Imlie Written Updates 05 Jun 2021 - Page 31

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Rewatched and hated the first half. Do not care too much about the second half. KC is bad. Maybe a tad bit better than Nishant but bad overall. The comedy was good but that is ST at work.

So please tell me I’m not the only one repulsed by this bizarre memento keeping of the ring. That ring needs to be dissolved for all it’s worth or given away. What is with this I will never forget the importance of the rishta or I will not take Malini’s place. Bhool gayi hai kya Imlie ki she was the one who Aditya married first? Malini never had any place to begin with for Imlie to even consider that she might end up replacing her. Her age or her insecurity is no longer a shield that can be used in place of her obtuseness. She does not want to live in reality.

And what is with Aditya bringing Imlie between his and Malini’s relationship all of a sudden? Kuch episode pehle toh bol raha tha ki Imlie has nothing to do with the breakdown of his relationship with Malini? Are the makers so short of ideas that they need to drag down even the last bit of respite we had down the drain?

Aparna behaved how AY thought she would. Nishant behaved how I thought he would. All in all, no one is going to believe Malini and she will suck up every bit of footage there is in the coming weeks.

As far as Imlie’s realization is concerned, I do not even know if I would want to see it or not. Things are just too weird on the show right now 🤷🏻‍♀️

Well initally I was repulsed with the entire ring kand, but decided to go with what you said initially, Adi just asked her if she wants a ring and did not specify if she wanted Malini's ring (I may be completely wrong but I am sticking with this for my sanity). As for keeping it as a momento, I feel this was the used to show that Imlie is evolved enough to accept Malini's position in Adi's life as his long time friend and one time great love, without feeling threatened, this laying the foundation for her interference in ther lives further down the line. While I know that Imilie will regret this choice when she sees just how much Malini will be involved in their married life, this is the way of the original which honestly cannot be ignored as that is the arc they are going for.

+Bold - I also had the same complaint, but then I remembered the scene after AM fight during the sindoor saga, and Adi mentioned that he is the one who is at fault for the breakdown of AM marriage. Today also he said that they are divorcing because he fell in love with Imlie, which is true. Also like he had said in the earlier scene I mentioned, he wanted to take this opportunity to yell the truth to everyone, so that he could finally move on from all the lies that was weighing him down all this time. So when Malini took the blame on herself, he feels that he has to manage another lie when he was so close to finally coming out if this Chakravyuh. So that was why he was mad at Malini for making this about herself rather than just telling the truth and closing the chapter correctly.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I understand your point regarding the mundane things in a relationship but I don't think it applies in Adi-Imlie's case.

Their relationship is not only built on high-voltage life and death situations....they've had many convos about mundane, simple things....they've lived in the same house for a while now even if not as husband-wife....so it's hardly like they haven't shared small/everyday things with each other in that time. They've talked about all manner of random things, she's shared her random songs and life theories with him too.....

The real test of a relationship is being able to show your unvarnished side to each other daily and still being able to keep the bond going.....these two have already had that for a while.

Sadly though the writers seem determined to dilute them long term to prop up Malini. My sense now more and more is that Imlie being kept in this vague zone is also a deliberate choice from the writers.....they will never show her truly trusting/believing in Adi....she may say it on the surface but never really believe it with conviction inside....it's a flimsy trust that will ultimately be insecure about the very Didi she claims to be acting mahaan for😆.......what a sad waste that's going to end up being if all Imlie ends up being is another insecure wife who will doubt her husband's love for her.....lol so both wives will keep doubting the validity of his love for them for different reasons.....lol Malini is like he never showed this much concern for her in 7 years.....meanwhile Imlie is like he could never really love her cuz she isn't polished and beautiful like Malini....waah kya story hai. 🤔

Matlab rishton ki samajh kisi mein bhi nahin hai par mahaan sabko banna hai.....lol they are all morons in different ways at this point and there is no one person trying to rise above the fray.

