Tujhse Hai Raabta Daily Discussion Thread 38 - Page 117

Originally posted by: Kalma18

That is the thing di...when Malhar shares anything it is out of his will but when it comes to Kalyani, she is always stuck between a rock and a hard place...

We have seen time and again that when she is about to give out the details...Anu stops her....Anu is sort of pulling the strings here...

We all know for a fact that Kalyani loves Anu more than Malhar....so Anu's words are IT for Kalyani...so she will never not listen to Anu...

If Anu was a wise woman, she would have taught Kalyani the importance of truth and trust in a relationship...but the opposite happened here..

As for trusting Sampada, it was clearly out of desparation to win Moksh's custody....since Malhar was not the biological father he could have done nothing but let the custody trial play out... Kalyani very well knows that for Malhar his duty trumps familial commitments...he would have never agreed to the bhoot drama so she kept him out of it so that it wouldn't morally put him out...also this bhoot drama was not as big a deal as compared to murder...

She has literally killed someone or atleast that's what she knows...this is when she needs legal help and Anu is destroying that chance 🤭 that is my problem with this whole track otherwise it's fine only concept wise

Sometimes I feel Anu is the main villian of the show 🤣😅😂 sab ka ticket Katwa deti hain madame 😂😅🤣

I'm not saying she shouldn't trust Anu or listen to her.

It's OK that she trusted Sampada out of desparation. Luckily for her Sampada didn't double cross her.

Ofcourse the bhoot drama was limited to family matter.

This is a matter which is not even going to be in Malhar's hands.

Infact there's every chance of him being incarcerated too.

Maybe Malhar ko IPS training me aisa sab drama karke problems solve karna sikhaya nahi gaya.. 😂😂😂

So taking the legal route is what makes him untrustworthy.

So be it.

AnuYani can enjoy their journey. Better they keep all the rest at bay.

Originally posted by: rekha_crm

I'm not saying she shouldn't trust Anu or listen to her.

It's OK that she trusted Sampada out of desparation. Luckily for her Sampada didn't double cross her.

Ofcourse the bhoot drama was limited to family matter.

This is a matter which is not even going to be in Malhar's hands.

Infact there's every chance of him being incarcerated too.

Maybe Malhar ko IPS training me aisa sab drama karke problems solve karna sikhaya nahi gaya.. 😂😂😂

So taking the legal route is what makes him untrustworthy.

So be it.

AnuYani can enjoy their journey. Better they keep all the rest at bay.

Wahi hain inn dono ki problem...in any relationship difference of opinion or different mindset bohot hi common hain...every relationship has that that's why learning to navigate these differences form the foundation of a healthy relationship...which these two have not learnt...

Like Kalyani knows Malhar prioritizes his duty then talk it out with him...Malhar knows that Kalyani always hides things from him, this is a talking matter too....a lot of times good things are lost due to assumptions...which they need to work out...

SN main rehkar yeh hoga nahi...too much interference from the family on this relationship tbh...

Also it's not wrong for Kalyani to trust Anu par di as an adult Kalyani ka personality develop nahi huwa hain..she emotionally intertwined to Anu which blinds her judgement...maybe because of her traumatizing past but still...

Even if our mom's told us something would we not think it through even once 😹 yaha pe yeh hota hi nahi...baki sab collateral damage ban jathe hain iski wajhese

Originally posted by: Kalma18

Wahi hain inn dono ki problem...in any relationship difference of opinion or different mindset bohot hi common hain...every relationship has that that's why learning to navigate these differences form the foundation of a healthy relationship...which these two have not learnt...

Like Kalyani knows Malhar prioritizes his duty then talk it out with him...Malhar knows that Kalyani always hides things from him, this is a talking matter too....a lot of times good things are lost due to assumptions...which they need to work out...

SN main rehkar yeh hoga nahi...too much interference from the family on this relationship tbh...

Also it's not wrong for Kalyani to trust Anu par di as an adult Kalyani ka personality develop nahi huwa hain..she emotionally intertwined to Anu which blinds her judgement...maybe because of her traumatizing past but still...

Even if our mom's told us something would we not think it through even once 😹 yaha pe yeh hota hi nahi...baki sab collateral damage ban jathe hain iski wajhese

Couple ke development ke baare me baat karke faida nahi hai..

As long as Anu is barging in, there can never be any development between them.

I would suggest not to show too much romance too. It looks like a joke to show physical intimacy when there is absolutely no other development.

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Exactly..its not wrong to listen to your mom but no one blindly follows their mom's words.

In real moms and daughters argue a lot.

For 5 years this girl could take her own decisions.

Now she needs Anu's wonderful advice and interference in every little thing not even once thinking or analysing its consequences.

Baaki logon ko jab Bhashan deti hai to Kaan se khoon nikalta hai.. 🤣

Originally posted by: rekha_crm

Couple ke development ke baare me baat karke faida nahi hai..

As long as Anu is barging in, there can never be any development between them.

