Episode spoiler - 15 June 2021 - Page 10

Originally posted by: Ruhi07

I loved it when he aaram se went to his room instead of insisting to drink further and making a scene.. agyakari pati😆

Don't worry he will make scenes in RR mansion. That time will come.

I just hope she doesn't go on a mission to make him quit drinking altogether but that her presence in his life automatically helps him find other outlets instead of excessive drinking.

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire

In all this Farhad still considers his Anna as his highest priority. Their friendship and bonding without any blood relation is amazing.

Yeah, I wanted to remind Raghav about this, but for now he wants his 3 favorite ladies to prioritize him. Bro code to chalta rahega.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Agree, he was overbearing yet he was still self-aware, that he was cribbing and expecting too much from her too soon. I think he's also at the end of his tether. Can you blame him? He's mentally exhausted from pushing uphill all the time, and to be repeatedly misunderstood and blamed for every issue under the sun is wearing him out.

I think Raghav understood her need to give her friendship the respect and importance it deserves. We know that he loves and gives unconditionally, but it's human nature to want a little affection or at least acknowledgement of one's efforts. He gets none. Forget being top priority, he feels he doesn't even feature on their lists. That's gotta sting. The underlying message is: Do I not deserve a little bit of care, a little bit of focus at least?

I am concerned Raghav may suffocate Pallavi if he doesn't realize he will always have to share her with others, because being the good woman she is, she will bond with and care for his family and with her ex-in-laws. The thing is, she doesn't have a messed up equation with them because they never hurt her, hence she starts from an already more solid position in her relationship with them. With Keerti, she's known her for a while and has shared some major secrets with her. I agree, Farhad is that person for Raghav but he's an employee at the end of the day so there is a line that won't be crossed.

I am glad to see positive saas-bahu dynamics in such an explicit way. I love that they can talk to each other openly and that Pallavi doesn't need to worry about what Amma will think of her when bringing up sensitive topics. I love that Amma is open-minded enough to accept that a younger person may be able to provide guidance when an older person is stuck or confused about how to handle things. Also, she never doubts Pallavi's innate goodness or her intentions behind doing certain things.

No, I can't blame him. I was saying this about Pallavi in Shivangi's AT today, but it holds true about Raghav as well- the show does a good job of showing us why characters behave the way the do, so even when we don't like what they're doing, it's hard to hold that against them, but that's what makes the couple so easy to root for. Last week, my heart was breaking for Raghav, and I can't help but sympathise more with Pallavi last couple of episodes. She's exhausted beyond belief as well, and none of this is even her mess. His frustration of being constantly misunderstood and undermined and ignored makes total sense, and is absolutely heartbreaking, but directing that at Pallavi made me a little too 💔😭 for them both. She's shown more empathy, trust and care towards him in the last ten days than his family has in the last decade, so he's naturally craving for more.

He's taking today as a reality check, and I think the whole 'this marriage is a deal' was more a reminder to himself than a taunt to her- he's telling himself to not get to carried away. But the way all this is playing out, Pallavi is heading towards an inevitable crash from all this upheaval.

Also, while I'm complaining about his behaviour here, I also found the whole pouting husband thing adorable, so...🤷🏻‍♀️

I hope it goes both ways- Raghav will have to learn to share Pallavi, else he'll suffocate Pallavi, but Pallavi should also learn a little selfishness. She's the kind of person who will set herself on fire to keep others warm, and that's the kind of burden that takes years off of a person's life. She should prioritise her personal happiness a little bit more.

On Jaya and Pallavi, I am still stuck in that adorable moment of 'You're the best saas in the world'. Nazar na lage inki bond ko 🧿

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

No, I can't blame him. I was saying this about Pallavi in Shivangi's AT today, but it holds true about Raghav as well- the show does a good job of showing us why characters behave the way the do, so even when we don't like what they're doing, it's hard to hold that against them, but that's what makes the couple so easy to root for. Last week, my heart was breaking for Raghav, and I can't help but sympathise more with Pallavi last couple of episodes. She's exhausted beyond belief as well, and none of this is even her mess. His frustration of being constantly misunderstood and undermined and ignored makes total sense, and is absolutely heartbreaking, but directing that at Pallavi made me a little too 💔😭 for them both. She's shown more empathy, trust and care towards him in the last ten days than his family has in the last decade, so he's naturally craving for more.

He's taking today as a reality check, and I think the whole 'this marriage is a deal' was more a reminder to himself than a taunt to her- he's telling himself to not get to carried away. But the way all this is playing out, Pallavi is heading towards an inevitable crash from all this upheaval.

Also, while I'm complaining about his behaviour here, I also found the whole pouting husband thing adorable, so...🤷🏻‍♀️

I hope it goes both ways- Raghav will have to learn to share Pallavi, else he'll suffocate Pallavi, but Pallavi should also learn a little selfishness. She's the kind of person who will set herself on fire to keep others warm, and that's the kind of burden that takes years off of a person's life. She should prioritise her personal happiness a little bit more.

On Jaya and Pallavi, I am still stuck in that adorable moment of 'You're the best saas in the world'. Nazar na lage inki bond ko 🧿

@bold, this is what makes the show special for me, that it works on so many levels.

Pallavi is overdue for a complete nervous breakdown. She's surviving on adrenaline and a heightened sense of awareness because of the non-stop drama and upheavals in her life, literally since Raghav stormed into her life. I think seeing her all shaken up is what gets to Raghav and he wants to send her away from all this madness.

He's directing his frustration at Pallavi because he can, because she's well on the way to becoming the person he feels closest to, the person who he knows has the potential to understand him like no one else, hence his impatience with wanting her to get to that point soon.

I, too, felt that him mentioning the deal was more a reminder to himself: Don't get carried away, don't get your hopes up, this is fleeting as is most happiness in your life, don't forget that the other person doesn't view this marriage the way you do and even though you have moved on she may still be stuck in that spot she was in when she was about to leave for Kolhapur.

I completely agree that Pallavi will have to learn to prioritize herself, her happiness, and desires without feeling guilty about it, without worrying what others will think, and without feeling she is being selfish. She needs to let go and not try and jump into help others, at least not at the expense of her happiness and peace of mind, and be at peace with doing so. Raghav is the perfect partner for that because not only does he believe in this himself (as we've been seeing him do until now), but he also realizes she needs to work on this and will help her get there eventually. The question of priority raised by Raghav is an important one because while he already told her a few days ago that she would be his number one priority, he knows that he doesn't have that spot in her life and may never have. The day she is truly, madly, deeply in love with him and puts him (and in fact them both) above all the other nonsense in the world, that's when we'll see the real Pallavi. Something tells me she will actually get there sooner than Raghav will because once she makes up her mind, she doesn't look back, while he may hold back from . Sigh... what a beautiful story.