AY ji aap toh give up kar gaye. Somehow I don't think Imlie is going to doubt the validity of her love going forward, as she can see what he is doing for her on all fronts. She is going to have issues later in accepting the level of interference from Malini as her sister and Adi's "friend". I am hoping that they show her finally accepting that she deserves Adi's love, as that is where the problem currently lies. But the way things have been going, your prediction may very well come true and I will be sorely disappointed at the wasted opportunity to show something genuinely progressive and realistic in ITV apart from the miyan biwi sauten relationships that have been shown countless times before.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL I don't want to be the Debby Downer here but mujhe ab wohi sab signs nazar aa rahe hain for now😆

Otherwise why would we be shown Imlie ki insecurities randomly but never be shown anyone addressing them dhang se? Not even Adi? I know everyone here is like Adi got more impressed by Imlie ke mahaan vichaar on wanting him to keep gehre rishte with Malini ki nishaani, but I would say both Adi and the audience are deluding themselves if they take what Imlie is saying at face value😆.

Since they never bothered addressing Imlie's insecurities in real time, she now sounds quite hollow when she gives gyaan on how she has no issues with AM ka rishta, she has her own space etc. etc.....cuz it's just very hard to buy her stances given that we've seen she doesn't really understand either her own relationship with Adi or AM ka rishta with each other.....otherwise she wouldn't keep jumping to feeling betrayed so easily. She does operate under the default assumption that Malini was Adi's choice so deep down it must have been made soch samajh ke and Imlie is the "forced" element in his life......whatever Adi says to clarify is not enough for Imlie but she never admits that....instead they go on these side tangents of being impressed by ring related mahaanta😕😆

I'm feeling disillusioned cuz I felt the connect with Adi-Imlie over the fact that they communicated, talked through everything.....that is what I thought set them apart from the failures of the AM relationship which lacked communication ability......sadly now, the writers seem determined to show an Imlie who doesn't want to communicate honestly with Adi, feed him the impression that she is fine with his past but later on he will likely feel hurt when he realizes again that Imlie has never really trusted him but goes along with saying it in the moment.

In the need to "respect" his past with Malini which supposedly was all about same soch, same habits....they've reduced Adi-Imlie to just a twist of fate😆.....Adi made a few mentions recently of how Imlie had changed him and brought about a happier Adi....but it will never fully register on Imlie I guess cuz Adi does still maintain he was happy with Malini for 7 years😆.....so they will keep looping back to that point ki Imlie is justified in thinking he does really love Malini only whenever he shows concern for her aage as a friend also😆.

This is why they don't really show Adi-Imlie ever talking about trust or Imlie ever clearly saying she trusts him.....cuz she doesn't. And I'm not sure she ever will. So dunno how they intend to build this relationship😆.....I guess pura time Didi se gehra rishta nibhaane mein chala jaayega toh yeh khud ke aapsi trust ke baare mein sochne ka waise bhi kaise time milega.....lol and worst case scenario bhi hai.....Didi the great will teach Imlie about "trust"😕🤣

Adi did get impressed by imlie's mahaan vichaar. But as I said in some post, Imlie kehti kuch hai, sochti kuch hai and karti kuch aur hi hai. Imlie's thoughts in general are mahaan. That's what she expressed today. When Aditya is showing that he loves her through his actions, mahaan vichaar come easy to her. She is fine with whatever tokens he wants to keep; She identifies tokens as just that - tokens.

But any slight clue that Adi might favour didi in his heart,she gets jealous and feels betrayed. And she is incapable of handling the intensity of her feelings. So her response seems to be flight.

I think the problem here is that Imlie can never share her weaknesses. She is used to handling these feeling alone. Its always Aditya who identifies them and supports her.

Adi for now does not seem to have any idea of whats brewing inside imlie. He is in his happy world that as soon as KC shows up he can start his happily ever after. So he is in for a rude awakening 😆

Re- contrived communication gap: Adi and Imlie's relationship was too perfect. If the keep maintaining that perfection story mein conflict khatam hojayega i guess😆. So they have buried both the characters in a mountain of guilt and just as they are showing signs of over coming it and communicating with each other, didi's boyfriend issues are going to be revealed and they will become six feet under where they already stood😆

Originally posted by: jojo_mojo

Adi did get impressed by imlie's mahaan vichaar. But as I said in some post, Imlie kehti kuch hai, sochti kuch hai and karti kuch aur hi hai. Imlie's thoughts in general are mahaan. That's what she expressed today. When Aditya is showing that he loves her through his actions, mahaan vichaar come easy to her. She is fine with whatever tokens he wants to keep; She identifies tokens as just that - tokens.