I would suggest not to show too much romance too. It looks like a joke to show physical intimacy when there is absolutely no other development.

@bold..

Exactly..its not wrong to listen to your mom but no one blindly follows their mom's words.

In real moms and daughters argue a lot.

For 5 years this girl could take her own decisions.

Now she needs Anu's wonderful advice and interference in every little thing not even once thinking or analysing its consequences.

Baaki logon ko jab Bhashan deti hai to Kaan se khoon nikalta hai.. 🤣

Exactly family has too much interference in this couple's relationship...that's the biggest problem 🤭🤭

That's my opinion too...like listen to your mom but uske saath apna dimaag bhi lagana hain Kalyani 😅🤣😹 usko bhool na nahi hain 🤣

That's why I was telling Kalyani was better off without her family... atleast she was independent...now she is just caught up in a web of family drama now...

Also this dependency on Anu is ruining her other relationships which she is not understanding...

Like I know the past has been very bad for her but if she doesn't learn to let go of it and mature, she won't have a future...this holds good for all characters on the show...

Either you forget and move on or don't forget and move on...yeh aadha aadha attitude nahi chalega 🤣

Originally posted by: Kalma18

Wahi hain inn dono ki problem...in any relationship difference of opinion or different mindset bohot hi common hain...every relationship has that that's why learning to navigate these differences form the foundation of a healthy relationship...which these two have not learnt...

Like Kalyani knows Malhar prioritizes his duty then talk it out with him...Malhar knows that Kalyani always hides things from him, this is a talking matter too....a lot of times good things are lost due to assumptions...which they need to work out...

SN main rehkar yeh hoga nahi...too much interference from the family on this relationship tbh...

Also it's not wrong for Kalyani to trust Anu par di as an adult Kalyani ka personality develop nahi huwa hain..she emotionally intertwined to Anu which blinds her judgement...maybe because of her traumatizing past but still...

Even if our mom's told us something would we not think it through even once 😹 yaha pe yeh hota hi nahi...baki sab collateral damage ban jathe hain iski wajhese

They're about to lose Moksh again, after they just found him after 5 damn yrs! Any mother worth her salt would be more worried about her child than anything else, so I don't blame her for being like "eff your duty and principles, Mr. Rane".... it's not the rightest thing, obviously, but this is how mothers who've risked losing their child more than once and been separated from him would probably react.

And Kalyani knows ke Malhar se baat karke koi faida nahi... as you said, he prioritizes his duty, no amount of talking can change that... it's why she goes to Anu with her issues and ends up in bigger problems because her mother gives sh***y advice, because she usually knows going to him will get her a result she won't like.

Actually she should told Malhar about her case...N she were ready lekin Woh yedi Anu boli muze 24 hours dedo mein Kuch karungi 3 din ho Gaye esaki khopadi mein se koi bahar Nahi Aaye..she must told Malhar about the consequences of she surrender above adoption...n also asure him she will surrender before law after his adoption.yup Atharv gave her waring he about kalakandi in adoption but if she told Malhar they can work together to find out solutions..But this Mata Anudevi stoped her for the same...so Malhar ko batana achha rahega kyoki Woh genuinely Kallu ko bachana chahata hein.

That is the thing, this entire fiasco is playing out because each character has had a turbulent family life....each one of them is emotionally unstable to a level and they have forgotten how to work with eachother..

If they value retaining Moksh's custody, then they need to learn to put their differences aside and work together as a team...you can run but you can't hide the truth for long...the truth will out one or the other day and their worlds will come crashing down...

I hope before that happens, Anu mayya let's Kalyani deal with her problems her way...

Originally posted by: Jsmp21

Actually she should told Nagar about her case...N she were ready lekin Woh yedi Anu boli muze 24 hours dedo mein Kuch karungi 3 din ho Gaye esaki khopadi mein se koi bahar Nahi Aaye..she must told Malhar about the consequences of she surrender above adoption...n also asure him she will surrender before law after his adoption.yup Atharv gave her waring he about kalakandi in adoption but if she told Malhar they can work together to find out solutions..But this Mata Anudevi stoped her for the same...so Malhar ko batana achha rahega kyoki Woh genuinely Kallu ko bachana chahata hein.

Wahi toh bol rahi mai...

He genuinely wants to get her out of the mess.

Actually agar usne bata diya hota toh adoption papers he would have signed.

Woh Moksh ka dushman nahi hai..

Jitna bada dil Kalyani ka hai.. Utna hi bada dil uska bhi hai.

Knowing Moksh is not his child and adopting him is different but knowing Moksh is the child born out of the betrayal that he received from SamTharv and loving that child as his own also takes a big heart.

Originally posted by: Kalmalover

I got told.0.9 by someone on sets

Is this confirmed?

I don't know or confirm but there is news for 2nd SR..aise Tension me log fir BHI etane excited kaise rehe sakate hein koi BTS dekhake prediction hein.