Why all blame on Ragav? - Page 2

Originally posted by: LoveHopeMagic

First thing is I don't hate Raghav. I adore him. I have never liked a character more in Itv. He is a perfect human, the character who is egoistic, who will do anything for what he wants and he is selfish too but that's what make him RR. And that's why I like that character alot.

I blame both. I don't understand why people have problems with either him or her. They are humans for God sake. They are meant to make mistakes and later to repent them. We all are like that then so what is different for them. I will never watch a show if the ML and FL are hundred percent perfect. Who is perfect?

Here RR is at fault.

Pallu is at fault.

Amma is at fault

Deshmukhs are at fault.

At the end of the day they all are humans and all are different from the other, they have different lives too. So stop blaming one.

When you watch a show please try to watch it from all the characters side, not your favorite's side.

This one !! kudos !!

this is what i want to say!

Raghav is perfectly human. He doesn't come out as mahaan or something.

Like any other human , he cares for himself and his family first. I just adore Raghav a lot for this!!

Originally posted by: inlieu

This marriage thing is Amma's fault. I'm not liking her anymore. Keerti called her out a couple of times.

I really hope they don't show Pallavi being all sweet and ok when she finds out the real reason. She need to kick up a fuss when the time comes.

the same idiotic mentality that "ladka bigda hua hai, shadi kar do thik ho jayega"........and for that spoil life of the gal.....i was waiting that someone will point out or make a topic of this......

keerti is the only unbiased one here........

Originally posted by: christobelle

I have seen in twitter blaming Raghav a lot. They blame him to be abusive. When he isn't !!

They say he is selfish etc etc. He never told he wasn't one. He is what he is. He was never the Mahaan male lea u ppl imagined him to be!!

Raghav isn't to be blamed for everything. Yes, some things were wrong. But not all. Some was Pallavi's fault too.

She should have stopped hovering over him when her baba was clearly displeased by Raghav. But she made things fuel up and also the abortion thing.

The main problems lies in Deshmukh's . Her family never believes her n just uses her

i feel that he wasnt good initially and later on when he blamed her falsely for having a relation with him......else he has held her directly or indirectly.......and pallavi is selfish too, when she needed him, she went to him and when not then she blamed him.......

m not liking the torture and stress she is facing but her own family gives more tension den raghav......

she has to tell the truth to someone, atleast aai......duniya ka bojh leke ghumne ka kya matlab ......

Originally posted by: LoveHopeMagic

First thing is I don't hate Raghav. I adore him. I have never liked a character more in Itv. He is a perfect human, the character who is egoistic, who will do anything for what he wants and he is selfish too but that's what make him RR. And that's why I like that character alot.

I blame both. I don't understand why people have problems with either him or her. They are humans for God sake. They are meant to make mistakes and later to repent them. We all are like that then so what is different for them. I will never watch a show if the ML and FL are hundred percent perfect. Who is perfect?

Here RR is at fault.

Pallu is at fault.

Amma is at fault

Deshmukhs are at fault.

At the end of the day they all are humans and all are different from the other, they have different lives too. So stop blaming one.

When you watch a show please try to watch it from all the characters side, not your favorite's side.

Totally agree with you. There is no one who's out and out evil (except BWA to an extent and Lion); Everyone else reacts as per their nature and circumstances. It's meant to be a pendulum, just like in real life.

I don't sickly sweet family members and leads who are always doing the right thing and never make wrong decisions. How boring is that?

The current arc is fine because shows that everyone is error-prone, even the principled ones like Amma. Likewise, everyone has a good streak in them, and we see Raghav portray that many times as well as someone like Milind, who is spineless but has a good heart. And so on and so forth.

And yes I love Raghav. Every single thing about him. Not because he's a bad guy but because he's believable and he managed to make me want to witness his growth and personal development. I cheer for him even in tough times. The only time I will object is if they depart from his character sketch and make him do something outlandish just for the sake of it and not because the story or character demands it. The reason they hit the jackpot with this character is because they made him gray, which means he can portray traits at any point in the spectrum as needed.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't know why but I get the feeling that a big part of the audience is going to side with Raghav despite his methods. Not because they like MCPs or torture but because the CVs are showing him as being almost helpless in this situation due to his desire to ensure he doesn't miss this once in a lifetime opportunity to reunite with his family.

The irony will be that at least Keerti (and maybe later on Amma) will disapprove of his methods and the rift grows. I could see how agitated Keerti was and she will come to live with him as part of the deal, not because she really wants to. How's that for a cruel hand of fate? Raghav sab ko paa kar bhi nahin payega. I hope Keerti continues to resist. I'm loving her character.

u r right.......but what amma thought? that raghav will tell her and pallavi will agree just like that? she was mentally prepared for anything to bring pallavi to her son's life......she just wants him to change, she doesnt care about pallavi right now....though she is saying she is doing for both.......

raghav doesnt know what she has been thru......he just wants to do it coz his mom wants it.....so amma is wrong here ......