But any slight clue that Adi might favour didi in his heart,she gets jealous and feels betrayed. And she is incapable of handling the intensity of her feelings. So her response seems to be flight.

I think the problem here is that Imlie can never share her weaknesses. She is used to handling these feeling alone. Its always Aditya who identifies them and supports her.

Adi for now does not seem to have any idea of whats brewing inside imlie. He is in his happy world that as soon as KC shows up he can start his happily ever after. So he is in for a rude awakening 😆

Re- contrived communication gap: Adi and Imlie's relationship was too perfect. If the keep maintaining that perfection story mein conflict khatam hojayega i guess😆. So they have buried both the characters in a mountain of guilt and just as they are showing signs of over coming it and communicating with each other, didi's boyfriend issues are going to be revealed and they will become six feet under where they already stood😆

Loved this. So true. I feel in their journey towards each other, they have only just started dealing with regular issues that couples face which is bringing the conflict in the story. Imlie is just now dealing with the reality of having a husband in her life, to whom she will have to share her feelings and maintain an equal relationship, where she will also be equally accountable for the problems that come up as well. She had never dealt with it before, as in her mind, she was to nibhao this relationship alone, with Adi always being Malini didi's husband. This is like how you deal with someone else's kid. You know that at the end of the day, that kid's responsibility will be their parents' and you can play or connect all you want, but end of the day it will go back to its parents. For Imlie, Adi was always to go back to Malini at the end of everything and she will mantain the relationship from her end how she wants. But with Adi challenging that status quo, Imlie is going to have to wake up and smell the coffee. I still have hope for their convos, and will do so till the end.

Originally posted by: jojo_mojo

Adi did get impressed by imlie's mahaan vichaar. But as I said in some post, Imlie kehti kuch hai, sochti kuch hai and karti kuch aur hi hai. Imlie's thoughts in general are mahaan. That's what she expressed today. When Aditya is showing that he loves her through his actions, mahaan vichaar come easy to her. She is fine with whatever tokens he wants to keep; She identifies tokens as just that - tokens.

But any slight clue that Adi might favour didi in his heart,she gets jealous and feels betrayed. And she is incapable of handling the intensity of her feelings. So her response seems to be flight.

I think the problem here is that Imlie can never share her weaknesses. She is used to handling these feeling alone. Its always Aditya who identifies them and supports her.

Adi for now does not seem to have any idea of whats brewing inside imlie. He is in his happy world that as soon as KC shows up he can start his happily ever after. So he is in for a rude awakening 😆

Re- contrived communication gap: Adi and Imlie's relationship was too perfect. If the keep maintaining that perfection story mein conflict khatam hojayega i guess😆. So they have buried both the characters in a mountain of guilt and just as they are showing signs of over coming it and communicating with each other, didi's boyfriend issues are going to be revealed and they will become six feet under where they already stood😆

@RED actually, Cvs used her feeling bad after seeing Adini together to make her realise her feelings for Aditya. She was never jealous but definitely felt hurt on seeing them together.

Only time she felt betrayed by him was when AC told her Adini r going on honeymoon. That time she was at her most vulnerable state. T ladies as good as blamed her for Adi n Malini's problem. Tripathi who are family to her literally outcasted her. BS ws her only support that time. When she learnt he too had like abandoned her its human to feel betrayed.

@Green Agree. She mostly tries to hide or fi d solution on her own. She has learnt that from childhood may be..

