Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #14 - Page 94

Hello,

Saturday morning, when I have nothing better to do, I shall rant about the episode. I am having a hard time imagining a family like this with grown-up men or women being slapped, beaten like this

If I were Rishita/Raavi, I would file for a divorce the very next day. Yes, this is a madhouse where adults have no life but to live for their Bhabhi and a matriarch who wields her Danda.

My God, are the men married too early? Imagine a man having to do all this stuff who is married. 😆

We have a joint family with three brothers but lol, I can't imagine my Devar who's recently married being like this. My devrani would walk out the very next day if he craves for my or Badi Bhabhiji ka food instead of hers despite being nurtured by my elder SIL for 16 years 😆

We all love Badi Bhabhiji's food, given her longest stint with the family and exceptional cooking. Everyone would know when others cook instead of her but lol . 😆 No one would give sermons to their wives to cook like her 😆

I suddenly feel very proud of my family. I being more inclined towards pizza, pasta-like stuff, I am generally given the responsibility for fun evening snacks whenever I go to live with them. The younger one would serve more as she isn't very keen on cooking. We all live happily 😆 despite having a massive ideology difference!

Kaun hai yeh PS k log 😆like I know they are fictional, but it's becoming strangely abusive!

Anyway, coming back to the episode, I loved Suman and the kids crying looking at their wounds . 😭 Man, I sometimes love PS too; they keep finer details occasionally intact. Like Shiva’s wounds have healed faster given his sturdy built, and I am assuming his comfort pillows by Raavi 😆

And Raavi, you have my heart. She is the sweetest and the most vulnerable to anyone’s pain. Her empathy makes her a sweetheart. This girl loves all of them, including Shiva too.

Well, romantically not yet, but she loves him too like Her own family. Her tears say it all. This woman deserves to be cocooned with love. Shiva-man! If you don't make her the happiest woman on earth, then I would nurse a grudge against you despite being so amazing. You better start seeing what sheer luck brought her to your life. Had it been Dev, instead of you, you would have never known what it would feel to be loved with such purity of heart!

Raavi didn't even utter a single word, but her expressions are so evident, reliving the wounds with the brothers!

I can see why Gaumbi had brought up the equation of Dev-Dhara during the wedding, explaining to Suman how they are more of friends than Devar-Bhabhi. Dhara has a huge soft corner for Dev, given his shy, non-vocal nature. Shiva-Dhara is more like Haq and Devotion.

Coming back to Gaumbi-Dhara, despite having a colossal crush on Gaumbi’s eyes, it's appalling even to hear such insecurity from Gautam. If, after ten years of marital status, you fear losing Dhara because your mother is making decisions to throw your wife out, then I have nothing to praise you as a husband.

Any woman would be so not okay with this kind of behaviour. It's problematic.

Anyway, I am glad this Tamasha is over now. I can't have any more of Dhara Bhakti . 😆

Shivi are love! Krishu is love! I so wish to see Krivi bond more.

Rishita . 🤬 I feel pity for her. If only she weren't as obnoxious with her choice of words.

On a side note, I hate making modern women who call out BS as a source of conflict in families. No, such women question years of rotten systems in families and deserve to be heard and not vilified. I feel sad for the character of Rishita being turned into a stereotypical vamp!

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

Same GauRa scenes make me cringe! The danda kaand surely ruined everything, before that I was so sure Gaumbi was like this father figure for all the brothers but after the danda kaand it seems Krish and Shiva are the only Pandya brothers who care for each other. I mean how can you just sleep after your brothers have suffered so much? Remember he was sleeping peacefully the same night when the brothers were beaten. Next day also he never reached out to them to check if they were hurt or not. It was his responsibility to make sure they were ok. Because Dhara has been there only for 10 years but Gaumbi has been there with the brothers since they were born. He is related to them by blood atleast ussi naate toh puch leta unhe if they are ok. He could have gone and applied some medicine to their wounds. And even now he was more concerned about telling Suman the truth because he was worried for Dhara and their future. Waah !! I mean what kind of an elder brother are you!!😕😡

Yeah. Suman came to know they were hti today and immediately asked to see their wounds

But Gautam made no attempt to see how badly they have been bruised, are they hurting, do they need to go to the hospital, nothing. He was too busy with his lunatic wife 😡

Neither did he go check on Shiva when he burnt his hand so badly. He just stood there and watched the tamasha when shiva was holding the burning log 🤢

Both GauRa are unbearable for me now

Originally posted by: nafees5

Fit mai jaati hu dekhne😆

Really liking all the points here

Thode dramatic effects zyada hai lol...but emotions mein acha hai. Aaram se dekho..next episode ka koi bharosa nahi 😆

Originally posted by: Sakmen

Finally saw the episode!

