Imlie Written Updates 07 Jun 2021 - Page 25

Originally posted by: jojo_mojo

I hope he is not😆

But in suicide he happily believed it was in her guilt of KC. He was not responsible. Pata chala she lied all along and was suffering because of him. He might feel guilty na.

Na I dont thnk so. All he may feel guilty about was that he did not listen to Imlie when she specifically told him that Malini loves only him. His guilt even today is more along the lines that he did wrong with Malini by marrying her, despite being married to Imlie. He feels he got her into this mess, which could have been avoided had he told the truth before they got married. That is the guilt that will manifest itself as being protective towards Malini, as he feels she should not have to deal with pain again if he can help it.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Na I dont thnk so. All he may feel guilty about was that he did not listen to Imlie when she specifically told him that Malini loves only him. His guilt even today is more along the lines that he did wrong with Malini by marrying her, despite being married to Imlie. He feels he got her into this mess, which could have been avoided had he told the truth before they got married. That is the guilt that will manifest itself as being protective towards Malini, as he feels she should not have to deal with pain again if he can help it.

I hope so. Also by then if Malini KC are truly a couple that will help - unless Malini KC break up and causes Adi Imli more guilt :( This woman is here to stay...we will not get much peace...unless Adi and Imli desist the urge to prop her up at evry step. Makers seem incapable of following other tracks revolving Imlie - like college, her growth - the only thing they are focussing on is the Malini saga :(

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

aur kya she was kinda looking mariyal until adi said he is finding the whole thing ajeeb whih as you said was extra ajeeb and i would be shocked if adi wouldn't have foudn that ajeeb but imlie got a new ray of hope and she got her excitememnt back ke she can delay a bit more and adi was liek stop the bahanas and he was right at that.. again as i have discussed with ya earlier they need to address these issues ke agar comitment phobia hai toh kyon why does she jump at hum akele hi theek hai and gets so uneasy when the tiem starts coming near..

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Baap re, had to scroll through so much spam to read your response here. This whole thread is just filled with spam and strange nitpicking now 😆.

I didn’t realize logon ka issue is that Adi doesn’t get to be “touchy feely” with Imlie like KC-Malini ka instant chipkoing 😆. These are the expectations people have from this show now? They want it to be another IPK? 😆

And all this weird hoopla over Adi ka one sorry on Imlie’s behalf? 😆 When she acts like a kid, how else is one to treat her? She was busy being hyper chipmunk over Didi and Didi ka aashiq, and Adi was just looking for an exit from the cringefest 😆…..yeh kisi ne nahin note kiya that he was treating himself and Imlie like a unit in that scene?

And why is Adi alone being scapegoated for Imlie’s insecurity issues? Imlie ko abhi hi yaad aa raha hai that her husband got married to someone else? 😆 And btw when she did the mahaan kaam of facilitating the second marriage too? Then spending SO long pushing him to be with Malini…. Now conveniently people want to give her a free pass that she is justified in feeling betrayed if Adi doesn’t come to rescue her one time? 😕😆

You don’t get to claim the mantle of naive insecurity when you spend so long pushing someone towards someone else. If they want to justify Imlie’s security, then she needs to stop putting on the act of being ok with Adi having a past with Malini, much of which she herself recently facilitated with his marriage. Now she wants to act like Adi betrayed her when he kept her privy to everything.

If she wanted to confront Adi about the bigamy, shouldn’t have spent so long trying to play up the faith and understanding. It renders their whole relationship bullshit then.

Again we come back to the same point that Imlie is being given a free pass for her escapism and hypocrisies while making it Adi’s fault alone that he can’t resolve the Malini related side of his life😆….as if Imlie isn’t ACTIVELY making him go the extra mile for Malini most of the time either 🤷‍♀️😂

Originally posted by: AreYaar

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Baap re, had to scroll through so much spam to read your response here. This whole thread is just filled with spam and strange nitpicking now 😆.

I didn’t realize logon ka issue is that Adi doesn’t get to be “touchy feely” with Imlie like KC-Malini ka instant chipkoing 😆. These are the expectations people have from this show now? They want it to be another IPK? 😆 oh ho again hum kya samjhe the great ipk and how that is the benchmark the standard for TV. Hilarious that one of the most hallow shows ever in history of ITV is considered the bar and the level to be compared for goodness sake even gul has made far better shows herself other then that but nope we are still stuck at some random hormonal nonsense being considered the ultimate and 200 episodes baad bhi nahi samjhe ke this show isn't anything like ipk caz well to quote the makers they are done with cliché and done with that kind of romance and all and esp not for this show and they want to show a mature and realistically approached story and well isn't this the very reason why sabka faV GM also took it haha didn't he also said ke he wouldn't do the TV wala dupatta flying kind of nonsense and don't see himself fit into that and his reason is also caz this show treatment is more like web series. Never would i like to see them all over each other doing the nonsense like malini was doing in mazaak or seriously it looked just sooooooooo bad and adi imlie are just not that couple at all even in fun their fun and banter is whole different level.i would never want them them be degraded to that level and the audience doesn't like the banawati adi imlie either hence the trp for the great lollypop