Imilie.. I feel is trapped from all sides. She does Love Adi but she also loves his family n dont want to hurt them or become reason of making them unhappy. Other than that bcoz of righteous nature she does not want to be reason of Malini's unhappiness n build her own happiness on it. Other than that She has her insecurities too, Tripati Ladies has like ingrained in her that Malini is best for Adi. N also we cant forget for 1st 60-70 episodes how she has seens Adi N Malini were in front of her n on top of that Adi's hum mun ke the or rahenge.. also her mother's story must also have affect on her. I really feel bad for her..I sometimes her Dd jaap is also justified. I know she has to decide what she actually wants to do. But it happens in real life ,we do go sometimes thru such phasr

Originally posted by: jojo_mojo

Adi did get impressed by imlie's mahaan vichaar. But as I said in some post, Imlie kehti kuch hai, sochti kuch hai and karti kuch aur hi hai. Imlie's thoughts in general are mahaan. That's what she expressed today. When Aditya is showing that he loves her through his actions, mahaan vichaar come easy to her. She is fine with whatever tokens he wants to keep; She identifies tokens as just that - tokens.

But any slight clue that Adi might favour didi in his heart,she gets jealous and feels betrayed. And she is incapable of handling the intensity of her feelings. So her response seems to be flight.

I think the problem here is that Imlie can never share her weaknesses. She is used to handling these feeling alone. Its always Aditya who identifies them and supports her.

Adi for now does not seem to have any idea of whats brewing inside imlie. He is in his happy world that as soon as KC shows up he can start his happily ever after. So he is in for a rude awakening 😆

Re- contrived communication gap: Adi and Imlie's relationship was too perfect. If the keep maintaining that perfection story mein conflict khatam hojayega i guess😆. So they have buried both the characters in a mountain of guilt and just as they are showing signs of over coming it and communicating with each other, didi's boyfriend issues are going to be revealed and they will become six feet under where they already stood😆

Lol having communication in a relationship doesn’t make it “perfect” 😆. Communication allows you to keep a relationship going and strengthen it. Doesn’t make it perfect.

In Adi-Imlie’s case, communication and understanding is the cornerstone of their relationship. They are nothing without it cuz otherwise there are a 100 differences between them in age, background, thought process. Communication is what bridges them together and helps them overcome their significant differences.

And to me, that communication was also important cuz it set them apart from AM. If both of Adi’s relationships are meant to come down to the same communication and trust failures, what’s the point in building up Adi-Imlie at all? 🤷‍♀️😆

AM failed cuz they lacked true understanding, trust and communication. If Imlie is just going to be shown to be another variation of an insecure wife who claims trust but doesn’t really trust….toh again, what’s the point? 😆

Only way this can have a different result than AM is if there is actual trust and understanding in Adilie ka relationship. Adi tries to address issues when he sees them but Imlie keeps lying to him and doesn’t really share her lack of trust in him, deflecting towards mahaanta instead. That is why it’s a problem. You don’t need to be perfect people or have a perfect relationship. But you do need to share your actual thoughts and feelings to have a relationship.

Imlie has no real understanding of relationships despite her character being shown giving gyaan to so many people for so long. 😆….and Adi is either shown not realizing her issues in order to address them or he’s hurt by her indifference and deflections. So again, how do you build anything with this? 🤷‍♀️

My point is simple. Show me whether Adi Imlie actually have the substance in them to last. No relationship can last without trust and understanding. Token romantic dream sequences amount to nothing on that front. And if Imlie is meant to be nothing but a confused teenager who longs for Adi but doesn’t actually know how to conduct a relationship with him and he doesn’t know how to get through to her either toh phir chhodo bhai 😆

They don’t even have respect for the destiny that brought them together 😆.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

AY ji aap toh give up kar gaye. Somehow I don't think Imlie is going to doubt the validity of her love going forward, as she can see what he is doing for her on all fronts. She is going to have issues later in accepting the level of interference from Malini as her sister and Adi's "friend". I am hoping that they show her finally accepting that she deserves Adi's love, as that is where the problem currently lies. But the way things have been going, your prediction may very well come true and I will be sorely disappointed at the wasted opportunity to show something genuinely progressive and realistic in ITV apart from the miyan biwi sauten relationships that have been shown countless times before.

Lol give up ka toh pata nahin😆 but yeah, adjusting my expectations again to resign myself to an Imlie who will be definitely always be insecure and unsure of Adi’s love per convenience .

