Imlie ki bidaai - Page 23

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Wohi toh! 😆 It's been over 2 weeks and they still haven't shown Imlie actually attending a single class in college.....ek din sindoor drama ho gaya, uske baad yeh rose drama dikha diya and that's it.....lol woh bas corridors mein ghoom ke, bully hoke ghar waapis aa jaati hai......

Is it really so hard to manage a dhang ka classroom scene? lol ok chalo teacher nahin cast karna toh Imlie ko ghar pe hi dikhaa do books ke saath....but woh bhi nahin karna.....more time needs to be showing how elaborately Queen Didi is lounging around in her new bedroom space😆

Imlie bechari ko didi ke soups /juices/khati bhindi se fursat milti toh kitabon main ghusti na😆 ab toh woh bachi kuchi chance bhi gayi caz ab unhe AC ji ki daant khaani hai...

Waise bhi yeh imliya hai isko kitabon ki nahi babusahib ki zaroorat padti hai for padhna.. phir ek dum top karti hai😆 wohi iska padha sakte hain and tabhi iska dhyaan lagta hai.. so much for didi stealing the credit haha

Originally posted by: AreYaar

General request to everyone.....no need to condescend from either side excessively.

It's not about being "intellectual" or not.....everyone's patience is wearing thin for different reasons right now vis a vis the storyline. Some of us are able to keep patience better than others. But that doesn't mean we need to go around pointing fingers constantly at those who can't.

I have my days when the show frustrates me a lot too but I don't believe in writing off the show over every outrageous melodramatic gimmick. This show still has a lot going for it despite the drag and depression they are showing excessively since a month.....so it's helpful to view it with that context instead of making it about andolans.

Just my two cents.

Agree 100%

The supposed intelllect comment is not about the show or patience regarding the show.

it's just that everyone has their days and let's not call "All the SM gang is mehh Khali bartan awaaz wale..".

Agree 100% on show has lot to give that's the reson for high viewership and trp.. also all of us viewers active on different platforms

Yesterday some ppl couldn't take slap on their favorite in the precap and did some drama and I feel it's ok. Even though story is moving forward ppl are missing leads together and little frustrated. it's ok to be frustrated ,different ppl deal with it in different ways.

I try not to post here and I have many friends participate in SM to vent out a little, felt bad when a member made that statement .:) peace .. no issues

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeah I think we were discussing this in the previous thread also in some post that it's all about retaliation and vengeance for maa-beti......otherwise toh logically speaking if they both hate Aditya now, they should be happy to cut off all ties with him. But kuch log hote hain zindagi mein that spend their whole lives consumed by retaliation rather than relationships. Yeh maa-beti fall in that same category.

AC is in all out vengeance mode cuz she wants to make Adi-Imlie pay for her daughter's so called pain and also to get the satisfaction of running them down since she feels that they have insulted her many times.

AC thinks adi is another dev she doesn't want her daughter to be free caz that would mean freeing Aditya too.. she is a believer is living in toxicity which is why she never left too caz apparently duniya hi khatam ho jaaye agar shaadi toot jaaye too.. this sis what she has taught her beti too.ke toxicity main eh lo even after knowing so.obviously ke kuch bacha nahi hai actually khud toxic ban jao sabke lkye lekin daaman na chudhana caz that is the best revenge..🤦‍♀️ they are sadistic they would enjoy torturing adi and family and get joy out of that than thinking about finding the freedom and rebuilding life..AC lived by that example only and malini doesn't have the brain capacity to think for herself beyond the suicide stunts and random playing victim

Originally posted by: MuteButton

I agree. But do you think they want to get that balance back? Whatever they are trying to do seems to be working well for them toh karenge na over-utilize use? I would love to get a breather but they have been on it for a month now; going on a second easily without flinching. Isiliye I was thinking ki even if they tighten other storylines or make the overall mood lighter elsewhere, Malini ko har jagah intersperse karenge with her own issues. I actually think they like this constant depression they are meting out to us 😆

Which is why I am also guessing ki agar Imlie aati hai vaapas it still might be because of Malini.

