Mehendi hai rachne wali discussion thread no 36 - Page 17

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I have not watched the episode but seeing spoilers I want to add certain things.

1. There is parallel between Aai-Pallavi and Amma-Kirti. During RaghVi marriage, aai told Pallavi that latter should have confided in her, but Pallavi didn't because aai wasn't stable enough. Same goes for Amma. Amma thinks that Kirti should have told her but she didn't had that stability and confidance that Kirti needed.

2. Kirti feels suffocated. I feel her there. Her life is controlled by actions of others, be it Raghav or Amma. All she wants a stable family with her personal freedom.

3. Raghav does not become a caring a brother, just because he paid her fees. He needs to do more first being expressing his love in a better, healthier manner.

4. Live-in isn't a wrong choice. However it needs proper planning, especially with financial aspect. In fact a short live-in before marriage can save people from marrying wrong/incomaptible partners. The only thing is the people have wrong perspective about live-ins. They think its only for physical relationships, which is so wrong.

5. Amma needs to buckle up, big time

Behosh hona is not just a sign of pregnancy Makers please

She was so stressed so hyper

Behosh to gayi

Originally posted by: Isamreen

Pallavi was all so 😳 today...

Deshmukh house me bade bade hungame dekhe but they all are not equal to Rao's today chaos...

Ek toh Pallavi ki awaz hi nahi nikal rahi thi, Keerthi and amma were so loud, screeching..

Aur Pallavi hamari nazuk kali jaisi, mujhe darr tha jab woh refree bani hui thi kahin amma aur Keerthi dhakka mar kr gira na den....

All hell break loose for her, saare k saare Rao's uthre hue ghodon ki tarah bekabu...

Pallavi d- house walon ko kitne acche se sambhal leti aur samjha leti thi buy yahan woh ek toh shock dusra use samajh hi nahi aaraha k kya kare 🤦

Keerthi aur Raghv both misunderstood her...

I want them to resolve this MU as soon as possible....

Pallavi was so hurt today by Keerthi for Keerthi....🥺

When she was accusing Raghav Pallavi shayad mai Raghav ko tumse zyada acche se janti hoon hit Keerthi very had, so she assumed Pallavi had now sided with him ad broken her trust..

Keerthi feeling hurt by Pallavi more than Raghav coz they were good friends and Keerthi had always supported Pallavi no matter what...

And that's what makes things worst...😔

Keerthi saying tum ab meri friend nahi tum sirf Raghav ki biwi banchuki ho ...

Raghav saying tum sirf accha friend hai, accha biwi....

Pallavi be like - kya karoon mai mar jaon, meri koi feelings nahi...

Yeh dono bhai behen piche pad gaye hain ladki k

When amma and Raghav slapped Keerthi Pallavi was so hurt...🥺

How Keerthi was giving pyar ki bad dua to Raghav looking into Pallavi's eyes 😠

Somebody give some space to pallavi, give her some tea or coffee....

Our girl has gone through so much today, she was subtle but you can see the hurt in her eyes...

She wants to make everything right... Let's see what she is gonna do with it....

Poor Pallavi , she married into not one ,but two dysfunctional families . Hyderabad isn't good for her metal health 😂

Also, Raghav is kinda pressurising her with his expectations. Its not even been one month into their marriage and he wants her to accept it already.

Originally posted by: Neha054

Poor Pallavi , she married into not one ,but two dysfunctional families . Hyderabad isn't good for her metal health 😂

Also, Raghav is kinda pressurising her with his expectations. Its not even been one month into their marriage and he wants her to accept it already.

Raghav ki baat man leni chahiye thi, Hyderabad chod k chale jana chahiye tha, 😂

Poor thing was looking like a deer today...

Ek Raghav Rao ko sambhalna itna mushkil hai, idhar amma aur Keerthi b RAO's ban k aagaye ....

Originally posted by: Isamreen

Raghav ki baat man leni chahiye thi, Hyderabad chod k chale jana chahiye tha, 😂

Poor thing was looking like a deer today...

Ek Raghav Rao ko sambhalna itna mushkil hai, idhar amma aur Keerthi b RAO's ban k aagaye ....

Lol, she would have benifited from that advice 😂

Raghav calls Deshmukhs dysfunctional, but his family is just as dysfunctional, if not worse lol. Deshmukhs are atleast a joint family, so it's understandable they have issues. There are only 3 Rao's and all of them are crazy 😂😂🙄

Originally posted by: Isamreen

Pallavi was all so 😳 today...

Deshmukh house me bade bade hungame dekhe but they all are not equal to Rao's today chaos...

Ek toh Pallavi ki awaz hi nahi nikal rahi thi, Keerthi and amma were so loud, screeching..

Aur Pallavi hamari nazuk kali jaisi, mujhe darr tha jab woh refree bani hui thi kahin amma aur Keerthi dhakka mar kr gira na den....

