Rupi di's defense of Imlie v/s BK's defense of Imlie - Page 3

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Why not? This is the same Imlie who considered Adi her husband too even when he refused to accept their marriage/relationship....she accepted him with all his flaws then also and now she is doing the same with the Tripathis.

She can see that they are being unfair to her right now but she doesn't doubt that they do genuinely love her....she considers this to be her home that she has built relationships and bonds in.....one turn of events is not going to shake her faith in them.....that is something Malini does, not Imlie. Imlie's faith is like a rock....it doesn't budge so easily. So from her POV, she is making the allowance that the family is reeling currently over the issues related to Malini and she will not take it personally even if they ask her to leave....they will not stop being her family to her even if she leaves the house.

Imlie's stance always has been that faith is faith....regardless of whether the person in front of you reciprocates your faith....she was that way with Adi too, she is that way with the Tripathis too.....that is why her faith ends up humbling most people in the long run....well, people with a genuine conscience....not the Malini types who are all about pretense and shallow things.

I'm quite glad this show is not IPKKND....I would never want it to be either😊......there is not even a remote parallel between this and any other Gul show and thank god for that so far.

Also it is rather unrealistic approach.. who leaves and abandons the people they call "family" just caz they may doubt you they may not have confidence in you or get mad at you at times.. kya log roz roz apne gharon se bahar bhaag jaate hain caz your parents or In laws may not see you in the right light.. wah chal gayi aise toh duniya..👏👏👏 adi toh phir bhaag bhaag ke ab tak planet Mars pohnch gaya hota

Whatever is happening now may not be right in one POV but bhagna isn't really an option. While I do wantt imlie to stand up for her self. Respect in front of the ghor anaye like woh AC ka juice phenkna type kaands.. I do not see her as someone who would just cut all that she build with T'a simply caz they mistook her are misunderstanding her.. imlie gives the benefit of doubt to all .. this is her family her ghar why should she leave...

By this logic to even mithi is being rude and not talking to imlie caz she thinks she lied so is she no.longer Imlie's Amma too caz she is not allowing imlie the opportunity to speak the truth just like T's ? Should imlie just abandon mithi too now.. 🙄

Real life doesn't work like this one can't just break off caz well you do not approve of how things are happening unfortunately and esp not rishte..

Originally posted by: pamk06

Lovely post dear!!

BK has been one person who was never been enamored by Malini. He has always been on the outer circle and has only voiced his opinion when its been absolute necessary. He has always been the practical voice to this whole Adi-Malini drama. Hence, the family blindly blaming someone did not sit well with the him.

Re: Rupi Di: I agree that she is trying to fight the battle that she failed. T's are orthodox in the way that they believe you are married for life and if it requires you to compromise your self respect, your beliefs, you should do it. Rupi Di broke out of that box thinking because she could not sacrifice her self respects. Hence, more than the husband's betrayal, I think what hurt her most is the lack of understanding and support from her family. This is where her subtle taunts come from and now with Imlie fight, she wants her family to realize that sometimes circumstances are such that you cannot continue with your box thinking and need to adapt as per the challenges. Having said that, Rupi Di is supporting Imlie but that does not mean that she is not supporting Malini. TShe still has not seen the true face of the Malini and has been as enamored by her as the next T but now with her mother bear tendencies, she might see things that she has been blind to till date.

I do think the makers are drawing the lines where there are two captain and each captain chooses one player at a time. Its almost same here, we had Rupi on one side and Nishant on other. We have Dadi on Malini's side whereas BK is on the other. Then we have AC on one side and Aditya on the other. Badi kaki will support Malini but I think today we will know where chote kaka goes depending on his reaction to AC shart. DC and Aparna would be the neutral. They will be pulled both sides and will keep flipping.

The fight now I think is more of good vs bad intentions. Malini's intentions or behavior towards Imle will be cloaked with bad intentions but Imlie has always had nothing but good intentions towards Malini. The biggest defense that Imlie has in her arsenal is that "she is the wife" which is the biggest offense committed against Malini which AC will use against Aditya.

.kar lein try didi inlie ki achai will not let her bad intentions succeed chop hi honi hai iski.. in the long run.. she may succeed temporarily even getting imlie out of the house or can hold qdi for a bit but eventually iski chop hi honi hai caz Sachai and achai ko jeetna hi hai.. 🧿

Originally posted by: Anuannie

I have always have had very much expectations from bk..

Me BK ki team me hoon.