Aur water cooler aapka hua.. 😆 as per the new spoiler mahaan didi hi laayeingi..

Malini didi is a soulsucker.. that has been established already I just want imlie to get to know.it...though they would never make her change her opinions ca then how will she remain mahaan.. it would be fun if she starts doing her chop like adi does too indirectly and the raise that instead of them doing didi ki aarti.all the time.. caz as a viewers stand point there is nothing left to hail didi anymore with her constant mind games

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I know Malini is going to be around as a long term issue to manage.....that's not what I'm talking about.

My point was that the story can't be spinning its wheels constantly in her depression.....yeah they can bring her up periodically to keep doing the token guilt tripping track they want to maintain as the basis for everything in this show.....but one after the other every event can't just be about her depression or people talking about her depression.....there is no oxygen left for the show overall then.

Again, the issue comes back to balance.....the makers still aren't really being able to balance that well overall cuz the track is only either about Malini's depressive self-pity or Imlie being abused.....there has to be some other angle added to maintain balance.

No storyline can continue long term only on the basis of managing the weak minded depression of a character as empty as Malini.....that's what the makers need to think through.....usko story mein latka ke rakhna hai, shauk se rakho....but show other stuff too beyond Imlie just getting demeaned by everyone. Even the TRP audience can only jhelo constant depression for so long.....they also need breaks in between.

Talking about Malini/Cs/Nishant just feels redundant, at times, because there's not much versatility other than the adjectives that we've all discussed in the past & presently. 😕😆 🤷‍♀️

The problem is that the show currently is not Imlie driven at all. She is a mere spectator in her own life. Also all her life decisions are being driven by Dementor Didi- be it her choice of college, be it her wanting to postpone her PC for the sake of Adi-Malini date, be it her refusal to go to college after Dementor Didi leaving the house, be it her agreeing to stay at C house. Writers have made Dementor Didi the center of her life.

Also the devotion that Imlie has for Dementor Didi is so one-sided that you only feel pity for her. In their fear of back lash from viewers regarding Adi-Imlie relationship developing even when he is married to Dementor Didi, the writers have made them completely blind against Dementor Didi's true nature. It is as if they are not allowed to have any negative thoughts about her even when warranted. They have to consider her as Mahaan to keep the feeling of guilt ongoing.

Basically Dementor Didi cannot be thought of in negative terms by any of the characters in- universe even though someone could have guessed or doubted her manipulative nature by now. Because once she is called out for this in the show, the writers cannot keep her as centrally relevant to Adi-Imlie. So they are just dragging this Dementor Didi torture phase. And frankly this is too much now.

Imlie needs to act & take control of her own life for whatever reason. She is the central character & her relationship with Adi is the core of the story. The story will continue to stagnate if they do not shift the focus from Dementor Didi to Imlie & Adi-Imlie relationship.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Awww yes and the landlines just made it even more 90's hahha idk kuch toh charm hai usme.. as ridiculous as it sounds in aaj kal ka zamana caz well landlines too have caller id's now.🤣 but phir bhi woh 90's ka feel remains intact and i really cherish that too it really sets then apart..

Ughh can didi already see her mummy ka athyachaar and take imlie back.. rofl didi will get golden opportunity to be mahaan again in front of imlie and her sasural.dekho kitni achi hai.. but use your so called achaai for actual benefit if someone for once instead of putting them through he'll everyday..

All this setup to plop up loservedis for imlie and give us some non existent khoon ke forced feelz which seems like a time waste activity caz jitna bhi try kar lein they will never be convincing in flipping the coin now given how pathetic they are...yeah am suddenly supposed to feel for that loserdaadi bachaooing imlie when she herself was accusing her of malini ka suicide yeah ok

@bold: So much WORD.....that is the poorest piece of writing in the whole show....Imlie ke so called khoon ka rishta with Loservedis which are supposed to make us feel for these khokhle rishte🤔....oh come on, man. Ek taraf they are showing genuine soulful connects like those of Adi-Imlie and characters like SK, Mithi etc.....and then they expect us to buy such shittyass character trying to give so called khoon ke rishte ki duhaai? GTFO.

