Dev and Shiva's constant bhabhi jaap has reaffirmed my belief that men should get some counseling before their wedding where the upcoming changes in existing and new relationships due to wedding are discussed.
Here it is dhara jaap but in real life, it is mostly maa jaap. Someone should make men understand before their own wedding that certain boundaries needs to be established within family after marriage and that it is not disrespectful to elders. Constantly doing bhabhi or maa jaap will irritate any spouse.