Ghum Hain kisikey Pyaar Mein WU and Daily discussion thread no 26. - Page 84

Originally posted by: Wildreaper

True, neither Sai nor Virat could stay true to their words that they’ll have to take care that no one insults them

That's the most heartbreaking moment.

Originally posted by: laksh

Such acts shows who a person is, what their thinking is, like reflects the goodness in a person. He was already impressed with her for who she was and he can't thank her enough for whatever she has been doing for his family. That family where not all members have treated her well, that family where she was abused many times by a few people, rather than having grudges for everyone for the act of few people, she has ignored all those evil acts and have tried to support people who were in need.

He trusted that she will handle Kaku today right? That's an improvement but the main thing with him is that his thoughts should be consistent. He loves Sai for who she is and all her actions only shows who she is, be it her love for her Aaba, her concern for Pari and now for his family members too. He has always liked her for these ressons, but is associating with love only now, and right now it is his family members alone in picture. She does it for someone else too, he will feel the same. Her goodness is what he is falling for.

I guess I'm not liking it because of such standards being set for FL as well as women IRL too. It could be something unique about a particular female character - which can be admired and cherished. But every man I know expects his wife to adjust, care and be sacrificial towards his family like it were her own family. But doesn't reciprocate that care towards her family. So I always see this aspect being reflected in ITV shows.

Originally posted by: maahi11

Yeah and that would break the family, which obviously wasn’t the intention of either sai or Pulkit

Pakhi hoti tho pakka would have happened, she wouldn’t have tolerated what sai has tolerated

Though I hated Pulkit for stopping Sai from revealing the truth to Virat, there was some good thought behind it. But even now I would say that Virat needs to know, not something that should be hidden from him. Not so that they sre punished but he is the son of the family and has all rights to know the truth. I think this is where emotions play a role and Sai Pulkit chose to hide it from him. Wonder what will anyone do in Sai or Pulkit's position if it was real life .

Some prefer to be completely honest and transparent with their spouse but some might hide it too. Some don't prefer sharing a few things knowing that they can cause imbalance in the family but they are usually insignificant things, not as big as this.

Originally posted by: AninditaB

Then just concentrate on them na! I don't see any point of Sai making Devi take ashirwaad from Kaku, Ninad or Omkar. Her intentions are right, I won't ever question her intentions because her intentions are right. But her timing, method is all wrong

Ashirwad is not for blessings per se, but more as making them accept that Devi can visit the house without opposition.

I also do not like the timing. But I guess Sai is expecting that making them accept DevKit may take a while - so sooner the better considering she will leave soon. IRL it will still be stupid considering Virat's condition. But we are in ITV world, where Virat comes home so soon and can bathe and change his clothes on his own....so logic is out of the question.😁

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

I guess I'm not liking it because of such standards being set for FL as well as women IRL too. It could be something unique about a particular female character - which can be admired and cherished. But every man I know expects his wife to adjust, care and be sacrificial towards his family like it were her own family. But doesn't reciprocate that care towards her family. So I always see this aspect being reflected in ITV shows.

@bold kind of, but I wouldn't say every man. There a lot of changes in men, especially these days. Not all men expect their wife to adjust, infact many have started to expect their parents to adjust, some to act fair and some for their selfish reasons in an unreasonable way too. Things are changing, some are changing for good, some are turning into a selfish son too. Some people when both husband and wife are working and when they are very ambitious or have big dreams, they expect a lot out of parents, they expect parents to adjust a lot, they don't even care about them.

Reciprocating care towards wife's family? I know some who do it, my husband being the first 😍. I love him for that too. Trust me, there are very nice men, who can act fair and who are very reasonable too.

Some ITV shows do show such kind of men.

Kidnapping drama will never come out. Everybody has forgotten because it was brought in a situation of duress when make lead was out sick. Here they forget what is in original script, what will they remember their own iodiotic and meaningless twists!?

Originally posted by: Justasuperbgirl

#SoSweet🤩

#ThatHeIs 😆

Thank you ❤

Originally posted by: laksh

@bold kind of, but I wouldn't say every man. There a lot of changes in men, especially these days. Not all men expect their wife to adjust, infact many have started to expect their parents to adjust, some to act fair and some for their selfish reasons in an unreasonable way too.

Traditional men do have such expectations unfortunately. TBH it is unrealistic. 9 out of 10 times, care towards spouse's family often comes through understanding between the spouses, not the other way around. But things are slowly changing.

Things are changing, some are changing for good, some are turning into a selfish son too. Some people when both husband and wife are working and when they are very ambitious or have big dreams, they expect a lot out of parents, they expect parents to adjust a lot, they don't even care about them.

Yes. Have seen such selfish children too. 😭

Reciprocating care towards wife's family? I know some who do it, my husband being the first 😍. I love him for that too. Trust me, there are very nice men, who can act fair and who are very reasonable too.

Wow! That is so sweet. That is how it should be - where spouses support each other and care for both the families.

Some ITV shows do show such kind of men.

Really?

Originally posted by: laksh

#ThatHeIs 😆

You know it took me quite a few minutes to figure out the hashtag cuz 'i' and 'l' look so similar🤣Hashtags can be misleading sometimes🤣

Originally posted by: Justasuperbgirl

You know it took me quite a few minutes to figure out the hashtag cuz 'i' and 'l' look so similar🤣Hashtags can be misleading sometimes🤣

Lol 🤣🤣