Mehendi hai rachne wali discussion thread no 23 - Page 117

Originally posted by: SONIA441

I haven't watched the epi yet but from what I read:

Matlab Pallavi isn't human kya? ...Khudse kyun nahi samajh aaya issko ki how would she have felt about the marriage rituals.

Answer to my own question of the above - Yeh 17 saal ka baccha bas jhaapad khaane mein expert banega😡. Can't Amma see that instead of giving him slaps par slaps, she needs to sit him down & make him understand certain things. Since she threw him out of home in his teenage years, he doesn't know how to handle relationships. Usse sirf Amma aur Kirti chahiye & Farhad ki friendship rahi hai😲. .In all other relationships maamla, this guy is total Dabba Gul🤦

Secondly, I think Shivangi hasn't been well for some days now, the Team is probably trying to keep her isolated in case the worst case scenario occurs, whole shooting will have to be stopped again. I guess Body Double jhelna hi padega humein😔 .

Amma, No more slapping please. Just punish in other ways or sit and talk to find a resolution. This isnt going to help fix anything.

Washroom scene ki manokamna puri huyi...😭😭

Originally posted by: KambakthIshq

Looked like Keerthi felt a little bad for her bro

Originally posted by: rmahi25

Washroom scene ki manokamna puri huyi...😭😭

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Originally posted by: MistyDawn

That or maybe she knew Sharda would never agree to her proposal lol I mean she knew that Pallavi was thrown out of the house because of Raghav. Why would Sharda agree to marry off her daughter to such a man? Amma got what she wanted and chose to look the other way when Keerthi kept warning her..and now she is being selfish in putting the entire blame of on Raghav? When she has always been so skeptical of his methods then why did she not enquire earlier about how he was gonna get Pallavi to marry him after all he has done? Ab thappad marke kya hoga? She is the one who should take the entire blame not Raghav..

I agree, and I kind of liked it when Raghav asked her what is it this time? what did I do wrong? Just like he challenged her respectfully during the sangeet about her prejudices against him, he sounded like he did that today.

I am hoping one day he'll stop worshipping his mother and blindly doing things to please her without using his own judgement. I understand that he was desperate to have them live with him. His first instinct was to flat out refuse to marry Pallavi, but then he lost the battle with his emotions. I am sure Amma will compel him to do other things in future and he will oblige, but where does he draw the line? Will he?

I want Keerti to also call out her mother for what she did because she's been saying from the beginning that they needed to consider Pallavi's feelings and her happiness.

I might be asking for too much but I want insights into how Raghav was parented by Amma as a kid and whether that had any bearing on how he turned out today. Let's see.

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

I don't know sometime i wonder if RR even considers Pallu as human because its natural for any human being to feel sorry for other when you see them is misery. RR saw her state of mind in wedding and after knowing she was a widow he could atleast think how traumatic it was for her to go through wedding rituals. I love Raghav but why no human emotions for Pallavi only? Being a widow is not sin but it is a traumatic experience. He went to bedroom to fight with her for the drama but no concern at all

Because he doesn't care about her being a widow or about widows being treated differently in the first place. I guess in his mind a woman's marital status has no bearing on how she should be judged for her character.
Rather, he now thinks she's stupid for doing so much for her in-laws, who he's seen first hand disrespecting her.

His main concern was being put in a tight spot in front of his guests and media, and not how she felt being a widow and then being married. She just doesn't factor into his equations at all. Like he said to Farhad, he is laser-focused on Amma and Keerti. Pallavi, to him, is just a means to and end, family reunification. She is just a pawn for him.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yeh thappad bachpan mein maarti to Raghav aisa na banta. 😆

Sahi kaha

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire

Today's episode they should have shown some reflection back to Raghav and the way he treated her..Atleast felt bad that she lost her husband and been living all alone managing her entire sasural. He pretty much added one more stress factor to her life. But nah, no closure, just jumped off to night scene or next day.

Raghav is very much human and caring. Not just for his Amma, Keerti or Farhad, but for even orphans..or beggars or anyone who is need of help. How could he be shown so cold towards Pallavi. Regardless of what she did.

The bathroom scene, yes RR was hot, but somehow that spark was missing..may be bcos it was rushed and he was RR giri himself..we wouldnt have minded some bartameezi..may be went near her to intimidate her and he himself got a sixer.

Pallavi and the water play, not her style..please dont make her childish. She is fighting a serious battle here not some nok jhok. The sringar was done was beautifully, I am really not sure how makers missed to get a view of RR. In his room, a beautiful lady getting ready, a mirror with both the red folks would have been ultimate.

I completely agree and to the spark part being missing I feel like makeup and lighting makes such a difference. They really need to slow down a bit on RRs makeup. He looks really good with less makeup. Felt like they white washed his face a bit, although his natural skincolor is sooo❤️❤️❤️❤️ gives him a very raw look

Originally posted by: inlieu

Because he doesn't care about her being a widow or about widows being treated differently in the first place. I guess in his mind a woman's marital status has no bearing on how she should be judged for her character.
Rather, he know thinks she's stupid for doing so much for her in-laws, who he's seen first hand disrespecting her.

His main concern was being put in a tight spot in front of his guests and media, and not how she felt being a widow and then being married. She just doesn't factor into his equations at all. Like he said to Farhad, he is laser-focused on Amma and Keerti. Pallavi, to him, is just a means to and end, family reunification. She is just a pawn for him.

Raghav feels money can buy everything, remember his dialog to his maid when he comes back home injured and there is blood so his maid try to treat him. He feels mony can buy everything. He tells Ramkrishna that you are showing emotion because of money i have and there is nothing caled pure love. I feel makers must reveal his past which will clear why he is behaving like this way.

He has emotions only for Amma and Kirti but for Pallavi he feels she too can be bought. Though he is realizing his own emotions for her he always tries to measure her as other money minded girls or other experiences.

He don't believe people can act selflessly.

Pallavi on the other hand is in mood of taking revange so she is thinking logical. Shown him law, her reality to give him guilt which he never experienced before

Both are deprived of love but differently in life so they will explore it only when understand each other.

He mentioned he likes her but immediately changes his stand.

He will need time to understand own emotions first guess Farad will play vital role here.