By hook or by crook the divorce will happen

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Anupama said clearly "Rishta Tutate waqt aap ko pariwaar ki chinta hai, rishta todte waqt nahi thi" Both have such a subtle meaning. But they hold different meanings. Yesterday she was silent and today Vanraj is silent. And that how it should be. Anupama said that if the husband is feeling apologetic, so forgive. Yes I say she should forgive Vanraj. But not forgive by staying with him. This marriage was her dream, she expected respect and trust. If not love. Her expectations broke. If trust breaks, it cannot be the same like before.


Anupama saying woman has no right to think about herself. That made me think about Kavya. Kavya ko bura bol bol ke muh kharab kar rahi hai Leela. Aur Leela ke Maharaj khud ke baare mein hi sochte hai, par maafi maang li, isiliye woh achha ho gaya. Anupama still giving a chance to Leela, disappointed me. Whatever Anupama said, Kavya also felt that she felt for a wrong person. Even after knowing this, if she still stays with Vanraj than she is the foolish lady I know.


Hope is the word. Kavya, Anupama's hope will give fruits. Rest all hopes will be broken. As it is a rule, everyone cannot be happy. In these past years, Vanraj and family were happy except Kavya and Anupama. Now it's there turn to be happy. Toshu supporting his mother made me happy. He leaved it on her. Even Dolly changed side. But this Leela represents the older generation ladies who are still reluctant to change. Her thinking is real as it how old people think but not right.


Both getting ready and they have memories. That saree was meant to be put on a special occasion. This is Anupama's special occasion. Occasion of Anupama. He is still hoping Anupama to come back. How he kept the portion of his saree with him. Biwi to. anupama jaise hi, Kavya kaise kar payegi. That day he said Tujhme mujhe patni dikhi. He never expected divorce, if he didn't want divorce than he should've been loyal to her. Agar loyal rahe hote to Anupama divorce bhi nahi deti.


Anupama faints and Vanraj scolds her. Again a hope passed in everyone's thought. Everyone stopped her again but this lady is determined. I don't like her Mahanta but just appreciating her strong will happen

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Posted: 4 years ago
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As a new viewer I have seen the flashbacks only and have seen the first episode only so I have no idea what happened in between but I did not like the episode 1 wali Anupama . I thought same old story forgiving mahaan heroine but today I won't call her the same . I don't find Anupama mahaan maybe I don't like Vanraj or Kavya much . I could not like the pictures posted of Vanraj and Anupama on social media by production house . I want the divorce to happen. I heard trps have dropped . Iam not bothered about it. I just want to watch this new 12th pass Anupama who impresses me a lot. Todays episode I watched twice.

Today I felt Anupamas views as to why she is still going for divorce was an answer to those viewers who want her to forgive Vanraj. Husband is repenting why is Anupama so stubborn now. She gave an appropriate answer . Yes maybe she is more forgiving towards Kavya than Vanraj . Let's see what is in store next. They r dragging a bit but it is an imp milestone so maybe it is needed.

Leela is the mindset . Somewhere she is right now Anupama will have to hear a lot but she does not have any baggage and people to please. She is free to do what she wants now . Glad to see supportive Tosu and Dollybeen.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Anupama said clearly "Rishta Tutate waqt aap ko pariwaar ki chinta hai, rishta todte waqt nahi thi" Both have such a subtle meaning. But they hold different meanings. Yesterday she was silent and today Vanraj is silent. And that how it should be. Anupama said that if the husband is feeling apologetic, so forgive. Yes I say she should forgive Vanraj. But not forgive by staying with him. This marriage was her dream, she expected respect and trust. If not love. Her expectations broke. If trust breaks, it cannot be the same like before.


Anupama saying woman has no right to think about herself. That made me think about Kavya. Kavya ko bura bol bol ke muh kharab kar rahi hai Leela. Aur Leela ke Maharaj khud ke baare mein hi sochte hai, par maafi maang li, isiliye woh achha ho gaya. Anupama still giving a chance to Leela, disappointed me. Whatever Anupama said, Kavya also felt that she felt for a wrong person. Even after knowing this, if she still stays with Vanraj than she is the foolish lady I know.


Hope is the word. Kavya, Anupama's hope will give fruits. Rest all hopes will be broken. As it is a rule, everyone cannot be happy. In these past years, Vanraj and family were happy except Kavya and Anupama. Now it's there turn to be happy. Toshu supporting his mother made me happy. He leaved it on her. Even Dolly changed side. But this Leela represents the older generation ladies who are still reluctant to change. Her thinking is real as it how old people think but not right.


Both getting ready and they have memories. That saree was meant to be put on a special occasion. This is Anupama's special occasion. Occasion of Anupama. He is still hoping Anupama to come back. How he kept the portion of his saree with him. Biwi to. anupama jaise hi, Kavya kaise kar payegi. That day he said Tujhme mujhe patni dikhi. He never expected divorce, if he didn't want divorce than he should've been loyal to her. Agar loyal rahe hote to Anupama divorce bhi nahi deti.


Anupama faints and Vanraj scolds her. Again a hope passed in everyone's thought. Everyone stopped her again but this lady is determined. I don't like her Mahanta but just appreciating her strong will happen


@red - perfect description of the scene and situation, totally bang on you have stated.

@bold - actually it was good she gave chance to leela, bcoz Leela ko khud pata chala ki Anupamaa is right. The thing she couldn't say, she wanted Anupamaa to live her whole life.


