Originally posted by: Transference
Hey, this is so well articulated. 🤗
Grief, trauma and loss of life change people. For them, the world is never the same. Life is never exactly what we imagine it to be. Suffering teaches you empathy, kindness and appreciation.
As you mentioned, Shiva-the husband is nowhere near Raavi’s Bhootnath. I am not sure if you've read what I wrote in a long lost thread about projected anger and the source of leftover feelings.
I am not sure you are into K-dramas, but there is a beautiful one Secret that depicts the angle of revenge fixation and a deeply psychological attachment to the object of revenge!
Shiva’s focus of anger, hatred has always been Raavi and reflects his attachment to her at a primal level!
Is it love, no? Love is a narrow feeling to describe what he shares with Raavi.
She is definitely beyond Shiva’s Wife, Raavi!