Originally posted by: butterturnips
It's simply hypocrisy, you see I speak things as it is! Why does Shaurya needs to change himself when he's not ready to? It's so toxic to expect someone to change for somebody just because he's in love... Remember the episode when Anokhi was kinda forcing him to feel sorry for his actions towards Aastha and wanted him to apologize to her, but Aastha scolded her and said that it's a useless thing to force somebody to do something because that won't be genuine.
People wish to see Shaurya change at any cost to be with Anokhi, kyun bhai? Uski marzi h! Such behaviour is not expected from Anokhi because it would mean that she's losing her self-respect so why do we wish to see Shaurya behave unlike himself?
Heah I agree with you and thats the same thing I am not able to understand and thats why I am screaming since morning that I feel they both are just toxic for each other its not only shaurya for her or her dreams so is she for shaurya and his life.
They don't add up as pair to me.
And I am not talking about her dancing,smiling or anything to judge her,I am talking about their traits,they don't match or add up.
If shaurya couldn't be her support system due to his MCP traits as well as his attitude as well as past baggage could be detrimental for her than her judging nature,her insecurities regarding men as well as taking decision sole handedly and not giving chance of explaination or even listening out other person especially shaurya is not good for his issues and emotional baggage.
Its equal on both side,its not one person keeps on changing himself and why should Anokhi had to change her and why should shaurya had to chamge,if shaurya meed to deal with his insecurities by himself than Anokhi also need to deal with her insecurities by herself than we say ki no shaurya soothe her insecurities matlab
Both have issues and none of them had small than other person.If shaurya had to soothe anokhi's imsecurities than Anokhi also had to calm his imsecurities aisa nahi ho sakta ki shaurya apni insecurities se bhi khud deal kare aur Anokhi ki se bhi deal kare same goes for Anokhi,it would normally be emotionally exhausting for a person and such relationships are only burden.