And all this weird hoopla over Adi ka one sorry on Imlie’s behalf? 😆 When she acts like a kid, how else is one to treat her? She was busy being hyper chipmunk over Didi and Didi ka aashiq, and Adi was just looking for an exit from the cringefest 😆…..yeh kisi ne nahin note kiya that he was treating himself and Imlie like a unit in that scene? SHhhh woh dekhne ke liye again choti si baat ke aage dekhna padta hai and mere tere se aage bhadhna padega.. yahan unit kisko chahiye sabko har cheez main mera tera ki aadat hai just like the great didi used to do it isi liye toh sabki fav hai. Woh toh hum hi hain who seee the unit vibes and uspe khush hote hain warna how dare below the standard adi consider imlie as his and them being a team ek sorry bol dene se he thought of her as some nuissance Shaan main gustakhi ho gayi who gave him the permission to be the adult and mature one in an awkward situations and who allowed him to know imlie and her nature that most people find ajeeb In shehar and disrespect her on basis of that.. ab agar adi is apologizing on her behalf to spare her the embarrassment woh bhi adi hi galat hai. . Ab imlie ajeeb si shipping karti rahe wahan and yeh spectator bane rahein wohi theek hota caz woh didi the great hain next to wohi hona tha didi nahi toh KC Insult karta hi enthu cutlet imlie ko but adi excusing themselves is too big a deal and unacceptable and agar chup karke chala jaata toh bhi aitraaz aata..

And why is Adi alone being scapegoated for Imlie’s insecurity issues? Imlie ko abhi hi yaad aa raha hai that her husband got married to someone else? 😆 And btw when she did the mahaan kaam of facilitating the second marriage too? Then spending SO long pushing him to be with Malini…. Now conveniently people want to give her a free pass that she is justified in feeling betrayed if Adi doesn’t come to rescue her one time? 😕😆 uski baali Umar ka dosh hai sab yahan sab jaayaz hai as long as imlie is making blunders caz again let's forget ke this is the girl who has shown wisdom beyond her years on so many occasions but ab she is being made a scapegoat for the convenience but woh bhi theek hai caz she happens to be the girl and unki saari galtiyaan maaf ho hi jaati hai just like didi ki kabhi admit ki hi nahi jaati.. about adi failing one time well not like she values everything he didi every other time as such. Imlie has failed multiple times heck she is also not valuing the very basic core of sharing everything with him like he does and tells her straight sab she is allowed to hide too but problem adi hi hai and he isn't allowed human mistakes na

You don’t get to claim the mantle of naive insecurity when you spend so long pushing someone towards someone else. If they want to justify Imlie’s security, then she needs to stop putting on the act of being ok with Adi having a past with Malini, much of which she herself recently facilitated with his marriage. Now she wants to act like Adi betrayed her when he kept her privy to everything. For all of this I only have to say it is rather convenient na she wants to have it both ways jab mann kia jealous ho gaye insecure ho gaye dhokebaaz keh lia jab mann kia nahi but sharing is caring or just go to didi period and jab mann kia toh naraaz biwi ban gaye. they will want to keep her in this flipper zone but again addressing that is not an option caz we are supposed to forget as the fault always lies in Aditya not being able to make her understand his love. I swear to GOD idk what else is the man supposed to do baat karke dikha dia multiple times actions karke dikha dia ab kya sach main marr jaaye. I do not get he is forcing her narrative just caz he is giving and ultimatum uhhhh Iam sorry but after itna kuch that seems only the most logical thing for me ke bhai phir choose kar lo I have tried to samjhao ab choice tumhari how is that forcing her .. if he really matters then come if not move on how is he forcing her then isn't the choice in her hands fully like always.. people forget imlie has been the decision maker in this relationship for most part just caz adi akkad ke ghussa dikha deta hai the assumption and common belief is he is making the choice when it is totally opposite has always been like that lol he always leaves it in her hand

If she wanted to confront Adi about the bigamy, shouldn’t have spent so long trying to play up the faith and understanding. It renders their whole relationship bullshit then.

