Kismat ke Speed Breaker - Page 8

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, Adi always circles back to the truth sooner or later.....that has been his main driving force in life and now Imlie is his greatest truth so she is the biggest driving force of his life.

Which is what makes me think again that Adi's main intent in the upcoming convo will be to just tell the full truth to Imlie again.....no more deflections or lies about hum tumhare bina hi achhe the....I think he will clarify all that, tell her his full truth because she has a right to know it.

But I think his line about how Imlie wants him to stay away from her shows that he still does believe that is what she wants and is hurt over her pushing him away😆.....so I think his stance will be like maine toh tumhein apna sach bataa diya, baaki choice is yours....if you still want to go away from me, main nahin rokunga😆.....and iske baad Imlie might finally step up to clear things from her side also that she doesn't want him to go away from her and never did.....setting things up for a confession of sorts which I guess has been the ultimate intent of this whole sidetrack of Imlie doubting his love.....lol. They will both speak their truths to each other this time without any presumptions or deflections....cuz they both need that reassurance that they are wanted and needed by each other.

He has always said that...even that Pre-award/suicide thing, when he was helping Imlie get ready and choosing bangles 😆 he had said that after he tells Malini the truth, it will depend on Imlie what she wants...and this hasty Misunderstanding on Imaliya's part seems for the built up as you pointed out!

@ bold..What a scene that would be na...That is gonna be an epic scene...because even after this mega editing glitch that hand holding and the way his hand tightens over hers gave me goosebumps..so good are they when they come together!!

Another of the Suraj dialogue when Imlie says "Aap humare liye suraj ki tarah ho!"

Originally posted by: -Srushti-

He has always said that...even that Pre-award/suicide thing, when he was helping Imlie get ready and choosing bangles 😆 he had said that after he tells Malini the truth, it will depend on Imlie what she wants...and this hasty Misunderstanding on Imaliya's part seems for the built up as you pointed out!

@ bold..What a scene that would be na...That is gonna be an epic scene...because even after this mega editing glitch that hand holding and the way his hand tightens over hers gave me goosebumps..so good are they when they come together!!

Another of the Suraj dialogue when Imlie says "Aap humare liye suraj ki tarah ho!"

@bold: Oh I loved that bit too....the scene did have thehraav in it despite the editing glitches otherwise. That moment when his hand tightened on hers on its own and she was so moved by it...you could see it in her eyes as she looked at him in surprise that he was barely conscious but still tightened his grip on her hand. She was watching him with so much emotion until he opened his eyes and said, "Imlie"....that is when she retreated again in her confusions as if not wanting to believe what she could see in the way he was holding her hand and speaking her name😆.

Imlie is holding herself back from him deliberately now even as his gestures make his love for her obvious.....so it is going to be the full truth that will finally bring her out of this stupor I think.....a) the truth about Malini knowing everything and b) the truth that Adi could never consider himself better off without her.....that she is infact his everything.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

You know, his Moon jaap in these old scenes makes me laugh all the more now😆

Look at the way he's looking at Imlie in this scene😆....and then he tries to say with so much determination ki "Tum jaanti ho na hum Moon ke ilaava kisi aur ke nahin ho sakte"😆......The choice of words was telling then only about his struggle to stick to his commitment to Malini but his eyes were saying everything about what Imlie means to him.....the turmoil in his eyes clearly showed his conflict about his emotions for Imlie crashing against his mental block about still being committed to Malini.....like his heart was yearning to break free but he hadn't yet reached the absolution of truth regarding what Imlie means to him. You could sense his tangible regret for not being able to give Imlie her due rights.....which again reaffirms that previous point I was making ki in his subconscience, he had always accepted his marriage to Imlie.....but consciously it was a struggle and that is why all these phases where you could see his regret like he wanted to give her her rights but felt held back by the commitments he had tied himself into.

