Imlie the ankhon main pyaar specialist - Page 7

Originally posted by: jojo_mojo

I am not sure anymore if this was because she respected others independence or because she did not have the power to compel others according to her whims. From what is shown, since realized her hold over Aditya, she had been constantly trying to compel him to stay with Malini even when he said usko ghutan horaha hai. She was even happy flirting with him behind her didi's back. Was this for didi's khushi as she claimed or was it for her own khushi because she was not ready to face her feelings of guilt?

Even now she is not forcing her views on Malini. She is keeping her relation with Adi on indefinite hold because she has power to do so. Again is this because she wants Malini didi happy as she claims or is it to assuage her guilt and because she is not yet ready to reveal to the family that she is Aditya's wife?

Sorry what? Flirting with Adi behind Didi's back? Is that how you saw it?😆 We'll have to disagree on that point then. You make her sound so calculative when that wasn't what she was doing.

She was always shown holding on to her faith on her own level and never compelling others to think like her.....this was obvious the most in the case of the whole believing Adi to be her husband situation where she told him he has the right to believe what he does while she will stick to her beliefs....she never compelled or forced him to accept anything.....she stuck to her own unconventional beliefs even if someone pointed out the impracticality of them. That is what I meant by her independent streak.

The difference in her now is that she has started keeping conditions in front of people which she didn't do before.....so yes, part of that does involve her realizing that she has some leverage with Adi now since he is always professing love for her and wanting her to be with him.....Adi does zidd so she does her own zidd in turn....that ends up being more of a back and forth rather than some grand overarching plan to compel him. She is not keeping anything on indefinite hold....lol her stance is basically that if Malini can't be happy, we are also over and that's that......lol she is ready to walk away at a moment's notice from Adi....so that's not even coercion.....that's a total lack of ability to think for her own relationships or herself....she is ready to finish everything in her life on a moment's notice without thought....that doesn't show any sense of real calculation but more a complete lack of self-preservation or regard for self.

But she is absolutely trying to force her views on Malini right now out of her own sense of guilt....In Adi's case, she atleast has that sense of knowing she matters in his life for her to try to leverage.....lol Malini has long since dropped even the token behenchara facade but Imlie is acting like she has some made up right over Malini's life to dictate terms to her......that's why it's looking more disconnected.

It's all very poorly written right now but underscoring all this is a self-worth issue for Imlie where she is not fully ready to own her status as Adi's wife or the bahu of T family.....but that isn't being addressed dhang se since it's all just getting diverted into Didi bhakti discussions or Adi also just being fixated on immediate fixes rather than trying to understand the underlying causes of what's driving Imlie's stances.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Tbh imlie ka stand is not about didi pyaar karti hai ke nahi she wants to.orive ke didi only loves adi . She actually wants to be proved right ke didi is bluffing that is her entire point.. ke you are lying didi she has said it on her face ke tumhari ankhon main abhi bhi babusahib ke liye pyaar hai and woh kisi aur ke liye nahi yada yada... so this is where it gets confusing she is back to trying to.hook didi up with adi instead of her own life.. didi ne token mahaanta ke liye hi dahi but bola toh isse ke you ate the bahu just go tell all and move on in life.. but iska yeh hai ke apni life pause kar de.. and abhi interim reason yeh hai ke didi khush nahi hai.. I wish they show her inscrities her dare being in an actual relationship better than this lameness ke KC nahi toh hum nahi.legit again the 2 scene in same episode have no correlation caz woth didi she is so sure ke didi loves adi and she feels guilty if being the bahu now wringing didi don't ask.me how that makes sense having this you are a liar thing ke phir milwao mujhe iss so called KC se but 2 secs later goes ke phir hum hi nahi like what? Karna kya chahti ho behan bas adi 🎁 karke dena do aur khatam karo reach an agreement dono waise bhi they both feel calling each other sautan is insulting to them both given their own rishta

LOL it sounds more like she wants to have it both ways......bluff prove kar diya toh bhi khush ki she guessed Didi ka "hidden dard" right and can then start looking for new guy for her😆 and bluff nahin hua toh bhi khush cuz that will mean Didi ko sach mein kahin settle kar sakte hain with already available guy KC😆

I know we were joking yesterday ki at this rate Imlie bol bhi sakti hai Didi ko phir se ki yeh lo Aditya waapis since you still love him😆.....but so far she hasn't said it so let's go by that.

