Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #16 - Page 10

Originally posted by: Transference

Adding to everyone’s consideration set, I can tell you that all people you meet online aren't haters or blind fans.

It's funny even to think that a fictional show can lead to hatred against people.

You may or may not like an actor/show/storyline, but I guess after so much loss of life around you, one needs to get some perspective.

Life is too short to hate, too fragile to be wasted on badmouthing someone and too precious to be throwing insult to each other.

Let's not add insult to injury. The world needs healing, love and care. People online are real people with homes and families.

Let’s be as compassionate as possible to every Human being possible!

Idiotic comments lambasting actors is so uncalled for!

Absolutely! ❤️❤️

My apologies If I've unintendedly hurt anyone🙏🏻

I love this forum, so peaceful & mixed with jolly people

I have always felt that since the day Raavi attempted suicide, something in shiva changed. As transference rightly pointed out that he was tge only one terrified of what could have just happened, the others were all crying. But he only felt the pain and had the fear of losing her in his eyes. He just didn't express it, as he never does.

That kind of fear, one doesn't have for the girl he has apparently hated all his life, which brings me to another point which I felt that he has always had a soft corner for raavi which he either suppresses or fails to recognize on the pretext of his hatred for maami or anyone related to her.

How much ever he says that he hates her and wants to hurt her only by himself, the fact is that he cannot see her even in the slightest of pain. We have seen at many instances like tge hiccups she had while eating the outside food during travelling, or when a piece of wood hit her while he was cutting the logs. His methods maybe however weird, he has always been her saviour and he hides it behind his mask of anger and rudeness.

Since the day of her suicide attempt something broke in his heart and he has not been able to express his real feelings of pain and despair since then. He was again broke when she blamed him for leaving her alone amongst the goons, but again he couldn't let her know that he actually cared. He let her believe what she wanted and also let her make her wn decision, he was relieved when she said that she was in this marriage for life.

Yet again, raavi's constant reminder of his betrayal has been stinging him again and again. He ignored it on that pooja day as well.

But today all his bottled up feelings came to the surface and exploded. It was not only because she accused him of something he didn't do, but she was going to harm herself due to that misunderstanding. She didn't listen to him and endangered her life herself coz she couldn't understand his protectiveness towards her and didn't trust him.

He just couldn't bear the fear of losing her again and his emotions erupted with so much intensity. He had been culminating these feelings for a very mong time. She risking her life for that MU was tge trigger for him. As he said he can bear anything but not the accusation that he'd leave her. His feelings were intense coz they have been hidden and suppressed for long.

Lastly, I'd hate the CVs for giving all the credit to Dhara for the beautiful relationship that they are going to have in future as it has got nothing to do with her, but only and only with these two pure souls and their raw emotions.

Furthermore, I enjoy the company of all you people. I look forward to our rants, giggling, analysis, giddy headed jokes and AU shiviland Drama 😆

Thank you people . 🤗

Originally posted by: Transference

Furthermore, I enjoy the company of all you people. I look forward to our rants, giggling, analysis, giddy headed jokes and AU shiviland Drama 😆

Thank you people . 🤗

Do we need a yaadon ki baraat here😆

on a serious note...this is one of the best forums i have been....love you all so much❤️

Originally posted by: Transference

Adding to everyone’s consideration set, I can tell you that all people you meet online aren't haters or blind fans.

It's funny even to think that a fictional show can lead to hatred against people.

You may or may not like an actor/show/storyline, but I guess after so much loss of life around you, one needs to get some perspective.

Life is too short to hate, too fragile to be wasted on badmouthing someone and too precious to be throwing insult at each other.

Let's not add insult to injury. The world needs healing, love and care. People online are real people with homes and families.

Let’s be as compassionate to every Human being possible!

Idiotic comments lambasting actors is so uncalled for!

This is so true ❤️

I love this forum so much. It's so refreshing and you guys are so mature 😍

Originally posted by: Sakmen

I have always felt that since the day Raavi attempted suicide, something in shiva changed. As transference rightly pointed out that he was tge only one terrified of what could have just happened, the others were all crying. But he only felt the pain and had the fear of losing her in his eyes. He just didn't express it, as he never does.

That kind of fear, one doesn't have for the girl he has apparently hated all his life, which brings me to another point which I felt that he has always had a soft corner for raavi which he either suppresses or fails to recognize on the pretext of his hatred for maami or anyone related to her.

How much ever he says that he hates her and wants to hurt her only by himself, the fact is that he cannot see her even in the slightest of pain. We have seen at many instances like tge hiccups she had while eating the outside food during travelling, or when a piece of wood hit her while he was cutting the logs. His methods maybe however weird, he has always been her saviour and he hides it behind his mask of anger and rudeness.