The other reason I always love this scene is for the bit when Adi asks her ki you know I can never give you biwi ka darja/haq (Hilarious irony given where we are now in the story😆) toh phir is rishte ko maanne ka kya FAAYDA? And Imlie tells him ki rishton mein koi GANIT nahin hota😆.......yeh sab baatein Babusahib ko aaj jaake samajh aa rahi hain😆

Adi's Moon Jaap is too hilarious to watch now. The guy who could not stop from saying "Hum sirf Moon ke hai, Moon hi humari wife hai, Hum pe sirf Moon ka haq hai" cannot even call Malini as Moon anymore. Even thinking of Malini as Moon is anathema to him😆. Point to be noted is that he began his Moon Jaap only after he was forcibly married to Imlie. Otherwise there was no such undying love or devotion towards her😆.

I love all the hospital scenes of Adi-Imlie that we got after the gunshot incident. It just revealed so much shift towards Imlie in his subconscious. Look at him being so tender in even talking to her about something which he had stated to her so many times in an angry & mean way before. He truly regretted him being married to Dementor Didi & not being able to give Imlie her haq as a wife on him. But he had already married Dementor Didi & he couldn't admit to himself that it was a wrong decision.

Lol @ him asking Imlie the fayda in believing in their rishta😆. Now he is the one who believes in their rishta so strongly & wants to make it work even of he has to fight everyone for it. He is just dying ( what with all the NDEs😛) to give her the haq & patni ka darja.

When you rewatch these scenes it is so clear that he has always felt stronger emotions for Imlie then he has ever felt for Dementor Didi. Look at his tender bedside manner to Imlie, him making hospital visits to her all alone without any prompting, giving her a personal gift like her photo with her mother, daantoing her to not do any masti so that her stitches are not torn, and my fav. getting her chappals by bending down. There was so much care.

Contrast it with his care for Dementor Didi after the bridge incident where he was so formal with her & later on made the zehmat of arranging a movie date for her only because use AC ki taunt chubhi. Or when she had committed suicide. How much ever Dementor Didi lehraoed her bandaged hand in front of him, majjal hai jo isne ittu si bhi apnepan wali fikar dikhayi ho.

I can't with how clueless Adi had been about emotions in general & love more so until Imlie came into his life. Imlie is the one who has made him aware of all the emotions.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Oh I loved that bit too....the scene did have thehraav in it despite the editing glitches otherwise. That moment when his hand tightened on hers on its own and she was so moved by it...you could see it in her eyes as she looked at him in surprise that he was barely conscious but still tightened his grip on her hand. She was watching him with so much emotion until he opened his eyes and said, "Imlie"....that is when she retreated again in her confusions as if not wanting to believe what she could see in the way he was holding her hand and speaking her name😆.

Imlie is holding herself back from him deliberately now even as his gestures make his love for her obvious.....so it is going to be the full truth that will finally bring her out of this stupor I think.....a) the truth about Malini knowing everything and b) the truth that Adi could never consider himself better off without her.....that she is infact his everything.

I too loves this part more on a rewatch when I deliberately ignored the editing glitches. There was a bit of their sukoon wala feeling in even them simply holding hands❤️.

I agree that Imlie's zabardasti ka BS prem ka naatak misunderstanding will halt when Adi tells her the complete truth about revealing the truth to Dementor Didi & also affirming his feelings for her & her importance for him. He should also tell her about Dementor Didi ka Mr. India for good measure😆.

But will Imlie be ready to accept this reality where now she would be free of the guilt of snatching Didi's happiness? I think she will still struggle with making a move to publically accept their relationship. She may tell him her own feelings for him but as we see in the precap she is too afraid of the Tripathis ka reaction. She is afraid that they will blame her & consider it as a dhoka.

That is why I am glad that Meethi & SK are there with Imlie. Adi & both of them can make her accept the reality that people will get hurt anyways because of the truth & the truth definitely has to come out if she wants to live with Adi as his wife. There is no point in sacrificing happiness of both her & Adi when they can't live without each other. The support & love if your partner is the most important thing & she has it. They have to be ready to fight together for their relationship.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Aparna being so gaga over Dementor Didi is not believable for me. Her supporting her bahu so adamantly over her own son without listening to his POV about their relationship is just mind boggling.

Aparna & Dementor Didi do not have that kind of bond that would justify this scenario. If the writers had developed their bonding on that level then we could have bought it. But really except for Dementor Didi complaining about Adi being a bad husband to her, Aparna trying to give her relationship advice, her apologising to her constantly on behalf of her son & doing some cooking together, what have they bonded over to have Aparna completely on Dementor Didi's side?

