Marital or extra marital

A lot of discussion is happening on whether Aditya and Imlie’s romance is marital or extra marital. Here are my two cents.

1. It is extra marital in terms of its timeline: Their romance definitely started after Aditya was married to Malini with a good old semblance of consent. The initial days of Aditya-Malini-Imlie had no element of romance, rather Aditya was filled with bitterness since Imlie reminded him of his lack of agency in the PD case. Therefore to claim that he was already in love with Imlie but did not realise is not the case here. He fell in love with Imlie only after he was married to Malini, which makes it an extra marital affair in terms of its timeline.

2. It is not extra marital psychologically: While we can say Aditya’s love for Imlie happened after his wedding to Malini, it would not have happened if there was no prior relationship between them per say. Imagine Imlie just lands in the Tripathy house as a random girl after Adi-Malini’s wedding? What are the chances Aditya will go after Imlie? Nil. Aditya’s love for Imlie springs from the fact that though he denies, he does consider his marriage with Imlie to be valid. What Imlie says about her age old beliefs about marriage applies to Aditya too. Aditya considers himself to be married—no matter how much he denies it verbally. It begins with a guilt and later takes the shape of a full fledged love because he feels he is entitled to Imlie. The idea of the divinity of marriage that is ingrained in us culturally is very very difficult to get rid of. Aditya goes after Imlie because not even for once does he feel it to be immoral, and he would not have pursued her if they were not “married”. The moment he makes a choice about his first wife, he has no moral compunctions to abandon the second. While it is extremely cruel on Malini, Aditya doesn’t see it as a moral issue but rather a communication issue.

This serial is actually a very good portrayal of the psychological dimensions of marriage. All three of them believe they are married, no matter how problematic their marital lives are. Most toxic marriages survive because psychologically, people are unable to “unmarry” themselves in their minds.

So true, but atleast now since things have become clear and no scores between Aditya n Malini and as they feel now they r not destined to be together and would no longer give their relationship a justice or name, I would feel itz high tym they move on n settle their lives differently.

As this present situation actually is causing more sadness, painful life to Imlie as she lost her happiness. The girl who used to b ful of positivity cheerfulness, had lost everything becoz of this man Aditya. Why don't he tell everything the truth out n free her from all stuffs and move on with her entire life and let her along with married life support her educationally and help her pursue her dreams.

After marriage also girt ls do study and prove to be the best with hubby's full support. Aditya shld defn give her peace of mind by staying with her.

Malini also to be freed so that she can concentrate on her career further n lead a peaceful life instead of her staying in darkness without knowing the truth.

Marriage actually doesn't cause pain for everyone rather instead of thinking to b married Aditya shld think that Imlie if given peace she can proceed further studies and always stay her support system if he truly loves her and free Malini up by not making her stay in darkness so al 3 can b free n true to their relatiobships

Regards

Aarthi

Originally posted by: aarsow

So true, but atleast now since things have become clear and no scores between Aditya n Malini and as they feel now they r not destined to be together and would no longer give their relationship a justice or name, I would feel itz high tym they move on n settle their lives differently.

As this present situation actually is causing more sadness, painful life to Imlie as she lost her happiness. The girl who used to b ful of positivity cheerfulness, had lost everything becoz of this man Aditya. Why don't he tell everything the truth out n free her from all stuffs and move on with her entire life and let her along with married life support her educationally and help her pursue her dreams.

After marriage also girt ls do study and prove to be the best with hubby's full support. Aditya shld defn give her peace of mind by staying with her.

Malini also to be freed so that she can concentrate on her career further n lead a peaceful life instead of her staying in darkness without knowing the truth.

Marriage actually doesn't cause pain for everyone rather instead of thinking to b married Aditya shld think that Imlie if given peace she can proceed further studies and always stay her support system if he truly loves her and free Malini up by not making her stay in darkness so al 3 can b free n true to their relatiobships

Regards

Aarthi

AREY BEHEN APNEY THO THE HAPPY ENDING KARDI HAI.

AISA HONEY MEY TIME LEGEYGA.

YEH MAHINA ANU CHUTURVEDI KEY NAAM KA MAKERS NEY KARDIYA HAI. YAAD HAI HOSPITAL MEY KYA KEHREHI THI TRIPATHIS KO

MAIN NEHIN CHODUNGI.

TOH NEHIN CHODHNEWALI UNKO AUR HUM VIEWERS KO BHI.

ISLIYE RUMAL LEKAR BETHJAO.

AUR DUAA KAROO IMLIE KO SATH NA LEKEY JAYE . RUMAL SEY UPGRADING HOHI SEEDA TOWEL KI

ON A SERIOUS NOTE I AM WAITING FOR THE DAY THE BULLET MAN GETS TO KNOW IMLIE ADITYA MARRIAGE TRUTH. YEH BULLET MAN KAUN HAI

SATYAKAM!!

MEZA TAB AYEGA.

SATYAKAM JAYEGA ENCOUNTER KARNEY KEY LIYE.

BULLET KHANEY KEY LIYE SAB LINE MEY

SABSEY PEHLA NUMBER KISKA ???

ADITYA KA ??? NEHIN

ADITYA NUMBER TWO .

NUMBER ONE KAUN HAI ???

ANU CHATURVEDI !!! KYUN ???

AS USUAL KOI BOLE YA NA BOLE WOH ZERUR BOLEGI.

DUSRA REASON

SAUTAN KI AMMA!!

WAITING FOR SATYAKAM TRACK

Originally posted by: woman11

A lot of discussion is happening on whether Aditya and Imlie’s romance is marital or extra marital. Here are my two cents.

