Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 103

Originally posted by: Rudhita18

Haan to ye to logic vali baat hui n .........and it's BB .....door door tak koi nata nhi dono ka ek dusre se 😏😏😏

logic nahi hai to it will be BBilllogic🤣

Originally posted by: Rudhita18

naah @rikara94 .......vo vaha baby nhi

Baccha vala baby .......jo pure ghar ka samaan tod ke phir innocent bn ke khade ho jaate hai ki maine toh kuch kiya hi nhi😏😏

Yeah exactly...he be like...kon sa sman? Kon si tod phod?🤪

Btw you can call me jyoti🤗

Originally posted by: Arcturus_S

Bon searched meaning of divorce instigated by Sampoorna and had an emotional discussion of its implications. But the Brahmo Samaj people and in precap child marriage is being described as illegal. If it is illegal, how can divorce happen? Legal acceptance is required for divorce. It will get annulled.

Anirudh will not be able to manage Sumati now because she is in her in law's place now. She will only obey them. She is very submissive

I agree Bondita is young. But isn't it better to ask her opinion too instead of just deciding what she has to do? What the child wants matters , even in our present legal system.

Eventhough society doesn't have any legal authority, sometimes it becomes much more lethal than laws. Legally women are free to go anywhere alone at any time in present day India. But will we roam freely at some random place without a second thought at mid night alone? We will not . We will think a thousand times about our safety before doing that because we know how our society behaves. This is just one instance showing legal protection will not ensure safety in society always

It's upto the makers, divorce or annulment, they are talking about divorce in the show, thats all I can say on this issue.

You are saying Sumati has self respect for 3 posts now she is submissive, I am sorry but Sumati is just a character, she helped Anirudh in last track, there's no reason why she wouldn't help him now, it's just an excuse

Bondita is young and Anirudh should ask her opinion, I already stated this in my post, But Anirudh should take responsibility of the decision, every decision comes with consequences Bondita being a young girl, should be protected from these consequences, is what I am saying, Anirudh didn't ask her in private or in an unbiased setting where she can think and tell him what she wants, he put her in spotlight where it's not her opinion which matters but she is solely responsible for the decision

The girl doesn't understand marriage and implications of marriage, again whole point of child marriage being illegal is that children are not considered mature enough to take this decision

Society and Sumati's unwillingness to do anything to help her child just seems like an excuse now, it is a story, When Bondita can go to school against wishes of society then there are thousand of ways for Anirudh to offer his protection to her and first step for anyone would be taking her legal guardian in confidence and sending her to Dalhousie for further studies

Originally posted by: Itsmesabah

Kuch nahi hoga usko sab ke nafrat ke peeche bhi pyar hee chupa hai main jaanti hoon unme tu bhi hai 🤗

Tu aise baatein karke mera mann mat pighla 😒

Me gussa hu usse, mujhe firse apne aap ko yaad dilana padega kyun gussa thi 🤪

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Bondita should not have been burdened with a decision like this, it is her life but what does she knows about Child marriage or marriage? Does she understands consequences of annulment? Does she understands implications of not getting an annulment?

It is Anirudh and her mother's responsibility, she can take decisions and be responsible for her actions when she grows up, not now, that's the whole point of Child marriage being illegal, Kids cant consent to it

I agree Bondita cannot understand it. The point of child marriage being illegal is kids cannot consent to it - true. But that's in the case where marriage hasn't taken place. After the law was passed, for the existing marriages to get anulled/divorced, the consent of child brides (already married ones) matters. That is how the laws of Indian legal system are. There may be some reason as to why laws are made like that.

If you see in separation of parents, when the custody of child comes up, the consent of the child is asked. He/she can too cannot understand the plight of the situation but still the consent is required. That is how the legal system is.

Originally posted by: Indira12

I agree Bondita cannot understand it. The point of child marriage being illegal is kids cannot consent to it - true. But that's in the case where marriage hasn't taken place. After the law was passed, for the existing marriages to get anulled/divorced, the consent of child brides (already married ones) matters. That is how the laws of Indian legal system are. There may be some reason as to why laws are made like that.

If you see in separation of parents, when the custody of child comes up, the consent of the child is asked. He/she can too cannot understand the plight of the situation but still the consent is required. That is how the legal system is.

Please read

I already stated that her opinion is the most important but the responsibility is not her, she should not face consequences of the decision, this is Anirudh's primary responsibility

@Bold 1

Can you quote the evidence? I don't think they ask for consent of any party if one wants divorce or annulment, one can file petition in court, court can't force anyone to stay with his child bride

@Bold 2

According to Guardians and Wards act, a child's preference is considered if he or she is older than 9 years, but it is only considered, a child can't decide, the decision is taken by court, suppose a child wants to live with his mother but she can't provide safe and healthy environments for him or the child wants to live with father because he is super rich and will get him toys (Yes, Children can be manipulated by telling them that they'll be given everything and this life will seem better than a healthy life with other parent), but the father can't provide healthy lifestyle, so opinion is taken but they are given the decision making power as far as I know

Lastly, I am not even saying anything against Bondita, I feel she should not be burdened with responsibility or consequences of the decision, Anirudh should take it as he is the adult, what is wrong in this? Ask her opinion but don't leave the responsibility on her, that's it. Do you want the burden of consequences on Bondita?

Originally posted by: rikara94

Yeah exactly...he be like...kon sa sman? Kon si tod phod?🤪

Btw you can call me jyoti🤗

Originally posted by: Indira12

I agree Bondita cannot understand it. The point of child marriage being illegal is kids cannot consent to it - true. But that's in the case where marriage hasn't taken place. After the law was passed, for the existing marriages to get anulled/divorced, the consent of child brides (already married ones) matters. That is how the laws of Indian legal system are. There may be some reason as to why laws are made like that.

If you see in separation of parents, when the custody of child comes up, the consent of the child is asked. He/she can too cannot understand the plight of the situation but still the consent is required. That is how the legal system is.

ul:jo mere man mein tha tum ne bol li.. Indu.. ⭐️

Opinion of the child do matters...

They might nit know marriage in an actual sense, but they do know if they are mistreated or they wanted to there

If the same should have been asked to lil Bon, immediately after mrg, she should have happily chosen ma.. now its not the case. Also if the child is having a torturous experience, will they still stick on? unlike adults they arenot sure of the consequences, hence might not supress in a toxic environment, if given an opportunity. The consent of the guardian of minor girl are important too, but not that girls consent in public doesnot matter.. If they planned in private and he says in public, it may still look like his decision or he manipulated, brainwashed, or blackmailed her.

Here be it his impulsive action or his wild card thinking Bon wont give consent, but whatever he said as Bon has a voice was much the truth..

Originally posted by: Indira12

Tu aise baatein karke mera mann mat pighla 😒

Me gussa hu usse, mujhe firse apne aap ko yaad dilana padega kyun gussa thi 🤪

Originally posted by: Rudhita18

apni Sabbu sacchi mohabbat ki giraft me hai .........usko disturb nhi krte 😜😜😜

Mohbbat ki giraft baap re meri mummy ne yeh dekh liya toh tabiyat se kutai honi hai meri😝