Tujhse Hai Raabta Daily Discussion Thread 41 - Page 61

Honestly, toxic raabta aside, I do understand to some extent why Kalyani wants to keep Anu with her. The doctor said it is possible for you to take care of Anu, but it's very difficult. So I do get that she would feel guilty sending Anu to a mental health facility even though it would be most practical thing to do, maybe even better for Anu. But I get it's hard cause the guilt will eat her alive, you'll always feel you can do a better job and that you are panning your responsibilities on others. Similar to many people sending aging parents that require lots of care and attention to old age homes for better treatment, its a practical decision cause between full time jobs and own children, they are not able to take care of aging parents, but it's not an easy decision, surely there will be some guilt associated that they have to send parents to old age home.

But here, I guess Kalyani feels she can do it as she's a stay at home mom, she can take of her Aai, Moksh and Gungun. But I think it's her overconfident speaking. Malhar has forgiven her now, but I'm 90% sure pregnancy will be added into the mix, and Kalyani will be a difficult spot. Cause when pregnancy is added into the mix, Malhar will no longer support this insanity.

Kalyani is overcompensating with Anu. Cause she feels that Anu has accepted sautan's daughter deep down. It's not just stepmother relationship, it's a matter of accepting the kid of your sautan, the same kid is also the reason why she lived miserably for most of her life. Not saying toxic raabta is right or realistic, but to Kalyani, she still feels the need to overcompensate with Anu. Same feeling is not there with Moksh or Malhar. In fact, feel is reversed with Malhar. Malhar is overcompensating for his actions with Anu and Kalyani as he feels guilty for his behavior. I was able to clearly understand that in today's episode. Not saying it's right though.

Originally posted by: GAYATHRINAYAR

Sorry that I went overboard

But cbs didn't give even a simple sorry from her side

I would have taken any lame excuse

Like memory loss

Kidnap or

Any stupid reason for that 5 years

Though nothing would fit with an ias

But that makes every other bhashan of love and pati jaap very Unrelatable for me just like how atomb bomb used to make us feel the same vice versa

Like hate Marraige second stupid that par even there it lasted in a week due to somewhere hidden love under the hate covering it

But 5 years of mu and punishment for.thenlove of you life needed a better explanation

If it was 6 months to on year of some silly anger it would have been much better

Malhar's 2nd hate marriage is bothersome because, the word says itself, he Di the same thing twice!

I don't give a flipping frog if it lasted much shorter than the first time, but he still did it, and after such huge claims of love for her!

And she, like an idiot, forgave him without making him pay for it.

Yes, the 5 yrs thing wasn't cool, but why would anyone who thinks her husband tried to kill her go back to them first thing after regaining their consciousness?

And as for her Anu, she had left her married to Sarthak, how was she to know people around them would manipulate their relationship and take away their child?

Now, the situation is much different, as Anu has become a child herself mentally and doesn't recognize Sarthak anymore.

Before the 5 yrs leap and even afterwards, Kalyani has shown a tremendous level of understanding/patience/trust in Malhar, let's not forget that to glorify him.

She stood by him through thick and thin during all of his months grieving for Sampu where he kept ill-treating Kalyani, then when SamThu started their plotting against him, and has never expected or gotten so much as a sorry for his treatment of her (one said while sober, I mean).

What wrong Malhar said in today's episode ki if Anupriya doen not remember anything so you will keep taking of care without paying any heed to your husband and moksh for Anupriya if they want ki vo ghar main rehkar jaldi thik ho jaye to uske husband se usko interact karayo na jisse vo uspe trust karne lage aur Sarthak uska dhyan rakh paye ans Sarthak bhi sambhal sakta hai Anupriya ko vo uska pati hai koi Dushman nahi tum kya puri jindagi aai aai karti rahogi agar tumhe lagata hai ki Anupriya ya gungun main se koi neglect feel karega to moksh ka kya use bhi apni mother ki care and love chahiye hoga not to forgot uska childhood bhi koi khas acha nahi tha he also live without his parents for 5 years aur use to abhi bhi simple life jene ka moka nahi milta kyunki uski aai adhe time to jagat kalyan main lagi rahti hai aur aaj to madam apne relation ko simply stake pe rakhne ke liye tyar thi without thinking much ki agar Malhar bhi uski tarah insensitive decisions lene laga to vo kabhi bhi moksh aur Malhar se mil bhi nahi payegi koi tumhara saath de raha hai so don't take him /her for granted

Malharji aap bewakuf the, hai aur rahenge…

Ye koi nahi badal sakta…

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Pehle kalyani ko lagta tha ki us par aise dresses suit nahi karte….

Aur ab dekho har thode din fashion show chal raha hai…

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Malmoksh scene was cute….

Malharji aaj phir smile kar rahe the aur bahut hi cute lag rahe the

pakka koi badi musibat aane wali hai

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Originally posted by: Priyapriyu

Malmoksh scene was cute….

Malharji aaj phir smile kar rahe the aur bahut hi cute lag rahe the

pakka koi badi musibat aane wali hai

😆😆😆

Exactly, yehi mujhe bhi laga..

Smile karna mana hai Malharji ke liye.. 🤣

Originally posted by: Priyapriyu

Pehle kalyani ko lagta tha ki us par aise dresses suit nahi karte….

Aur ab dekho har thode din fashion show chal raha hai…

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ab use behen ki company mil gayi hai na..

Thode din me nayi waali beti ke saat bhi karegi.. 🤣🤣🤣

Malhar jab jab smile karta 1-2 mahina

rota hai 😂😂

It's 1smile =1-2month rona 😂😂

Originally posted by: rekha_crm

Exactly, yehi mujhe bhi laga..

Smile karna mana hai Malharji ke liye.. 🤣

par aaj to hadd se jyada cute lag rahe the….

Musibat bhi hadd se jyada hogi