With Imlie leading as in

Team Imlie: 2

Team BS: Solitude🤣

Ye Aditya kumar tripathi k dost wost nahi hai kya unko bhi rope karlete team me?? except for the psycho? aakal padgaya tha kya universe me kamse kam aj kaam aate iske,dharas bandate iski

Agar actual dhang ke dost banaaye hote isne toh isko pata lag jaata that Malini ke saath jis cheez ko dosti bol raha hai, it's anything BUT dosti😆

That way even Malini doesn't seem to have any friends in her life😕

Adi maanega nahin but usko genuine friendship Imlie ke saath mili hai where he can share everything with her without hesitation....aur kya hota hai dost?

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Agar actual dhang ke dost banaaye hote isne toh isko pata lag jaata that Malini ke saath jis cheez ko dosti bol raha hai, it's anything BUT dosti😆

That way even Malini doesn't seem to have any friends in her life😕

Adi maanega nahin but usko genuine friendship Imlie ke saath mili hai where he can share everything with her without hesitation....aur kya hota hai dost?

Rofl yeh do and inki mahaan best friendship.. rofl malini ke dost toh durr ki baat hai nobody even knows her first name too at her work place. 👏 what wah mahaan professor ji..😆 remember who malini by her collegue who btw was the same woman who took her aside to.talk about lecture on sindoor kaand day 🤣🤣

No wonder Khali dimaag will cook stories only.. and aise aise shaitaani ideas and she had made adi her obsession.. caz life main kuch aur tha hi nahi.. bored queen needed a fixation a hobby and adi git in perfectly in her mould.. to do that and each perfection 😆

Adi may not have best friends but he ain't like completely shut off from.his.collegues too like madam.. his only friend seems to be editor sahib .. it is not the best buds type of friendship but it is still something . .. more about mutual admiration wala bond.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Also it is rather unrealistic approach.. who leaves and abandons the people they call "family" just caz they may doubt you they may not have confidence in you or get mad at you at times.. kya log roz roz apne gharon se bahar bhaag jaate hain caz your parents or In laws may not see you in the right light.. wah chal gayi aise toh duniya..👏👏👏 adi toh phir bhaag bhaag ke ab tak planet Mars pohnch gaya hota

Whatever is happening now may not be right in one POV but bhagna isn't really an option. While I do wantt imlie to stand up for her self. Respect in front of the ghor anaye like woh AC ka juice phenkna type kaands.. I do not see her as someone who would just cut all that she build with T'a simply caz they mistook her are misunderstanding her.. imlie gives the benefit of doubt to all .. this is her family her ghar why should she leave...

By this logic to even mithi is being rude and not talking to imlie caz she thinks she lied so is she no.longer Imlie's Amma too caz she is not allowing imlie the opportunity to speak the truth just like T's ? Should imlie just abandon mithi too now.. 🙄

Real life doesn't work like this one can't just break off caz well you do not approve of how things are happening unfortunately and esp not rishte..

Yeah wohi toh....you don't abandon family at the first sign of a disagreement or doubt cropping up.....aise toh phir koi bhi rishta kabhi na bache. LOL@ Adi toh phir bhaag bhaag ke Mars hi pahunch jaata since his family is ALWAYS in disagreements with him and putting him down too😆

I get that everyone is upset with the Ts right now for making Imlie a scapegoat in their paranoia over Malini......but that still doesn't take away all the moments they have genuinely showered love and affection on Imlie....that has all come from the heart - dikhaave ke liye nahin unlike so called badi behen Malini didi jinka dikhaava prove ho gaya hai off late.

Woh baat aur hai ki Imlie phir bhi Malini types ko bhi regard deti rahegi cuz that's her nature.....woh khud se kisi ko apna maanti hai toh apni taraf se puri tarhaan se nibhaati hai.....chaahe us insaan ke aas paas ho ya na ho and chaahe woh insaan reciprocate kare ya na kare.

Not everything is an existential battle for self-respect.....while I do agree that Imlie allowing losers like AC to humiliate her is a step too far, it is not the same in the case of the Ts.....they do genuinely love her....but they can't be totally faulted also for choosing who they perceive to be their bahu over a person that isn't technically related to them no matter how much woh apni lagti hai.

As BK said, they aren't thinking rationally right now that is why they are letting Imlie be the fall guy....but they do wish well for her otherwise....Malini ki tarhaan ghatiya soch nahin rakhte Imlie ke liye.