I laughed when Kavya told Vanraj ki mujhse zyada pyaar tumse koi nahi kar sakta, Kavya doesn't understand what she has for Vanraj is obsession, love is what Anupamaa had for Vanraj for 25 years. Also she warning Vanraj ki agar main tumse itna pyaar kar sakti hun, toh utni nafrat bhi kar sakti hun and I thought iska pyaar hi itna dangerous and suffocating hai nafrat toh pata nahi kaise hogi.

Seeing Vanraj helpless against both the lady that he took for ride for so many years was such a comforting sight. He deserves this helplessness, which Anupamaa had for 25 years, he is reaping what he sowed.

Toshu and dolly finally taking Anu's side was good to see.

They could have avoided this behoshi drama. It makes Anu look stubborn than strong. Though we know how strong she has been throughout since the expose.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Kul se mera dhyan serial mein kisi character pe nahin rahega bus ek cheez pe dhyan rahega and woh hai only ghadi ki sui pe ki 9 am hua ki nahin

3 din ho gaye abhi 9am nahin baje

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I have been Der

Suddenly relatives forget to invite you for parties

Suddenly u are not invited to any marriages

Suddenly u are a black sheep

It does not matter what the man has done to drive u to that state and to save u r life u walked away.

I know friends who have listened to taunts and all kinds of shit


It is very important to do this journey on your own . My bro had told me I am there in the shadows but this is u r journey and u must make it alone.

Stay safe ❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: rekha02

As a new viewer I have seen the flashbacks only and have seen the first episode only so I have no idea what happened in between but I did not like the episode 1 wali Anupama . I thought same old story forgiving mahaan heroine but today I won't call her the same . I don't find Anupama mahaan maybe I don't like Vanraj or Kavya much . I could not like the pictures posted of Vanraj and Anupama on social media by production house . I want the divorce to happen. I heard trps have dropped . Iam not bothered about it. I just want to watch this new 12th pass Anupama who impresses me a lot. Todays episode I watched twice.

Today I felt Anupamas views as to why she is still going for divorce was an answer to those viewers who want her to forgive Vanraj. Husband is repenting why is Anupama so stubborn now. She gave an appropriate answer . Yes maybe she is more forgiving towards Kavya than Vanraj . Let's see what is in store next. They r dragging a bit but it is an imp milestone so maybe it is needed.

Leela is the mindset . Somewhere she is right now Anupama will have to hear a lot but she does not have any baggage and people to please. She is free to do what she wants now . Glad to see supportive Tosu and Dollybeen.


Episode 1 gave a typical Anupama vibe... But the promo was promising. From the promo I made it clear, that this serial will leave the mark. And see this serial is working.


We are talking about the Mahanta because only she can solve the problem. Be it Kavya or Vanraj. We appreciate if she would have been a grey character with some fault.


Even I don't like Anuraj photo together

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: neo7


@red - perfect description of the scene and situation, totally bang on you have stated.

@bold - actually it was good she gave chance to leela, bcoz Leela ko khud pata chala ki Anupamaa is right. The thing she couldn't say, she wanted Anupamaa to live her whole life.


I laughed when Kavya told Vanraj ki mujhse zyada pyaar tumse koi nahi kar sakta, Kavya doesn't understand what she has for Vanraj is obsession, love is what Anupamaa had for Vanraj for 25 years. Also she warning Vanraj ki agar main tumse itna pyaar kar sakti hun, toh utni nafrat bhi kar sakti hun and I thought iska pyaar hi itna dangerous and suffocating hai nafrat toh pata nahi kaise hogi.

Seeing Vanraj helpless against both the lady that he took for ride for so many years was such a comforting sight. He deserves this helplessness, which Anupamaa had for 25 years, he is reaping what he sowed.

Toshu and dolly finally taking Anu's side was good to see.

They could have avoided this behoshi drama. It makes Anu look stubborn than strong. Though we know how strong she has been throughout since the expose.


Thanks niyati. I. Prefer calling you Niyo... It sounds cute 


Inside Leela knows Anupama is right but the mother in her, makes her thinks selfishly. But if she keeps herself in Anupama's shoes she would've done the same.


Didn't like this fainting scene. Mein soch rahi thi, mein aa jati hu madad karne ke liye par please Khadi ho jaao divorce keiye😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

Kul se mera dhyan serial mein kisi character pe nahin rahega bus ek cheez pe dhyan rahega and woh hai only ghadi ki sui pe ki 9 am hua ki nahin

3 din ho gaye abhi 9am nahin baje


Same it's 2 hours left... Waiting for 9 am

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Posted: 4 years ago
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so which century the divorce is taking place

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnjuRish

I have been Der

Suddenly relatives forget to invite you for parties

Suddenly u are not invited to any marriages

Suddenly u are a black sheep

It does not matter what the man has done to drive u to that state and to save u r life u walked away.

I know friends who have listened to taunts and all kinds of shit


It is very important to do this journey on your own . My bro had told me I am there in the shadows but this is u r journey and u must make it alone.

Stay safe ❤️


Perfectly answered. Can I know your name?


Journey are all alone. See the corona scene, we all are alone in the fights. Does anyone helps us? They might help us with the injections but can they cure your illness? No.


Journey's are meant to be lived alone. No one fights your fights


Stay safe

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