Episode spoiler - 14 June 2021 - Page 11

Originally posted by: Diya2021

@bold can’t blame him for now. She wasn’t ranting, for me she was hysterical & a person at a time like this can’t think through normally. No words can get through her right now. All he did now with her was to try to control a situation which had gone out of hand and reacting as her brother in front of Sunny. As per his character, he acts and then thinks and the same with Kirti. I’m sure either from Pallavi or by himself, he will start thinking on this. Can’t blame Kirti for finding her solace in Sunny as she thinks he is the only one who can love her but Amma & Raghav are not wrong on their side as well. As her family they want her to be happy and both of them feel Sunny is not a right choice.

yes, she was literally off the the charts but i think a lot of her outburst is what she has been bottling up for years. She may not have been in her right state of mind but when she is in her right state of mind, she has not been able to express anything else apart from disgust. Today, seeing him snatch her happiness away, (this is what she believes,) she couldnt hold it in any longer and amma and pallavi trying to stop her only addled her brain even more to the extent she sees even amma and pallavi as raghav supporters, more so pallavi, since she has been defending raghav and also bcoz she believes pallavi has been manipulated by raghav to come over to his side by sharing his side of the story.. she really sees raghav as the villain of her life. Atleast this is what is my take away from her eruption today!

Yes, i also agree that just cuz she wants to burn her hands, doesnt mean that raghav and amma should allow her to. But they really need to assess the damage and move their cards well so as to get keerthi to come around to her rational self. I think at most, raghav has only averted the elopement by offering sunny money ,just an interim relief.

One dialogue from the precap -

kabhi kisi ke saamne itna mat jhukna, ki khud hi toot jaao..

Why it feels like Pallavi is telling this to herself after what happened in Deshmukh house... And if that's the case, it's good writing.... The girl is looking back at her life maybe..

Okay, and can we move beyond kambal udhana and foonk maarna in a very obvious way please.. Itna thand aur dard...🤣

Originally posted by: Lonelythots

I think today keerthi’s pov was shows quite well.. she is such an emotional mess rn..The child keerthi had to grow up too soon and also in her growing years all she saw was resentment, bitterness, hatred filled for raghav all thanks to amma. She believes sunny is that freedom that will freed her from all the negativity. Last episode raghav told that hatred has become his companion and he has learnt to survive and today keerthi sees sunny as an escape for that same thing. Again she sees raghav as the one hindering her happiness just like she believes he destroyed her childhood.

Amma really needs to wake up and smell the coffee. Punishing raghav was fine for his actions but seems like she couldnt give a happy secure environment for keerthi in all her bitterness. I do understand that she also lost everything but keerthi was a child who needed attention, pampering and a happy environment.

I really felt sad for the rao’s today.. they all have collectively ruined their lives by their own hands. Outwardly they are such headstrong individuals carrying on with their lives like normal, regular people but each one has internalised their grief to such an extent that the last 2-3 episodes has just exposed how much each one is emotionally scarred. I really hope all the three heal even if it means just going their separate ways and living life on their own terms.

Bad move by raghav.. offering money like in movies. This is going to come back and bite him. Keerthi is an adult and she should be allowed to live life the way she wants, learn from her mistakes. She cannot and should not be forced. Raghav needs to back off.

Sunny is going to come back and increase the rift between raghav and keerthi. We know ved is also back.. sulo toh is always there to stir the pot.. literally bad news for raghav and pallavi.

Poor pallavi... she doesnt deserve this at all man.. i hope she goes to kolhapur, away from all the madness that is happening in hyderabad rn . that girl needs some tlc.. the raos are extremely emotionally battered people. But when compared to the deshmukhs their conflict is genuine!

@bold... yes, I am glad the writers are focusing on how messed up they all are because of the PTSD they never recovered from. Perhaps living separately is the way to go but I am still hoping that they actually come together eventually and get to heal. They are wonderful people at heart but the wounds are still raw and deep. I know Pallavi will be a positive influence, because once they learn about her past, they will get to see a person like her move on from it and try to make something good out of life. I hope they show them go for therapy or some form of counseling, even though such topics aren't well-handled on ITV. These CVs might be able to pull it off.

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold... yes, I am glad the writers are focusing on how messed up they all are because of the PTSD they never recovered from. Perhaps living separately is the way to go but I am still hoping that they actually come together eventually and get to heal. They are wonderful people at heart but the wounds are still raw and deep. I know Pallavi will be a positive influence, because once they learn about her past, they will get to see a person like her move on from it and try to make something good out of life. I hope they show them go for therapy or some form of counseling, even though such topics aren't well-handled on ITV. These CVs might be able to pull it off.