Has Didi ever fulfilled her role as a bahu of the house independent of Adi? Did she support Aparna in a matter of grave importance to her? Why does Aparna feel the need to blindly support her? This blind worship is just not believable.

Or being her son's girlfriend for 7 years gives her a blind pass for everything in Aparna's eyes. Why is Aparna so insensitive to her own son? It is not as if he is a bad person. This antipathy towards him & always blaming him for everything is so weird🤪.

I hope the writers do give us a scwn between Aparna & someone else to give us clarity about her thoughts. Otherwise her character is just getting butchered to prop Dementor Didi.

Regarding Apu, I think it from one woman to another woman rather than to MIL to DIL relations. They clearly see that something is wrong and they are under the impression that Adi is wrong not because DD has said or projected it in that manner but also bcoz they have seen the situations like he not stopping her when she is leaving he being indifferent towards her ..not showing PDA which he used to display initially something is wrong between them but that doesn't mean she cries and he leaves and not notify also .. so she is on her side and of course she doesn't knw the truth. I always felt she is impressed by DD on wedding day also she was so happy bcoz of her status yet her nature is so down to earth... her beauty her education ...moreover she is working women ... She just wants to ensure nothing is done wrong to her ... she definitely needs to have lengthy talk with her son but now on it would be difficult as he is gone in shell and Imlie would be around... as Pari rightly said even anything happens with 2 ppl consent only women will be blamed so will Imlie be blamed for her sons mis-conducts according to them and which will create a greater rift between the family. Malini has promised not to inform his family she is still holding onto the relationship...she needs time to get out of it... hopefully she figures it out...

Adi had 3 hurdles to cross to be with his Wife Imlie.

1. Malini

2. SK and PD’s anguish

3. Tripathi’s

Malini is his major hurdle as this includes both guilt trips from his conscience, his family and emotional atyachaar on him. He was so scared to even bring himself to think, to prepare himself to reveal the truth to her. After 2 trips to hospital once to ICU and one with suicide attempts he was so scared to open up and come clear with malini. But his emotional distancing from Malini helped him a lot. This distancing developed curiosity in Malini to uncover the hidden treasure of Adi that is his truth 😂. Her makeup story about a non-existent boyfriend and fear for Imlie’s safety at Anu’s house finally gave him enough courage to unravel his truth to Malini and loved how he unraveled it. Instead of starting with forced marriage he first said that he loves Imlie which is his ultimate truth and surpassed his first hurdle.

SK and PD’s anguish is something he is always feared. He is feared for his life and also the treatment that Imlie would receive. But after falling in love with Imlie, the fear for his life surmounted his fear for Imlie’s safety once PD knows the truth. He faced SK with so much dignity though he his lies were exposed, we never felt Adi as accused. He faced and accepted his punishment once he understood the struggles Imlie faced in Delhi and how shell of a person she became. But his truth revealed to Malini and his love for Imlie were his defenses and finally surpassed that hurdle.

Adi surpassed these 2 hurdles in one single day which is quite an achievement and we can feel the peace on his face from the precap.

But the last one is family the biggest of them all. It includes every kind of struggle emotional, anguish, integrity and everything. Especially his mother Aparna, who gets more emotional for her so called bahu’s emotions than her son’s safety. Each person in T family would create a new hurdle for him. It is a long journey ahead of him.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

But will Imlie be ready to accept this reality where now she would be free of the guilt of snatching Didi's happiness? I think she will still struggle with making a move to publically accept their relationship. She may tell him her own feelings for him but as we see in the precap she is too afraid of the Tripathis ka reaction. She is afraid that they will blame her & consider it as a dhoka.

That is why I am glad that Meethi & SK are there with Imlie. Adi & both of them can make her accept the reality that people will get hurt anyways because of the truth & the truth definitely has to come out if she wants to live with Adi as his wife. There is no point in sacrificing happiness of both her & Adi when they can't live without each other. The support & love if your partner is the most important thing & she has it. They have to be ready to fight together for their relationship.

That's fine by me for now😆. Guilt anyways will remain an underpinning for most of this story. It is more important right now that Imlie atleast cross the first basic step of accepting to Adi what he means to her.

