Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 62

Originally posted by: faja

@bold: Sharafah, by asking him to divorce, I feel its indirectly conveyed that abolishing child marriage doesnot make the existing ones invalid, One has to seek a legal separation for that.I can be wrong here too

ul: I completely resonate with your feelings for Anidita here, but not sure how are they going to pull it off.

I feel even if annulment happens, Ani saath hogi pass nahi, not in RC mansion , Dalhousie might come.Eventually leap.This is opposite to what I believed before where I thought, annulment might never happen.Now that open social involvement and pressure on Anirudh is shown ,I am just waiting to see how it will be executed

Faja as of now there is definitely going to be a long separation.This separation is required for both equally. I think Ani might agree initially to go ahead with the divorce and hence Bon will have to leave for her mayka. Once she’s there Ani might find it hard to be with her. Why will her family specially Thakuma allow her to meet a stranger now? Saath nahi hosakta woh agar koi rishta nahi hai? You get my point. Everyone is saying they can be together despite the marriage being annulled but how and why?

Originally posted by: Itsmesabah

Faja as of now there is definitely going to be a long separation.This separation is required for both equally. I think Ani might agree initially to go ahead with the divorce and hence Bon will have to leave for her mayka. Once she’s there Ani might find it hard to be with her. Why will her family specially Thakuma allow her to meet a stranger now? Saath nahi hosakta woh agar koi rishta nahi hai? You get my point. Everyone is saying they can be together despite the marriage being annulled but how and why?

Sabah, I too understand this.

Is this a possible take

There would be an inevitable separation, with families coming in between and in the end it will be sorted out, by no annulment and her back to RC .

OR

Her family after opposition, might agree to pursue her dreams and she might go away for studies ,their bond will be continued , through letter correspondence, saath but not pass with or without marriage in picture, he heing her mentor , she still being his jeene ke vajah. But her home would not be RC's but her mayka. If this is the case leap has to follow

On the leap the relation would be something to sort out, because I feel Andidta can never be separated.As long as a child saath dena, Ani can give the meaning of support, will he be capable of saath chodna after that. So after the mission barrister babu, for kabhi saath nahi chodna to happen , their relation has to take a new turn.It would not be on him attracted to her on future but realizing its incomplete without her, hence redefining relationship or re-estalishing relationship

Okk..finally saw the episode..

I kinda liked it..

It's good that all these are talked before bonditha..bcz she will be to understand that if we have to bring change we have to be changed first..and first step should be ours...

KSj ka reaction expected tha...

Ani clearly don't want that to happen even he is happy for the law...

Bonditha clearly understood why Ani married and how that child marriage was going to happen with budda, Ani saying their marriage was wrong but the connection and lagav was there..and the words of samaaj wale..sab usko yaad aaraha he...so she is determined to be ok with it..like..she is ready to bear pain for other girls like her not to go through in future...

Ani was remembering the FBS of that day..how he married and said to be there for her..shows him distressed that now with what relation he will be there for her..

I think now Bonditha will take the first step and Ani ki uljan suljadenge...may be I wanted to see that..

So after this taakumaa will take her...and don't let Ani meet bondi...

Ani desperate to meet her...

And finally both Ani and bondi will make all understand that rishtha ka naam hona zaroori nahi ne..(till badi bondi)

So much scope is there..for the track..if shown correctly..bus zyaada negative log na ho..even strict ho but not bad...like KSJ..

Originally posted by: Janu.301017

Okk..finally saw the episode..

I kinda liked it..

It's good that all these are talked before bonditha..bcz she will be to understand that if we have to bring change we have to be changed first..and first step should be ours...

KSj ka reaction expected tha...

Ani clearly don't want that to happen even he is happy for the law...

Bonditha clearly understood why Ani married and how that child marriage was going to happen with budda, Ani saying their marriage was wrong but the connection and lagav was there..and the words of samaaj wale..sab usko yaad aaraha he...so she is determined to be ok with it..like..she is ready to bear pain for other girls like her not to go through in future...