Yes, all of them need counselling. What they gone through wasn't easy. Let's see if we can get one, this can be a very successful track if executed sensitively, since this is a touchy topic. Most of people in almost all parts of Asia, think that psychiatrists are for mentally ill (mad/paagal) people and its kind of shameful

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Hotstar will do it for us tomorrow😆.. he was totally being the overbearing, over protective brother. I mean I could feel Keerthi's anger and frustration.. but angry Raghav and those telugu lines totally distracted me from lookimg at Keerthi's plight.😆 and that angsty moment in the bed room with Pallavi.. I want moreeee of those in future😆 Loved how he confirmed with her about whether or not she knew about Keerthi and Sunny and went straight to the bedroom.. it was their private matter and had to be resolved or not, in private.

Yes, I'm glad they argued in the bedroom. Anyway, it's usually Raghav who calls Pallavi out for doing tamasha in public. 😆

Also glad he asked her first if she knew, without making assumptions. Might seem like a small thing but it's a big deal 'cause it shows he's learning from his past mistakes. He still needs to get better at listening, especially when the other person is trying to explain their side, instead of saying he doesn't want to hear any explanations. Pallavi understands his reaction but he can't take it for granted that he'll continue doing this with her and that she'll be fine with it every single time. Anyway, this is part of their growth as a couple.

I think his anger is more with himself for continuing to dream of a future with her and this incident was more of a bubble-bursting moment for him, where he realizes that the terms of their marriage are still hanging over them. Angst to hoga hi. He brought it upon himself to an extent but you can see that he's afraid to trust that anything good can happen to him, that he can actually have a new form of happiness through Pallavi.

The fact that Pallavi was wide-eyed and unable to respond shows that not only was she caught off-guard but it's also in line with her not expressing her deep emotions very often. The precap scene should be the starting point of that. He never really knows how she feels. Despite everything she went through, she never really let out her inner thoughts and emotions proactively, it was always in reaction to something Raghav said or did. The maar daalo scene was a response to his visit to the Ds, the talk about Mandaar was when he tried to stop her leaving, and even the precap is in response to him doing Sanki's bidding. Perhaps her drawing the line and telling him to stop, while showing him for the first time that she's holding a lot within her, is what will make him cautious. We know that he is impulsive by nature, and so does she, but because he feels strongly for people and cares about them, that emotion will be the biggest enabler to getting him to curb his tendency to act without thinking about consequences.

Originally posted by: Shri_12

Yes, all of them need counselling. What they gone through wasn't easy. Let's see if we can get one, this can be a very successful track if executed sensitively, since this is a touchy topic. Most of people in almost all parts of Asia, think that psychiatrists are for mentally ill (mad/paagal) people and its kind of shameful

Yes, it's a taboo topic in many parts of the world and it's such a shame that this thinking prevents people from being able to get much-need care from medical experts and other professionals. 😔

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Too much theatrics there lol I mean who does that?😆 but all this works wonders for TRPs so makers are taking a conscious decision to make Vijay an out an out grey character.. Now I wont put anything past him, even lying or manipulating to get back at Raghav.

Also, today we finally got a better nsight into Keerthi's character.. She is all sorted and calm on the sueface but there is so much turbulence going inside her..she is as broken, as lost and as much of a loner as Raghav.. which explains why she never opens up much to anyone, even Amma, has very few friends..Sunny was the only guy she opened upto so her flying off the handle, does make sense.

Strangely enough, I find the actor now playing Sanki is actually doing justice to the character, although I don't really like what they're making the character do. It's all gone into crude territory. Yuck.

Keerti is like Raghav in so many ways. He was lonely but at least got the chance to branch out and do his own thing without restrictions or needing to justify his actions to anyone over the past decade. She never had that, and her being sensitive to Amma, essentially looking after her, walking on eggshells so as not to upset her, must have stifled her thinking and ability to just live life freely. Sunny is that outlet so she's holding on for dear life to the notion of loving him. Right now, he represents the much-needed oxygen in his life.

Originally posted by: RosyRosh

Yessss Loved the raghvi moment. It was their private matter.

Also loved how the question of what relationship they share basically came up. Pallu is keertis friend . And for raghav.. she isnt even his wife .. and that pain he felt for a moment.. and she too was taken aback by it because shes basically falling into more of a wife role with him. Shes getting deeper into her relationship with raghav keerti and amma. Love it.