Baaki toh she will continue to be held up from time to time due to her guilt over hurting other people by accepting her relationship with Adi.....wahin se toh saara drama chalaayenge yeh log....pehle she was fixated on Malini being hurt if she claims her rights, now she will be fixated on the family waale being hurt if she accepts her claim as the rightful bahu of that family😆.

But it's important ki Imlie atleast stop with her delusions regarding Adi's feelings for her not being true.....as long as woh basic cheez clear ho jaaye, I can handle her other guilt trips😆......and Adi ko bhi bas yehi assurance ki zaroorat hai....he can take on the whole world if he atleast has the assurance that Imlie knows what she means to him and that she does want to be with him😆.

And yes, Mithi will also keep doing her part in giving some food for thought to Imlie that this masochistic existence is pointless where Adi and her will both remain unhappy without each other and subsequently their families will remain unhappy too.

Imlie will always remain the more hesitant of the two in fighting for their relationship in Delhi I think....cuz the guilt is just too great for having lived that lie in his house for so long.....her stance always has been that she is ready to fight when she feels she's in the right....but on this fundamental issue, her problem is that her values don't allow her to claim her happiness without guilt when she can see others are unhappy because of that......toh that is where the back and forth will continue long term I guess. Adi's love will give her happiness, assurance, strength....but then the guilt will also be there as a counterweight.

That said, I think there will definitely be a shift from before and Imlie will step up to support Adi more in general....just not on the point regarding fighting for her status in the house I think....but baaki sab levels pe jo hold back kar rahi thi of barely even talking to him about anything other than Didi jaap😆, that I think will change now....she will express her love for him in her own subtle ways.....they will have their own form of functioning as a unit in the house again even if she isn't given her rightful status yet.

Ay superb analysis aur aaj woh saare moon supporters back apu is on top of the list 🤢

Coming to episode ..it was better ....bs and his promises ka graph ..yesterday he was all I won't be selfish ...and jaise imlie dikhi sachai bol di ...and next episode planning ghar basao alag se leaving those if they don't agree for bahurani imlie...waise bhi bs cares damn

Woh ghar basaye ya nahi but I want him. To bajao t ,c and moonji 😆

Secondly sattu bab apology was just for his bitiya ...adi bs ne maafi bhi de di ...

And others I dong want to comment theh and their endless useless plans or fairy land ...moonji still like divorce hoga ...😆toh kya inko wahin tikk na hai in love less marriage ...hope she know adi is human not robot 😆

Let see what are their plan ..for tommorrow hope heart to heart talk.adi get FB of kissy ☺️

Originally posted by: countryapple

But the last one is family the biggest of them all. It includes every kind of struggle emotional, anguish, integrity and everything. Especially his mother Aparna, who gets more emotional for her so called bahu’s emotions than her son’s safety. Each person in T family would create a new hurdle for him. It is a long journey ahead of him.

I think I prefer the Tripathis related struggle anyday over Didi ke faltu dramas waala struggle😆.....that was pure torture to sit through her entitlement on that front so I doubt there is anything that can come from the Tripathis that will be worse than Didi ke twisted games.

Yes, Tripathis are likely going to say and do a lot of hurtful things to Imlie in this phase....but unka jo bhi hai, seedha muh pe hai....they don't flip daily between doing ghatiya baatein and then playing bechaari like Didi does.

There is actually scope for good angst vis a vis the Tripathis and Imlie because they share so much genuine history together.....at the end of the day, they are also saaf-dil log who respond instinctively to love and emotions.....that is why they connected to Imlie so quickly on meeting her....and it is that emotion that will find its way again even if their minds are clouded right now with Didi ki nautankis.

Adi's "I don't give a damn" attitude is why his family isn't able to understand him and they gravitate more towards people like Malini who are more than happy to make a display of their hurt and grudges 24/7......I didn't want to talk much about Malini cuz having Adi-Imlie scenes in an epi is a meherbaani anyday and I'd rather focus on that😆.....but agar baat karni hi hai toh I was just rolling my eyes over how yet again, she had to be TOLD to leave the damn house....after otherwise having made entitled threats to Adi about how suffocated she feels and wants to leave the house, divorce him immediately.....lol but she still had to hang around to play bechaari and now have the excuse to use ki usko Aparna ne send off kiya hai warna woh khud toh ghar chhodne ka soch bhi nahin sakti despite her pati neglecting her😆.