Ani was remembering the FBS of that day..how he married and said to be there for her..shows him distressed that now with what relation he will be there for her..

I think now Bonditha will take the first step and Ani ki uljan suljadenge...may be I wanted to see that..

So after this taakumaa will take her...and don't let Ani meet bondi...

Ani desperate to meet her...

And finally both Ani and bondi will make all understand that rishtha ka naam hona zaroori nahi ne..(till badi bondi)

So much scope is there..for the track..if shown correctly..bus zyaada negative log na ho..even strict ho but not bad...like KSJ..

Bondita is much determined and it shows how she understands now what happens with her ,she was about to be sati and got married to old man but ani saved her

Makers showed a parallel scene after marriage revelation she was along dugga ma’am to win ani,be with him and she as patni would do everything all under societal pressures but this time we have our real bon who is growing up ,so realised injustices happened with her and how for other girls who did not get ani in her life are suffering ,this shows value of education and tarks and progressive thinking we have in our bon

I loved bon today we all expected last time she would be broken and ask not to break but Thai time she is composed and cried but not this much ani is more hurt as bon would go away from him ,he can’t live without her as he has a unique relation with her

Who says she is not brave and have self respect she is very strong

Her down phase has finished like her societal pressures ,insecurities and all and due to manorama making her understand but all of this started with way ani revealed marriage revelation and kind of insulted bon and then kaka and everyone pressuring bon u have to do this u are responsible

He thought Dalhousie jaayegi barrister Bankar mature hokar vaapas as jaayegi uske oaas but little did he know now he won’t be with her anymore and how will he take care of ehr ,protect her and help her grow

Originally posted by: faja

@old: same thought Sabah, so only Bon maa could not meet him was highlighted esle, she would have told him already about thakuma..

@ul: She recalling marriage revelation in a composed way was just ❤️.even if no first step, there would be no resistance from her end..Have you notice her thought focused on 'shishya wala lagav'.She came out of 'rishta' as their sole bond, which she hold as as her connection with Ani from the beginning.I am here now in the same boat with Bon.

Ani on the other hand got visuals of 'andhakar mein hi saath doonga' on annulment of their marriage and bon-budda marriage flash back on injustice to girl child was so on spot of his inner turmoil.

Ani always took a stand vigorously in front of oppositions .If Bon, resisted it would have been easy to fight her. Now with her submission, its all the more difficult to him, he will break into pieces.

Correct we all thought bon opposition would break him but when bon herself is accepting we have shishya and dost Bala rishta and once she makes hold on it while growing up which we all wanted and ani also wanted will ani be able to bear this

Bon forgiveness and acceptance of situations is ani repentance and realisation how she was hurt during marriage revelation and all is shown subtly and ironically to ani ,this is justification of ani marriage revelation and how ani introspection that he became wrong time ,rakshas and enemy of bon was slap to his love confession

In marriage revelation bon would realise whatever injustices happened with her and she can’t let anything happen to others shows her big hearted girl at such an age ,also were we not all who said in last track that seeing bon facing polygamy ,sitting in sr rituals ,predictors by society to be good wife and bahu she should be freed that is what makers are giving us

I am having mixed feelings but I guess it will make everyone realsie bon is not jealous ,insecure she is a gem

Originally posted by: faja

@old: same thought Sabah, so only Bon maa could not meet him was highlighted esle, she would have told him already about thakuma..

@ul: She recalling marriage revelation in a composed way was just ❤️.even if no first step, there would be no resistance from her end..Have you notice her thought focused on 'shishya wala lagav'.She came out of 'rishta' as their sole bond, which she hold as as her connection with Ani from the beginning.I am here now in the same boat with Bon.

Ani on the other hand got visuals of 'andhakar mein hi saath doonga' on annulment of their marriage and bon-budda marriage flash back on injustice to girl child was so on spot of his inner turmoil.