Right now Imlie ka stance looks more like KC se milke tassalli karni hai aur agar woh nahin mila toh time to run away from everything again and Adi jo marzi karta rahe, his problem....lol seemed like she doesn't care what Adi does after she leaves his life😆.....but yeah going by her track record, khud hi Adi ko chhod ke bolegi ki wohi dhokebaaz tha😆

They are showing ekdum demeaning track of two women treating a man like a football to toss between them.....wohi lowest denominator soch waale jo tracks hote hain most shows mein.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL it sounds more like she wants to have it both ways......bluff prove kar diya toh bhi khush ki she guessed Didi ka "hidden dard" right and can then start looking for new guy for her😆 and bluff nahin hua toh bhi khush cuz that will mean Didi ko sach mein kahin settle kar sakte hain with already available guy KC😆

I know we were joking yesterday ki at this rate Imlie bol bhi sakti hai Didi ko phir se ki yeh lo Aditya waapis since you still love him😆.....but so far she hasn't said it so let's go by that.

Right now Imlie ka stance looks more like KC se milke tassalli karni hai aur agar woh nahin mila toh time to run away from everything again and Adi jo marzi karta rahe, his problem....lol seemed like she doesn't care what Adi does after she leaves his life😆.....but yeah going by her track record, khud hi Adi ko chhod ke bolegi ki wohi dhokebaaz tha😆

They are showing ekdum demeaning track of two women treating a man like a football to toss between them.....wohi lowest denominator soch waale jo tracks hote hain most shows mein.

Hahab yeah i fixed that in the above post .. caz that is what it is mostly having it both ways.. small mercies she hasn't thought of giving him back as explicitly but her saying ke agar KC nahi toh hum bhi nahi.. doesn't that indirectly say that only ke phir you are stuck with didi only or am I being extra judgemental now caz am mad at her..and twisting her words😆 rofl at dhokebaaz ab koi aaina dikhao imlie ko 4 din pehle this very imlie was heartbroken ke adi ne isko dhoka de dia by going on a date with didi and aaj isi imlie ko prove karna hai ke didi still has sagar se gehra pyar for adi in her eyes and uska dil sirf adi ke liye dhadkta hai.. guess sirf adi isn't allowed to go with didi anywhere but didi is allowed to obsess over her as she was Imlie ka pehla pyaar in shehar in her own words🤣 She enjoys didi fawning over her husband but husband kahin aur na dekhe heck aur chodo isko bhi na dekhe..🤣 oh you fool Imlie 😑

One more point on Imlie's self-worth issue.....how exactly are they going to make this girl a believable leader in the future if she can't even stand up for herself?

LOL so is it going to be like she will hunt criminals by day and come back to grovel at Didi's feet by evening?😆

Jo ladki har do minute kisi ke pairon mein girti hai, woh officer banegi? And the man who claims he will spend his whole life fighting to help her achieve her potential also does nothing more than making her stand up when she falls to someone's feet? Why is there never a follow up talk from anyone ki Imlie, kisi ke pairon mein girne se hi unki izzat nahin hoti? They've tried to brush this all under some overarching "Imlie ki ajeeb harkatein" umbrella but there is a serious disconnect on that front cuz if she really believes groveling at someone's feet is a sign of "respect", why doesn't she grovel at her Amma or Dadda's feet all day? Why it only saved for all city people simply to play up Imlie as being some kind of inferior human being to them?

Why does Adi never manage to effectively counter Imlie on even this one minimum point? Press Conference ke prep time pe toh badaa pep talk de diya tha about her achievements and all....but when she grovels at someone's feet, it barely pinches you before you move on to the next topic? Aur abhi woh phir se tumhare ghar mein naukar bani ghoom rahi hai but you are aaraam se taking it in stride.....

It is ridiculous that the show is being reduced to two women wallowing in a pool of artifice in the name of progression.

Imlie has been turned into some relic who associates being happy with being married. Someone who does not care about her own partner but yes, let’s go get everyone else married. Every 50 episodes or so Aditya will have to almost die and she will come running to save him and that’s it. That’s the extent of her love supposedly. When there are opportunities to set things right, she just wants to continue lying. Being 19 is not an excuse for barefaced lying.

