Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #9 - Page 85

Originally posted by: Transference

Dhara and her obsession with the room 🤣

Pati-Patni should only confine the conversations within the room.

I want to understand Dhara pushing Raavi-Shiva with a heavy hand. Doesn't she know how fragile their relationship is?

You know, there shouldn't be a third person in anyone's love story. Unfortunately, Dhara is this person who creeps up in every damn conversation. I haven't signed up for this. It's a bit too much. Not everything has to be about Dhara.

I can't help but wonder about the lack of imagination on the part of CV’s

Exactly! It's like they changed her character arch.

If she wanted to give that advice, the only time her intervention would have mattered for this advise was after the Pooja scene (I think someone wrote and ff/OS here on that), where she delivers the message but with different tone and intent. Right now, she seems like a control freak with her image issue.

Originally posted by: ItsmePriya

This show is through dhara's POV...the promos are all about her, she is the face of the show....thats what SP promotes ...

but in this process all other characters are getting ruined...

she is becoming a control freak off late and too much obsession on family unity, respect and love.

Rishitha is a brat and insensible sometimes but she is the one who has understood dhara to some extent....the brothers blind devotion for dhara will never allow them to see any other woman above her

Yeah, that's been super annoying lately. All the promos have been like will Dhara be able to do/stop xyz?

The Story's about family. Why can't they show will the bros comes together? Or will all members come together to keep family intact, etc.?

How was the episode guys? Any ShiVi scenes? Skimming through a few comments lag raha hai ye episode me Dhara madam ko bhagwan bana diya hai isme! Was it all about Dhara? Should I watch or skip??

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

Exactly! It's like they changed her character arch.

If she wanted to give that advice, the only time her intervention would have mattered for this advise was after the Pooja scene (I think someone wrote and ff/OS here on that), where she delivers the message but with different tone and intent. Right now, she seems like a control freak with her image issue.

Dhara is becoming unrecognisable. These are not 10-year-olds. They are adults and let them behave like one.

It's not anymore about ‘mummy will beat you if you don't eat food.’

Spouses bond beyond food and sex. There has to be more in the relationship. She and Gautam have so much more from day 1. Their marriage was all smiles and hope. Both had comfort and peace.

What does Shiva Raavi have apart from getting back at each other and the palpable UST?

He cares but won't show. She cares but gets rejected most of the time. Do you think these two need a schooling parent to make their marriage work?

What next? Let's procreate because Dhara wants it?

Originally posted by: Prana1

Suman is a smart woman. She observes things, senses when things are off but no one tells her full story 😏 she is the only one who really understood the sacrifice that Shivi made, even when she was mad at Ravi for insulting her son she immediately addressed her endearingly as “beta” when she told her to make a decision about divorce.

She is direct and calls it as she sees it unlike Dhara who holds things inside and boom explodes 🤯

Suman was caring towards Dhara too when she noticed her efforts within the family (before she went psycho 😂)

She gives people their due and I REALLY hope Dhara gets it from Suman! Dhara needs a reality check. I can’t stand to watch her anymore -it’s sad 😢

💯💯 Agree with what you said.

Also on a separate note, how ironic is that Suman likes/prefers two girls raised by Prafulla now?

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

How was the episode guys? Any ShiVi scenes? Skimming through a few comments lag raha hai ye episode me Dhara madam ko bhagwan bana diya hai isme! Was it all about Dhara? Should I watch or skip??

You can watch. It's hilarious for some bits but still irritating.

Originally posted by: Transference

Dhara is becoming unrecognisable. These are not 10-year-olds. They are adults and let them behave like one.

It's not anymore about ‘mummy will beat you if you don't eat food.’

Spouses bond beyond food and sex. There has to be more in the relationship. She and Gautam have so much more from day 1. Their marriage was all smiles and hope. Both had comfort and peace.

What does Shiva Raavi have apart from getting back at each other and the palpable UST?

He cares but won't show. She cares but gets rejected most of the time. Do you think these two need a schooling parent to make their marriage work?

What next? Let's procreate because Dhara wants it?

🤮🤮🤮 Hope not. That just doesn't settle well.

Dhara's character arc has been going downhill

I really liked her in the start of the haveli track when she was ready to play cupid to shivi by bringing good fond memories of the two...

the pooja scene ...she was the one who told gaumbi not to interfere and let shivi sort things themselves

There has been so much inconsistency in the writing of dhara

After the scene with raavi in the temple, froom there it has always been about herself

1.I cant see you in tears so am sorry

2. I didnt want to spoil your dreams about dev and so i didnt reveal things to you

3.I want everyone to be responsible so i wil thrash them and have no ounce of guilt

4. I feel disrespected so dont fight

Its becoming super cringy glorifying dhara in everything

and the hard part is now raavi also joined the blind worship gang after all the torture she endured

Raavi was so right in pointing certain things to dhara during her breakdown scene. I want her to be the same...point out that dhara is no god

Writers need to maintain consistency in writing and stop butchering others for glorifying dhara

Originally posted by: mpks1

What are you saying? We won't get their exclusive scene in the kitchen? I had high hopes after the BTS picture😭

Didn't Dhara say, we will take turns to cook. I thought we will get to Shivi when it is their turn😕

Maybe we get.. but I don't want to expect too much for I may get disappointed later

Like I thought there was an early age scene at gerua place which never happened 🙈

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

How was the episode guys? Any ShiVi scenes? Skimming through a few comments lag raha hai ye episode me Dhara madam ko bhagwan bana diya hai isme! Was it all about Dhara? Should I watch or skip??

Update on pg. 105. I say watch it. There were some good scenes. Just don't like control freak Dhara bossing around SbiVi especially Raavi on how to make her marriy work. She hasn't even had time to heal her old wounds. Didn't Raavi just pour her heart out to her yesterday? Doubt this, she comes off as apathetic.