Episode Spoiler - 17 May 2021 - Page 3

Originally posted by: Vibrant_Ana

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It was expected of Sanki to not believe inspite of the truth... He is very 'Kaan ka kaccha'... bad mein kabhi tobhi realize hoga....

Raghav and counter part talk was 👍🏼... seeing a bit of change in RR where we get to now see his counter part.

I get it why Pallavi loves the Deshmukhs to the point she is not ready to see the reality.... which eventually 'maybe' she will or won't she ever???? Raghav is a straight shooter which I like but unfortunately this gets him in trouble...

I don't think there is a cure to Pallavi's blindness towards her family

Hope that love of Raghav will help her see new things and understand that Trashmukhs aren't worth it

And same goes for Raghav, a family who threatens you at every point can't be a genuine family too

Originally posted by: RosyRosh

The first part and raghav basically echoing full fandoms gripes with deshmukhs was 👏 so on point.

Raghab talking to raghav 🤣 i frickin loved it.

Pallus bind love for deshmukhs is understandable i still support her but im happy raghav said they arent worth it.. i hope SHE comes to that realization herself. Shes still hurting so i really cant blame her much in what she said today. But LOVED raghvi today. Some honest listening by raghav is so refreshing and then him telling her some harsh realities 👏

I do think deep deep deep down she knows that Raghav is right, but that truth is so bitter that she doesn't want to even acknowledge it, let alone think about it. This is why she was so defensive today and right now isn't the appropriate time to make her see sense. She's still hurting.

Raghav needs to find other 'less harsh' ways to tell her about realities and it may take a longer time to get there, as his alter ego said. The only way Raghav stays the course is if he is invested enough to put that time and effort in. The damage he caused was quick to execute but reparations will take a long time, maybe forever. Also, even though he knows how useless and selfish D-fam are, and that Pallavi is better off without them, he cannot play puppeteer in their lives and make this happen. I have said this a few times, he needs to learn to accept that there are some situations and outcomes which he cannot control, as well as the duration it takes to achieve those outcomes. At the end of the day, only Pallavi can make that decision as to whether she wants the D-fam in her life or not. If he goes about this with a savior complex they are both doomed.

At this point, I wish she'd go to Kolhapur for a bit. She could do with the break and her actual family might be able to provide some comfort without judging her. I can just imagine Siddesh remembering his warning to his wife that something like this would happen. He won't be too pleased being in a position now where he feels like 'I told you so'.

Originally posted by: christobelle

I don't think there is a cure to Pallavi's blindness towards her family

Hope that love of Raghav will help her see new things and understand that Trashmukhs aren't worth it

And same goes for Raghav, a family who threatens you at every point can't be a genuine family too

Makers should now give alone time to RaghVi

... leaving their toxic family aside..

Originally posted by: inlieu

I'm glad that Pallavi even in her anger and frustration pointed out that Raghav's family weren't exactly supporting him all the way.

She echoed what we've been saying about Amma and Keerti. @bold exactly.

The more I see Amma, the more I feel she is responsible to a large extent for the way he turned out over the years. He must have left home when he was a teenager, and in his formative years, he lost his way and struggle to develop good values.

The more I see this story progress, the more I feel that these two will really have no one else other than each other who will love them so much and be loyal to them come what may. Except maybe Siddhesh and Farhad. Let's see.

Amma is beyond redeemable now

the way she threatened him in precap. She lost all respect from me.

the guy is already in guilt and trying to set things right? yet u go n threaten him giving all the more mental pressure on him

I feel for his mental health now!!

I love Siddesh to the core now, whatever he may become in future. I don't care . I respect him for supporting his sister without parents for so many years

Originally posted by: christobelle

I really don't want slapfest really

I don't like it anymore . Too much violence.

I cringed hard when she slapped Raghav

I didnt cringe..pata nahi kyun slaps dont realy affect me like they do a lot of people 🤣 mein hawa mein filter kaar hi deti hoon for thr most part. Depends on circumstance.

Originally posted by: RosyRosh

Today was a side of raghav we never saw and it was so refreshing. Raghav genuinly caring for pallavi. Genuinly feeling hate for people who are hurting her. And genuinly wanting better for her. It was BEAUTIFUL. The moment he grabbed her hand today. Was so powerful. I cannot say how much i LOVED todays raghvi scene. There was SOOOO much depth in what was said, and what was felt.

I am so happy that we got this slow down of events where they both take time to try to figure things out. They are both hurting and both confused because external factors have pulled the rug from beneath them. Raghav is out of his depth in handling sensitive situations like this, while Pallavi feels that any point of reference she had in the past is no longer available to her, making her disoriented.

This episode gives me hope that we will get meaningful deep, soul-stirring conversations between them over the course of time. I almost felt as the writers were reassuring us that they knew we wanted this and that it was required, and telling us to hold on, the good stuff is coming.

I so love this show! ❤️

Originally posted by: RosyRosh

Im not disappointed in pallavi honstly. Her perspective is justified. What she us doing to her brother is not okay. But i also think the siddesh thing is a fluke on writers part. Pallu is obssessed eith deshmukhs so much so she has made that her fam over her own fam (bro) and i think that was all the writers wanted to highlight. How important that fanily is for her.. but in turn it came off as her being callous towards her brother but i blame it on bad writing and lack of focus on bringing in her bro and sis in law. ..

Her blind faith and love is understandable. ..

Her slap was not justified but when she backed i up with " dont steal my only good memories too". Pallu slapped out of defensiveness. Not that its okay. Just saying that she slapped because she already lost her family in her eyes because of raghav and now again raghav s saying things that may make her loose her good memories too and she is afraid of totally loosing them. So part of me also understands that. Raghav said id calmly which is a PLUS for him but he was callous about it. He just up and up said forget the family that she calls her own. If someone told him forget your amma and keerti.. raghav would set the city on fire. 😆 so its not that easy to bring up and he was being a kid and innocent . He meant well but it came off pretty callous.

I m sorry to disagree with you

If going by writers logic. I can say oh writers slipped and made raghav behave like a jerk

Its the whole thing we r seeing for both Raghav and Pallavi

The violence thing is getting overboard now. She should have shouted at him , its fine.

He talked to her in a gentle tone too not a domineering tone to receive a slap at that time

Its high time makers stop this violence. It is distasteful to see onscreen

Originally posted by: samarp2

exactly.more then in laws her brother who took care of her...not them🤪

no logic only🤔

I just feel sad for siddesh. I m becoming a siddesh stan now!!

Originally posted by: christobelle

Raghav has deeply started caring for as hos wife and his family now.

He really wants her to be happy. Pallavi expressing things to him abt her life.

We could see a glimpse of her past and how she craved for family love. But i m still irked with her behavior towards her brother. The brother who took care of her when noone was there is her real family unlike Deshmukhs.

She completely disregarded him for the love of Deshmukhs. After hearing the past, I feel more sad for Siddesh. If it was any other girl then Pallavi, then the brother like Siddesh would be worshipped.

And slap to Raghav was totally unnecessary . He was explaining things calmly. Y the hell would u slap?. It is going very violent towards Raghav. I m not liking it

Brother, who?

I felt the same as you. It can't have been easy to raise her, a newborn, after having lost his parents and becoming orphaned himself. He must have just been a kid.

I hated the slap so much. It was uncalled for. I know she's hurting and so does he, so he let it pass. I don't want this becoming a habit between them. The real reason she hit him was because he told her tough things that she didn't want to accept and he touched a nerve.

Originally posted by: christobelle

I just feel sad for siddesh. I m becoming a siddesh stan now!!

i know😆.cause we tend to c other side of pic, which they r now showing🤣