Good morning lovelies!! 🌷🌺🌷🌺🌷
Am not going to speak about Begum-e-besharmi-e-beizzati (BP high ho Gaya hai) but just want to highlight the one dialogue that summed up the entire feeling Sai is going through:
"Unhone mere saath Jo kiya, Bura Kiya par unhone mere liye bohat Kuch Kiya hai.... Mera unke alawa is poori duniya mein koi Nahi hai... Bappa please, Virat sir ko Kuch Nahi Hona chahiye..."
Can't help but remember this: Kuch rishton ka namak hi doori hota hai... Naa milna bhi bahut zaroori hota haii
It was significant that she uttered these words, unflinchingly and finally. Sai's fears got the truth out of her for the first time -- her memories of her time with Virat to her recall of the moment she lost Aaba and the realisation that Virat, by all means, is the only one in the world, who is her own. She knows what the world is like and she has experienced the 'lip service' people offer about support and strength..not everyone can do it. She also knows that despite all that he has done wrong, there are a dozen things he has also done right. Everyone else she calls her own is because he is her own. The words, for the first time, gave one a sense of her feeling of belonging to him and he to her as well as the 'right' she has.
The entire sequences of her anxiety -- right from stuffing her mouth with food and tears rolling down her eyes to fretting in her room... It was a worried 'wife' who just dropped her anger the instant she learnt of the danger her husband is facing to crying to her krack-jack room mate with a 'mere husband.... Mere husband'... Sai got a reality check of 'fark Nahi padta' attitude.
A couple of episodes back she said: "Maine Virat Sir Ka gussa aayi par nikala..." A wife has the right to be angry. She has been wronged in the most humiliating manner and her feeling of estrangement from him was valid, not forgiving him in the first instance was valid, wanting to find her own feet and not return to his family mansion was valid. But the love they share -- in whatever degree it is right now -- is too powerful to allow the ego to take over at this point when one is battling for life.
Does it mean that all the hurt will be forgotten? No it doesn't. But it does mean that the hurt is not bigger than the person, who means the world to her.
The woman who is running to Virat is not Sai Joshi... It is Virat's wife-- Sai Chavan.
It often takes one the fear of losing someone forever to realise what the person's being means and how much one's heart cherishes this person. Sai, the do-gooder, would have said a prayer for anyone in trouble, offered a lamp for anyone needed healing from Bappa but the prayer accompanied by her personal wish -- it was a prayer also said for herself.
Virat, by all means, is imperfect. And Sai knows that -- he gets angry when instigated, he turns into a different person in his rage and he hurts her the most, and eventually returns to apologise. Is Sai overlooking his shortcomings while running back to him while he is in trouble? The answer would be No.
You-know-who said, "Pyaar galati Nahi dekhta". It's the most misplaced concept i.e. Love is blind. It is Infatuation that is blind. Love is actually all- seeing and accepting the person with flaws and working to build a relationship despite those flaws..it is not as easy as being in a state of infatuation. There is also so much romanticism attached to 'unconditional' love and 'compromising' in a relationship that it often turns into an ego issue between two people. The fact is that love between spouses involves compromise and it is never unconditional -- the biggest of all conditions is actually loyalty and the most 'unconditional' part is to accept the partner in their worst moments and even bigger -- to forgive them when they don't, but offer repentance.
A marriage (and love) is based on vows or promises made to one another -- it automatically develops a condition between the two people. As I often say the only unconditional part is 'materialistic wants' but the emotional conditions are well laid and accepted. It is up to an individual whether they want to accept the flaws of their partner or not but the fact is that there is no perfect marriage and no perfect spouses. They hurt each other, question their reasons to marry each other often, say mean things in anger, act in ways they would not imagine themselves but what matters at the end of the day is whether the hearts are intertwined enough to come back home to one another -- home here is not the place but the person.
Virat's wish to speak to Sai even after being shot was well portrayed (although kaafi filmy as imagined)-- there's been nothing else on his mind and in a moment of facing death in its face, the only person he needs is the woman who infuses life into his days -- the comfort of finding her hand again, the relief of being forgiven as he seeks it--
Tu yaad kare ya na mujhko
Mere jeene mein andaaz tera
Sar aankhon par hai teri naaraazi
Meri haar mein hai koi raaz tera
Shayad meri jaan ka sadka
Maange teri judaai
Not everyone gets another chance. How Sai and Virat will redefine their relationship from here on will decide whether it's going to be worth fighting for every time that they end up on different sides..
Someone give that venomous vixen one tight slap please. Don't tell me Ashwini has passed out and this Chhoti Kaku is going to decide who gets to meet Virat or not after he has clearly asked her to get out of his personal space. Who the hell 👿👿
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