It is the culminating effects of all events together. Talking from before then the only positive thing that happened was victory over Betty Mini. Then Saurav death happened when saving her, then life threatening situation of Ani, SHE SUFFERED TWO BIG CONSECUTIVE MENTAL JHATKA
Then poor baby got busy with samnoy marriage rasam preparations, right after sampoo family drama with kaka started, then poor baby suffered so much for one month due to smelly sampoo jhoot of mensturation curse, ONE MONTH of ANOTHER LONG MENTAL TRAUMA
She had a moment to breathe but right after kaka's suhagraat preparation started and Bon almost got molested, the very next morning she found out sampoo plotted to kill her dear Mother
THE MOST HEAVY CONSECUTIVE MENTAL JHATKAS. Especially Sampoo's betrayal really hurt her
Then she had to leave haveli. She has some time to rest and befriend other village girls but she got misled by her induced crush from society's words and within days she saw Ani at death's door again. She suffered insults and taunts at her Wedding Anniversary where she learned the bitter truth of her marriage. MENTAL JHATKA PLUS BIGGER JHATKA
Then she suffered to keep her name together with that stupid Ani where she suffered mentally and even suffered physical pain of going to Hill temple. Right After she saw that idiot Ani marry with Mano infront of her eyes. Remember how she fainted from shock and had a breakdown... I felt so bad for her and cried so much. Then her mom rebuked her and left her. That night she was SO DEVASTATED and HURT šµš„ŗš
She suffered from sampoo's and society's taunts. She constantly got insulted and humiliated by that donkey Ani. She felt inferior to Mano. Her typewriter was given to that Aunty. Her cake and its credit got stolen right after by that Aunty. That donkey Ani made such a big deal of making coat for Aunty infront of Bon baby and hurt her AGAIN. Then she had her hard won opportunity of welcoming Viceroy stolen from her and Donkey Ani did not even give her any support and hurt her again. I still remember how she said Durga Maa is watching every unfair thing happen to her and how those who did her wrong will get punished and never have anything good happen to them either. Just thinking how much HURT,. SADNESS AND PAIN this pure forgiving baby must have felt to say those lines still makes me so emotional š„ŗš She kept suffering from MENTAL TRAUMAS PE TRAUMA. ONE JHATKA AFTER ANOTHER...
Then she saw Mano almost die in the blast. She even blamed herself for giving her the coat. ANOTHER TRAUMA. Then she got Mano's letter and understood her situation and about education and cried again and finally made up with Ani. She had a moment to rest. But I was so shocked to see her so uncomfortable at Ani washing her feet in front of people. If it was before she would not have given even a glance to those accusing looks from society but then she felt so uncomfortable that she kept looking around here and there.
And now not even fews days gave passed, there is another traumatic event happening in front of her very eyes. Her marriage is going to be annuled and she will have to leave Ani, her family, and her home.
Poor Bon... She just stepped into tender teenage stage of life and she has already suffered so much in just one year. Just comparing maiden Bon behavior and now bahu Bon behavior. There is difference of heaven and earth. At this point I just hope that Bon gets time to recover mentally and live her remaining childhood and teenage years in peace at least with loving people around. That she gets time to recover and that her ferocious tark wali personality that could shuts people's mouth in minutes makes a big comeback.
I am so excited that she is finally going to be free from these shackles of marriage and bahu expectations but I feel so bad that she will have to leave donkey Ani and Roy Chaudhary family members and Koyli and Bihari with whom she has made such a nice heart to heart relationship and deep bonds.