It was better than my expectations. Suman really showed who the actual mother is and how a mother should be. She confronted the kids properly by asking them what the truth was and even gave krish the opportunity to tell why they did what they did.

She even told them what they did was completely wrong and gave that tiny slap (no merciless beatings here). But what I liked the most was the explanation that she had regarding the act being wrong, she said "kissi bhi ladki ke sath aisa kaise kar sakte ho" she didn't force Rishita being bhabhi so you have to respect her and not do anything like that, unlike dhara who was just pushing "bhabhi" down the boys' throat.

How I wish Raavi spoke here about all the insults rishita had done to her and shiva as well... only Gaura ki beizzati ka jaap I don't like!

I skipped most of Gaura parts, I find them too cringy these days. But today I dislike Dhara even more, I mean she was secretly letting Dev eat her food, what audacity 😡 That's so unfair with shivi.. I understand that her main motive of batwara was to get shivi together but then she should have followed the rules made by herself completely and fairly.. I just hate her favouritism towards Devta.🤬

For a change I liked what maami said today about the responsibility division and work division between all the bahus and Dev and Shiva. Dhara definitely doesn't need to be at the forefront of everything. The other girls will be able to make a place for themselves in the family only if they are treated as equal and given equal responsibility and that doesn't mean the coveted batwara and "apna kaam khud karo" that's NOT how joint families are run!

Regarding Dev picking up the sacks along with Shiva, I like that suggestion of maami as well. I understand that shiva has chosen to do it himself and it's no smaller job and someone has to do it.. but what is the harm if brothers do it together? Why does dev get to sit n eat all the malai? Whatever maami's intentions be, she did make valid points, though here I think her intentions were clearly the betterment of her daughter, which is justified.

And dhara gave such an irritating reply to maami, and brushed the topic aside 🤢 She's becoming so cringeworthy day by day.

I don't think Suman will side with Dhara and support the batwara n all, but can't be sure if anything..

One thing I wanna say, out of all the people I'm finding shiny's acting to be the most over the top, even in the precap I find her doing overacting!

Brownie points to Alice, she didn't have a single dialogue today but still her expressions were on point.. her emotions, pain everything reached straight to the heart❤

Overall nice episode, didn't get the shivi dose today also, let's hope offscreen kuch mil jaye😂🙈

@bold I really liked that dialogue. That is honestly the only way to explain to them.

Originally posted by: mpks1

Agree! very well written! I too liked the episode very much!

@bold- She let Dev eat her food, but pushed the katori back to Shiva when he asked for Sabzi😕

She also let Shiva burn his hands😭 and threatened ShiVi with dulayi ki Dhamki😕 She was one of the reasons for Raavi to almost commit suicide. She has been a bane in ShiVi's relationship and now pushing them to move forward in her terms and not on their own😕 I can't stand her anymore and any redemption will not make me like her😕

She always favored Dev and now Rishita but what about Shiva, Raavi and Krish😭

Agreed, Dhara's character has no coming back for me, she's ruined everything

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

Okay, I just want to say thank you and send biggest hugs to all of you who took the challenge of clarifying our criticism and concerns about Dhara's actions in the other hot topic. Some of the counter arguments especially on justification for abuse and suicide were ignorant, insensitive, and triggering. I really hope that not for this show, but in real life they have different stance in similar situations.

I couldn't have said it any better than you guys have and kudos for taking that challenge. If your genuine l, honest, response makes difference in just one person's life or manages to change their views in real life, then I think all your time and effort explaining your stance was successful. Because that's one more life saved from violence, abuse, and maybe self harm.

Absolutely thank you everyone for commenting on the criticism post. I just added my views but you guys have already emphasized on all the points as to why Dhara is receiving all the criticism. Some of the opinions and comments are very insensitive! I actually was a little shocked to read few of them😔

So i just finished watching the episode!

Really liked most parts of it

Shiva-krish- suman scenes were so nice.. All three of them did a phenomenal job portraying the emotions❤️

Loved raavi❤️even though she didn't utter a single word but her expressions were on point.. She is a a darling!

Aslo liked the maami dhara scene.. Maami said all the good points without much drama.

Didn't like dhara's drama yet again. What's with the gombi gabhrahat ho rahi hai nonsense? Sach kyu nai bola fir pehle tab she was fake fumbling and all.. Idiotic!

Also didn't like dhara's acting in the precap.. Too overdramatic.. Muje manzoor hain maa😡

Liked most bits of the episode but not having high hopes for Monday though..let's see kya milega😆

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

Okay, I just want to say thank you and send biggest hugs to all of you who took the challenge of clarifying our criticism and concerns about Dhara's actions in the other hot topic. Some of the counter arguments especially on justification for abuse and suicide were ignorant, insensitive, and triggering. I really hope that not for this show, but in real life they have different stance in similar situations.