They are determined to hinge this all on Adi having a 7 year past with “chosen” partner Malini so Imlie will be “justified” in never fully trusting Adi’s love for her but otherwise she loves him so she can’t fully let go of him either 🤷‍♀️😂.

She will never blame Malini for interfering between her relationship with Adi but always scapegoat Adi for supposedly still being hung up on Malini who was always the more “apt partner” for him 😆.

When two people don’t really have trust and communication in their relationship, this is what it ends up being 🤷‍♀️. And they don’t really seem interested in building anything there. Just shifting between romance and insecurities per convenience 😆

Now I am even worried about how the truth of Adi-Imlie marriage will get disclosed. The writers do everything to prop up Didi so somehow I am worried about that reveal also to prop up Didi somehow. Adi-Imlie toh have become plot devices to the writers.

I cannot with how Adi changed his stance on taking the ring from Didi in today's epi while in yesterday's epi his reaction to the ring was in line with his characterisation. I would have preferred that he got angry at Didi for her stupid thoughtless action of giving her engagement ring to Imlie. But what we got was him now keeping the ring as a keepsake. What changed between yesterday & today except writers need to prop up Didi & sowing seeds for further insecurities in Imlie. Or did he accept the ring because he thought Imlie was showing maturity about the importance of ring so he also gave importance to it after being convinced by her.

Imlie ka clarity issue we have been discussing since the sindoor tamasha epis & we are still nowhere close to understanding her. One day she behaves as if she has accepted the inevitability of Adi-Malini divorce, next day she is shown convincing the family that Didi is lying about having bf. I am seriously fed up. If the next week doesn't give any clarity then I think I will have to give up on Adi-Imlie as a couple. I am not interested in torturing myself by seeing the potential of such a beautiful love story going down the drain.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

I cannot with how Adi changed his stance on taking the ring from Didi in today's epi while in yesterday's epi his reaction to the ring was in line with his characterisation. I would have preferred that he got angry at Didi for her stupid thoughtless action of giving her engagement ring to Imlie. But what we got was him now keeping the ring as a keepsake. What changed between yesterday & today except writers need to prop up Didi & sowing seeds for further insecurities in Imlie. Or did he accept the ring because he thought Imlie was showing maturity about the importance of ring so he also gave importance to it after being convinced by her.

@bold: Yes, that is why he accepted the ring back. He’s being shown getting convinced by Imlie’s stances on various things basically 😆….Imlie called Malini family so he also jumped in to chime in agreement with Imlie 😆….I guess he wanted to show he was being supportive to Imlie 🤷‍♀️😂….but it kinda came across as khichdi cuz they stuffed in lots of Didi propping up and as usual no real aapas ke rishte ka discussion for Adilie 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL gotta hate being right sometimes😆.....Aparna literally flipped within 5 minutes😆....I knew it was too good to last....she found easy excuses to justify Malini yet again, ofcourse with full support from Imlie😆

And Nishant does indeed always live up to your faith in him😆.....waise toh lag raha hai ki Pallavi ko bhi ab Didi hi ghar laayengi for her pyara LOYAL devar Nishant😆

Baaki does look like the divorce track is going to drag on for the foreseeable future....lol dunno what "progress" happens each time they meet the lawyer....wohi generic paperwork ki baatein😆.....and some more free fund ki judgements being passed by the lawyer😆

@bold - why? Why do you do this 🤣Waise hi show ka dahi jam raha hai 😆

Oh yes, the divorce track is going to stretch. Yahaan Imlie is not going to give any assurance to Aditya. And wahaan the lawyer free mein advice dene se rukega nahin. I will not be surprised if they make her investigate KCs background or something next.

Did you see the precap when Malini was going all mere boyfriend 😆. Kya din aa gaye hain ki we need to recalibrate based on bad acting. It is hilarious to see Malini trying to act all coy.

And by the way, I agree on the Imlie always being insecure about Aditya bit. Read it on the one of the earlier responses. Do they think this is the only way left to create drama in Aditya and Imlie’s lives? Turning Imlie into someone who will never trust Aditya is such a downgrade of her character but that is where even I see the plot going.