Originally posted by: bakwas_serial
We hear and read this very often..that Life is about learning. It is also true that it only when we make mistakes we really learn and understand. Plus many times what works in theory is impratical in practice.
Coming to this update. First Mayank. He got engaged and even married Kirti due to coercion and emotional blackmail. His life and lifestyle is disrupted because of it. To expect that he will behave with her as before is a tall order and unfair. He never shared the kind of relationship he had with his parents when they were friends..why would be do it now ? Because she needs a kindred soul ...things dont work that way.
He may not have reacted to her burned hand..but he did recall that she has no place to stay..so can stay at his parents house. Which is important. Hope she appreciates that.
Anyway regarding Radha. Even though a child should go to school..this is not Kirti's decision. It is Radha's grandparents responsibility and decision. Plus this marriage is in name. She has forgotten that he does not want to be in this long term.
Once again she is taking on more than she should. Pointing it out to Mayank and then putting her in school..sounds right..but what about when she moves out ? Or she is planning to take the child with her.
Hope she starts reflecting.
Ps. Of course Nishit observed her burned hand ❤️
While I agree with you that Kirti's expectation from Mayank to behave like before is unfair, I do think he could give her some wiggle room. He is upset and has every right to be. But he doesn't have to be this obnoxious. It feels like he loathes Kirti's presence in his parents' house. In his life, rather. I wish he wouldn't have made it sound as if he is doing a favor by letting Kirti stay in his house. Like it or not, She is his legally wedded wife. It will be even more weird if she rents a house for herself. He doesn't have to go back being his friendly self, but at least he could see to it that Kirti is comfortable in his house. Her Dadi used to treat him like her own grandson. Has he forgotten that?
Radha may be her grandparents responsibility, but clearly they are not taking it seriously. If Kirti wants to do something good for her, and the Ojhas are not averse to the idea, I think it is a good decision. The marriage may not be conventional, but it is very real for Kirti. It does not have an expiry date from her POV. She has already taken up the responsibilities of the married woman (a little too many than necessary, IMO). She considers Radha as her own now. There could be a change to Kirti's circumstances in the future. But why let things that might (or might not) happen in the future stop her from doing something good in the present? She could still fund Radha's education even if she is no longer married. She is quite attached to her, so she may even consider taking her along with her. Worst case, Radha may have to drop out. But at least for now she is getting into a school. Radha's growth is stunted, not just because of the lack of education but also because she doesn't seem to interact with kids of her own age. So I think it's a good thing for her. For Kirti? Only time will tell.
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