I couldn't have said it any better than you guys have and kudos for taking that challenge. If your genuine l, honest, response makes difference in just one person's life or manages to change their views in real life, then I think all your time and effort explaining your stance was successful. Because that's one more life saved from violence, abuse, and maybe self harm.

Well said👏

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

Yeah. Suman came to know they were hti today and immediately asked to see their wounds

But Gautam made no attempt to see how badly they have been bruised, are they hurting, do they need to go to the hospital, nothing. He was too busy with his lunatic wife 😡

Neither did he go check on Shiva when he burnt his hand so badly. He just stood there and watched the tamasha when shiva was holding the burning log 🤢

Both GauRa are unbearable for me now

Not to forget how both Dev and Gaumbi who were aware of Shiva's injury allowed him to lift heavy sacks.

Heck even kid Shiva felt so bad for his brother when Gaumbi had to lift it the first time. And idiot Dev gives him the boriya to Carry at the first chance he gets. And Gaumbi just looks on 🙄🤬.

GauRa brought me to this show and I enjoyed watching them in that GeRua sequence just as much as ShiVi. And now, I can't even stand them. They go in the same ff bucket as DevTa.

Originally posted by: Transference

Hello,

Saturday morning, when I have nothing better to do, I shall rant about the episode. I am having a hard time imagining a family like this with grown-up men or women being slapped, beaten like this

If I were Rishita/Raavi, I would file for a divorce the very next day. Yes, this is a madhouse where adults have no life but to live for their Bhabhi and a matriarch who wields her Danda.

My God, are the men married too early? Imagine a man having to do all this stuff who is married. 😆

We have a joint family with three brothers but lol, I can't imagine my Devar who's recently married being like this. My devrani would walk out the very next day if he craves for my or Badi Bhabhiji ka food instead of hers despite being nurtured by my elder SIL for 16 years 😆

We all love Badi Bhabhiji's food, given her longest stint with the family and exceptional cooking. Everyone would know when others cook instead of her but lol . 😆 No one would give sermons to their wives to cook like her 😆

I suddenly feel very proud of my family. I being more inclined towards pizza, pasta-like stuff, I am generally given the responsibility for fun evening snacks whenever I go to live with them. The younger one would serve more as she isn't very keen on cooking. We all live happily 😆 despite having a massive ideology difference!

Kaun hai yeh PS k log 😆like I know they are fictional, but it's becoming strangely abusive!

Anyway, coming back to the episode, I loved Suman and the kids crying looking at their wounds . 😭 Man, I sometimes love PS too; they keep finer details occasionally intact. Like Shiva’s wounds have healed faster given his sturdy built, and I am assuming his comfort pillows by Raavi 😆

And Raavi, you have my heart. She is the sweetest and the most vulnerable to anyone’s pain. Her empathy makes her a sweetheart. This girl loves all of them, including Shiva too.

Well, romantically not yet, but she loves him too like Her own family. Her tears say it all. This woman deserves to be cocooned with love. Shiva-man! If you don't make her the happiest woman on earth, then I would nurse a grudge against you despite being so amazing. You better start seeing what sheer luck brought her to your life. Had it been Dev, instead of you, you would have never known what it would feel to be loved with such purity of heart!

Raavi didn't even utter a single word, but her expressions are so evident, reliving the wounds with the brothers!

I can see why Gaumbi had brought up the equation of Dev-Dhara during the wedding, explaining to Suman how they are more of friends than Devar-Bhabhi. Dhara has a huge soft corner for Dev, given his shy, non-vocal nature. Shiva-Dhara is more like Haq and Devotion.

Coming back to Gaumbi-Dhara, despite having a colossal crush on Gaumbi’s eyes, it's appalling even to hear such insecurity from Gautam. If, after ten years of marital status, you fear losing Dhara because your mother is making decisions to throw your wife out, then I have nothing to praise you as a husband.

Any woman would be so not okay with this kind of behaviour. It's problematic.

Anyway, I am glad this Tamasha is over now. I can't have any more of Dhara Bhakti . 😆

Shivi are love! Krishu is love! I so wish to see Krivi bond more.

Rishita . 🤬 I feel pity for her. If only she weren't as obnoxious with her choice of words.

On a side note, I hate making modern women who call out BS as a source of conflict in families. No, such women question years of rotten systems in families and deserve to be heard and not vilified. I feel sad for the character of Rishita being turned into a stereotypical vamp!

Love love love everything you've said!!

@bold(if it works) - Rishita is more likely to be heard here if she decides to put across her point across without the chip on her shoulder about how she's been wronged. I feel that her character has so much to bring into an otherwise conservative family but she is too brash when speaking, which in turn brings everyone's back up and they don't really listen to even the valid points.