Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli
And that itself is a disservice to the girl and man for whom this was never a factor .. to make the. This shallow ughhhhh plz it better not come to this but sadly I can't be so sure with how they are going with legit nothing building up between adi imlie and them.being just busy in didi ki match making.. 😕
LOL I don't want to be the Debby Downer here but mujhe ab wohi sab signs nazar aa rahe hain for now😆
Otherwise why would we be shown Imlie ki insecurities randomly but never be shown anyone addressing them dhang se? Not even Adi? I know everyone here is like Adi got more impressed by Imlie ke mahaan vichaar on wanting him to keep gehre rishte with Malini ki nishaani, but I would say both Adi and the audience are deluding themselves if they take what Imlie is saying at face value😆.
Since they never bothered addressing Imlie's insecurities in real time, she now sounds quite hollow when she gives gyaan on how she has no issues with AM ka rishta, she has her own space etc. etc.....cuz it's just very hard to buy her stances given that we've seen she doesn't really understand either her own relationship with Adi or AM ka rishta with each other.....otherwise she wouldn't keep jumping to feeling betrayed so easily. She does operate under the default assumption that Malini was Adi's choice so deep down it must have been made soch samajh ke and Imlie is the "forced" element in his life......whatever Adi says to clarify is not enough for Imlie but she never admits that....instead they go on these side tangents of being impressed by ring related mahaanta😕😆
I'm feeling disillusioned cuz I felt the connect with Adi-Imlie over the fact that they communicated, talked through everything.....that is what I thought set them apart from the failures of the AM relationship which lacked communication ability......sadly now, the writers seem determined to show an Imlie who doesn't want to communicate honestly with Adi, feed him the impression that she is fine with his past but later on he will likely feel hurt when he realizes again that Imlie has never really trusted him but goes along with saying it in the moment.
In the need to "respect" his past with Malini which supposedly was all about same soch, same habits....they've reduced Adi-Imlie to just a twist of fate😆.....Adi made a few mentions recently of how Imlie had changed him and brought about a happier Adi....but it will never fully register on Imlie I guess cuz Adi does still maintain he was happy with Malini for 7 years😆.....so they will keep looping back to that point ki Imlie is justified in thinking he does really love Malini only whenever he shows concern for her aage as a friend also😆.
This is why they don't really show Adi-Imlie ever talking about trust or Imlie ever clearly saying she trusts him.....cuz she doesn't. And I'm not sure she ever will. So dunno how they intend to build this relationship😆.....I guess pura time Didi se gehra rishta nibhaane mein chala jaayega toh yeh khud ke aapsi trust ke baare mein sochne ka waise bhi kaise time milega.....lol and worst case scenario bhi hai.....Didi the great will teach Imlie about "trust"😕🤣