What will be your choice?

I am not liking the current episodes and Anokhi's apparent apathy towards a certain someone. But nevertheless watching it thinking it will pick up the pace once Shaurya is back. It was like pushing the audience off the cliff after the Goa Birthday party. Love was in the air and all of a sudden the FL changed into an activist? I am all in for career-oriented women, but not heartless FL who does not even try to give a chance to her love and lover? Well... hope CVs read the forum.

If you are in Anokhi's place what will you choose? Shaurya or career? Or will you keep both Shaurya and your career? If it is me, I would have given the option to Shaurya to choose between her ideology and her. The choice should have been Shaurya's.

I prefer talking before being impulsive and judging that person

Let's have a chat and then lets know that are we on the same page?

Are we different but its not going to hamper either of ours freedom?

Our we different were one's freedom and self-respect is in question?

Lets talk! And then decide who is that person in the actual sense

Communication is needed, without that if decisions are taken then the relationship has no meaning, no trust nothing!

And judging someone for their past actions isn't good, rather think about their current actions and decide too

Ans before decision have a talk with that person so no room for misunderstandings

Originally posted by: Amphitrite

I prefer talking before being impulsive and judging that person

Let's have a chat and then lets know that are we on the same page?

Are we different but its not going to hamper either of ours freedom?

Our we different were one's freedom and self-respect is in question?

Lets talk! And then decide who is that person in the actual sense

Communication is needed, without that if decisions are taken then the relationship has no meaning, no trust nothing!

And judging someone for their past actions isn't good, rather think about their current actions and decide too

Ans before decision have a talk with that person so no room for misunderstandings

So true. Its my thought as well.

Not sure how much CVs can push Anokhi around. At some point, the trance of the audience who got hooked into the 'love' story will break.

Might be criticized for this... But none of the option is going down well with me.

As much as I want a proper communication, Anokhi and Shaurya must discuss proper conflicting point. Giving up ideologies isn't an easy task to be honest..

As much as we would never want a guy to force women to make a choice between career or marriage/love, expecting Anokhi to putting forth to 'choose' between her and ideology...

That's also a kind of blackmail... But for these two or any other couple for that matter .. There is always a middle path! Which is compromises.... And that has to be made from both sides....

While Shaurya needs to understand that Anokhi at her age will have multiple priorities, and Shaurya will be one of it vs. Anokhi needing to understand that career and dreams might not require anyone else's 'approval' but it definitely calls for listening to other people and finding the middle path.

One person making all the decisions, be it a guy or a girl is wrong! Ideologies have to change but it takes time..new perspectives need to develop. For a second, let's 'assume' that Shaurya has changed his perspective and expectations from his would be partner and will be okay with supporting Anokhi in every decision she takes... But what about his family? Has Shaurya actually thought about it in long term? Giving up ideology is kind of equal to giving up everything he has been bought up with... Giving up family to say the least... Saberwals I mean... Not actual maa papa... But it definitely isn't fair for Anokhi to in a way ask Shaurya to choose between her or family/ideology.

Just my take... Talk, discuss and find middle path with each of them making understand and rational compromises.

Originally posted by: Amphitrite

I prefer talking before being impulsive and judging that person

Let's have a chat and then lets know that are we on the same page?

Are we different but its not going to hamper either of ours freedom?

Our we different were one's freedom and self-respect is in question?

Lets talk! And then decide who is that person in the actual sense

Communication is needed, without that if decisions are taken then the relationship has no meaning, no trust nothing!

And judging someone for their past actions isn't good, rather think about their current actions and decide too

Ans before decision have a talk with that person so no room for misunderstandings

Agree.👍🏼

They don't communicate directly. In case of Anokhi so many people brainwash her. She makes her decisions on those basis. And Shaurya is such a nice guy but can't express his feelings properly.

Originally posted by: Nidhi14

Agree.👍🏼

They don't communicate directly. In case of Anokhi so many people brainwash her. She makes her decisions on those basis. And Shaurya is such a nice guy but can't express his feelings properly.

I dont want either of them to like take decisions on basis of past actions or anything

And not because what others say

I want them to talk to eachother. Have a discussion and then come to a decision

Which should be independent of all the pressure and biasedness

Just plain discussion and both decide upon whats best for them

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Might be criticized for this... But none of the option is going down well with me.

As much as I want a proper communication, Anokhi and Shaurya must discuss proper conflicting point. Giving up ideologies isn't an easy task to be honest..

As much as we would never want a guy to force women to make a choice between career or marriage/love, expecting Anokhi to putting forth to 'choose' between her and ideology...

That's also a kind of blackmail... But for these two or any other couple for that matter .. There is always a middle path! Which is compromises.... And that has to be made from both sides....

While Shaurya needs to understand that Anokhi at her age will have multiple priorities, and Shaurya will be one of it vs. Anokhi needing to understand that career and dreams might not require anyone else's 'approval' but it definitely calls for listening to other people and finding the middle path.

One person making all the decisions, be it a guy or a girl is wrong! Ideologies have to change but it takes time..new perspectives need to develop. For a second, let's 'assume' that Shaurya has changed his perspective and expectations from his would be partner and will be okay with supporting Anokhi in every decision she takes... But what about his family? Has Shaurya actually thought about it in long term? Giving up ideology is kind of equal to giving up everything he has been bought up with... Giving up family to say the least... Saberwals I mean... Not actual maa papa... But it definitely isn't fair for Anokhi to in a way ask Shaurya to choose between her or family/ideology.

Just my take... Talk, discuss and find middle path with each of them making understand and rational compromises.

That's a good point too.

what I meant by 'His ideology' is his inability to accept a career-oriented woman as a partner, that's the soch anokhi has a problem with. So how does a normal person deal with the problem? Talk about it and tell him that she has a problem with it. .... On the other hand, Shaurya very well knows Anokhi and her efforts to have a career. She had explicitly said that every time. There is no confusion, so if he still chooses to propose to her. Clearly, there is no confusion in his mind about her ideology. That's why I said, Anokhi should give Shaurya the option to choose between his ideology and her (It's clear that his choice is made, but Anokhi needs assurance).

It was Shaurya's decision to break up with Shagun because he wanted a housewife. The family did not force him and Shaan was even supportive of Shagun at that time. Of course, BM and Tej have. great impact on his personality. His 'parvarish' reflects on his personality. But so far he had always redeemed himself. Also from the last episode of BM & Tej confrontation, it's very very clear that Shaurya will always choose Anokhi over Family. But Neither Anokhi will force him to it nor the Sabarwals will let their precious son go away from them. I do not think the conflict with Family will come between Shaurya and Anokhi just yet!!! It's just my rambling thoughts. Might be wrong.,

Poor Shaurya did not even get one vote. Shakhians consolidated heart has turned into a stone. 😛

Originally posted by: sree07

Poor Shaurya did not even get one vote. Shakhians consolidated heart has turned into a stone. 😛

Originally posted by: Nidhi14

Actually that is my choice for Anokhi. Not me😉