All hell break loose for her, saare k saare Rao's uthre hue ghodon ki tarah bekabu...

Pallavi d- house walon ko kitne acche se sambhal leti aur samjha leti thi but yahan woh ek toh shock dusra use samajh hi nahi aaraha k kya kare 🤦

Keerthi aur Raghav both misunderstood her...

I want them to resolve this MU as soon as possible....

Pallavi was so hurt today by Keerthi for Keerthi....🥺

When she was accusing Raghav Pallavi shayad mai Raghav ko tumse zyada acche se janti hoon hit Keerthi very had, so she assumed Pallavi had now sided with him and broken her trust..

Keerthi feeling hurt by Pallavi more than Raghav coz they were good friends and Keerthi had always supported Pallavi no matter what...

And that's what makes things worst...😔

Keerthi saying tum ab meri friend nahi tum sirf Raghav ki biwi ban chuki ho ...

Raghav saying tum sirf accha friend hai, accha biwi....

Pallavi be like - kya karoon mai mar jaon, meri koi feelings nahi...

Yeh dono bhai behen piche pad gaye hain ladki k

When amma and Raghav slapped Keerthi Pallavi was so hurt...🥺

How Keerthi was giving pyar ki bad dua to Raghav looking into Pallavi's eyes 😠

Somebody give some space to pallavi, give her some tea or coffee....

Our girl has gone through so much today, she was subtle but you can see the hurt in her eyes...

She wants to make everything right... Let's see what she is gonna do with it....

Samreen... totally agree with u today😆

She was like gai today literally😆..other 3 Rao r like bull😆

Originally posted by: Neha054

Lol, she would have benifited from that advice 😂

Raghav calls Deshmukhs dysfunctional, but his family is just as dysfunctional if not worse lol. Deshmukhs are atleast a joint family, so it's understandable they have issues. There are only 3 Rao's and all of them are crazy 😂😂🙄

Wahi toh Itne saare Deshmukh's ka itna sara drama aur sazishen aaj RAO's ki ek open behes k equal b nahi hai 🤣

Rao's are crazy but they are bhayankar straight forward... Woh Deshmukh's ki tarah samne acche aur dil me zeher nahi rakhte... Jo bhi hai open hai...

Deshmukh's peeche se war karte hain, chalen chalte hain.. But Rao's ek dusre ko maar peet kr hi baat clear karlete

💔

Originally posted by: Neha054

Poor Pallavi , she married into not one ,but two dysfunctional families . Hyderabad isn't good for her metal health 😂

Also, Raghav is kinda pressurising her with his expectations. Its not even been one month into their marriage and he wants her to accept it already.

Exactly, he needs to hold his horses a little. Unpopular opinion, but I didn't like him bringing up Vat Savitri either, even though it was a poignant moment. Knowing the circumstances of the marriage, and the mental and physical trauma Pallavi's been through in the past few weeks, he's hoping for too much too soon. And he knows it too, which is why before today he's never been offended by her not acknowledging the relationship. Khair, can't blame him also. His insecurities get the better of him. It's just a messy situation.

The girl needs a break so badly 😭😭Aaj bechari kitni hairan pareshan lag rahi this, bhai behen ke beech phas me.

Originally posted by: Isamreen

Wahi toh Itne saare Deshmukh's ka itna sara drama aur sazishen aaj RAO's ki ek open behes k equal b nahi hai 🤣

Rao's are crazy but they are bhayankar straight forward... Woh Deshmukh's ki tarah samne acche aur dil me zeher nahi rakhte... Jo bhi hai open hai...

Deshmukh's peeche se war karte hain, chalen chalte hain.. But Rao's ek dusre ko maar peet kr hi baat clear karlete

💔

For all their faults , look at how Sullu and her daughters have forgotten the real reason behind Mansi's failed wedding and United in their hatred towards Pallu and Raghu😂😂. On the other hand ,we have Rao's who happily blame each other for anything and everything 🙄

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Exactly, he needs to hold his horses a little. Unpopular opinion, but I didn't like him bringing up Vat Savitri either, even though it was a poignant moment. Knowing the circumstances of the marriage, and the mental and physical trauma Pallavi's been through in the past few weeks, he's hoping for too much too soon. And he knows it too, which is why before today he's never been offended by her not acknowledging the relationship. Khair, can't blame him also. His insecurities get the better of him. It's just a messy situation.

The girl needs a break so badly 😭😭Aaj bechari kitni hairan pareshan lag rahi this, bhai behen ke beech phas me.

Exactly ! Poor thing , she can't get a break . Keertis mistrust in Pallavi gave me more anxiety than anything else . I hope that gets resolved soon . She is the least problematic of them all ,but everyone is quick to blame her 😶.

I agree, that Vat savithri and everything else Raghav expects from her is a little too soon.