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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikita_99503

Same here... Half the time I used to search the insta and Twitter tags, the updates, bts videos, episode updates etc. Ab to I'm not even googling it.

I myself come here to chat with you all... and yes rant on the show and characters.

I myself am not keeping any expectations from the show...


currently i stopped watching other serial too i.e SAKK but sometimes i watch few scenes of pandya store they are showing horror comedy track ...thats ok entertaining. I think in almost all serial they show how rich ppl live are pathetic and the life of poor gal who marry in rich family becomes more pathetic...in real life i dont think so rich or upper middle class ppl life are bad. Bt majority of audience are middle class so they love to watch troubles in rich ppl life.

Serial makers shuld think abt entertaining audience in other way like showing some light scenes and shuld stop showing revenge track,kidnapping track or murder tracks. Also now there is a trend in almost every serial due to covid lead stars getting kidnapped 😕. Aree bhai hume bhi pta hai samne wala shoot nhi krsakta toh hume kb tak bevkoof bnayoge bta do na clearly character ko covid hai nd he cant meet anyperson .In last 2 months almost every serial cast affected due to covid

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Hi all ..looks like things are getting worse on the show...

Really so sad that in this day and age when people are fighting for their rights... especially women are standing up for themselves, a big show like this is showing domestic violence and abuse.. it's reall silly and disgusting..

Sometimes I wonder don't the actor themselves questions the writers ki mera character itna butcher kyu kiya hai..

Anyway.. even I have stopped watching the show . I am on twitter and I actually re opened my very old account to see posts on the show . But now I don't bother...I don't know how to reach out to those people also.. can tag star plus and the actors but no idea who the writers are..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Khushi_Albeli


currently i stopped watching other serial too i.e SAKK but sometimes i watch few scenes of pandya store they are showing horror comedy track ...thats ok entertaining. I think in almost all serial they show how rich ppl live are pathetic and the life of poor gal who marry in rich family becomes more pathetic...in real life i dont think so rich or upper middle class ppl life are bad. Bt majority of audience are middle class so they love to watch troubles in rich ppl life.

Serial makers shuld think abt entertaining audience in other way like showing some light scenes and shuld stop showing revenge track,kidnapping track or murder tracks. Also now there is a trend in almost every serial due to covid lead stars getting kidnapped 😕. Aree bhai hume bhi pta hai samne wala shoot nhi krsakta toh hume kb tak bevkoof bnayoge bta do na clearly character ko covid hai nd he cant meet anyperson .In last 2 months almost every serial cast affected due to covid

I myself am just randomly following SAAKK. Haan, I'm following MHRW regularly. Pandya store and Ghum hai... bhi follow kar rahe hain... though not on a regular basis. Pandya Store is an entertaining one indeed.

Yeah, in majority of shows they have the same concept... Poor girl married into a rich family and then facing troubles. In real life, there are people from the upper middle class and rich families who are like this but that happens in less cases. ITV mein to har rich family ko aise hi snobbish, rude, conniving and villainous dikhate hain.

That's true. The makers should think of different entertaining tracks rather than the same old murder, kidnap, accusing for something etc.

Now, here if any actor is tested covid positive, they have to do something to account for his/her absence. Kidnapping is the easiest way out.

Besides, in maximum shows, they do not show the covid situation. We rarely see the characters of shows mentioning the covid situation.

Haan, in the Sab TV shows that I have checked, they have shown the covid situation and there, they have shown things realistically. And that made me kinda happy.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: ArVi-licious

Hi all ..looks like things are getting worse on the show...

Really so sad that in this day and age when people are fighting for their rights... especially women are standing up for themselves, a big show like this is showing domestic violence and abuse.. it's reall silly and disgusting..

Sometimes I wonder don't the actor themselves questions the writers ki mera character itna butcher kyu kiya hai..

Anyway.. even I have stopped watching the show . I am on twitter and I actually re opened my very old account to see posts on the show . But now I don't bother...I don't know how to reach out to those people also.. can tag star plus and the actors but no idea who the writers are..

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True. Its indeed really silly and disgusting to see shows showing domestic violence and abuse in this manner.

Well, considering the fact that it is an exact remake of the original, there are chances that the actors might know what they are signing up for. Haan, since they have shown extra creativity with all those torture scenes, that might have come as a surprise for them.

I stopped watching the show long back... ab to WU padhna bhi chhod chuke hain. I just come here to have a chat with you all, that's it.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikita_99503

I myself am just randomly following SAAKK. Haan, I'm following MHRW regularly. Pandya store and Ghum hai... bhi follow kar rahe hain... though not on a regular basis. Pandya Store is an entertaining one indeed.

Yeah, in majority of shows they have the same concept... Poor girl married into a rich family and then facing troubles. In real life, there are people from the upper middle class and rich families who are like this but that happens in less cases. ITV mein to har rich family ko aise hi snobbish, rude, conniving and villainous dikhate hain.

That's true. The makers should think of different entertaining tracks rather than the same old murder, kidnap, accusing for something etc.

Now, here if any actor is tested covid positive, they have to do something to account for his/her absence. Kidnapping is the easiest way out.

Besides, in maximum shows, they do not show the covid situation. We rarely see the characters of shows mentioning the covid situation.

Haan, in the Sab TV shows that I have checked, they have shown the covid situation and there, they have shown things realistically. And that made me kinda happy.


ohh i never watched sab tv ...thats good that sitcoms are showing reality.

Yaa rich ppl's family they show in serial looks villanious...but i never saw any family who oppose girl higher education or against love marriages in real life....parents around me like my relatives nd all are very supportive so i cant digest that fact girls getting married early nd getting tortured by in laws or husband( i read news abt domestic violences) or doing love marriages against family.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Khushi_Albeli


ohh i never watched sab tv ...thats good that sitcoms are showing reality.