Aditya could only say a cursory “go talk to Rupi” about Imlie’s sleeping arrangements but is lighting up candles everywhere She has been given a literal corner in the kitchen next to the fridge. Not that the earlier corner was any different but it was atleast a tad bit more private. His obtuseness cannot be overlooked just because he loves Imlie.

Malini cannot be redeemed. Nothing is ever going to stick. But makers made their intent very clear with where they’re going with that tweet vomit. She does not need to bring in any guy for anyone. But she’s going to do it. That is going to be applauded because settling down something something. That “sacrifice” is going to get revealed at some point and push Aditya and Imlie further down the hole of guilt they’re already buried in. All this for a woman who could care less about someone being slapped around or hit with a tubelight in her mother’s house by her mother 🤷🏻‍♀️ I mean if the victim does not care enough about it, why should the enabler or the audience. Behen prem my face

And everyone talking about Aditya and karma can go take a walk. The guy literally got buried alive and almost killed a zillion times. Karma does not mean his love is thrown at his face every two seconds while all he has wanted to do is tell the truth.

LOL I just realized ki agar Imlie ko pairon mein girne ka itna hi shauk hai toh aaj tak Adi ke pairon mein kyun nahin giri?😆.....since she seems to think this is like some free for all toh sabke pairon mein giro na all day.....Sundar ke bhi kyun nahin? Oh right, woh fellow naukar hai toh doesn't deserve groveling?😆

And again, there is a simple solution to cutting off her pairon mein girna obsession....kasam de do😆......all these people who claim they don't want her to demean herself never do anything other than token push back ki arey yeh kya kar rahi ho....why not firmly shake her once and for all ki tumhein humaari kasam tum kabhi apne aap ko humare saamne aise jhukaaogi nahin, pairon mein nahin giraaogi?

But naa, woh kyun karenge.....Imlie is "above all that"😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

One more point on Imlie's self-worth issue.....how exactly are they going to make this girl a believable leader in the future if she can't even stand up for herself?

LOL so is it going to be like she will hunt criminals by day and come back to grovel at Didi's feet by evening?😆

Jo ladki har do minute kisi ke pairon mein girti hai, woh officer banegi? And the man who claims he will spend his whole life fighting to help her achieve her potential also does nothing more than making her stand up when she falls to someone's feet? Why is there never a follow up talk from anyone ki Imlie, kisi ke pairon mein girne se hi unki izzat nahin hoti? They've tried to brush this all under some overarching "Imlie ki ajeeb harkatein" umbrella but there is a serious disconnect on that front cuz if she really believes groveling at someone's feet is a sign of "respect", why doesn't she grovel at her Amma or Dadda's feet all day? Why it only saved for all city people simply to play up Imlie as being some kind of inferior human being to them?

Why does Adi never manage to effectively counter Imlie on even this one minimum point? Press Conference ke prep time pe toh badaa pep talk de diya tha about her achievements and all....but when she grovels at someone's feet, it barely pinches you before you move on to the next topic? Aur abhi woh phir se tumhare ghar mein naukar bani ghoom rahi hai but you are aaraam se taking it in stride.....

Simple hai yaar yeh sirf hum soch rahein hai.. they think ke itna basic khatam kar dene se gaoon vs Shehar conflict khatam ho jaayega.. pehle fine kar dia kar dia but ab when they both are aware that they are equal as in dono adi ki wives phir bhi paoon padh rahi hai ajeeb hai caz interpersonal relationship my foot...

If only the shehar vs gaoon was the simple.. she only padooes C's ke paoon aur kisi ke nahi caz they are oh so superior they deserve the extra respect for their kameene kaam and khoon ek hai so unke paoon padna is must

About officer banana uske liye wedding planning se aaage ka karna hoga mujhe toh hassi aa rahi hai isko daada ne krantikaari bola.. yeh kranti laa rahi hai.. officer toh yeh banane se rahi bas didi ki life planner is her designation ab

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Simple hai yaar yeh sirf hum soch rahein hai.. they think ke itna basic khatam kar dene se gaoon vs Shehar conflict khatam ho jaayega.. pehle fine kar dia kar dia but ab when they both are aware that they are equal as in dono adi ki wives phir bhi oaer padh rahi hai ajeeb hai caz interpersonal relationship my foot...