Ok, this is one thing Raghav needs to understand. Raghav and Pallavi haven't been married that long, there's been no official lifetime commitment, and he started it out telling her not to forget that this is a deal. Sure, his feelings are changing, but has he actually told her what he wants? Not in clear terms. He started expecting her to 'behave like a wife' because in his mind he's always been her husband. He hasn't paused to think whether she feels that way.

Also, we get it that husband and wife need to trust one another and share everything, but there are other relationships a person has, which have their own boundaries too. Friendship is a precious thing and you cannot break your friend's trust just to please your husband. She's known Keerti for a lot longer and has had a solid friendship with her. Keerti was a keeper of Pallavi's secrets so why wouldn't Pallavi do the same for her. Also, she's still too new in the Rao family, whether or not she'll stay here permanently is still up in the air, so why would she take such steps such as telling her husband what her SIL is up to at this stage of the relationship?

I get the feeling after a point Raghav will want her to prioritize him over all other relationships, which, knowing Pallavi, is not going to happen. This is going to end up in him getting overly possessive about her, even when it comes to their family member. While she will be his entire world, he will be a big part of hers along with others. He will have to learn to share her and that's not going to be easy for a man like Raghav. I am looking forward to seeing those traits of his surface.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

I'm so happy he stopped himself from crossing that line. First, because it's been less than 10 days where he promised her, explicitly, that he doesn't have wife-y expectations from her, but is giving her those rights. Now they've had a lot of really sweet moments and some beautiful progression since then, so the muddled emotions are completely understandable, but in universe, it really hasn't been long, and to throw that in her face in a fit of anger would have cheapened his previous promise a lot.

Also, I can't help but wonder if that taunt would have hurt even more, because of Pallavi's background, where she got married, but never got to be a wife. It would've stung any which way- it stung even when left lingering, unsaid- but it would have been a low blow.

@bold, so I'm not the only one who felt that way. Yes, it would have really hurt her in that context. She has heard enough of 'pati ko kha gayi' kind of nonsense from people and hearing Raghav comment on her ability to be a good wife would cause a lot of damage. Besides, Raghav isn't one of those guys, I think what he was trying to say was that she had clearly prioritized being a good friend over being a wife but in the heat of the moment it would have come out all wrong.

As I've said before, he needs to give her space. He's been living with his pain for 10 years, and it hasn't even been 24 hours since she learned about it. She needs time to process and understand. Also, seeing Keerti's outburst, I'm sure Pallavi is getting another perspective on that terrible past and the impact on the Raos. She is able to see things impartially and with a fresh pair of eyes as not just a wife, SIL, or DIL, but as someone whose own difficult past made her take difficult decisions over the years. Her immediate response to Keert about Raghav's frame of mind as a teenager shows that she interpreted everything the right way. If he had overheard her, he would have known to what extent she had understood him, but that wasn't meant to be because they want these two to fight and it's been filed away for a future private session. 😉

The thing with Raghav is he is indeed a straightforward person, and if he hadn't been so angry he might have found a gentler way to talk about this. I am sure he will when the time comes. I am so glad we have an ML who lets feelings fester and goes off on a tangent of their own. Pallavi might not say it but she sees in his eyes that this marriage means so much more than a deal. We always predicted that he would take his roles and responsibilities as a husband seriously from day one, and he hasn't proved us wrong even once. Where he needs to work on is understanding that Pallavi may or may not accept him, that she is at a different stage, and that she needs time. He bulldozed over her life, she needs time to process all that, recover, and make her own decisions without pressure. I don't want him to rush her or himself into anything.

Originally posted by: gayatherry88

Got goosebumps how raghav handled sunny 👏👏.. I always wanted big brother 🙄🙄 wish I had one like raghav. He have experience to know how people will trap others and he got it right sunny indeed a crap. I understand keerthi she lost many things since she was with Amma she can't share many things with her so she found a solace on sunny but he isn't a person what she thinks.. sorry for pallu she is in between of everyone. I feel for her as a wife. Keerthi you're wrong pallu knows raghav than anyone, she also so taken back when Raghav asked her why she didn't share. She is very much into wife mode.. she will soon acknowledge to him. Raghav is very clear she is his wife no matter what. Keerthi you're are cursing your brother but he don't deserve this 😥😥.. pallu is only one saving angel on his life.. no one understands his love and intentions..

Yes, Pallavi is in wife mode without necessarily realizing it but every since they got married, she hasn't had time to breathe. Something or the other keeps happening. When will she get a chance to think things through?

Raghav is clear that he accepts her as his wife but does he actually see her as a life partner? I don't think so, not yet. There's so much more to a marriage than what they are dealing with right now, and it will take time for them to build that understanding and faith in one another. He's thinking short-term but I hope eventually he will think about the long-term with her.