yeh Ishqi aur us ladki, dono ke liye unfair hoga" - holds her hand and takes her away. 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: esprit_00

If it is a one sided relationship that is one person compromising on everything and other gets a free pass for all ... one person sacrificing their dreams and other not caring about it ... Abusive (emotionally / physically) ... I would say get out. Here I would suggest marriage counselling before giving up but It might be taboo for a lot ... but I think a neutral third party that you can talk to regarding all marital issues would definitely help.

I have been thinking of asking him to get professional help but family doesn’t know a lot of things so i don’t know how they will get help without letting them know, also don’t think the partner would go for it..

Also, I have a one sided perspective from one person who makes all the sacrifices/ adjustments.. (though I know I can believe him but sometimes we hurt others due to misunderstandings).

But I think 3 years is a long time to figure out if one is compatible in a marriage.

Originally posted by: kankabhor

What if they are faking it?🤣

Aisa mat bolo🥺

Originally posted by: war_is_peace

also let me confess i have never shipped any cinema couple as real life couple before this.

it just feels strong in this case. kuch toh bohot gadbad hai.

and thats 18 years of itv.

I've shipped AshDeep baaad!!

I've stopped it now cuz I've understood it's nearly impossible, lekin mann karta hai once in a while😆

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

I have been thinking of asking him to get professional help but family doesn’t know a lot of things so i don’t know how they will get help without letting them know, also don’t think the partner would go for it..

Also, I have a one sided perspective from one person who makes all the sacrifices/ adjustments.. (though I know I can believe him but sometimes we hurt others due to misunderstandings).

But I think 3 years is a long time to figure out if one is compatible in a marriage.

True .. at the end of the day if one person isnt happy in a relationship, most likely the other person is miserable as well ... they need to talk or at least she needs to talk to him on how she feels ... give it time after relaying her concerns... if even after listening to all that is bothersome and time / space it stays the same, then I would suggest moving forward in life.