About officer banana uske liye wedding planning se aaage ka karna hoga mukhe toh hassi aa rabi hai isko daada ne krantikaari bola.. yeh lranti laa rahi hai.. officer toh yeh banane se rahi bas didi ki life planner is her designation ab

LOL they think village v/s city conflict can only be depicted by Imlie groveling at city waalon ke feet?😕😆.....Naa, yeh bhi half-baked hi hai cuz agar aisa hota toh Mithi bhi Adi ke paaon padti rehti na.....lol....they never show anyone other than Imlie groveling at logon ke feet and woh bhi worth noting ki Adi her so called pati ke toh kabhi pair nahin pade isne😆......But Saint Malini Didi ke pair toh aisi speed pe lapak ke pakadti hai😆

Kuch nahin bas faltu ke gimmicks hain.....there would be no issue if they showed the whole feet touching respectfully/regard ke saath....but they always show Imlie doing it in a very demeaning manner along with that lame murga bannne wala thing she does....like they want to show her as some kind of jungli which the mahaan Didi just seems to take in stride like she is some Queen who is jheloing her jungli subject ki ajeeb harkatein

And Adi jo bolta hai Imlie se pyar karta hai, uski izzat karta hai, barely matters to him much either that she is groveling at the feet of his other wife....lol matlab other wife hai toh Imlie bichhi rahe uske pairon mein.....koi apni behen ke bhi pairon mein aise nahin girta.....bakwaas hai sab.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL I just realized ki agar Imlie ko pairon mein girne ka itna hi shauk hai toh aaj tak Adi ke pairon mein kyun nahin giri?😆.....since she seems to think this is like some free for all toh sabke pairon mein giro na all day.....Sundar ke bhi kyun nahin? Oh right, woh fellow naukar hai toh doesn't deserve groveling?😆

And again, there is a simple solution to cutting off her pairon mein girna obsession....kasam de do😆......all these people who claim they don't want her to demean herself never do anything other than token push back ki arey yeh kya kar rahi ho....why not firmly shake her once and for all ki tumhein humaari kasam tum kabhi apne aap ko humare saamne aise jhukaaogi nahin, pairon mein nahin giraaogi?

But naa, woh kyun karenge.....Imlie is "above all that"😆

Malini ko mahaan dikhana hai beshak dikhao. But why sacrifice the true essence of adilie and turn them into individuals we cannot recognize at all for that? Kahan hai wo adi jo ac ke ill treatment pe itna bhadak gaya tha imlie ki taraf se ladne ke liye. Us aurat ne ispe haath utaaya aur not even a whimper? Kahan hai wo imlie apni har haq ke liye ladna jaanti thi, fierce imlie who fights for her mom against nn, the one who talked down an entire village for judging her and believing because adi ek marad hai sab usko izzat milti hai. They have reduced her to a defeatist who accepts abuse, thinks she is doing dhoka by accepting her marriage and her husband who she sacrificed in the first place for her beloved didi. Jo kisi ne iske saath injustice kiya , wo sab scot free bina koi apology diye aur compensate kiye ghoom rahe hain. Kya kachra bana diya story ka aur ab platonic love ka bhi bakwaas kar rahe hai. Love story bhi saath me progress hona chahiye na apart from her college and career progression. What are these people doing to the show in the name of trp seriously?😡

Aaj toh imlie ne next level had kar di.

Firstly, didi ke piche hi padh gyi, maan hi nhi rhi thi didi ki baat ki uska sach mein koi bf hai. I must say she trust didi more than adi. Itna kya barosa, didi toh kar hi nhi sakti affair. 🤔

Then, imlie and adi's conversation, lol yr I feel bad for adi. Kahan phas gya. Imlie ka didi jaap kya kam tha ab chauhan babu jaap shuru ho gya. 😆 kitna frustrate karti hai use. 😛

I didn't like imlie's dialogue. When Adi said what if Malini does not have a bf named Kunal chauhan in her life? Imlie replied then I won't be in your life either..what was the logic?? Writers are writing nonsense lines for imlie. 👎🏼

Agar didi single toh main bhi single. Arey stop interfering in didi's personal matters. Mind your own business. 😈Imlie has become the most annoying character now.

Apart from this, I liked sundar and Imlie's scenes. Mood ko light kar dete hain. 😊