Ani always took a stand vigorously in front of oppositions .If Bon, resisted it would have been easy to fight her. Now with her submission, its all the more difficult to him, he will break into pieces.

Bold: I also sensed it...they wantedly kept him aside for the takumaa talks..

See bondi also about to say the village name Ani started shouting...koi zindagi bar ka pyaar tho nahi e takumaa..KSj ki..jiski yaad me shaadi hi nahi ki...(just joking)😉

Originally posted by: Janu.301017

Bold: I also sensed it...they wantedly kept him aside for the takumaa talks..

See bondi also about to say the village name Ani started shouting...koi zindagi bar ka pyaar tho nahi e takumaa..KSj ki..jiski yaad me shaadi hi nahi ki...(just joking)😉

Kuch to hai with dhakuma..she will be selectively positive and negative to people, I think

@bold: Agar aisa hai to Ani ki seekh Kaka se hona chahiye na baba se on what is a ZBKP..😆..A out of way realization for Ani on 'pyaar kya hota hai' 😂

Originally posted by: faja

Sabah, I too understand this.

Is this a possible take

There would be an inevitable separation, with families coming in between and in the end it will be sorted out, by no annulment and her back to RC .

OR

Her family after opposition, might agree to pursue her dreams and she might go away for studies ,their bond will be continued , through letter correspondence, saath but not pass with or without marriage in picture, he heing her mentor , she still being his jeene ke vajah. But her home would not be RC's but her mayka. If this is the case leap has to follow

On the leap the relation would be something to sort out, because I feel Andidta can never be separated.As long as a child saath dena, Ani can give the meaning of support, will he be capable of saath chodna after that. So after the mission barrister babu, for kabhi saath nahi chodna to happen , their relation has to take a new turn.It would not be on him attracted to her on future but realizing its incomplete without her, hence redefining relationship or re-estalishing relationship

Yes Faja both are highly possible. I would personally love it if it’s the second one. It sounds fresh and different.
Something different or drastic has to happen for Ani to look at Bon as just not his zimmedari.There can be a change in the dynamics of their relationship too I mean the relation taking a new turn Ani coming out of the guardian/ choti bacchi mode and maybe considering himself more of a teacher or friend to Bon. I think this is necessary if we are to get Rudhita post leap.

But my mind says the first possibility has higher chances.
Whatever be it the separation I think is going to be worth while and also a wee bit painful for us😔

Originally posted by: Itsmesabah

Yes Faja both are highly possible. I would personally love it if it’s the second one. It sounds fresh and different.
Something different or drastic has to happen for Ani to look at Bon as just not his zimmedari.There can be a change in the dynamics of their relationship too I mean the relation taking a new turn Ani coming out of the guardian/ choti bacchi mode and maybe considering himself more of a teacher or friend to Bon. I think this is necessary if we are to get Rudhita post leap.

But my mind says the first possibility has higher chances.
Whatever be it the separation I think is going to be worth while and also a wee bit painful for us😔

@old: its daku maa and mayka,Sabah

Now bondu has another haath over her ser, unlike the time her mother begged Ani to save bachchi..

Ani's primary instinct on Bon is 'choti bachi' even during bomb blast he enquired bachi ..Haan, hai bachi..par if some guardian exist for her to protect and save her, his role as rakshak babu will be dwindled right.

Although Ani says friend , shikshak..those were occasional roles..In his mind' Zemmidari is in forefront , but that confidence in calling her Zemmidari is from their marriage .Although he underplays it, he knows it deepdown, evident from the flashbacks.

(His flashbacks on his vow to safeguard her always,their marriage rituals, her trust to be always his side as patni and their dreams together on her bright future to his fondness on her. But hers was mostly on why her marriage is wrong, why he married her and how would society be benefitted by them to all his fondness on her she experience as shikshak wala )

From his dominating rakshak mode to shikshak mode might be on way. Because now after having a support from others, she might need him for her flight to dreams and future..Thats where focus might go to keep them connected.

