Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 103

Originally posted by: faja

@Bold - Phir to makers unka serial khud dekhe. I feel angry Faja. After all of this, why now a total different thing? No need of a tag, true. But not always. This tag was the reason why we got Rudhita. If this tag isn't there, you know what is going to happen. There will be a liberty for makers to do what we are scared of.

Yes, he did. But it was very toned down. Oh God, I can't wait to see him in pain right now. Why was he constantly saying 'mann ka rishta'? He was the one who refused to accept it. Why now resorting to it only?

"...Bon has to go through this, its painful..."

My question is why? Why always her? Whatever the panch told was bitter, but true. Why has to Bon pay for Ani's actions. Binoy said it correct only. Why does Bon has to sacrifice her marriage in order for her husband's impulsiveness? She was married forcefully, sent to a completely unknown place at such a young age, still she accepted everything whole-heartedly. The family which was against her, she changed them through her love. She made a family out of strangers. She turned every lime life threw at her into lemonade. She did not wanted to believe in all these, she was made to. And now after so much faith, after she considered her family, her universe, she is asked to leave all of it and go. This too forcefully. Jab chaha tab shaadi karva di, par ladki ne usse apna liya. Aur jab apna liya, tab usse cheen liya gaya. Why?

@UL - No Faja. It's not for a marriage. It's true for every relationship that exists out there. It always takes two to hold a thread.

@old 3: This is what we wanted on the marriage revelation , right..to own their relation is from heart..I was more affected by that, man se nahi bana hai..mah ka rishta nahi hai..That time he was blinded by society and custom, and he was outraged .He said many things of no meaning in anger (not defending, but actions contradicted).Now the custom, society tag is taken off, the bond evident to public is taken of, he sees the actual bond.Or he desperately hold on to that. Can we not interpret it that way.

Howm uch ever I despise the act of Ani, I never overlook the fact that bon is so much to him (Last track I had my doubts, but I moved on )

@ bold2: Only what I can say is, what she had as hers was also a pay of Ani's action..Its the truth..its a two way sword, which can kill you or protect you.

What you said totally completely makes sense, if Bon is a child bride and child marriage as a social evil is out of picture..But that is what BB deals with na, rishta and society clash..Are we not in track Indu, even though its a tight slap on our faces, I dont think they will dare to touch Rudhita, this might turn out to be something else

@ bold3: true else it wont sustain

Indu, kuch zyada hi gusse mein lag rahi ho tum...

** I wont force my ideas Indu, I feel your angst

double post faja

Originally posted by: Indira12

That's what I hate Faja. It's true but it's too much for me to accept. Bon is such a pure soul, I can't imagine what the little heart has to endure. Was her only mistake was to see everything through love and faith? Was she wrong to have put her trust in the relationship? Why does she gets betrayed every time? 🥺

old 1:Me too ,its too ideal.Beyond what I could ever think or accept. So only I always said I connected more with Ani in the beginning, because he was more real

bold2: Indu, what I feel is, in a relation particularly marriage, people have to be near equals, in their right to voice, express, feel and act .Here Ani is clearly a parental figure(not a parent), her devotion is normal and him feeling entitled is natural too..So to turn the tables, something profound has to happen,which is on the way. Her love and faith would be paid off in the way we wanted (may not be exactly the same) after this change only..It would mostly a slow process steadily progressing to leap

Sbka mood kafi kharab hai 😓😓.........speed is too slow 🙄🙄

Originally posted by: Rudhita18

Nahi faja .....feel free to disagree 🤗🤗main gussa nhi karungi 😅😅

I know ki tu purane vale ARC ko khi n khi dhundh rhi thi aaj ke episode me .......but mere liye he died kbka😢and uss vakt bahoot takleef hui thi isiliye to yaha chali aayi dukh baatne ......ab to kuch feel hi nhi aati yaar 😟😟

ul: Such a truth...you decoded my heart

bold:😭

Thanks, Hema

Originally posted by: faja

@old 3: This is what we wanted on the marriage revelation , right..to own their relation is from heart..I was more affected by that, man se nahi bana hai..mah ka rishta nahi hai..That time he was blinded by society and custom, and he was outraged .He said many things of no meaning in anger (not defending, but actions contradicted).Now the custom, society tag is taken off, the bond evident to public is taken of, he sees the actual bond.Or he desperately hold on to that. Can we not interpret it that way.

