Mehendi hai rachne wali discussion thread no 17(baby shona janu) - Page 11

Originally posted by: ImHemangi

when sitara hits with aag and pani promo befire launch... my nani was watching sitara n airing promo was they with kya hoga jb aag aur pani milege?

my nani: tabahi hogi aur kya fisool ka bwal😆😆😆😆

ek aur hate marriage la rha hai star plus i was like like.. wow she is so true nani bina hate ke aag aur pani na mil skte😂😂😂

but then she said ye ladka must hum eske liye dekhenge n we seal the deal for raghu on that day it was 12 feb if i remember

nani n me used watch everyday in bed only and my mom used to give us death glares same as anna 🤣🤣🤣🤣

whenever there us call from my masi in morning half and she asked about whereabouts of me n nani.. my mom said they live in RR world call there only🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Etne tane sune hai hmne anna k chlte and jb hate wedding promo aaya i told my nani our prediction was true nani said it’s not not just prediction but law of nature.. aag and pani cannot make it with peace in start bs hme safed sadi chubhh gyi thi😆😆😆

nani said aski maja toh ye wedding k bad aage hai. abhi tk toh sirf timepass kr rhe the😂😂😂 now is at my native place since holi so she used to watch it on tv only at evening so i called her every morning to give her update ki shyam ko kya aayega.. yesterday her first question precap badla ki nhi ye bata pehle🤣🤣

and today she asked shadi ka precap aaya kya😂😂 omg i just can’t explain her excitement guys.. she is super enthusiastic woman for raghav rao

she wants wedding precap to know what the groom n bride actually wear as wedding costume😆😆😆😆

she knows about our IF discussion so she said keep your calm today aaj tere sare dost feminism ka zanda leke chadhne wale so argue kr k apna bp mt badha aj kuch meetha kha le comments pdhke ..10 din me sb shant ho jayege🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣( this was actually hilarious)

sorry to disturb you all with epi discussion but can’t resist myself

so 100 baat ki 1 baat me n nani before it aired we are core team anna🥳and we love it to be forever🙏🏻

Originally posted by: rmahi25

@UL : Glad someone else noticed it , I thought it's my delusion or what?🤣 More than that Farhaad didn't even look at her and quickly he went out, didn't even stopped there with his Anna💔...

I felt for Pallu today but I will be completely broken tomorrow when the tears will roll down her cheeks,when she will be pushed out , when her screams won't be heard by maniacs , when she will cry her heart out streets , when she will have no where to go , when she will lose herself🥺

Let's see what will Pallu do next!

Originally posted by: rmahi25

lol....she is cute❤️

Originally posted by: favjassi

Ab kya hoga she is thrown out of her house in precap so I think will raghavemom give her shelter or will she directly go to raghav house?

Originally posted by: ImHemangi

rotey rotey sadak pe giregi gi may be chkkr kha ke n somehow faru or keerti comes to her help take her with them at amma’s place bs fir kya hai raghuvar ka dwar kitna hi dur hai🤣🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: ImHemangi

i know you are sensitive but you this is law of nature the thing/person gives you extreme hate or destruction in your life is the person you madly love and that’s why we said love/hate can overpower anything.... these are the two extreme emotion jo apki sochne smjhne ki takad ko puri trh fail krte hai... so ultimately he gave her lifeless pain and later love same as with her she will love him like mad n only love him... why i said ahe will fall first bcz he had baggage which will always overpower his feelings unless it get clears jo etni jldi hoga nhi n for her it first time a man in her life jo jaisa bhi hai but uski life me hai joki void thi .. so jiske pas kuch bhi nhi uske pas kuch hona is alg level ka security fir chahe o kitna hi glt kyu na ho....

dear hema

I respect that you are team raghav. I too root for the couple, I am basically team Raghvi. I don’t get mad at either of them, kbhi bhi. Because I see them as two different, flawed, layered human beings and try to put psychological perspective to their behaviour. It’s just a complicated itv story, nothing else. Will watch it until I keep seeing both of them growing together. I totally love these two, the actors and the characters. ❤️

on the other hand I want to make sure that you don’t think the same way about real life. I am assuming that you are in your early 20s? Pardon me if I am wrong. @bold. In real life if it happens, we call it the Stockholm Syndrome and it’s a psychological condition 🤣

On a serious note, ye sb love-hate stories/quotes etc look good/intriguing in books/TV but irl, if you ever come across a toxic person like that (girl/boy); you pack your bags and you run as fast as you possibly can. Because real life is so much more layered than they can ever show on tv and it does more harm than good. It has larger implications. And take my word for it, you really don’t want that. (Saying by experience)

To everyone else who’s miffed with Raghav today, guys it’s good that you find this behaviour wrong and I am proud of y’all.. It shows that you will not let it happen to you or anyone else near you. More power to you ladies.❤️ (Also taking in consideration the fact that you have also called out pallavi whenever she passes her judgements blindly on Raghav. I also don’t appreciate pallavi slapping Raghav because I believe it’s not okay to cross your limits with anyone, irrespective of the gender. There are better ways to do things.) But it’s only a story, and let’s treat them as characters who are very flawed. Now it’s pallavi’s choice if she ever pardons him for his behaviour today. Is she willing to take in all the toxicity and hope for a better future with him. Maybe someday she will have it in her heart to forgive him and his good overpowers his bad. After all, forgiveness is needed for your own mental well-being too, not only for others. It’s only a character, let’s look at her like that and enjoy the story as long as we can.