Aparna se khaas IQ ki mujhe ummeed waise bhi nahin hai.....she will continue to hold on to the delusion of Malini as her rightful bahu until Adi-Malini's marriage is definitively ended. It is beyond laughable to see Malini giving emo hugs to Aparna like she ever gave a shit about Aparna while planning her grand suicide and then looking through her when she came back to T house also....lol sirf Adi se sach sunne waapis aayi thi but now suddenly they are playing up her bahu mode out of the blue😆.

There has never been a genuinely mother-daughter vibe between Aparna-Malini despite Malini calling her "Maa"....usmein humesha ek formality and guilt hi tha rather than a genuine apnapan.....but anyways this drama isn't going to be about apnapan.....if that was the case, Imlie would win over everyone in a heartbeat.....this drama is going to be about the struggle between the perceptions of labels versus genuine emotions. Tripathis will cling to the label of Malini as their bahu while suppressing their genuine emotions for Imlie.

In all this, if the writers really wanted to, there would be scope for Imlie to be a bridge of understanding between Adi and his family too.....two groups who barely manage to communicate effectively with each other😆.....but pata nahin woh milega ki nahin....let's see. Ts may keep fixating on Malini as their bahu but asli mein saare bahu ke farz Imlie hi nibhaa rahi hogi as usual😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Finally someone from the T’s got the brains today that a women should have self respect. So happy that Aparna told Malini that she should leave. Like seriously what was Malini waiting for but glad that Aparna is seeing things clearly now that the marriage is over. she finally realized that Aditya is not interested and in that case, no force will work. That does not mean that she is going to be a sweetheart to Imlie or accept that relationship easily but just happy that she said what needs to be said to Malini. Did she though? I mean got brains? I forwarded so I might be wrong here but what I saw was her actually encouraging malini into doing another extended naatak of going back and her son will worship her and do sar jhukao and haath jodi in front of her so am not sure what in this is about self respect or marriage is over when she still is giving false hope to this delusional aurat.. and woh dumb dumb down her drama of how she loves maa out of nowhere when she was adi ki mom till today and she had ittu sa bhi respect nahi for her or her love till now.. felt way too fake and unbearable

So the million follower question, “Where will Imlie go”?, that is still a mystery... I think she will be in Delhi because Dadda will now be in jail so they will try to get him out... Methinks AC will blackmail imlie that choose Dadda or Aditya as she has the contacts to get Dadda released and put Aditya in jail for bigamy.
Idk where AC is coming in this.. why is she needed she has nothing to do with dadda.unke liye unke jamai babu and his contacts are enough. No thank you there is absolutly no need of involving AC into SK and PD matters she should focus on using her contacts on getting her daughter some therapy.... we like our PD wale as a separate entity and esp far far away from C's

Re Aparna: I saw a fight between a brain and heart... Like her brain is saying that the marriage is over and I really liked the dialogue that "where you do not get respect, time and consideration from your husband in his house, you should not stay there"....This was the women and the mother talking to the daughter... her little himmat that she got to say it going against everything she believed. I also felt that it was relaization that she should not have done the "vaada" without talking to Aditya first. She totally belived her upbringing and the fact that they are made for each other but now she is seeing things differently.

But then she is also a women who believes that marriage is for life... and this is so common thinking, ki if you go away, he will pachtao and realise the values of the lost things and ask for forgiveness... Every EMA story we hear, thats our first thought and from Aparna's POV, it seems to be of that sort currently.

Malini was again being her total selfish self and only thinking of herself. If she really considered her the maa then she would have hinted that Aditya is not at fault here and they should ask for the truth but no she still wanted to be the center and show how bechari she is

Re: AC, I think thats the only way they will keep the C's in picture. Plus there are two things here: SK abosolute rejection of taking help from DC which will prompt Imlie to ask why. Plus AC is not a person who will give up easily. Though she hates Aditya, she will hate teh fact more that Aditya loves Imlie, hence she will create problems. Beti se jyaada usse ego matter karta hain. All said and done, I hope humare star patrakar hi jaddu karke SK ko bahar nikale and C's bas dekhte reh jaaye😆