Yaa rich ppl's family they show in serial looks villanious...but i never saw any family who oppose girl higher education or against love marriages in real life....parents around me like my relatives nd all are very supportive so i cant digest that fact girls getting married early nd getting tortured by in laws or husband( i read news abt domestic violences) or doing love marriages against family.

I myself don't watch Sab TV much. Actually I am crazy about VFX of different shows so there is one show called Baalveer Returns, kids show hai but I regularly check Sab TV YouTube channel for the scenes which have VFX as the show has some really amazing VFX.

So, Sab TV ka YouTube channel check kiya tha humne and I saw several shows focusing on the pandemic, importance of masks, sanitizers, physical distancing and all. So, I was impressed with the shows... in fact, a couple of shows actually showed covid as a reason for the absence when the actors were tested covid positive.


True. In shows, almost all rich families are shown as villainous. Only rare cases are there where the family is good, loving and supportive. I myself have never seen any family opposing higher education for girls or girls doing jobs, love marriages and all.

I have read cases of domestic violence and abuse in both love and arranged marriages but that is just a small portion because as we all know, criminals are there. But they are not in such great numbers.

But here, what ITV shows is on an entirely different level... and another point is that viewers actually enjoy that and give trps. Makers want trps, nothing else matters to them... and if they get trps by showing such regressive content, why will they stop?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikita_99503

I myself don't watch Sab TV much. Actually I am crazy about VFX of different shows so there is one show called Baalveer Returns, kids show hai but I regularly check Sab TV YouTube channel for the scenes which have VFX as the show has some really amazing VFX.

So, Sab TV ka YouTube channel check kiya tha humne and I saw several shows focusing on the pandemic, importance of masks, sanitizers, physical distancing and all. So, I was impressed with the shows... in fact, a couple of shows actually showed covid as a reason for the absence when the actors were tested covid positive.


True. In shows, almost all rich families are shown as villainous. Only rare cases are there where the family is good, loving and supportive. I myself have never seen any family opposing higher education for girls or girls doing jobs, love marriages and all.

I have read cases of domestic violence and abuse in both love and arranged marriages but that is just a small portion because as we all know, criminals are there. But they are not in such great numbers.

But here, what ITV shows is on an entirely different level... and another point is that viewers actually enjoy that and give trps. Makers want trps, nothing else matters to them... and if they get trps by showing such regressive content, why will they stop?

May be they feel that if they show good content, people might not see the serial but in reality we are looking for shows which actually promote social awareness and goodness among all.

Regarding love marriage and all, it actually depends on the family atmosphere you grew up in

There are cases of honor killing and also cases of accepting love marriages

I myself saw some of my friends who had to leave country to be safe from their family and also few fndz who got supportive parents (both sides) after inter religion/caste marriages

Again completely based on perspectives

Ya it’s true that most parents won’t compromise their kid’s education

Half the FLs are not educated or 5th or 10th passes

They should change this trend

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Swetyz

May be they feel that if they show good content, people might not see the serial but in reality we are looking for shows which actually promote social awareness and goodness among all.

Regarding love marriage and all, it actually depends on the family atmosphere you grew up in

There are cases of honor killing and also cases of accepting love marriages

I myself saw some of my friends who had to leave country to be safe from their family and also few fndz who got supportive parents (both sides) after inter religion/caste marriages

Again completely based on perspectives

Ya it’s true that most parents won’t compromise their kid’s education

Half the FLs are not educated or 5th or 10th passes

They should change this trend

Well that's true enough. Besides, at times its the viewers who make them feel like that because the shows get trps. And at the end of the day, trp is what matters.

Agree completely. Love marriage and all depends on the family atmosphere. I myself have read cases of honour killings and also cases of accepting love marriages. In fact, my cousin has done a love marriage and the families accepted the marriage whole heartedly. So, there are both cases everywhere...

In today's scenario, most parents definitely will not compromise on kids' education. Yes, there are places where girls aren't allowed to study further but then, times are changing now.

Upar se, ITV and its trend of getting leads married at a young age... Ye ek alag issue hai.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikita_99503

Well that's true enough. Besides, at times its the viewers who make them feel like that because the shows get trps. And at the end of the day, trp is what matters.

Agree completely. Love marriage and all depends on the family atmosphere. I myself have read cases of honour killings and also cases of accepting love marriages. In fact, my cousin has done a love marriage and the families accepted the marriage whole heartedly. So, there are both cases everywhere...

In today's scenario, most parents definitely will not compromise on kids' education. Yes, there are places where girls aren't allowed to study further but then, times are changing now.

Upar se, ITV and its trend of getting leads married at a young age... Ye ek alag issue hai.

Ya either getting married in young age or blackmail marriages

Most of the girls will be getting married around 23( worst case) but here tho, they are getting married around 18 yrs age and the age gap is 8+ years

In original, no one want to marry with age gap more than 3 yrs

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Swetyz

Ya either getting married in young age or blackmail marriages

Most of the girls will be getting married around 23( worst case) but here tho, they are getting married around 18 yrs age and the age gap is 8+ years

In original, no one want to marry with age gap more than 3 yrs

Yeah... The leads either get married in a young age and mostly have hate/blackmail marriages or have a bride/groom swap or something like that.

Yes, most of the FLs get married at around 23-24. Isse zyada age ki koi FL nahi hoti in general. Haan, Ghum mein to FL is only 18 or so and the age gap with the ML is 8+ years.

Real life mein to humne kisi ko bhi 25 ke pehle shaadi karte hue nahi dekha... and age gap bhi only 3 years at the most hi dekha hai.

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