Nikki Tamboli gives it back to haters - Page 2

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

First of all we shouldn’t judge people who we don’t know? Just because someone is not showing their grief doesn’t mean they are not suffering. There are a lot of depressed/heartbroken people with a smile on their face. If someone is trying to be happy what’s wrong with that?

Her brothers death has nothing to do with her doing KKK. Yet some brainless judgemental people are comparing her grief with this show. How can she move on so fast??? Are what do know about a person you have never met.. talk as if she is your childhood friend and you know her every emotion. Live and let live.

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

Her post says she's not doing KKK because it's her work or because of her career, commitment etc, but because it makes her HAPPY.

Well... looks like she cares about her own happiness more than her brother, and then trying to justify it by saying that her happiness makes her brother happy as well lol.

It seems she hasn't changed at all or had any growth post Bigg Boss. Same old mean, selfish and shameless girl she was in the show.

Everyone's way of dealing with grief is different....don't judge people by your own vision of what someone should be doing in a particular situation...they are different than you....there is no right or wrong way.....she lost her only brother...she must be grieving.....her coping mechanism is different..that is all.

I used to think my world will end the day my mom dies..when she was battling cancer..but 3 days after her death i started getting back to life in small little ways and i would always Q myself..am I really doing this with her not being here anymore..i thought i will collapse..i was amazed at the strength with in me which also came from the fact that she is not here anymore but at least I am not seeing her in pain..full of tubes and needles..

Bottom line..STOP JUDGING PEOPLE..stop it right now esp when it comes to grief. Just like depression does not mean being sad all the time..grief is also not as simple as sitting in a corner and crying..it is way more complex and everyone has his own way of grieving. I have experienced it myself with my mom passing away. We do not know how many times nikki must be breaking down..just coz we see some pictures of her keeping a brave front..doesn't mean those weak moments won't be kicking in. It has been 9 months still sometimes i end up tearing up randomly something i didn't do in the initial days of my mom's demise..it is complicated..it is personal..and we better get our noses out of that space and let the person be and grive whatever way they want to. End of story! More power to Nikki!

Originally posted by: Rhimjhimsawan

So her dead brother, who she can no longer help or service in any way would want her to stay home and not work and be sad all day?

When I die, I want my loved ones to know they can do whatever they want that makes them happy. In fact I tell them this all the time. And unless you knew her brother personally and he told you otherwise I assume her brother would've wanted the same for her. He is gone. There is nothing they can do for him. If he was a normal man he probably would want them to be happy and do things in their lives.

Her brother is dead to want anything.

Like you said you're assuming things. How do you know that her brother would want her to move on? It's not just about moving on for me, but moving on SO QUICKLY.

Originally posted by: YehRashiThi

First of all we shouldn’t judge people who we don’t know? Just because someone is not showing their grief doesn’t mean they are not suffering. There are a lot of depressed/heartbroken people with a smile on their face. If someone is trying to be happy what’s wrong with that?

Her brothers death has nothing to do with her doing KKK. Yet some brainless judgemental people are comparing her grief with this show. How can she move on so fast??? Are what do know about a person you have never met.. talk as if she is your childhood friend and you know her every emotion. Live and let live.

@bold, Really? You're saying this while sitting on this forum? It's funny how everyone is telling me not to judge her because I don't know her. As if we know all other celebrities whom we judge daily on this forum. Please come down from your high horse.

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

Everyone's way of dealing with grief is different....don't judge people by your own vision of what someone should be doing in a particular situation...they are different than you....there is no right or wrong way.....she lost her only brother...she must be grieving.....her coping mechanism is different..that is all.

@bold, do remember this advice while shitting on other celebs on this forum.

KKK

Wait what 😆😆 had to double take on that

Can we please stop judging other people on how they are handling grief?

Matlab how is it impacting anyone else? It's like judging someone for their favourite color. It's their choice. Period.

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

Her brother is dead to want anything.

Like you said you're assuming things. How do you know that her brother would want her to move on? It's not just about moving on for me, but moving on SO QUICKLY.

@bold, Really? You're saying this while sitting on this forum? It's funny how everyone is telling me not to judge her because I don't know her. As if we know all other celebrities whom we judge daily on this forum. Please come down from your high horse.

@bold, do remember this advice while shitting on other celebs on this forum.

seriously..are you sitting on a forum going to decide what is 'too quick' for a sister who just lost a brother with whom she spent all her life so far..who is giving you that authority? why are you even having a say in this even..

Bullies , trolls , Haters get a life , she will do watever , it’s her life

Originally posted by: cougarTown

seriously..are you sitting on a forum going to decide what is 'too quick' for a sister who just lost a brother with whom she spent all her life so far..who is giving you that authority? why are you even having a say in this even..

Yes, I'm going to decide that and I don't need authority for that just like you people don't need authority while giving lectures on humanity and almost anything.

It's absolutely of people with no damn work, a horrible personal life, and shallow mentality to judge someone's coping mechanism of losing their sibling. Horrible of a different order. May they all realise their folly.

Despite losing a loved one everyone deserves to be happy. Are we walking back on the way of curbing someone's life based on the life and death of their loved ones? It's like they all might say Sati is how everyone should be treated after their spouse's death. What's with a sister not working and being happy post her brother's death?