1. It is extra marital in terms of its timeline: Their romance definitely started after Aditya was married to Malini with a good old semblance of consent. The initial days of Aditya-Malini-Imlie had no element of romance, rather Aditya was filled with bitterness since Imlie reminded him of his lack of agency in the PD case. Therefore to claim that he was already in love with Imlie but did not realise is not the case here. He fell in love with Imlie only after he was married to Malini, which makes it an extra marital affair in terms of its timeline.

2. It is not extra marital psychologically: While we can say Aditya’s love for Imlie happened after his wedding to Malini, it would not have happened if there was no prior relationship between them per say. Imagine Imlie just lands in the Tripathy house as a random girl after Adi-Malini’s wedding? What are the chances Aditya will go after Imlie? Nil. Aditya’s love for Imlie springs from the fact that though he denies, he does consider his marriage with Imlie to be valid. What Imlie says about her age old beliefs about marriage applies to Aditya too. Aditya considers himself to be married—no matter how much he denies it verbally. It begins with a guilt and later takes the shape of a full fledged love because he feels he is entitled to Imlie. The idea of the divinity of marriage that is ingrained in us culturally is very very difficult to get rid of. Aditya goes after Imlie because not even for once does he feel it to be immoral, and he would not have pursued her if they were not “married”. The moment he makes a choice about his first wife, he has no moral compunctions to abandon the second. While it is extremely cruel on Malini, Aditya doesn’t see it as a moral issue but rather a communication issue.

This serial is actually a very good portrayal of the psychological dimensions of marriage. All three of them believe they are married, no matter how problematic their marital lives are. Most toxic marriages survive because psychologically, people are unable to “unmarry” themselves in their minds.

LAST PARAGRAGH KEY LIYE APKO FULL 100 MARKS.

BAKI DONO PARAGRAPH MEREKO ITNA SAMAJ NEHIN AYAA .

BEHEN MUJHEY APSEY AEK QUESTION PUCHNA HAI

APKO KAUN SI JODI ACHI LEGTI HAI ??

ADILIE YA ADINI ??

AGAR ADILIE ACHI LEGTI HAI NA TOH ZIADA MAT SOCH. SER SEY BAAL JEDHJAYENGEY .

EXTRAMARITAL KA KYA KARNA. DONO MARRIED HAI TO ROMANCE BJI JAIS HAI.

DONO AEK SATH ACHEY LEGTEY HAIN .. WOH HOLI WALA EPISODE. MAZEDAAR!!!

JINKO ADLIE JODI PASAND HAI BAS UNKA ROMANCE DEKHO . YEH MAT SOCHO JAIS HAI KEY NAHIN. AUDIENCE KO PASAND HAI. ISLIYE SHURU HONEY KEY BAAD SEEDA TOP 10 MEY CHAL RAHA HAI

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Originally posted by: woman11

A lot of discussion is happening on whether Aditya and Imlie’s romance is marital or extra marital. Here are my two cents.

1. It is extra marital in terms of its timeline: Their romance definitely started after Aditya was married to Malini with a good old semblance of consent. The initial days of Aditya-Malini-Imlie had no element of romance, rather Aditya was filled with bitterness since Imlie reminded him of his lack of agency in the PD case. Therefore to claim that he was already in love with Imlie but did not realise is not the case here. He fell in love with Imlie only after he was married to Malini, which makes it an extra marital affair in terms of its timeline.

2. It is not extra marital psychologically: While we can say Aditya’s love for Imlie happened after his wedding to Malini, it would not have happened if there was no prior relationship between them per say. Imagine Imlie just lands in the Tripathy house as a random girl after Adi-Malini’s wedding? What are the chances Aditya will go after Imlie? Nil. Aditya’s love for Imlie springs from the fact that though he denies, he does consider his marriage with Imlie to be valid. What Imlie says about her age old beliefs about marriage applies to Aditya too. Aditya considers himself to be married—no matter how much he denies it verbally. It begins with a guilt and later takes the shape of a full fledged love because he feels he is entitled to Imlie. The idea of the divinity of marriage that is ingrained in us culturally is very very difficult to get rid of. Aditya goes after Imlie because not even for once does he feel it to be immoral, and he would not have pursued her if they were not “married”. The moment he makes a choice about his first wife, he has no moral compunctions to abandon the second. While it is extremely cruel on Malini, Aditya doesn’t see it as a moral issue but rather a communication issue.

This serial is actually a very good portrayal of the psychological dimensions of marriage. All three of them believe they are married, no matter how problematic their marital lives are. Most toxic marriages survive because psychologically, people are unable to “unmarry” themselves in their minds.

A much needed post. I couldn't digest the fact that Gul has once again brought the child born out of wedlock and typical cliche storyline of two women being lawfully and legally bound to one man.

Aditya Tripathi is not the typical toxic or abla ML of itv. He is someone who is psychological effected by the turn of events be in personal or professional. For him as long as their is no physical consummation with regards to his first marriage, he hasn't really cheated Imlie. Adi really can't communicate because he is bound by his wife's mann ki baat. Imlie is not able to understand that she can't have Aditya or Malini Didi on one platter. She wants both. In fact she is happy with the entire Tripathi Platoon.

Someone who really deserves to know is Malini but again, she is such a fragile creature who otherwise knows how to to twist and twirl anyone as per her needs, simply cannot comply with the current scenario. She has fear psychosis, as simple as that

If only all three come out from their psychological circle of love and fear, maybe then their situation can be understood by their near and dear ones.