Again we come back to the same point that Imlie is being given a free pass for her escapism and hypocrisies while making it Adi’s fault alone that he can’t resolve the Malini related side of his life😆….as if Imlie isn’t ACTIVELY making him go the extra mile for Malini most of the time either 🤷‍♀️😂

Oh yaar itne saare logic wale sawaal ek saath you know yahan sabko amnesia hai you know na nitpicking is the new norm for the sake of random spam . Nobody seems to remember all these things imlie and adi have done in the past simply caz we have some made up versions of the show based on assumptions and pre conceived notions and not what happens in the show.. all the justifications caz adi happens to be the aadmi and woh bechare can never be doing enough to buy the security and trust jitna bhi kar lein kuch na kuch reh jaata hai.. adi toh abhi ohir bhi start hai again sorry to bring but sso ki itni grand arc of redemption 550 episodes ke baad bhi log na samjhe kabhi and aaj bhi bring the great shoe argument in anything and completely forget what started that whole thing toh adi toh abhi bacha hai🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Na I dont thnk so. All he may feel guilty about was that he did not listen to Imlie when she specifically told him that Malini loves only him. His guilt even today is more along the lines that he did wrong with Malini by marrying her, despite being married to Imlie. He feels he got her into this mess, which could have been avoided had he told the truth before they got married. That is the guilt that will manifest itself as being protective towards Malini, as he feels she should not have to deal with pain again if he can help it.

But he did tell Malini before they got married, only her reaction was so extreme that when she begged him to say it was a lie and following that daft doctor's advice, he backtracked and said it was a bad joke. If he had ignored the doctor who didn't know Malini as well as Adi did, then all this might have been avoided.

I am surprised people think that the KC thing is temporary. I would have thought that he has come into Malini's life as a permanent relation once they get in tune with each other, even though their personalities are different. Sooner the better so we can concentrate on Adilie.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Oh yaar itne saare logic wale sawaal ek saath you know yahan sabko amnesia hai you know na nitpicking is the new norm for the sake of random spam . Nobody seems to remember all these things imlie and adi have done in the past simply caz we have some made up versions of the show based on assumptions and pre conceived notions and not what happens in the show.. all the justifications caz adi happens to be the aadmi and woh bechare can never be doing enough to buy the security and trust jitna bhi kar lein kuch na kuch reh jaata hai.. adi toh abhi ohir bhi start hai again sorry to bring but sso ki itni grand arc of redemption 550 episodes ke baad bhi log na samjhe kabhi and aaj bhi bring the great shoe argument in anything and completely forget what started that whole thing toh adi toh abhi bacha hai🤷‍♀️

Lol chalo nahin puchenge yeh sawaal yahaan phir 😆.

To me personally, Imlie is not justified in trying to have it both ways and you can’t pin the relationship issues all on Adi, especially at this point when he is the one more actively trying to atleast get to the baseline of revealing that Imlie is his wife. We can debate the issue of whether his approach is enough but given the fact that Imlie is actively lying to him and trying to play mahaan doesn’t make me feel she is justified in blaming him. He is still atleast trying to honestly act on what he feels. He isn’t trying to have it both ways as of now but Imlie is. And that is why it’s making their relationship look derailed right now.

As I said before also, understanding is their cornerstone. Without that, there will be nothing 🤷‍♀️.

Originally posted by: Gwiwer

But he did tell Malini before they got married, only her reaction was so extreme that when she begged him to say it was a lie and following that daft doctor's advice, he backtracked and said it was a bad joke. If he had ignored the doctor who didn't know Malini as well as Adi did, then all this might have been avoided.

I am surprised people think that the KC thing is temporary. I would have thought that he has come into Malini's life as a permanent relation once they get in tune with each other, even though their personalities are different. Sooner the better so we can concentrate on Adilie.

Given the way they’ve introduced his character and the level of casting, he will likely betray Malini in the long term and she will be victimized in the story again. For Malini, all roads always lead back to “7 saal ka rishta with Adityaaa”. Any reprieve Adilie get will be temporary only 😆….since they’ve vowed to spend their lives babysitting Malini 🤷‍♀️😂.

Anyways let’s see if the makers give us the temporary reprieve atleast. They seem more interested in only focusing on Malini even now, that’s why it’s irritating.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol chalo nahin puchenge yeh sawaal yahaan phir 😆.

To me personally, Imlie is not justified in trying to have it both ways and you can’t pin the relationship issues all on Adi, especially at this point when he is the one more actively trying to atleast get to the baseline of revealing that Imlie is his wife. We can debate the issue of whether his approach is enough but given the fact that Imlie is actively lying to him and trying to play mahaan doesn’t make me feel she is justified in blaming him. He is still atleast trying to honestly act on what he feels. He isn’t trying to have it both ways as of now but Imlie is. And that is why it’s making their relationship looking detailed right now.

As I said before also, understanding is their cornerstone. Without that, there will be nothing 🤷‍♀️.

Sadly who values honesty and sachai? Jab twisted games hi appreciate hone hain...isi liye toh adi majority ki samjh se hi baahar hai caz woh baatein karta hai and na sirf karta hai unpe stick bhi karta hai he is seedhi baat no bakwaas and jab try karta hai bakwaas ki toh usse suit bhi nahi karta..