Bon might get ok on seeing him shikshak, for her their bond wont change, her trust is on Ani. But its not going to be easy for Ani, for he knows even though he claims nothing changes it might not be so outwardly.

@Bold2:Even I think mostly the first option, I would be ok for Aurisht as Anidita. But its a tough plot for makers to justify how they can be together with the society and evil practice in picture. Lets see how they handle it

@ul: Sure we are going to grab tissue to cry with them..

Originally posted by: faja

@old: its daku maa and mayka,Sabah

Now bondu has another haath over her ser, unlike the time her mother begged Ani to save bachchi..

Ani's primary instinct on Bon is 'choti bachi' even during bomb blast he enquired bachi ..Haan, hai bachi..par if some guardian exist for her to protect and save her, his role as rakshak babu will be dwindled right.

Although Ani says friend , shikshak..those were occasional roles..In his mind' Zemmidari is in forefront , but that confidence in calling her Zemmidari is from their marriage .Although he underplays it, he knows it deepdown, evident from the flashbacks.

(His flashbacks on his vow to safeguard her always,their marriage rituals, her trust to be always his side as patni and their dreams together on her bright future to his fondness on her. But hers was mostly on why her marriage is wrong, why he married her and how would society be benefitted by them to all his fondness on her she experience as shikshak wala )

From his dominating rakshak mode to shikshak mode might be on way. Because now after having a support from others, she might need him for her flight to dreams and future..Thats where focus might go to keep them connected.

Bon might get ok on seeing him shikshak, for her their bond wont change, her trust is on Ani. But its not going to be easy for Ani, for he knows even though he claims nothing changes it might not be so outwardly.

@Bold2:Even I think mostly the first option, I would be ok for Aurisht as Anidita. But its a tough plot for makers to justify how they can be together with the society and evil practice in picture. Lets see how they handle it

@ul: Sure we are going to grab tissue to cry with them..

Exactly it would be fresh and a amazing concept to see

See for bon personal growth and be independent she needs this till now society ones asked ur bahu is going to school or is topping kaka and society said her husband wants this people thought vilayati babu hai Padhi likha wife chahti hai isliye,Anirudh said bon is married to him by force so society blamed she has kami and all and even sampoorna taunts her first woman to get divorced

If bon gets freed form this marriage ,studies hard becomes educated and advocates woman rights won’t it be different ,she would grow as independent girl fighting injustices wills t an example for that society who treats women as commodity ,children producing machine ,conditioned to love their husbands never explore love ,friendship with anyone won’t bon made to rise above society

During last track we talked about how die to all this when bon was told those rasams during sr,kaka told fulfil ur patnidharm at any cost ,we get hurt and ashamed on seeing this did not we feel let this amrriage be fhinsiehd even us blaming ani for humiliating his wife and even polygamy we in our anger wished for this

Kaka loves bon a lot but won’t he again want an heir from bon when she is growing up if bon remains with ani remains a child bride won’t on frowning up have also false implications of love and marriage but on freeing from it she will have special bond with ani and realise later true love with ani , we all assumed bon woudl grow up live ani later realsie she needs to free ani from this marriage and ani realises bon needs a life partner and frees her both confess love but makers off bb are showing very different concept which is bold and abolishment of child amrriage

Ani can say bon needs to be with me we are happy but won’t other people who I actually don’t treat their child birdies well can say this ,also ani did second amrriage when first wife is a child bride ,the aunties taunted Anirudh babu has got his wife of his age ,nobody thought bon is also victim and she also has rights to marry someone of her age ,they blamed bon for being small ,not of her hubby worth , so she bore all this at a young age just because she was a wife but there were other child brides whose husband married second time out of love as they have rifts,disgusting and hypocrite society it was

Ps it is my opinion and I am equally heartbroken to see ani bon deprecated more on ani side as he would lose his support as ani always considered bon as his equivalent ,his support

Their anokha rishta was is and will always be sacred