Because the fact is, We all are educated here, capable of differentiating good from bad. We know Raghav’s behaviour today was intolerable and we are not going to idealise this behaviour by a man in our lives. Win win.

Haan, problem arises when people start idealising the behaviour because you know, he’s the “hero”. Also true for the FL, she acts all vulnerable, compromising, loving, tolerating all insults and people think it’s the way a girl supposed to behave. Especially the teens are very impressionable and the old trp aunties, well they are just toxic themselves. If that’s your stance, then you are right for calling out the makers on such portrayals- toxic FL and meek FL.
Idealisation is the problem, not the portrayal. Let’s teach our younger ones at home to tell right from wrong, and let’s try to have more valuable discussions with the elderly. ❤️

With love 🌼

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

Episode was good with roller coaster ride of emotions from both the family rao and deshmukh

well time is really bad

A blind eye is destruction of ones own life ..

Raghu has dug his own pit were he is Gona fall

Pallu got real jolt in life she was always a emotional girl never practical her devotion to deshmukh family totally failed

What type of father figure is vijay he knows Raghu evil side instead of sitting with pallu and knowing the real truth he just threw her not even considered she being a women

I want her to shift to dada not jump into hell wedding..

farhad scene was really good the way he knows which is good or bad and how pallu eye contact made him uncomfortable..

Raghu emotional guy crossed all the limits throwing money at her was first step he will never get any response from her in love matter

Secondly his lines is enough to give a hint how pallu relationship will be with Raghu “ no strings attached no meaning to the relationship even though they get married she won’t keep any attachment what’s so ever “

We all know how pallu system works he is teacher and she a great learner

She might learn all the ways to be in this life emotionless rude and alone and no emotional attached to anyone as he is right now .

Hope they show her as Raghu 2.0 who turn out to be successful take his money as loan and pay him and prove herself innocent and walk free shift to hostel and show the families that she doesn’t need any family not past nor future

Pallu is Phoenix who had to rise

Seeing her completely changed that’s enough for Raghu to cry buckets a sweet lady turned in to a stone by him

Widow truth will be final nail in the coffin

I know we won’t get it starplus will make her joker and romance with him with puppy face get insulted 24/7

All stories same end game ..

Let’s see

Raghu has crossed the limits and that’s it I won’t comment further because I know ppl might not like it here sai fans bare pade hai ...

what nonsense Raghu was saying he turned her visit as something else serves right for pallu ( I used to say she bettter stay far away but she 🙏😡)

Insult was uncalled

Both lives are same whenever they are happy other will knock happiness down the drain

Originally posted by: Inese_20

dear hema

I respect that you are team raghav. I too root for the couple, I am basically team Raghvi. I don’t get mad at either of them, kbhi bhi. Because I see them as two different, flawed, layered human beings and try to put psychological perspective to their behaviour. It’s just a complicated itv story, nothing else. Will watch it until I keep seeing both of them growing together. I totally love these two, the actors and the characters. ❤️

on the other hand I want to make sure that you don’t think the same way about real life. I am assuming that you are in your early 20s? Pardon me if I am wrong. @bold. In real life if it happens, we call it the Stockholm Syndrome and it’s a psychological condition 🤣

On a serious note, ye sb love-hate stories/quotes etc look good/intriguing in books/TV but irl, if you ever come across a toxic person like that (girl/boy); you pack your bags and you run as fast as you possibly can. Because real life is so much more layered than they can ever show on tv and it does more harm than good. It has larger implications. And take my word for it, you really don’t want that. (Saying by experience)

To everyone else who’s miffed with Raghav today, guys it’s good that you find this behaviour wrong and I am proud of y’all.. It shows that you will not let it happen to you or anyone else near you. More power to you ladies.❤️ (Also taking in consideration the fact that you have also called out pallavi whenever she passes her judgements blindly on Raghav. I also don’t appreciate pallavi slapping Raghav because I believe it’s not okay to cross your limits with anyone, irrespective of the gender. There are better ways to do things.) But it’s only a story, and let’s treat them as characters who are very flawed. Now it’s pallavi’s choice if she ever pardons him for his behaviour today. Is she willing to take in all the toxicity and hope for a better future with him. Maybe someday she will have it in her heart to forgive him and his good overpowers his bad. After all, forgiveness is needed for your own mental well-being too, not only for others. It’s only a character, let’s look at her like that and enjoy the story as long as we can.

