Mehendi hai rachne wali discussion thread no 21 - Page 12

Originally posted by: Me000w

She has most defo failed him and then goes and says stuff about how much she loves him as a first born and wants the best for him, hence the conditional love. Ghanta! Her hypocrisy gives me a headache, and I cannot even encourage her current stance for wanting to become Pallavi's Amma coz god knows how long it will be till she will start FORCING RR and her to act a certain way, do rituals and stuff knowing perfectly well they dont believe in it. Bhaggu ki bhi mockery karwa do 🤔

Anyways, I REALLY dont want RR to be blind to her faults anymore. I dont want him to ignore it coz wo Amma ko apne paas rakhna chahta hai kyunki Amma is free in will to go wherever she likes, unko rassi se toh bandha hai nahi. She has come on a condition, she better be honest about what is coming next.

The thing is, he has been obsessed with reuniting with his family all these years, understandably. In his heart and mind he has this rosy picture of what family life would be like. Once reality hits him, he will start to question because that's just his nature. He never takes these things lightly and just like in the sangeet where he told her that things were not always his fault, he needs to point out that he can't be held accountable for every single thing. Others need to do that too.

Originally posted by: ImHemangi

dekhte hai kya hota hai...mother-child relation is something can’t understand from single aspect.. even applies to any relations in the world bjt let’s hope good fir amma rao n RR relation

Fair enough. Just pray they dont make a mockery of it by having her act weird with him.

Usko uski Amma ka thoda pyaar milne do.

Originally posted by: Me000w

I know that too. I just do not appreciate how some people have to burn to give others light and then found themselves in ashes. Even if those ashes become a phoenix someday, you can never really go back to where you started, and there is much lost and less to be gained.

Raghav is a tragic figure in some ways, and I expect he always will be. He will destroy himself to give others their happiness but when it's his turn he will never get it, or get his dues. I know he does all this without expecting returns, but that's what makes it even more painful.

Agree, some wounds become deeper with time, they just don't heal. Raghav may get his family back but he will never be the 17 year old innocent boy that he was once upon a time, neither are his mother and sister the same. The trauma is too deep and the pain is still raw. I know he will realize it one day, and this is where I hope Pallavi's love will give him something else to focus on and build new memories, instead of trying to reconstruct the past.

Originally posted by: ImHemangi

sbse jyada loss on every angle is for RR ... koi nhi smjhega jab tk ho strong khada hai.. us din samjh aayega sbko jis din o unse khud ko ya toh dur krega after unmanageable torture or his life in danger... us din i want see these ladies ... but i don’t give damn to them..

I m with my boy n will bd there to see him only... makers hv yet not disappointed me as rr viewer so looking forward for the same,let see

btw dear what’s your name

I'm going to be there right beside you supporting him throughout this. I agree aisa din ayega aur hum uske saath royenge bhi.

Originally posted by: ImHemangi

dekhte hai kya hota hai...mother-child relation is something can’t understand from single aspect.. even applies to any relations in the world bjt let’s hope good fir amma rao n RR relation

I hope she has a strong reason for holding a grudge against him in her past, and they do shed some light on it now for the audience to understand what happened in his life. Either ways, I'm not gonna be watching the boy tripping on glass to beg her to stay. Bas.

I'm sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with you. Stay strong as your mother would have wanted you to be. 🤗

Originally posted by: Me000w

I hope she has a strong reason for holding a grudge against him in her past, and they do shed some light on it now for the audience to understand what happened in his life. Either ways, I'm not gonna be watching the boy tripping on glass to beg her to stay. Bas.

They better not make him do this, but knowing him he probably will.

I want Pallavi to take a stand for him in that situation, someone has to. If Amma doesn't have a strong reason for holding the grudge (which I suspect), then she's going to be off my list pretty fast.

Originally posted by: inlieu

The thing is, he has been obsessed with reuniting with his family all these years, understandably. In his heart and mind he has this rosy picture of what family life would be like. Once reality hits him, he will start to question because that's just his nature. He never takes these things lightly and just like in the sangeet where he told her that things were not always his fault, he needs to point out that he can't be held accountable for every single thing. Others need to do that too.

I think he knows somewhere inside that this is all a facade, but he wants it to stay. He wants to retain that innocence where his mother, sister and family doted on him and he hopes that it will continue. Reality wont hit him per say, he will just have enough someday after doing so much for them and finding them being indifferent to him, and he will vent out all of those bottled up feelings that he copes with using alcohol. That is not an addiction born out of pleasure, but out of the pain.

@Bold: Eggggzactly! Morality compass toh hai bande mein, lekin family ki baat pe chalna bandh hota hai.

Originally posted by: Chahat_A_Doshi

I can understand his desperation. I lost my mother at the age of 15 I still dream that she had gone for a vacation and has come back with gifts for me. Even the psychiatrist couldn't help as I have to accept her death which I still haven't my reports say.

My prayers are with you. Hope someday you are able to cope better with the loss ❤️

But she will always be alive in your heart, you are a part of her soul, and that is a reality noone can ever change. Stay blessed! ❤️

Originally posted by: inlieu

Raghav is a tragic figure in some ways, and I expect he always will be. He will destroy himself to give others their happiness but when it's his turn he will never get it, or get his dues. I know he does all this without expecting returns, but that's what makes it even more painful. Agree, some wounds become deeper with time, they just don't heal. Raghav may get his family back but he will never be the 17 year old innocent boy that he was once upon a time, neither are his mother and sister the same. The trauma is too deep and the pain is still raw. I know he will realize it one day, and this is where I hope Pallavi's love will give him something else to focus on and build new memories, instead of trying to reconstruct the past.

Well put! Fingers crossed!