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

the same idiotic mentality that "ladka bigda hua hai, shadi kar do thik ho jayega"........and for that spoil life of the gal.....i was waiting that someone will point out or make a topic of this......

keerti is the only unbiased one here........

Keerti called her selfish, and I agree. In some ways Amma is tired, misses him terribly, and knows she can't 'fix him', especially seeing the extent of damage he's causing others. As much as this is a once in a lifetime opportunity for him to reunite with his family, to Amma this is also the one and only chance she thinks she'll get at helping him settle down. This way she also absolves herself of the guilt of not raising him well and for his crimes against Pallavi. Ugh...

As many have said, she would never want Keerti to marry someone who had the same nature as Raghav does, but it's all fine if it's someone else's daughter. I really wonder to what extent she will actually be ok with watching her bahu straightening out her son. I'm beginning to doubt if she'll actually be Team Pallavi 100%, especially in difficult situations. Her mamta might get the better of her.

One thing I know for sure, one day Raghav will have to choose between Amma and Pallavi. That would be fun to watch.

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

i feel that he wasnt good initially and later on when he blamed her falsely for having a relation with him......else he has held her directly or indirectly.......and pallavi is selfish too, when she needed him, she went to him and when not then she blamed him.......

m not liking the torture and stress she is facing but her own family gives more tension den raghav......

she has to tell the truth to someone, atleast aai......duniya ka bojh leke ghumne ka kya matlab ......

Only Krishna knows everything...

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

u r right.......but what amma thought? that raghav will tell her and pallavi will agree just like that? she was mentally prepared for anything to bring pallavi to her son's life......she just wants him to change, she doesnt care about pallavi right now....though she is saying she is doing for both.......

raghav doesnt know what she has been thru......he just wants to do it coz his mom wants it.....so amma is wrong here ......

I agree, and I feel even worse because Ayi told Amma a lot about Pallavi's pain and trauma already. So it's not like she's unaware of her past. And you're right, Amma is looking the other way for now. She wants him to get married no matter what, and she knows very well that he'll move the heavens and earth to ensure he fulfils her condition. I want to see Amma regret this one day when her own son mistreats Pallavi in front of her and when Pallavi is hurt, because you can bet that will happen. Raghav itni jaldi nahin sudhrega, if ever. 😔

Originally posted by: inlieu

Totally agree with you. There is no one who's out and out evil (except BWA to an extent and Lion); Everyone else reacts as per their nature and circumstances. It's meant to be a pendulum, just like in real life.

I don't sickly sweet family members and leads who are always doing the right thing and never make wrong decisions. How boring is that?

The current arc is fine because shows that everyone is error-prone, even the principled ones like Amma. Likewise, everyone has a good streak in them, and we see Raghav portray that many times as well as someone like Milind, who is spineless but has a good heart. And so on and so forth.

And yes I love Raghav. Every single thing about him. Not because he's a bad guy but because he's believable and he managed to make me want to witness his growth and personal development. I cheer for him even in tough times. The only time I will object is if they depart from his character sketch and make him do something outlandish just for the sake of it and not because the story or character demands it. The reason they hit the jackpot with this character is because they made him gray, which means he can portray traits at any point in the spectrum as needed.

I even understand BWA and lion too. They are humans and they want to take revenge for what happened to them or to their family. We are living in a world where the next step of revenge is murder. So here BWA is better in her own twisted way. And lion is like any man who wants take a revenge, he wants to end RR for sending him to jail. It is so understandable!

I can connect with all the characters of the show most of the time which I like so much. When I think from their side I can understand where they are coming from, which is the success of the show.

I hate it when the FL or ML is always correct. I mean how can a human be always correct?

I do believe that we humans have two sides, one good side and one bad side. Sometimes other overcome the other, sometimes it's vice versa. So it's acceptable. And I saw many saying Amma is being selfish here, then I ask, which amma is not selfish for her child? Most of all the mothers out there is selfish for their offsprings. So here even if she is selfish I don't find any fault in her too. Keerthi is being a reasonable one here, but I'm sure she has done mistakes too, or she will do mistakes... It's how we work.

So I like all the characters of the show. Be it RR or Pallu, or amma or deshmukhs. I like them bcoz they are humans not some supernatural creatures!

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

the same idiotic mentality that "ladka bigda hua hai, shadi kar do thik ho jayega"........and for that spoil life of the gal.....i was waiting that someone will point out or make a topic of this......

keerti is the only unbiased one here........

It's always like that and at the end the son becomes not human (someone who won't make mistakes) and the girl will fall in love with that not so human. 😆

Does this even work in real life?