Howm uch ever I despise the act of Ani, I never overlook the fact that bon is so much to him (Last track I had my doubts, but I moved on )

@ bold2: Only what I can say is, what she had as hers was also a pay of Ani's action..Its the truth..its a two way sword, which can kill you or protect you.

What you said totally completely makes sense, if Bon is a child bride and child marriage as a social evil is out of picture..But that is what BB deals with na, rishta and society clash..Are we not in track Indu, even though its a tight slap on our faces, I dont think they will dare to touch Rudhita, this might turn out to be something else

@ bold3: true else it wont sustain

Indu, kuch zyada hi gusse mein lag rahi ho tum...

** I wont force my ideas Indu, I feel your angst

Yes, true. What she has now is pay of Ani's actions only. But what would he have done if Bon was not there? This social reform, would this have taken place? The marriage broke, Ani the reformer can set example for the society - all because Bon accepted to abide to his demands and be with him. Agar aj Bon nahi hoti na, to vo shayad Mini ke saath London me hota. If Ani is responsible for what Bon has now, Bon too is responsible for what Ani has now.

I still can ignore that Faja. If all he wanted was to free her from the shackles of marriage and make her independent, without having any relationship with him or his family, why did he not filed for the petition the next day after marriage? Bon would have happily agreed. Dalhousie and all, everything could have taken place without any pain of separation or breaking of a relationship. He could have lived his own personal life too. Why did he made her stay and believe it? And now breaking it? 💔

Originally posted by: Indira12

Yes, true. What she has now is pay of Ani's actions only. But what would he have done if Bon was not there? This social reform, would this have taken place? The marriage broke, Ani the reformer can set example for the society - all because Bon accepted to abide to his demands and be with him. Agar aj Bon nahi hoti na, to vo shayad Mini ke saath London me hota. If Ani is responsible for what Bon has now, Bon too is responsible for what Ani has now.

I still can ignore that Faja. If all he wanted was to free her from the shackles of marriage and make her independent, without having any relationship with him or his family, why did he not filed for the petition the next day after marriage? Bon would have happily agreed. Dalhousie and all, everything could have taken place without any pain of separation or breaking of a relationship. He could have lived his own personal life too. Why did he made her stay and believe it? And now breaking it? 💔

True, we say destiny..They are destined to be together...

@ bold: not defending, but there are some facts here,Indu .Even I said the same lines before.

(i) How kaka wanted her to be bahu to keep her there, he had no other way(Dalhousie can never come then, education was a slow evolution and mission Barrister babu too)

(ii)That imp point is he needed her to be there, whole family his baba was so against. Yes his challenge to himself and baba

(ii) He never considered the relation anyway, it was just to keep her there as a responsibility in literal sense (until HM).He might have never anticipated these

(iv) Other dominant issues like BW and her not wanting to be with him. Had he done this then, she would have gone away.

(v) What she had become to him was something he never expected..(true the other way too)

ARC is actually olivious of the society.He is getting to know it slowly

Finally pati babu jaap ended just hope they don't take u turn. Even after ani insistence she didn't even called birisstra babu . Best part to me was Bon showing her back to ani and his small crying session but many more like this still has to come.

Bon is broken yet she is looking for better future through education. Looking forward to this track.

Ye chudail sampoo ka problem hai bon se ab to shadi khatam and she going to dalhousie but this evil lady wants to kill her, don't know reason for pathetic disgusting behavior of hers🤢.

Kal ka episode to bohut accha hai but yahan hum sab emotional horahe hai. Not good at penning thought s and writing long post but want to say the is coming back on track👍🏼