I do wonder if this entire drama will be an exercise in proving the point ki family technical labels se badi hoti hai.....that is probably why they showed that dialogue of Imlie saying that this isn't just Adi ki family, it's hers too....it will be a setup for the angst/drama of the moment when Imlie is asked to leave T house. And then on the other hand they showed Adi ka claim that he won't let injustice happen with her.....lol so let's see if/how that comes into play in this drama ki saari baazi Didi hi maar le jaayengi😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Adi may not have best friends but he ain't like completely shut off from.his.collegues too like madam.. his only friend seems to be editor sahib .. it is not the best buds type of friendship but it is still something . .. more about mutual admiration wala bond.

Oh haan, true that.....kuch level ki dosti toh hai Editor Saab ke saath Adi ki...😆.....but I meant more like someone he can totally relax with....waisi waali dosti nahin dikhaayi iski kisi ke saath.

And that is why I mentioned Imlie as the only person jiske saamne he is unvarnished....aisa usually insaan apne doston ke saath hota hai😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Why not? This is the same Imlie who considered Adi her husband too even when he refused to accept their marriage/relationship....she accepted him with all his flaws then also and now she is doing the same with the Tripathis.

She can see that they are being unfair to her right now but she doesn't doubt that they do genuinely love her....she considers this to be her home that she has built relationships and bonds in.....one turn of events is not going to shake her faith in them.....that is something Malini does, not Imlie. Imlie's faith is like a rock....it doesn't budge so easily. So from her POV, she is making the allowance that the family is reeling currently over the issues related to Malini and she will not take it personally even if they ask her to leave....they will not stop being her family to her even if she leaves the house.

Imlie's stance always has been that faith is faith....regardless of whether the person in front of you reciprocates your faith....she was that way with Adi too, she is that way with the Tripathis too.....that is why her faith ends up humbling most people in the long run....well, people with a genuine conscience....not the Malini types who are all about pretense and shallow things.

I'm quite glad this show is not IPKKND....I would never want it to be either😊......there is not even a remote parallel between this and any other Gul show and thank god for that so far.

Well stated and true! I need to keep reminding myself about how pure her faith is and how quick to forgive. But I miss the Imlie who was spunky...even while Adi used to defend her against Anu - she used to slip in small digs about how Adi had once treated her. Now it has her all down and I'm feeling too sad on her behalf. I hope this show starts to get a good balance of upbeat and rhona dhona tracks. The balance is missing.

Regarding IPKKND - true as well :). That show made me question myself everyday. In spite of the abuse the ML did and the antics of the FL - I still watched and liked the show. Maybe since I watched it after it had already done airing....I've never been able to figure it out. But I did like the constant replays and insight into one's thinking in the show.

Mast write up AY! This week I am hoping the derailed train comes back on track..I am still not sure either BK or Rupi di matter right now.

So I have a very basic question and more like I am trying to understand the T's

What do T's think is the problem? Bk said ki problem Malini aur Adi ke beech ki hai..but the rest- what are they thinking? How did they come to the conclusion that Imlie is the issue?! Sindoor drama? Is that it? Werent they the ones who wanted to hug her and Imlie backed off showing her hands were full of the sindoor? Or just because AC is saying, they think Imlie is the problem? Are they not pondering on why Imlie is the problem, if they believe AC?

Originally posted by: Whatever765

Mast write up AY! This week I am hoping the derailed train comes back on track..I am still not sure either BK or Rupi di matter right now.

So I have a very basic question and more like I am trying to understand the T's

What do T's think is the problem? Bk said ki problem Malini aur Adi ke beech ki hai..but the rest- what are they thinking? How did they come to the conclusion that Imlie is the issue?! Sindoor drama? Is that it? Werent they the ones who wanted to hug her and Imlie backed off showing her hands were full of the sindoor? Or just because AC is saying, they think Imlie is the problem? Are they not pondering on why Imlie is the problem, if they believe AC?

I answered this somewhat in a response to another post in this thread so I'll just repost the link to that:

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/156826490

Short answer: Ts don't care what the problem is....they just see that Malini is visibly unhappy and seems to be blaming Imlie for her problems, so they want to remove Imlie for that reason. Logic is not factoring in here....they just want ghar ki bahu back kuch bhi karke.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I answered this somewhat in a response to another post in this thread so I'll just repost the link to that:

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/156826490

Short answer: Ts don't care what the problem is....they just see that Malini is visibly unhappy and seems to be blaming Imlie for her problems, so they want to remove Imlie for that reason. Logic is not factoring in here....they just want ghar ki bahu back kuch bhi karke.

Yeah sorry, I actually was reading that post..:).

I agree to the BOLD, Aparna and others are too scared or probably have no interest to get to the root cause. They just want ghar ki sukh shaanti which they think comes from Malini....uske liye kuch bhi aur kisi ki bhi ji hazuri karenge..and in that act will never be fair to Imlie...