Since the day of her suicide attempt something broke in his heart and he has not been able to express his real feelings of pain and despair since then. He was again broke when she blamed him for leaving her alone amongst the goons, but again he couldn't let her know that he actually cared. He let her believe what she wanted and also let her make her wn decision, he was relieved when she said that she was in this marriage for life.

Yet again, raavi's constant reminder of his betrayal has been stinging him again and again. He ignored it on that pooja day as well.

But today all his bottled up feelings came to the surface and exploded. It was not only because she accused him of something he didn't do, but she was going to harm herself due to that misunderstanding. She didn't listen to him and endangered her life herself coz she couldn't understand his protectiveness towards her and didn't trust him.

He just couldn't bear the fear of losing her again and his emotions erupted with so much intensity. He had been culminating these feelings for a very mong time. She risking her life for that MU was tge trigger for him. As he said he can bear anything but not the accusation that he'd leave her. His feelings were intense coz they have been hidden and suppressed for long.

Lastly, I'd hate the CVs for giving all the credit to Dhara for the beautiful relationship that they are going to have in future as it has got nothing to do with her, but only and only with these two pure souls and their raw emotions.

Hey, this is so well articulated. 🤗

Grief, trauma and loss of life change people. For them, the world is never the same. Life is never exactly what we imagine it to be. Suffering teaches you empathy, kindness and appreciation.

As you mentioned, Shiva-the husband is nowhere near Raavi’s Bhootnath. I am not sure if you've read what I wrote in a long lost thread about projected anger and the source of leftover feelings.

I am not sure you are into K-dramas, but there is a beautiful one Secret that depicts the angle of revenge fixation and a deeply psychological attachment to the object of revenge!

Shiva’s focus of anger, hatred has always been Raavi and reflects his attachment to her at a primal level!

Is it love, no? Love is a narrow feeling to describe what he shares with Raavi.

She is definitely beyond Shiva’s Wife, Raavi!

We all need a Yadon ki Baraat moment here 🤣

Originally posted by: Sakmen

I have always felt that since the day Raavi attempted suicide, something in shiva changed. As transference rightly pointed out that he was tge only one terrified of what could have just happened, the others were all crying. But he only felt the pain and had the fear of losing her in his eyes. He just didn't express it, as he never does.

That kind of fear, one doesn't have for the girl he has apparently hated all his life, which brings me to another point which I felt that he has always had a soft corner for raavi which he either suppresses or fails to recognize on the pretext of his hatred for maami or anyone related to her.

How much ever he says that he hates her and wants to hurt her only by himself, the fact is that he cannot see her even in the slightest of pain. We have seen at many instances like tge hiccups she had while eating the outside food during travelling, or when a piece of wood hit her while he was cutting the logs. His methods maybe however weird, he has always been her saviour and he hides it behind his mask of anger and rudeness.

Since the day of her suicide attempt something broke in his heart and he has not been able to express his real feelings of pain and despair since then. He was again broke when she blamed him for leaving her alone amongst the goons, but again he couldn't let her know that he actually cared. He let her believe what she wanted and also let her make her wn decision, he was relieved when she said that she was in this marriage for life.

Yet again, raavi's constant reminder of his betrayal has been stinging him again and again. He ignored it on that pooja day as well.

But today all his bottled up feelings came to the surface and exploded. It was not only because she accused him of something he didn't do, but she was going to harm herself due to that misunderstanding. She didn't listen to him and endangered her life herself coz she couldn't understand his protectiveness towards her and didn't trust him.

He just couldn't bear the fear of losing her again and his emotions erupted with so much intensity. He had been culminating these feelings for a very mong time. She risking her life for that MU was tge trigger for him. As he said he can bear anything but not the accusation that he'd leave her. His feelings were intense coz they have been hidden and suppressed for long.

Lastly, I'd hate the CVs for giving all the credit to Dhara for the beautiful relationship that they are going to have in future as it has got nothing to do with her, but only and only with these two pure souls and their raw emotions.

This is such a beautiful take, I didn't think of it.he expressed his emotions not only because he was hurt, but because she was about to hurt herself due to the misunderstanding.she was not allowing him to protect her due to it.🥺🥺

Going to watch the scene again 🤧🤧🤧

What are these guys doing to me???🥺🥺

Originally posted by: Transference

We all need a Yadon ki Baraat moment here 🤣

Yeah we all need someone to play "Yaado ki baraat" when we're having heartfelt convos here🤣

Originally posted by: Transference

We all need a Yadon ki Baraat moment here 🤣

Yesss please 😂😂