Honesty that openness that sab share karna has been their usp the pro but ab agar wohi nahi rakhni imlie ko khul ke share hi nahi karna what is holding back and only has to give bakwaas reasons to yeah sadly they become another one of those run of the mill jodis.. the sad part is imlie doesn't even have a clear vamp blackmailing and all that jazz too she doesn't even have that much of a cliche reason to hide things. She claims adi is her pyaar her sab kuch adi has told her in clear shabd ke kuch parda nahi hai kisi tarah ka that this very thing he appreciates toh idk why can't she just grab his hand and be like suno meri baat plz.. and atleast share the basics .. adi has now countless times has raised this question to her too ke why she thinks she is alone in this rishta? That this isn't her call alone that it is his as much as hers that there are 2 people in rishta she doesn't have to keep putting him and their rishta down to be some mahaan hasti and insult him yet imlie doesn't bother sharing her actual insecurities.. why can't she bother to atleast give him the very basic ke darr kyon hai agar hai what is holding her back.. why is she finding the excuses why can't she see themselves as a unit.. when has adi denied her the shoulder and ear to listen she will have to share itna with him for him to work on these issues na caz whatever basic understanding he has is not enough and only going to create misunderstandings as it is he thinks she doesn't consider him anything and well he isn't that far off with it either kabhi daya bolti hai kabhi dhoka kabhi bolti hai ke main hoon hi nahi bas didi hi sab hai what is he supposed to think then.. imlie ko bhi kuch step.lene padega for them to resolve the issues basic being sharing ke why is she always in this ke bas mera akele ka rishta hai and rishta hai and rishte wale ki kadar nahi hai ..ab adi aur kaise pooche kaunsi zabaan hai jo yeh samjhegi. What will it take for her to do basic vishwaas ..again I find it amusing that she had that vishwaas on him before when they were in denial kitna haq se dikha deti thinber faith in him but ab ajeeb hi zone main hai

Bas convenience ke liye imlie ko dumb blind bana do jab yehi ladki sab bata deti thi isse and could share sab kuch ek dum flow main but ab randomly she has to suppress with no clarity of thought atlesst his suppression earlier made sense had a clear reasoning they Don't bother giving the audience that basic reasoning of imlie ki flips roz ek naya reason assume karo and then that too gets justified amazing

+1000 To all the discussion about Imlie nosediving as a character AY & Naadan. We have been trying to figure her out since the contrived BS is dhokebaaz misunderstanding.

Sometimes we extrapolate it to her insecurity issue, sometimes to guilt, sometimes to her not being ready to actively start a married life. But CVs are not bothered to show what her issue is. Clarity of thoughts is lacking for me to support her one way or another. This as we have discussed before is to prop up Didi. No other reason is there for keeping her in this limbo of confusion.

Why Adi is being blamed for her lack of clarity or stand? He is clear in his understanding, thoughts & actions with her since day 1. He tells her what he actually wants to happen. He confesses his feelings to her again & again. He has been even buried alive for his injustice against her by SK & has explained himself & been accepted by even SK & Meethi. Now what more can he do if Imlie is not telling him what her actual problem is. He has asked her about that as well many times. But she just uses Didi ki happiness ka excuse. So I do not find any issue if he gets frustrated & gives her an ultimatum to select what she actually wants.

Imlie's naivety & young age cannot be used to excuse her wishy-washy behaviour. If she cannot trust BS's love declarations for her then she has to speak it out loud & ask him those difficult questions. She has asked him far more difficult questions & questioned his behaviour earlier when he actually had not given her any haq. Now when he has given her the haq to ask anything she is not asking him the questions. That is just stupidity.

My conclusion is that writers are deliberately keeping her in this zone to keep Adi-Imlie separated & prop up Didi. That is it.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Given the way they’ve introduced his character and the level of casting, he will likely betray Malini in the long term and she will be victimized in the story again. For Malini, all roads always lead back to “7 saal ka rishta with Adityaaa”. Any reprieve Adilie get will be temporary only 😆….since they’ve vowed to spend their lives babysitting Malini 🤷‍♀️😂.

Anyways let’s see if the makers give us the temporary reprieve atleast. They seem more interested in only focusing on Malini even now, that’s why it’s irritating.

🤫🤫🤫🤫😶 bhool jao ab toh director ji agreed on renaming the show to malini too.. aur banao isse ego ka issue with the makers.. any respite we could have gotten ab toh usko bhi bhool jao.. this show was doing so well jab tak it was under the radar and random SM gangs haven't noticed it and joined them uske baad sab crusaders have only been doing harm since we got the hug in PD and uske baad some really cute sequences post holi tab se SM.hype badh gaya and show ka kachra ho gaya caz they feel they have to keep everyone happy...eventually yeh SM and naarebaazi kha jaati hai ache shows ko bhi