exctly my point you are blaming ksj for not standing up to his father when u yourself don't give your middle aged child privacyksj has given lenience to Anirudh, may be Thakuma had treated his internal injuries ( I am not finding fault in her), which ksj father felt as a shameless act. Even today after having 2 children Thakuma is not allowing Shomik and Rimjhim privacy (Bondita cannot point out this but Anirudh can definitely point out), then think before 20 30 years before what could be ksj father thinking? Still he could have given some punishment or do some pooja for that and later could have accept her. Still waiting for many secrets to get revealed