Re: 90s feel.....haha yes as long as they still keep maintaining that, I think I will remain hooked in general even in the depression ka saagar they've made of the story otherwise.....lol .....yeh chhote chhote subtle/understated nuances we get from time to time do make the ride worth it even if we have to jhelo contrived psychos like Didi.

Originally posted by: Whatever765

This has exactly been the sore point for me with this show lately. They absolutely have no balance when it comes to the story telling. They all are beating the same bush ki how sad Malini is. Sach ka dhindora baja dete hain every now and then! And like you said I am not sure how long a TRP viewer can watch that. Eventually they want to see their characters rise no matter what teams people are in. I have mentioned this before too, they have all their key players there, so much can be shown in terms of their dynamics.. Rupidi- Imlie, Rupi di -Adi, Hell even Nishant- malini can chat, aparna and radha ji can chat about how things are changing....but nahi, all we get is wallowing didi or everyone else wallowing for her. Why is Imlie never shown studying in the house or college? Why is she always in the kitchen?

For now it almost looks like everyone is getting turns..I cannot wait for PD gang to start getting their turns!

LOL yes, that is the only solace we can take.....that sooner or later every character does get their turn, the wheel of the story turns and ghoom ke PD waalon pe bhi aayenge waapis......tab tak Didi ki bakwaas ya toh zone our karte raho ya jhel lo.....lol yehi options hain.

It's staggering to imagine people out there actually sympathizing with such a contrived shitty character simply cuz of her token bechaari laachaar act which is so obviously fake that it hardly requires "intellect" to catch.....lol oh well, it takes all kinds *shrugs*

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Imlie bechari ko didi ke soups /juices/khati bhindi se fursat milti toh kitabon main ghusti na😆 ab toh woh bachi kuchi chance bhi gayi caz ab unhe AC ji ki daant khaani hai...

Waise bhi yeh imliya hai isko kitabon ki nahi babusahib ki zaroorat padti hai for padhna.. phir ek dum top karti hai😆 wohi iska padha sakte hain and tabhi iska dhyaan lagta hai.. so much for didi stealing the credit haha

Hahaha yes, Imlie ko Babusahib hi sabse achhe se padhaate hain but bechaare ko mauka hi kahaan mil paata hai aajkal😆.....bas PD mein hi padhaa paaya thoda sa😆.....He is the only one who has that faith in her ki woh exam ek ghante mein bhi complete kar legi late aakar bhi....cuz he knows a confidence/motivation boost can activate her potential far more than any mugging up for the exam😆

Aww ab mujhe Pythagorus theorem wala scene yaad aagaya....such fun stuff we got.....lol

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Aur water cooler aapka hua.. 😆 as per the new spoiler mahaan didi hi laayeingi..

Malini didi is a soulsucker.. that has been established already I just want imlie to get to know.it...though they would never make her change her opinions ca then how will she remain mahaan.. it would be fun if she starts doing her chop like adi does too indirectly and the raise that instead of them doing didi ki aarti.all the time.. caz as a viewers stand point there is nothing left to hail didi anymore with her constant mind games

@bold: I don't even have that much expectation that Imlie will know this😆.....uske jo haal hain, she will never comprehend Didi ki psychopanti in a million years....they are all taking her nonsense at face value and giving her a grand free pass in guilt....that's a default and maine ab expectation bhi chhod diya hai us maamle mein.

I want a subject change cuz cuz Malini is an unresolvable angle in this show long term.....you can only build scenes to bypass her cuz usko address karke toh koi faayda nahin and story will only be in depression mode around her......abhi drag karne mein busy hain, fine.....but at some point they have to give Imlie something to think and do beyond just cowering in front of Malini.....so let's see when/if that point comes.

Mujhe toh samajh nahin aata Malini jaise log kisi ko kaise cower karva sakte hain😆....kis baat ka intimidation feel hota hai logon ko aisi aurat se? lol itna low self-confidence hai sab mein ki bas ek sari and height se darr jaate hain?😆.....there is nothing even in her demeanor to be impressed by.....so weak minded and clingy all the time....total turn off. But they all behave like she's some Queen.....lol