Because the fact is, We all are educated here, capable of differentiating good from bad. We know Raghav’s behaviour today was intolerable and we are not going to idealise this behaviour by a man in our lives. Win win.

Haan, problem arises when people start idealising the behaviour because you know, he’s the “hero”. Also true for the FL, she acts all vulnerable, compromising, loving, tolerating all insults and people think it’s the way a girl supposed to behave. Especially the teens are very impressionable and the old trp aunties, well they are just toxic themselves. If that’s your stance, then you are right for calling out the makers on such portrayals- toxic FL and meek FL.
Idealisation is the problem, not the portrayal. Let’s teach our younger ones at home to tell right from wrong, and let’s try to have more valuable discussions with the elderly. ❤️

With love 🌼

couldn’t tag you in the original post babe, so doing it here. ❤️

Originally posted by: varshaoforange

people...IT'S A TV SHOW. calm tf down. like yes raghav was evil today, and he will be tomorrow, but also it's not like pallavi will sit quietly nor is it like raghav (the character) won't get punished. it's like people have never seen a show where the male lead is an anti-hero before 😂

Yeh baat un teenager emo fool ladkiyon Ko kaun samjhay joh Sai Ketan Ko sach me Raghav samajhti Hain 🤣

Aur ab Raghav ne yeh kr diya becharis baith k 8 8 ansoo baha rahi hongi 🤣

Originally posted by: Inese_20

are ruko ruko first of these were my thought about itv ..ye itv hai jo aise thoughts dikhata this is wwhat i said this is the way they justify hate-love stories....enka meri personal life se dur dur tk 0.0001% ka bhi koi lena den anhi hai yr🤣🤣🤣

I'm super chilled and straight way girl not in my 20s🤣 but almost 28( age chhupane wali ladki category nhi hai meri😆)

Tum log etne senti ho pata hota toh mai likhan hi chhod dungi yr...mai toh shailu ke question ko and kr rhi thi ki itv real life ko kaise apne andaz me justify krti to show hate-love story.....yaha toh apne mujhe jana tha japan aap oh mujhe sidha antartica chhodne ke soch liye

and if comes to handle situation like RR ever in my life i won't be ever like PD I'm best version of Hemangi(mad than RR) so hum apne badon se n even bachhon se discuusion toh valuable hi krte..ye toh ye itv jo sbko pagal bnati rehti hai🤣🤣

Chlo ab bhot hua lecture lecture aao gale lago🤗 suji ka halwa for you....apne toh mera character hi misunderstand kr gaye

dear hema

I respect that you are team raghav. I too root for the couple, I am basically team Raghvi. I don’t get mad at either of them, kbhi bhi. Because I see them as two different, flawed, layered human beings and try to put psychological perspective to their behaviour. It’s just a complicated itv story, nothing else. Will watch it until I keep seeing both of them growing together. I totally love these two, the actors and the characters. ❤️

on the other hand I want to make sure that you don’t think the same way about real life. I am assuming that you are in your early 20s? Pardon me if I am wrong. @bold. In real life if it happens, we call it the Stockholm Syndrome and it’s a psychological condition 🤣

On a serious note, ye sb love-hate stories/quotes etc look good/intriguing in books/TV but irl, if you ever come across a toxic person like that (girl/boy); you pack your bags and you run as fast as you possibly can. Because real life is so much more layered than they can ever show on tv and it does more harm than good. It has larger implications. And take my word for it, you really don’t want that. (Saying by experience)

To everyone else who’s miffed with Raghav today, guys it’s good that you find this behaviour wrong and I am proud of y’all.. It shows that you will not let it happen to you or anyone else near you. More power to you ladies.❤️ (Also taking in consideration the fact that you have also called out pallavi whenever she passes her judgements blindly on Raghav. I also don’t appreciate pallavi slapping Raghav because I believe it’s not okay to cross your limits with anyone, irrespective of the gender. There are better ways to do things.) But it’s only a story, and let’s treat them as characters who are very flawed. Now it’s pallavi’s choice if she ever pardons him for his behaviour today. Is she willing to take in all the toxicity and hope for a better future with him. Maybe someday she will have it in her heart to forgive him and his good overpowers his bad. After all, forgiveness is needed for your own mental well-being too, not only for others. It’s only a character, let’s look at her like that and enjoy the story as long as we can.

Because the fact is, We all are educated here, capable of differentiating good from bad. We know Raghav’s behaviour today was intolerable and we are not going to idealise this behaviour by a man in our lives. Win win.

Haan, problem arises when people start idealising the behaviour because you know, he’s the “hero”. Also true for the FL, she acts all vulnerable, compromising, loving, tolerating all insults and people think it’s the way a girl supposed to behave. Especially the teens are very impressionable and the old trp aunties, well they are just toxic themselves. If that’s your stance, then you are right for calling out the makers on such portrayals- toxic FL and meek FL.
Idealisation is the problem, not the portrayal. Let’s teach our younger ones at home to tell right from wrong, and let’s try to have more valuable discussions with the elderly. ❤️

With love 🌼